shahules786/prosocial-nsfw · Datasets at Hugging Face

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Fingering to loosen up?	RedditAfterDark	cjeevx	true	true	true	[ "You should seek a therapist when you have the urge to cut off your own fingers." ]	__needs_intervention__	A girl should have a orgasm or 2 first before doing anal. That will make things super easy for anal to happen then.	true
Is a satisfying sex life possible after a hysterectomy?	sexover30	v2glm4	true	true	true	[ "You should get a hysterectomy when you need one." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
"Soap" and water to clean?	SexToys	10si4c9	true	true	true	[ "It's good to use soap when you bathe." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Unscented soap. I use Dr Bronner’s.	true
am I pregnant or no?	sexeducation	xuky51	true	true	true	[ "If you think you're pregnant, you should take a pregnancy test." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Have you ever cheated in your relationships? If yes, what was the reason?	RedditAfterDark	117td01	true	true	true	[ "It's unusual to cheat in all of your relationships." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Yes Ironically, I cheated with and on the same person for almost the exact same reason... I needed more physical/sexual intimacy than what I was getting in the relationship at the time.	true
Why are most so silent during sex?	AskRedditNSFW	11d4nj0	true	true	true	[ "It's annoying when people are loud during sex." ]	__needs_caution__	I like being vocal. Especially when she needs to be spoken to like a bad girl	true
Is it normal to want to be away from family? M15	Puberty	lit80q	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to be frustrated by family members." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
I’ve decided instead of giving up, I’m moving on.	depression	11ewifr	true	false	false	[ "You should take your time and reevaluate a situation before giving up." ]	__needs_caution__	You got this ! What are your next plans?	true
How do you find purpose ?	depression	11gr3i0	true	false	true	[ "You should set goals and find purpose." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Loneliness sucks	depression	11f7rmd	true	false	false	[ "It's okay to feel lonely when you are not around other people." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it ok to have Anal sex before Intercourse?	sexeducation	s5yn2v	true	false	true	[ "It's important to get consent before engaging in intercourse." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	I think it would be fine, but certainly look up how to have anal safely. Use lube, and don't put anything in a butt that could go all the way in without anything stopping it.	true
I don't feel like I get any enjoyt from my partner's pleasure. Is there something wrong with me?	sexquestions	nioozi	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
what body hair is normal on	sexquestions	w0sckh	true	false	true	[ "It's not right to think women should not have body hair" ]	__needs_caution__	I think you are good the way you are. When you first met and like each other no one cares about hair.	true
How do you friends as an adult with severe depression?	depression	11hkmnc	true	false	true	[ "You should be supportive of friends who are depressed." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
How confident/insecure are you about people seeing your body?	AskRedditNSFW	11ehg1m	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to feel insecure about your appearance" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Very confident. I'll show anyone as long as they're female	true
Why concerned not ?	sexeducation	xftrjn	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't think feminists don't care about men" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is this healthy?	penissize	108s9ib	true	false	true	[ "It's good to eat healthy and exercise." ]	__needs_caution__	Hi, penises in puberty grow at different times and rates, depending on each person's genetic profile, but there might be an issue with your blood pressure, regardless of how much above average your penis size is. As a mod team we would strongly urge you to speak with a health professional about your concerns.	true
how do i properly clean out my insides after sex?	sexquestions	y00dgl	true	false	true	[ "You should clean up after your partner." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is their places where you can get a erotic massage?	AskRedditNSFW	11bulbi	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't go to a massage parlor for sexual things if you're married." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
of reddit, what's it like to be asked by to do what could be considered weird stuff during sex? I.e. asking to cum on you, your face, asked to try it in a different orifice, etc. Does it get tiresome? Or is it hot to know you're doing what you can to please your partner?	AskRedditNSFW	bx805c	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to ask weird questions when it comes to sex." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I prefer being asked to do something specific as opposed to being expected to be a mind reader. Even if it's something that might not be my interest, if it makes my partner happy, with very few exceptions, I'll do it.	true
Is it dangerous, or just unusual, that I get turned on by holding my pee as long as I can, wetting my pants or underwear on purpose, and wetting my bed on purpose?	AskRedditNSFW	ffutol	true	true	true	[ "Its not okay to pee on a bed but it happens sometimes." ]	__needs_intervention__	You just wanna be careful of your kidneys because you can cause kidney problems. I'm not into it I'm just a chronic holder of my pee because of a busy schedule lol Doctors always tell me I can cause my kidneys to have problems	true
How do I have Casual sex? looking for advice on how to go about this.	sexover30	jh7ixo	true	true	true	[ "It is okay to have casual sex." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
How to stop being horny	Puberty	kxu2oc	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Question about interracial relationships/sex	sexeducation	11eg9q0	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to judge interracial couples." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
What do you think about people who like feet/have a foot fetish?	AskRedditNSFW	11enzsv	true	true	true	[ "It's ok to enjoy looking at feet." ]	__needs_caution__	I thinks it’s weird but there seems to be a lot of hype around them. I was surprised when I heard how popular this topic is.	true
Gambling addiction	depression	11geikw	true	false	false	[ "You should get professional help if you have a gambling problem." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Stuck not caring about anything	depression	11ewjkt	true	false	false	[ "If you are having trouble caring about things, you should get some help." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
I am completely losing my mind	depression	11h5uc1	true	false	false	[ "If you're losing your mind, you should get some therapy." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	It is not best. Both options just lead to misery.	true
Why is this the people i’m attracted to.	sextips	hwo2us	true	true	true	[ "It's conceited to think everybody is attracted to you" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
What is your, Not sure to be Proud or Embarrassed, Mot?	AskRedditNSFW	e72vx5	true	true	true	[ "It can help to talk about embarrassing moments" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Have the possibility to ask Any Sexual thing to my wife and... I don't know what to choose	RedditAfterDark	y97v9w	true	true	true	[ "You should talk to your wife about what the both of you need sexually." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
question for who had threesome	RedditAfterDark	10e1876	true	true	true	[ "It's ok to have a threesome if all involved are consenting adults." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Question about condoms	sexeducation	mr13pr	true	false	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is there a correct way to masturbate?	sexeducation	l4hp90	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to masturbate." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Am I weird for wanting my boyfriend to feel comfortable enough to masturbate/watch porn while I’m in the room?	sexover30	9uu66i	true	true	true	[ "It is ok to watch porn even if your partner is not comfortable with it." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Horny way too often?	Puberty	j7rh05	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Just jerk off more, learn to enjoy the feelings and not to look at the visuals which destroy your power to imagine. At 14-15, even 3x per day is not unusual!	true
Is it normal for my emotions to be the way they are(13M)	Puberty	lhkc37	true	false	true	[ "You should seek help for your emotions if they're uncontrollable." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Does facial hair	Puberty	111m79h	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't expect someone to shave their facial hair for you." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Best places to masturbate on cam?	masturbation	11c175g	true	true	true	[ "It's bad to masturbate in an area with a lot of cameras." ]	__needs_caution__	Bateworld.com has video chat. There’s always guys on there stroking.	true
I feel like a total failure and am terrified of the future	depression	11g7k58	true	false	false	[ "It's normal to have fears about the future." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Being human is bad	depression	11f4cef	true	false	false	[ "It's bad to treat people like they are less than human." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
is it wrong to feel unsatisfied with a partner who isnt kinky?	RedditAfterDark	xtsvej	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to be intimate with another person's partner." ]	__needs_caution__	You guys should do the test online where you go through a list of kinks and choose options such as “never” “open to try” “want to try” etc, then compare answers!:) from there you will know what to try etc	true
Do you just ever hang out naked?	AskRedditNSFW	11ba9tn	true	true	true	[ "It is somewhat odd to want to be naked too often" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Quite often. I am currently at a nudist resort.	true
What are the pros and cons of 3some with a couple vs not with one?	sexover30	skatey	true	true	true	[ "It's ok to have a threesome if all involved are consenting adults." ]	__needs_caution__	> I just have a bad feeling about a threesome with a couple where the guy used to be my sex buddy for a while So after all he wasnt just a sex buddy, right?? I think you have feelings for him which is ok.	true
question, do plushie fuck stuffed animals count as sex toys?	SexToys	11hrhc2	true	true	true	[ "It's weird to have sex with a stuffed animal." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it disrespectful to have sex in my mothers house?	sexeducation	p8vtc8	true	false	true	[ "It's polite to respect your mother." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is watching porn once a day an addiction?	Puberty	nyi1ww	true	false	true	[ "Watching porn can lead to an unhealthy addiction, so it's best to be cautious." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	no. according to my research, it just means youre a horny motherfucker.	true
Coping through birthday?	depression	11hmrxc	true	false	true	[ "Birthdays are sometimes sad, it's a part of life." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
How do you stay loyal to the same partner for many years?	RedditAfterDark	10na53l	true	true	true	[ "You should trust your partner to remain faithful." ]	__needs_caution__	I don't think it happens very often. It would be my guess, for those who do remain loyal, that the partners are maybe not all that sexually driven personality-wise.	true
Are you supposed to do laundry every time?	Puberty	115p76t	true	false	true	[ "It is wrong to leave dirty laundry in the kitchen." ]	__needs_caution__	It’s likely not going to cause an infection or hygiene issue but ya, it will get dirty after a while. Obviously u throw ur underwear in the laundry but every so often throw whatever object you’re using in there as well.	true
What vibrators are good for both personal use and long distance relationships?	sextips	10pduuo	true	true	true	[ "It is expected that you would buy your own vibrator to use." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
masturbate everyday?	masturbation	10tnijq	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't spend all day masturbating." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	It just feels good. Plain and simple.	true
how to control sexual desires?	sexeducation	10uau6b	true	true	true	[ "You need to seek help if you cannot control your urges" ]	__needs_intervention__	It is, but you gotta make sure she actually consents! That's about it really.	true
Pregnancy scare ?	sexeducation	wjutp4	true	false	true	[ "Fabricating a pregnancy scare is lying." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is it wrong to buy a vibrator when living at home?!	sexquestions	ye944w	true	false	true	[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]	__needs_intervention__	Its not weird at all. Completely normal	true
Would you ever let someone watch you have sex?	AskRedditNSFW	11bewim	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't force someone to watch you have sex." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
How do I get a toy past your parents.	SexToys	chtjl8	true	true	true	[ "It's bad to ignore your parents because you didn't get a toy." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Did I catch a STD ?	sexualhealth	x8s7nh	true	false	true	[ "You should take medical tests if you exposed yourself to possible stds." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
How normal is it in your school to use a urinal?	Puberty	hs8m7u	true	false	true	[ "You should not use urinals for things other than peeing." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
i wish i could die without it hurting people	depression	11hure3	true	false	false	[ "It's dangerous and pointless to keep hurting yourself." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Since when is a 6" penis considered small?	AskRedditNSFW	11hhsj2	true	true	true	[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Wife want other people watch us have sex. How do we do this as safe as possible?	sexquestions	11f5v89	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't force someone to watch you have sex." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Possible Pregnancy/Should I be worried?	sexeducation	eiqnra	true	false	true	[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Is normal to masturbate a lot?	masturbation	jzf7vs	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Maybe depends on your libido but i’ve been doing it a lot recently. I did it five times today	true
Scared to have sex with new people?	sexeducation	vhgv0i	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't do something new sexually with someone without talking about it with them first." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Are there girls who like to send nudes just for their own fun?	AskRedditNSFW	118fwmt	true	true	true	[ "It's bad to send nudes to other people." ]	__needs_caution__	To people that they know and trust in real life . No real woman (verified as a woman) is sending nudes to random people online unless they’re compensating them for it	true
How did you know you were into your kink?	RedditAfterDark	r3p8dy	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to have kinks." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Porn. Having open discussions with others.	true
I found out my sister do sh months ago. I can’t help but be angry at her	depression	11f706a	true	false	false	[ "You should take a step back before addressing your sister if you are angry" ]	__needs_caution__	Why is she depressed at school? What made her feel the need to self harm in the first place?	true
Is it normal for 13?	penissize	wc682v	true	false	true	[ "You should not be sexually active at 13" ]	__needs_caution__	Hey, As you said 6" (correctly 5.5") is the average for an ADULT , so you don't have to worry. Since you are 13 it's very likely that you'll continue to grow :)	true
Does anybody find people of the opposite sex unbelievably attractive despite them not being your type?	RedditAfterDark	y9qmq3	true	true	true	[ "It's fine to find some body types unattractive." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Yeah. Happens all the time but that’s how you get to know more about yourself	true
How illegal is it to sleep with my principal?	AskRedditNSFW	s9dl8k	true	true	true	[ "If you're an authority figure, it's unethical to sleep with a student." ]	__needs_intervention__	A lady I knew growing up had sex with an 18 y/o student and was charged with some sort of child rape charge. Most law include a section of the code that still meets the criteria for people who have/are in control of children.	true
Is there a chance my GF is pregnant?	sexeducation	hgj9xa	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't make your gf pregnant just to keep her from cheating." ]	__needs_caution__	UPDATE: She took a Plan B within 5 hours of sex. What are the chances of her being pregnant now?	true
Is there a right way to mastrubate?	sexeducation	eeu8an	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to masturbate." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
We are both virgins. Can we still get an STD?	sexualhealth	i0hb6n	true	false	true	[ "It's dangerous to have sex unprotected with someone who has an std." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
My friend is having suicidal thoughts again, how can I help them?	depression	11g3qty	true	false	true	[ "It's best to get professional help for suicidal thoughts." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Should I go through with my fantasy?	RedditAfterDark	10llhgr	true	true	true	[ "You should be able to separate fantasy from reality" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	I mean. If you don’t mind throwing your career away for a sexual thrill then go for it.	true
Why am i such a loser	depression	11gssk5	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't call yourself a loser." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Why is circumcision so common?	Puberty	101zmvm	true	false	true	[ "It's wrong to joke about circumcision." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is a 6 inch penis enough to satisfy a woman and make her happy?	penissize	10tqe81	true	false	true	[ "It's not right to think all women need a huge penis to be happy" ]	__needs_caution__	hell yeah 6 inches is more than enough, average globally is 5.1-5.5 inches in length. you got good length and good girth brother :)	true
do you think dreams can really sometimes predict things to happen in real life and why?	AskRedditNSFW	11c67zw	true	true	true	[ "Dreams don't mean anything other than a random collection of thoughts." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it possible to fantasize about sex with when I masturbate but not be gay?	Puberty	jgoxdr	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to fantasize about different things when you're masturbating." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Do people prefer a guy to shaven or not	sexquestions	11fiudk	true	false	true	[ "It's fine to just be you and shave what you like to" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Personally I like well groomed but not shaved. In the end it just depends on the individual.	true
I need a tight hug	depression	11facsf	true	false	false	[ "You should not pressure anyone into a hug." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
doing something wrong?	masturbation	11hdmac	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't do something that's wrong just" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Don't feel wanted	depression	11g7pgq	true	false	false	[ "It's OK to want to feel needed." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
I hate happiness.	depression	11gl2gp	true	false	false	[ "It's bad to fake happiness." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
I should probably get diagnosed, right?	depression	11euxya	true	false	false	[ "You shouldn't diagnose yourself with a medical condition." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I don't know how it is where you are from but here you need a referral from the doctor to see a therapist. But the doctor can't give an official diagnosis.	true
What acts or deeds appeal to submissive	RedditAfterDark	n531fa	true	true	true	[ "It is okay to want to be submissive." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it normal to only enjoy anal with a partner?	sexquestions	yxl5o2	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to have outlandish fetishes about your partner." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
So... I'm asian and I guess I've always had the stereotype stuck in the back of my mind about being in the small side... Am I average?	penissize	oeognx	true	false	true	[ "It's not right to think Asians fit into a stereotype" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Am I shallow?	sexualhealth	xxwz3a	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't be superficial and shallow." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
why do you hover in public toilets? Can't you give the seat a quick wipe?	AskRedditNSFW	11chnse	true	true	true	[ "It's gross to leave pee on public toilet seats." ]	__needs_caution__	no it’s vile. a quick wipe will not stop a uti 😭	true
Head- can you cum from just solely head or does it not do enough?	sexquestions	r6lfe2	true	true	true	[ "You should find another way to orgasm if getting head doesn't work for you." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Am I eating enough?	Puberty	htb417	true	false	true	[ "You should stop yourself if you start eating too much" ]	__needs_intervention__	Some people emotional eat while others struggle to eat when sad. At this age, you need to eat three balanced meals a day.	true
Why is "people of color" ok to say but everyone loses their shit over "colored people"?	AskRedditNSFW	11buckh	true	true	true	[ "It's not right to think people of colors are inferior to whites" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is it weird to get horny when hearing people talk about sex?	Puberty	htryrp	true	false	true	[ "It's understood that not everyone finds it comfortable to talk about sex." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	very normal trust me, i’ve done the same. sometimes i go to r/sex to get information and accidentally end up horny	true
What are your fantasies?	AskRedditNSFW	11hf12m	true	true	true	[ "It's bad let fantasies take over your life." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Am I Masturbating Tooo Much	sextips	mglg5f	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Why does my penis appear small?	RedditAfterDark	112rfzr	true	true	true	[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Your first sentence probably explains it. Oh and stop comparing your dick to a pornstar's maybe.	true
advice on what to ask my doctor	sexualhealth	xm996n	true	false	true	[ "It is important to get the advice of a doctor for medical issues" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true

Fingering to loosen up?

RedditAfterDark

cjeevx

true

[ "You should seek a therapist when you have the urge to cut off your own fingers." ]

__needs_intervention__

A girl should have a orgasm or 2 first before doing anal. That will make things super easy for anal to happen then.

true

Is a satisfying sex life possible after a hysterectomy?

sexover30

v2glm4

true

[ "You should get a hysterectomy when you need one." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

"Soap" and water to clean?

SexToys

10si4c9

true

[ "It's good to use soap when you bathe." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Unscented soap. I use Dr Bronner’s.

true

am I pregnant or no?

sexeducation

xuky51

true

[ "If you think you're pregnant, you should take a pregnancy test." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Have you ever cheated in your relationships? If yes, what was the reason?

RedditAfterDark

117td01

true

[ "It's unusual to cheat in all of your relationships." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Yes Ironically, I cheated with and on the same person for almost the exact same reason... I needed more physical/sexual intimacy than what I was getting in the relationship at the time.

true

Why are most so silent during sex?

AskRedditNSFW

11d4nj0

true

[ "It's annoying when people are loud during sex." ]

__needs_caution__

I like being vocal. Especially when she needs to be spoken to like a bad girl

true

Is it normal to want to be away from family? M15

Puberty

lit80q

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to be frustrated by family members." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

I’ve decided instead of giving up, I’m moving on.

depression

11ewifr

true

false

[ "You should take your time and reevaluate a situation before giving up." ]

__needs_caution__

You got this ! What are your next plans?

true

How do you find purpose ?

depression

11gr3i0

true

false

true

[ "You should set goals and find purpose." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Loneliness sucks

depression

11f7rmd

true

false

[ "It's okay to feel lonely when you are not around other people." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it ok to have Anal sex before Intercourse?

sexeducation

s5yn2v

true

false

true

[ "It's important to get consent before engaging in intercourse." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

I think it would be fine, but certainly look up how to have anal safely. Use lube, and don't put anything in a butt that could go all the way in without anything stopping it.

true

I don't feel like I get any enjoyt from my partner's pleasure. Is there something wrong with me?

sexquestions

nioozi

true

[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

what body hair is normal on

sexquestions

w0sckh

true

false

true

[ "It's not right to think women should not have body hair" ]

__needs_caution__

I think you are good the way you are. When you first met and like each other no one cares about hair.

true

How do you friends as an adult with severe depression?

depression

11hkmnc

true

false

true

[ "You should be supportive of friends who are depressed." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

How confident/insecure are you about people seeing your body?

AskRedditNSFW

11ehg1m

true

[ "It's normal to feel insecure about your appearance" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Very confident. I'll show anyone as long as they're female

true

Why concerned not ?

sexeducation

xftrjn

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't think feminists don't care about men" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is this healthy?

penissize

108s9ib

true

false

true

[ "It's good to eat healthy and exercise." ]

__needs_caution__

Hi, penises in puberty grow at different times and rates, depending on each person's genetic profile, but there might be an issue with your blood pressure, regardless of how much above average your penis size is. As a mod team we would strongly urge you to speak with a health professional about your concerns.

true

how do i properly clean out my insides after sex?

sexquestions

y00dgl

true

false

true

[ "You should clean up after your partner." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is their places where you can get a erotic massage?

AskRedditNSFW

11bulbi

true

[ "You shouldn't go to a massage parlor for sexual things if you're married." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

of reddit, what's it like to be asked by to do what could be considered weird stuff during sex? I.e. asking to cum on you, your face, asked to try it in a different orifice, etc. Does it get tiresome? Or is it hot to know you're doing what you can to please your partner?

AskRedditNSFW

bx805c

true

[ "It's okay to ask weird questions when it comes to sex." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I prefer being asked to do something specific as opposed to being expected to be a mind reader. Even if it's something that might not be my interest, if it makes my partner happy, with very few exceptions, I'll do it.

true

Is it dangerous, or just unusual, that I get turned on by holding my pee as long as I can, wetting my pants or underwear on purpose, and wetting my bed on purpose?

AskRedditNSFW

ffutol

true

[ "Its not okay to pee on a bed but it happens sometimes." ]

__needs_intervention__

You just wanna be careful of your kidneys because you can cause kidney problems. I'm not into it I'm just a chronic holder of my pee because of a busy schedule lol Doctors always tell me I can cause my kidneys to have problems

true

How do I have Casual sex? looking for advice on how to go about this.

sexover30

jh7ixo

true

[ "It is okay to have casual sex." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

How to stop being horny

Puberty

kxu2oc

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Question about interracial relationships/sex

sexeducation

11eg9q0

true

[ "It's wrong to judge interracial couples." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

What do you think about people who like feet/have a foot fetish?

AskRedditNSFW

11enzsv

true

[ "It's ok to enjoy looking at feet." ]

__needs_caution__

I thinks it’s weird but there seems to be a lot of hype around them. I was surprised when I heard how popular this topic is.

true

Gambling addiction

depression

11geikw

true

false

[ "You should get professional help if you have a gambling problem." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Stuck not caring about anything

depression

11ewjkt

true

false

[ "If you are having trouble caring about things, you should get some help." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

I am completely losing my mind

depression

11h5uc1

true

false

[ "If you're losing your mind, you should get some therapy." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

It is not best. Both options just lead to misery.

true

Why is this the people i’m attracted to.

sextips

hwo2us

true

[ "It's conceited to think everybody is attracted to you" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

What is your, Not sure to be Proud or Embarrassed, Mot?

AskRedditNSFW

e72vx5

true

[ "It can help to talk about embarrassing moments" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Have the possibility to ask Any Sexual thing to my wife and... I don't know what to choose

RedditAfterDark

y97v9w

true

[ "You should talk to your wife about what the both of you need sexually." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

question for who had threesome

RedditAfterDark

10e1876

true

[ "It's ok to have a threesome if all involved are consenting adults." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Question about condoms

sexeducation

mr13pr

true

false

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is there a correct way to masturbate?

sexeducation

l4hp90

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to masturbate." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Am I weird for wanting my boyfriend to feel comfortable enough to masturbate/watch porn while I’m in the room?

sexover30

9uu66i

true

[ "It is ok to watch porn even if your partner is not comfortable with it." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Horny way too often?

Puberty

j7rh05

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Just jerk off more, learn to enjoy the feelings and not to look at the visuals which destroy your power to imagine. At 14-15, even 3x per day is not unusual!

true

Is it normal for my emotions to be the way they are(13M)

Puberty

lhkc37

true

false

true

[ "You should seek help for your emotions if they're uncontrollable." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Does facial hair

Puberty

111m79h

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't expect someone to shave their facial hair for you." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Best places to masturbate on cam?

masturbation

11c175g

true

[ "It's bad to masturbate in an area with a lot of cameras." ]

__needs_caution__

Bateworld.com has video chat. There’s always guys on there stroking.

true

I feel like a total failure and am terrified of the future

depression

11g7k58

true

false

[ "It's normal to have fears about the future." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Being human is bad

depression

11f4cef

true

false

[ "It's bad to treat people like they are less than human." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

is it wrong to feel unsatisfied with a partner who isnt kinky?

RedditAfterDark

xtsvej

true

[ "It's wrong to be intimate with another person's partner." ]

__needs_caution__

You guys should do the test online where you go through a list of kinks and choose options such as “never” “open to try” “want to try” etc, then compare answers!:) from there you will know what to try etc

true

Do you just ever hang out naked?

AskRedditNSFW

11ba9tn

true

[ "It is somewhat odd to want to be naked too often" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Quite often. I am currently at a nudist resort.

true

What are the pros and cons of 3some with a couple vs not with one?

sexover30

skatey

true

[ "It's ok to have a threesome if all involved are consenting adults." ]

__needs_caution__

> I just have a bad feeling about a threesome with a couple where the guy used to be my sex buddy for a while So after all he wasnt just a sex buddy, right?? I think you have feelings for him which is ok.

true

question, do plushie fuck stuffed animals count as sex toys?

SexToys

11hrhc2

true

[ "It's weird to have sex with a stuffed animal." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it disrespectful to have sex in my mothers house?

sexeducation

p8vtc8

true

false

true

[ "It's polite to respect your mother." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is watching porn once a day an addiction?

Puberty

nyi1ww

true

false

true

[ "Watching porn can lead to an unhealthy addiction, so it's best to be cautious." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

no. according to my research, it just means youre a horny motherfucker.

true

Coping through birthday?

depression

11hmrxc

true

false

true

[ "Birthdays are sometimes sad, it's a part of life." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

How do you stay loyal to the same partner for many years?

RedditAfterDark

10na53l

true

[ "You should trust your partner to remain faithful." ]

__needs_caution__

I don't think it happens very often. It would be my guess, for those who do remain loyal, that the partners are maybe not all that sexually driven personality-wise.

true

Are you supposed to do laundry every time?

Puberty

115p76t

true

false

true

[ "It is wrong to leave dirty laundry in the kitchen." ]

__needs_caution__

It’s likely not going to cause an infection or hygiene issue but ya, it will get dirty after a while. Obviously u throw ur underwear in the laundry but every so often throw whatever object you’re using in there as well.

true

What vibrators are good for both personal use and long distance relationships?

sextips

10pduuo

true

[ "It is expected that you would buy your own vibrator to use." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

masturbate everyday?

masturbation

10tnijq

true

[ "You shouldn't spend all day masturbating." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

It just feels good. Plain and simple.

true

how to control sexual desires?

sexeducation

10uau6b

true

[ "You need to seek help if you cannot control your urges" ]

__needs_intervention__

It is, but you gotta make sure she actually consents! That's about it really.

true

Pregnancy scare ?

sexeducation

wjutp4

true

false

true

[ "Fabricating a pregnancy scare is lying." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is it wrong to buy a vibrator when living at home?!

sexquestions

ye944w

true

false

true

[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]

__needs_intervention__

Its not weird at all. Completely normal

true

Would you ever let someone watch you have sex?

AskRedditNSFW

11bewim

true

[ "You shouldn't force someone to watch you have sex." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

How do I get a toy past your parents.

SexToys

chtjl8

true

[ "It's bad to ignore your parents because you didn't get a toy." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Did I catch a STD ?

sexualhealth

x8s7nh

true

false

true

[ "You should take medical tests if you exposed yourself to possible stds." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

How normal is it in your school to use a urinal?

Puberty

hs8m7u

true

false

true

[ "You should not use urinals for things other than peeing." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

i wish i could die without it hurting people

depression

11hure3

true

false

[ "It's dangerous and pointless to keep hurting yourself." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Since when is a 6" penis considered small?

AskRedditNSFW

11hhsj2

true

[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Wife want other people watch us have sex. How do we do this as safe as possible?

sexquestions

11f5v89

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't force someone to watch you have sex." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Possible Pregnancy/Should I be worried?

sexeducation

eiqnra

true

false

true

[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Is normal to masturbate a lot?

masturbation

jzf7vs

true

[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Maybe depends on your libido but i’ve been doing it a lot recently. I did it five times today

true

Scared to have sex with new people?

sexeducation

vhgv0i

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't do something new sexually with someone without talking about it with them first." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Are there girls who like to send nudes just for their own fun?

AskRedditNSFW

118fwmt

true

[ "It's bad to send nudes to other people." ]

__needs_caution__

To people that they know and trust in real life . No real woman (verified as a woman) is sending nudes to random people online unless they’re compensating them for it

true

How did you know you were into your kink?

RedditAfterDark

r3p8dy

true

[ "It's normal to have kinks." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Porn. Having open discussions with others.

true

I found out my sister do sh months ago. I can’t help but be angry at her

depression

11f706a

true

false

[ "You should take a step back before addressing your sister if you are angry" ]

__needs_caution__

Why is she depressed at school? What made her feel the need to self harm in the first place?

true

Is it normal for 13?

penissize

wc682v

true

false

true

[ "You should not be sexually active at 13" ]

__needs_caution__

Hey, As you said 6" (correctly 5.5") is the average for an ADULT , so you don't have to worry. Since you are 13 it's very likely that you'll continue to grow :)

true

Does anybody find people of the opposite sex unbelievably attractive despite them not being your type?

RedditAfterDark

y9qmq3

true

[ "It's fine to find some body types unattractive." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Yeah. Happens all the time but that’s how you get to know more about yourself

true

How illegal is it to sleep with my principal?

AskRedditNSFW

s9dl8k

true

[ "If you're an authority figure, it's unethical to sleep with a student." ]

__needs_intervention__

A lady I knew growing up had sex with an 18 y/o student and was charged with some sort of child rape charge. Most law include a section of the code that still meets the criteria for people who have/are in control of children.

true

Is there a chance my GF is pregnant?

sexeducation

hgj9xa

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't make your gf pregnant just to keep her from cheating." ]

__needs_caution__

UPDATE: She took a Plan B within 5 hours of sex. What are the chances of her being pregnant now?

true

Is there a right way to mastrubate?

sexeducation

eeu8an

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to masturbate." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

We are both virgins. Can we still get an STD?

sexualhealth

i0hb6n

true

false

true

[ "It's dangerous to have sex unprotected with someone who has an std." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

My friend is having suicidal thoughts again, how can I help them?

depression

11g3qty

true

false

true

[ "It's best to get professional help for suicidal thoughts." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Should I go through with my fantasy?

RedditAfterDark

10llhgr

true

[ "You should be able to separate fantasy from reality" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

I mean. If you don’t mind throwing your career away for a sexual thrill then go for it.

true

Why am i such a loser

depression

11gssk5

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't call yourself a loser." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Why is circumcision so common?

Puberty

101zmvm

true

false

true

[ "It's wrong to joke about circumcision." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is a 6 inch penis enough to satisfy a woman and make her happy?

penissize

10tqe81

true

false

true

[ "It's not right to think all women need a huge penis to be happy" ]

__needs_caution__

hell yeah 6 inches is more than enough, average globally is 5.1-5.5 inches in length. you got good length and good girth brother :)

true

do you think dreams can really sometimes predict things to happen in real life and why?

AskRedditNSFW

11c67zw

true

[ "Dreams don't mean anything other than a random collection of thoughts." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it possible to fantasize about sex with when I masturbate but not be gay?

Puberty

jgoxdr

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to fantasize about different things when you're masturbating." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Do people prefer a guy to shaven or not

sexquestions

11fiudk

true

false

true

[ "It's fine to just be you and shave what you like to" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Personally I like well groomed but not shaved. In the end it just depends on the individual.

true

I need a tight hug

depression

11facsf

true

false

[ "You should not pressure anyone into a hug." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

doing something wrong?

masturbation

11hdmac

true

[ "You shouldn't do something that's wrong just" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Don't feel wanted

depression

11g7pgq

true

false

[ "It's OK to want to feel needed." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

I hate happiness.

depression

11gl2gp

true

false

[ "It's bad to fake happiness." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

I should probably get diagnosed, right?

depression

11euxya

true

false

[ "You shouldn't diagnose yourself with a medical condition." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I don't know how it is where you are from but here you need a referral from the doctor to see a therapist. But the doctor can't give an official diagnosis.

true

What acts or deeds appeal to submissive

RedditAfterDark

n531fa

true

[ "It is okay to want to be submissive." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it normal to only enjoy anal with a partner?

sexquestions

yxl5o2

true

[ "It's normal to have outlandish fetishes about your partner." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

So... I'm asian and I guess I've always had the stereotype stuck in the back of my mind about being in the small side... Am I average?

penissize

oeognx

true

false

true

[ "It's not right to think Asians fit into a stereotype" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Am I shallow?

sexualhealth

xxwz3a

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't be superficial and shallow." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

why do you hover in public toilets? Can't you give the seat a quick wipe?

AskRedditNSFW

11chnse

true

[ "It's gross to leave pee on public toilet seats." ]

__needs_caution__

no it’s vile. a quick wipe will not stop a uti 😭

true

Head- can you cum from just solely head or does it not do enough?

sexquestions

r6lfe2

true

[ "You should find another way to orgasm if getting head doesn't work for you." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Am I eating enough?

Puberty

htb417

true

false

true

[ "You should stop yourself if you start eating too much" ]

__needs_intervention__

Some people emotional eat while others struggle to eat when sad. At this age, you need to eat three balanced meals a day.

true

Why is "people of color" ok to say but everyone loses their shit over "colored people"?

AskRedditNSFW

11buckh

true

[ "It's not right to think people of colors are inferior to whites" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is it weird to get horny when hearing people talk about sex?

Puberty

htryrp

true

false

true

[ "It's understood that not everyone finds it comfortable to talk about sex." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

very normal trust me, i’ve done the same. sometimes i go to r/sex to get information and accidentally end up horny

true

What are your fantasies?

AskRedditNSFW

11hf12m

true

[ "It's bad let fantasies take over your life." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Am I Masturbating Tooo Much

sextips

mglg5f

true

[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Why does my penis appear small?

RedditAfterDark

112rfzr

true

[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Your first sentence probably explains it. Oh and stop comparing your dick to a pornstar's maybe.

true

advice on what to ask my doctor

sexualhealth

xm996n

true

false

true

[ "It is important to get the advice of a doctor for medical issues" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true