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Home defense firearm for my mom?
My mom lives in a bad neighborhood and has always had a fear of firearms. I bought her a Taser C2 for Christmas last year when I noticed she was carrying a cheap stun gun. Now she has expressed an interest in firearm ownership and I am not sure what to recommend as she is about 5feet tall and has a small frame. I was thinking about a 20 gauge pump or semi from Mossberg. If not a pistol in .380 like a Bersa thunder. I want to know what gunnit thinks.
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[ { "body": "Steel framed .38, or .357 revolver loaded with .38s.\n\nEverybody's going to recommend their favorite semi autos, but I've seen too many people on the range either forget the safety or wrap their thumb behind the slide to go that route. If she ever has to use it, she's going to be under stress, and she may not have touched the gun in the last year. She'll be doing good to find the trigger.\n\nBesides that, women generally find the old-school look of revolvers less intimidating, and they draw fewer legal restrictions. There was some research a while back showing that jurors are harder on women who use \"tactical\" looking weapons than traditional models. Nobody's going to prosecute a little old lady who took a shot at a bad guy with her .38.\n\nThe only downside is that the long trigger pull can be a problem. But full-sized revolvers will almost always have a hammer she can cock. I know you're not supposed to do that, but this is mom. The first priority is to get her a gun that she can used when she's scared out of her wits. If she's got to cheat a little, she can cheat. She's never going to be a raging combat god anyway. I just want her to have a gun that she *absolutely* knows how to use well enough to get a couple of shots off in the general direction of the bad guy. Anything beyond that is a bonus. Anything that might *prevent* her from getting *at least* that is totally unacceptable.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "Things to keep in mind:\n\n* Accessibility\n* Usability \n\nIf she can't access it readily that's a problem. If she can access it but she is untrained on it...that's also a problem. Having a gun for defensive uses is rather worthless unless you're capable of using it properly. Check if she even has the arm strength to rack a slide and clear a malfunction on a pistol. Those \"petite\" 380 auto pistols generally have rather strong recoil springs and the recoil itself is nothing to scoff at with a light frame gun.\n\n\nPersonally my mother can't even rack the slide on an automatic and thus I've taught her how to use a small revolver. A S&W Model 10 has enough of its own heft to absorb recoil and none of the controls require much strength at all to operate. Too many know-nothing gun store owners and significant others assume some 115 lb woman...who has little to no firearm experience...will easily manipulate the tiny ass slide of a Ruger LCP or even manage to cycle the ungodly strong recoil spring on the Walther PPK. \n", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Whatever gun anyone else recommends, make sure to take her to a store, or, better yet, a shooting range that rents them out, and have her get a good feel for the firearm.\n\nThat being said, if her hands are pretty small, I would look into the following:\n\n* Sig Sauer P238. I shot this handgun and it feels great. \n* Officer-size 1911. If you want to skimp on money, RIA. Otherwise, find a Colt, Springfield, STI, or Kimber.\n* Glock 26 with the Pearce grip finger extensions. This is a double-stacker so the grip is a bit fatter.\n\nIn any case, make damn sure that your mother becomes PROFICIENT with the weapon. That means routine practice, and maybe even stress drills to improve shooting under duress. Don't let your mom be the idiot in my CCW class who couldn't hit paper on a B-27 silhouette target at 7 yards with a Sig P238 with a CrimsonTrace lasergrip attached to it.", "score": 3 } ]
This morning I was kicked out of my house by my racist father, all because I have an Indian friend. Does Reddit have similar experiences?
My dad offered to drive me to work this morning, one of my last shifts before starting college. When we got there, he told me I was a cunt and to never come home because I am "Friends with terrorists." I can't afford an apartment, so I'm currently couch surfing. Has anyone else dealt with an ignorant family member?
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[ { "body": "One time in NYC I was kicked out of a store owned by a black man because I was white...\n\nTrue story, nobody ever talks about racism in that way.", "score": 3 } ]
Wanting to stretch but...
My mother says I'm too young and I'm not going to want them later. Her other reason for not letting me is because she doesn't like them. Anyone else go through this problem? If so, how'd you solve it?
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[ { "body": "You should consider stretching as a serious, permanent modification, no matter what size you decide to stop at. I think it would be in your best interest to wait and respect what your mother asks if you. Your earlobes aren't doing anywhere, and waiting will give you the time to research and educate yourself as much as you can as well as give you time to think about how this may affect future plans and if you really want them.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "If your mother can tell you that you're too young. You're too young.\n\nAs for not wanting them when you're older. It's a possibility.\n\nThere is a point of no return. It might be any size depending on so many factors. Stretching is pretty much permanently.", "score": 3 } ]
[spoiler] Walt's meeting with Lydia (S05E05)
Does anyone else think that when he was questioning Lydia about why she put a hit out on Mike it was because he wanted to know if she could still arrange one? Hence why he sent Jesse and Mike out so he could be alone when asking. I think it's pretty obvious now Walt and Lydia will arrange for the murder of Mike in the future.
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[ { "body": "No, Lydia doesn't know anyone. The hitman from before was a crew member, what other hitmen does she know? She is an office flunky who was in an illicit side business. ", "score": 17 }, { "body": "I don't know if it's obvious, but it's definitely possible. It will depend, I think, on which needs killing first. Either way, both will clearly kill the other without much compunction.", "score": 7 } ]
I think my boss is disgusting.
He has terrible body odor on a daily basis and I do NOT understand how the fuck he could be manager and talk to customers like this. Seriously! He is lazy as fuck, too. He thinks that just because he is manager that he doesn't have to the more physical and manual work. He ALSO ALWAYS fucking bitches about how we don't do anything and how we need to keep the place in better shape, yet he puts absolutely less than minimal effort to do something about it or even try to help out himself. Outside of work he also thinks he is black. WTF? He's like this ugly chunky smelly white guy who listens to rap and wears baggy clothing. I like men of all races myself, but I personally just find him disgusting. I can't stand him!!!
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[ { "body": "> He ALSO ALWAYS fucking bitches about how we don't do anything and how we need to keep the place in better shape\n\nI read this as \n\n\"He is also always fucking bitches about how we don't do anything\".\n\n\nThat would be pretty interesting. If you fucked someone every time you complained? lol.\n\n\nUnfortunately, I have no serious commentary to offer here. Just an amusing play on words.", "score": 9 } ]
Continuing with the cosplay trend- Avacyn Angel of Hope cosplay
http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8oju4IvyW1qajib2o1_500.jpg Made and worn by my friend Lyz. You can check out more of her stuff at Facebook.com/LyzBrickleyCosplay
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[ { "body": "There's an incredible amount of detail in that costume. From tho staff to the boots to the whites only contacts. Great job to Lyz and thanks for posting. \n\n", "score": 5 } ]
Moving all programs except os from SSD to HDD
I have been searching the internet but cannot seems to find a good guide. I just installed a fresh copy of windows 7 on my 64 gig SSD and want to move everything else (User and program folders) to my HDD. Any help on how to go about doing this would be much appreciated.
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[ { "body": "Moving programs from HDD to HDD especially with a new OS 99% of the time wont work. They need their registry entries to run properly.\n\nBest option is to reinstall\n", "score": 3 } ]
getting my first milf
So two days ago i found a milf in my area looking to have fun with an 18 year old guy. I quickly messaged her and sent pictures and she said she was interested but had to get approval from her husband. The next morning i message her and her husband back and forth answering all his questions and sure enough i passed! We are doing an extensive mommy son role play and we have been exchanging dirty messages the last two days! I cant wait until i get to meet my mommy and fuck her sensless! Anyone here have any similiar stories? Also advice would be appreciated. If there is interest in this post i will keep you guys updated.
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[ { "body": "Similar yet different - found two women online, one was a milf in the sense that she had twins at 22 but was my age (then 24), the other one was just an OWILF, 14 years my senior but with no kids.\n\nAdvice - don't get too attached and keep thinking with your dick, you'll have a wonderfull time.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Let someone know where you'll be (not necessarily what you're doing) you don't want it to end up like a Red State situation.", "score": 3 } ]
Good god I am in over my head here.
I have lurked here and scoured the forums and want to introduce my son to this game so badly, however I am seeing all sorts of mods, and other programs that people seem to be adding onto theirs that I don't think I have based on my cursory run through. I *KNOW* the first thing he is going to ask is how do we get to the moon, (Mun?) then the next thing is going to be are there OTHER planets? So I leave it to you good people of r/kerbalspaceprogram what do I need to download for add on's to make sure my 10 year old and I get the most out of launching Jeb and his ilk into space with as few horrible deaths as possible.
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[ { "body": "Well, personally I think the deaths are part of the fun, you two might end up embracing them as much as the bulk of the community here has as well. They aren't so bad after awhile. :)\n\nRegarding getting to the Mun, your first goal should be putting a rocket in orbit then go to the Mun and Minimus from there. [This video](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCZRF9o8ytc) is awesome for orbital basics. That uploader also has a couple of videos about rendezvous encounters, but those are quite a bit more complex.\n\nOnce you've mastered orbit, [here](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5wlhz7s4J78) is another good video, also from the same uploader, about adventuring to the Mun.\n\nRegarding other planets, those are coming in 0.17. For now, we only have Kerbin and it's two moons, Mun and Minimus.\n\nEDIT: Also, don't play with mods at first. Get the basics of the game without them before worrying about mods.", "score": 23 }, { "body": "I know, right? I picked it up on a whim last night. So far? hundreds of dead Kerbanauts, Kerbanauts stranded all over the world, one vehicle orbiting Kerban with no fuel what so ever, and one vehicle... orbiting the sun. : (\n\nAll in all, wonderful game, in the fullest tradition of Dwarven Fun. ", "score": 9 }, { "body": "> with as few horrible deaths as possible.\n\nYou have a break a few eggs to make an omelette. I think having your first 10 iterations of a rocket blow up on the pad is part of the game.\n\nI had read that in 0.17 they were looking to beef up the tutorial elements of the game, and also to put in a few sample rockets.\n\nMy advice: Start small. Just a few fuel tanks and a rocket. See how high you can get. Find the max number of tanks you can have before you don't get any higher. Then, try working with decouplers and stages. See how high you can go. For the first few iterations, just turn on SAS (autopilot to keep you pointed in the same direction) and leave it on ('T' key). You'll pretty much go straight up, as long as the rocket isn't unbalanced.\n\nAfter you've made a rocket that can get past the Mun's orbit going straight out, try getting it into Kerbal orbit. At that point you might want to add RCS fuel and RCS thrusters to your rocket. They're little jets that allow you to maneuver outside the atmosphere (Turn them on/off with the 'R' key). Your command module has a little built-in maneuverability, and many of the rocket engines will also allow you to steer (while they're running).\n\nYou'll do most of your piloting using the \"artificial horizon\", so you kind of have to explain how that works to him. Then, you can try getting into orbit. The easiest way I've found is to go straight up till you leave the lower atmosphere (the light blue section on the atmosphere indicator), then tilt down 45deg in some direction (I prefer East). Switch to the map view, and look at your tragectory. When the apoapsis mark is at about 100,000 meters, switch back to your rocket and throttle down to almost nothing (just a little bit of thrust for control). Tilt down to 0deg (the horizon) in the same direction (I prefer East), and then wait till you're close to the apoapsis on your map indicator, then let loose again. Your trajectory will start to become a legit orbit. Once it's a ring around the planet, cut the engines.\n\nNext step is to learn how to adjust your orbit (make it more circular, make it wider, tilt it in different directions). These aren't really difficult to do, and the key is making the adjustments when you're at the periapsis/apoapsis. [This](http://i.imgur.com/DruUv.png) reference (made by somebody awesome, from [this](http://www.reddit.com/r/KerbalSpaceProgram/comments/xtegh/updated_orbital_mechanics_reference_sheets/) post) gives some simple instructions for the different orbital manuevers.\n\nThe step after that: extending your orbit to the moon. You'll know when you'll hit the mun's sphere of influence, because it'll indicate it on your map.\n\nNext step: Make your mun orbit nice and pretty using the same techniques you already know.\n\nFinal step: Land. If you're in an orbit around the Mun, it's super simple. There are two yellow indicators on your artificial horizon. One shows the direction you are traveling, and the other shows the opposite direction. Keep yourself pointed at the \"opposite\" (retrograde) marker and engage the thrusters, moderately, until you've landed. If you keep watching that marker, and stay pointed at it, you will land pretty much perfectly vertical. Just keep watching your speed, and try to keep it below 20m/s for most of your descent. You want to slow to around 7-10m/s for the last few thousand meters (unless you're a hotshot).\n\nBonus: You crash on the mun or your rocket tips over. Meh, just try again. I decided to give [my lander](http://i.imgur.com/chAtE.png) (this one is pretty big, and will be traveling to Minmus, before going home) a few extra landing struts, so that landing in any orientation is fine.\n\nI am an adult of reasonable intelligence and moderate flight sim skill. I have blown up at least 100 rockets (most never got to space), and I crashed into the surface of the Mun 3 times before landing. Failure is part of the fun. :D\n", "score": 6 } ]
Most cost efficient price range for a gaming PC?
Hi guys, If I wanted to set up a gaming PC (play high end games well, but not necessarily in extreme settings) with no regard for the budget except that I should get the best bang for my buck, what do you think that price range would be? If you can show a sample build for the price range you pick, then that would also be great. Plus points if the build is upgrade friendly. edit: no need for OS or Peripherals. Just the components inside the CPU.
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[ { "body": "Personally I consider about $1000 the ideal sweet spot for a long-lasting futureproofed gaming machine. This thing will easily keep you going for 4 years.\n\n[PCPartPicker part list](http://pcpartpicker.com/p/eDFI) / [Price breakdown by merchant](http://pcpartpicker.com/p/eDFI/by_merchant/) / [Benchmarks](http://pcpartpicker.com/p/eDFI/benchmarks/)\n\nType|Item|Price\n:----|:----|:----\n**CPU** | [Intel Core i5-3570K 3.4GHz Quad-Core Processor](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/intel-cpu-bx80637i53570k) | $189.99 @ Microcenter \n**Motherboard** | [ASRock Z75 Pro3 ATX LGA1155 Motherboard](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/asrock-motherboard-z75pro3) | $84.99 @ Newegg \n**Memory** | [Samsung 8GB (2 x 4GB) DDR3-1600 Memory](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/samsung-memory-mv3v4g3dus) | $39.99 @ Newegg \n**Storage** | [Seagate Barracuda 1TB 3.5\" 7200RPM Internal Hard Drive](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/seagate-internal-hard-drive-st1000dm003) | $77.99 @ NCIX US \n**Storage** | [Samsung 830 Series 128GB 2.5\" Solid State Disk](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/samsung-internal-hard-drive-mz7pc128bww) | $99.99 @ Adorama \n**Video Card** | [Gigabyte Radeon HD 7950 3GB Video Card](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/gigabyte-video-card-gvr795wf33gd) | $329.99 @ Newegg \n**Case** | [Zalman Z9 Plus ATX Mid Tower Case](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/zalman-case-z9plus) | $39.99 @ NCIX US \n**Power Supply** | [XFX 550W ATX12V / EPS12V Power Supply](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/xfx-power-supply-p1550sxxb9) | $59.99 @ NCIX US \n**Optical Drive** | [LG GH24NS90 DVD/CD Writer](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/lg-optical-drive-gh24ns90) | $17.99 @ Newegg \n | | **Total**\n | Prices include shipping and discounts when available. | $940.91\n | Generated by PCPartPicker 2012-08-14 16:57 EDT-0400 |", "score": 4 } ]
So you wanna improve your map awareness without too much effort?
A couple of months ago i decided to move my ingame chat from left side of the screen to the right side, just above the minimap. What i noticed is everytime someone typed something in chat i get to peek at the minimap and even tho it may seem like a small thing it really helps with your map awareness. So if you're having a hard time checking the map, give it a try. Also obligatory "BUY WARDS" advice goes here (since staring into the fog of war doesn't really help) Hope this helps some of you like it helped me, feedbacks appreciated! * PS: Press enter to activate chat, you should see a blue bar on top of your chat screen. You can drag and drop it anywhere you like.
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[ { "body": "i can see this being one of those things where I would keep looking at the wrong side of the screen for weeks after haha", "score": 212 }, { "body": "Just gonna check real quick so no one is missing on the map .... \"Suck me retard fucker i hate you!! uninstall plz\"", "score": 104 }, { "body": "I downloaded a countdown clock timer that makes a beep every 10 seconds and it's programming me into checking the mini map every 10 seconds :)", "score": 29 }, { "body": "I'm a fan of playing Heimerdinger zoomed in all the way with the screen locked to practice map awareness.", "score": 21 }, { "body": "I tried this, and it helped me a bit with my map awareness (I did it originally because I previously played sc2) but the main problem I found with this (and possibly the reason it's bottom right as well), is that when you're moving, I found it *a lot* more likely to hit the minimap trying to run away, than when it's on the right.\n\nex: playing on purple side at mid you're likely to hit it when moving into mid, playing mid, bot, or top on blue side you're likely to hit it while running back to your turret, and so on, while when it's on the right side you're only really likely to hit it when you're running through the jungle or down river.\n\n*edit* I thought you were saying to reverse your minimap (have it on the left side), so this post is pretty much meaningless now, but I'll leave it as my argument against reversing the HUD.", "score": 13 }, { "body": "Rather than moving the chat to the right, where it would block the bottom of the scoreboard if I tried to look at it while someone was chatting away, I instead moved the minimap itself to the left, where I'm used to it being anyways because I came over from Warcraft III, DotA, and Starcraft/Starcraft II.\n\nOf course, the principle still remains the same, having the chat within the same vicinity of the map helps you look at it whenever someone opens their mouth, especially in lower elo levels where smack talk and insults are dropped more often than Sight Wards.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "A piece of advice I developed for teaching new players the importance of both CS and the minimap is to look down at your minimap when you go for a last hit each time. Learn to go for the last hit then back off immediately (under most circumstances) and you can use all of that time to look at the minimap instead of watching your character's attack animation.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "When I saw \"improve\" and \"without too much effort\" together in one sentence, I thought - impossibru.\n\nBut holy shit, I've actually been thinking lately about moving the minimap to the left side like Alex Ich does, as my head/brain generally concentrates easier / moves to the left side.\n\nLol, thank you.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "This reminds me of a blog on GameRiot from a few years back. The website has been offline for a while so I can't link it but it was about psychology behind your UI, using a theory about which side of the brain is good at which tasks and changing your UI accordingly. Was a pretty interesting read and I think it improved my play by a bit.\n\nedit: found this on google - http://stormspire.net/off-topic/2544-psychology-behind-your-ui.html not as informative as the blogpost but it's just as interesting", "score": 4 }, { "body": "I have my mini-map on the Left side and my chat on right :) It's just a thing of actually being able to realize several things at once, for someone who has to last hit: Are there any creeps low HP? Am I in a dangerous spot? Is my support being agressive? If those questions are all No's you can peek at the minimap.", "score": 3 } ]
SWFA Super Sniper HD vs Regular versions?
Hey guys, Anyone here own SWFA Super Sniper optics? I was wondering if anyone owns the non-HD versions and if you believe they're sufficient enough for your use. Thanks.
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[ { "body": "I own 2 non-hd fixed 10x SS scopes. One is on my AR-10(t) the other on my 700. They have performed wonderfully for me. Now I don't know what your intended use is, so I can't say if they'll fit the bill for you, but I've consistently run both clean out to 1000yds on 20x40\" steel targets. They've taken a few bumps & still maintain zero. They're nice and clear and have even performed in low ligh. On one of them the the detents on the windage & elevation are a bit mushy but still consistent. For my use the extra money for the hd is a function of diminishing return and an unnecessary expense, though great glass. ", "score": 3 } ]
Thoughts on Josh Freeman
I know a lot of people have him as a sleeper, saying this is going to be a bounce back year. Any other opinions? Will the addition of Vincent Jackson significantly improve his stats? And will the addition of Doug Martin cause the Bucs to focus a lot more on the run game?
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[ { "body": "Bucs fan here. \n\nPros:\n\n1. Josh Freeman has never had a receiver with the talent of Vincent Jackson.\n\n2. Mike Williams proved he couldn't handle the #1 WR position, but he'll excel in the #2 slot.\n\n3. Last year Freeman tried to make things happen because their defense was so terrible and ended up creating more turnovers. This is very unlikely to happen again. \n\n4. Freeman throws to many receivers instead of focusing on one. This doesn't look well for Vincent Jackson's consistency.\n\n5. Doug Martin has good hands so this gives Freeman another check down option besides TE Stocker/D.Clark (both decent options).\n\n6. Bucs OL is now one of the best in the league and will give plenty of opportunities for the offense to produce and keep Freeman upright.\n\n7. Bucs passing schedule is one of the easiest in the league (along with the Falcons). http://www.fantasypros.com/nfl/strength-of-schedule.php\n\nCons:\n\n1. Schiano has made it well known he will run the ball.....a LOT! Now with 2 good RBs expect this to be a huge trend in Tampa. \n\n2. He isn't known to throw down field much, so big yardage plays don't happen very often. \n\n3. Bucs don't run a high octane offense, so the cap of elite points isn't there.\n\n\nOverall: Freeman won't have the opportunity in most games to produce like a top 10 QB so draft him like a consistent top 15 QB. A good backup.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Freemen is a steal even if he has a year like he did last year. But I am very bullish on Freemen and think he will have a better year and be that much more of a steal. Martin is over-hyped and will only share time with Blount, he is nowhere near ready to be a featured back. I dont know why people have such a hard-on for the guy. ", "score": 3 } ]
Re-installed Morrowind on a new computer, am trying to use old save files, but can't figure out what mods I once had and am getting lots of errors when I try to load.
Hey, just like the title says, I used to play Morrowind on one computer, I got the save files off it before it shat the bed, and am now trying to play them on a fresh install, but loading takes for ever as I get an error message for everything little thing that I am missing for not having the old mods. Is there anyway to find out what old mods I was using if I don't have access to the old computer? Thank you in advanced.
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[ { "body": "I think if you click data files in the morrowind launcher and hover your cursor over your save file, it should say what it is dependant on", "score": 10 } ]
Never thought it'd happen to me, but it did...
Last night I got to stand in the rain for an hour as my cousins car was torn apart. Three of us are being charged with paraphernalia, which is a misdemeanor class A. I had a single glass slider with resin, was because my buddy broke his for his bong. We weren't even smoking in the car (although we had tried my buddies genie vape an hour before), we were just waiting to pick up and go to my house so we could smoke. I'm really quite worried, since I was suppose to start school in 6 days and was relying on government financial aid for my college. I'm not sure how to go about doing this, but a few of my friends actually told me they think I should go to rehab. Any thoughts from my fellow ents?
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[ { "body": "As an Ent who has been in your position twice, with one of those being in the school parking lot, I can tell you that you are not shit out of luck. \nThere's a strong chance that you'll be able to pull for diversion when you go to court. \nWhat diversion is: It's an agreement you go into with the state (Example: Community service and a drug class) after you have completed the required tasks they simply go into your record and change it so that it is as if you were found not guilty by a jury during a trial. \nMy condolences go out to you and your predicament, it's never fun, but it is something that is relatively easy to deal with. \n\n:)", "score": 3 } ]
In my mind, all people from the U.K. act like the hosts of Top Gear... What opinions/images do you have a nationality that are amusing yet obviously incorrect?
Seriously, when I (a U.S. citizen) think of the brits, I imagine them ignoring americans, mocking the french, and bringing up WWII every time they mention something german.
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[ { "body": "As a Brit, if I wasn't on reddit my opinion of Americans would be this:\n\nAll Americans are over-weight, hard-core right wing Christians who believe in nothing but the holiness of the bible and McDonalds.", "score": 3 } ]
So r/skyrim is Dawnguard what you thought it would be?
What i mean is was it worth it? Was it what you expected? Was it better or worse than what you expected?
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[ { "body": "it's a really good addition to the game, 2 black reach sized areas (that i know of), fixed vampires, added 2 awesome new fortresses, added a few new dragon types, new weapons and armor.\n\nit made me want to explore again. after 400+ hours of meticulously picking everything clean it was refreshing. :)", "score": 3 } ]
Just spent 30 minutes filling out a personality "assessment" for an employer who won't respond. Why do they create such hoops and then don't have the decency to tell you that they hired someone else? A rant.
I've been applying for jobs for the past month and have been slogging through the process of entering information via the company's web interface. I get that. It can't be avoided. What I don't get are these "assessments" meant to determine your level of honesty, or to demonstrate specific skills which take 30 minutes or more to complete. Last week, I was asked to write a complaint letter. Another asked me to edit a business document, a third asked me to review an invoice for errors (requiring I hand check all the calculations). One application took two hours to complete the "skills assessment" with the promise that they would respond once it had been graded. Of course, no such response was forthcoming. These employers are the ones who never respond, if even to send you a perfunctory, "Fuck off, we've hired internally" email. Why in the hell do they do this? I can understand if they don't feel like I am a good fit, but even something like the hiring process is part of your company's reputation and PR. I now have a bad taste in my mouth for these companies and I will be living and working in the community where they function. Will I speak highly of them? No. So why do that? Sorry, this whole process is starting to wear on me. **EDIT 1:** Company acknowledged my application by inviting me to a job fair where I could join the cattle call. They are hiring 50 positions. I filled all that out just to get the invite. I have to bring my resume and all my employment information to the job fair if I want to be considered for any of these jobs. In other words, no one will look at what I submitted.
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[ { "body": "Because you, should not be so invested in a given job/position that you require an email back saying that you didn't get it.\n\nIt blows balls and wears on you, but don't let it wear you down. You may have thought one job was perfect for you. I have had them and was really excited for them to possibly pan out, but, lo and behold, I didn't get the job. You should be sending your your resume as every where if you're looking for a job and hope something sticks.\n\nOr they were so blown away by your prowess in complaint letter writing that the entire HR department into a paralytic coma that has determined their fate to be gnawed away by rats.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "I don't do assessments anymore unless I've gone to the place and talked to someone in person about the position.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "As a recruiter, I always TRY to give feedback. \n\nIt gets ridiculously exhausting though. I have 3 open positions. I had 8 candidates go for interviews and had to sort through 300 resumes of applicants in addition to calling the 40 resumes I sourced myself. \n\nI also had 10 candidates call in 1 of whom was qualified. \n\nAdd to that general office work and correspondence with people I have working for me and I have to pick my battles. \n\nWhen I got the decision on which of my candidates got hired I had to call them and handle new hire paperwork. \n\nNow I work for one of the larger staffing firms and my clients are big ones most of them are fortune 250 a lot are fortune 100. I have an obligation to uphold their brand name and my own companies as well as my own reputation. So why wouldn't I call a candidate or let them know they didn't get a job?\n\nIt's the part of my job with the least consequences if I slack off. Now to be clear the best recruiters don't do this. They have good relationships with everyone they touch. While I am extremely successful I admit I slack off here. \n\nIt's the least gratifying and exhausting part of my job. Even the automated emails result in a response that takes the wind out of me. Hearing or reading someone say how much they wanted a job is emotionally draining and time consuming. I've had candidates curse me out, threaten to sue, cry, plead and even try to bribe me in those conversations. I would just rather avoid them and have an excellent conversation with someone who I just put to work. \n\nIt might not be right and it sucks to read this but OP this is why it happens. ", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Yeah. I was filling out the online form for a company and got denied on the first page. It was like 6 questions that were like \"Are you a US citizen?\" Do you have a diploma?\" etc. Of course I meet the requirements but the form was coded wrong. They called me back and asked me to keep filling out the form. Then I had to take some other sort of (timed) test typing in codes for the job. I failed that so I had to call them back just to make sure it was me and not their system messed up again. Wanted to tell the recruiter \"yeah I don't really want to work for your company if you can't get your stuff together anyways.\"", "score": 4 } ]
Track Day - How do you guys get there?
Hey there guys, I just bought a 94 supra RHD from a shop in Japan for track days/fun/wrenching in the winter months. I kinda jumped the gun and bought it before figuring out all the details, so while it is in transit I am looking for the easiest/most hassle-free way to get from her soon to be garage to the track, without having to register her as I did with my DD. I can't tow, as my DD is a coupe. What do you guys usually do to get your cars to the track? What about a rental truck, do you guys do that? (I plan to get out at least once a month). I am located in Ontario (Canada), and I would estimate that the tracks would be no further than a 150km radius. Suggestions please, and thank-you! **Edit:** Thanks everyone for the input. Looks like for the short term I will look at renting a truck or something of the sort. As far as making the supra a DD, it will be gutted; no creature comforts in it, and it isn't going to see a winter.
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[ { "body": "I have a beat up old Ford Escape and purchased a car dolly - tows the fronts, drags the rear wheels. Eventually I'm looking at a full trailer, however this was a great solution for the first couple years. The dolly brand new was about 2K. Alternatively, I have rented a U-haul trailer for car towing in the past, worked really well but I had to use a different truck due to the poor towing capacity of the Escape.\n\nEDIT - I'm in Ontario as well, maybe I'll see you at the track. (Centrillia lapping Sat the 18th)", "score": 3 }, { "body": "You have a few options:\n\n* rent a truck and a dolly\n* buy a truck and a dolly(under $1K...but then you have to have insurance)\n* buy a USDM Supra shell or a wrecked one. Then register that and swap out the license plates and the VIN #s.\n* swap the plates from the current car, then if you get pulled over, just say you got this mad tyte body kit that makes your car look like a Supra\n* sell your car, and register the Supra...you are in Canada...unlike U.S. guys you can actually drive it legally.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Buy a cheap truck or SUV and a cheap tow dolly. It'll set you back a couple grand at most. Tow the Supra to and from, with the propshaft disconnected. If you plan on doing this often, invest in a full-size pickup, a flatbed trailer, a load-distributing hitch, and a brake controller. It'll be more expensive, but worth it.\n\nThat, or entice a friend with a truck, using beer.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "If you are going to be mostly at one track, see if they offer storage. It might be a long-shot, but never hurts to ask.", "score": 3 } ]
Going to DM a game of pathfinder for the first time. Any tips?
I've never been a DM before, and was wondering if /r/rpg had any tips/advice for me. I'm planning on just using pre-made stories (Crypt of the Everflame specifically), and have an okay grasp of the rules, but anything can help!
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[ { "body": "* Above all, remember that *you're not playing against your PCs*; RPGs aren't adversarial, they're an exercise in collective storytelling. Your job, above all else, is to help your PCs find their way through a great story.\n\n* That said, don't let your story get in the way of unscripted fun. Your PCs *will* find unexpected ways of tackling problems and get attached to NPCs who were meant to be background, so don't let yourself get too married to any given setting/plot point/NPC; if they like the chambermaid more than the princess, give her a name and work her in.\n\n* Don't let them lose focus, mind you - be sure to drive the story forward if the PCs are getting too hung up on unimportant details. \"You want to... arm wrestle the half-ork serving wench, even though you're here to meet the local law about [PLOT POINT]? Just because you want to see if that's how half-orks flirt? Ok, make a strength check... what do you know, you win the arm wrestling competition! You also win the next one, and the next, and the one after that. One thing leads to another, and after a night of drunken shenanigans you wake up to find yourself wrapped in brawny half-ork arms... on a prison cot. It seems like you got into some trouble last night, and now the town marshall seems to want to talk to you about [PLOT POINT].\"\n\n* Make rewards meaningful. Don't ever just put a \"short sword +2\" in a chest behind a bad guy - it's cooler if that same bad guy carries the sword (for which you found a [cool picture](http://fc07.deviantart.net/fs70/i/2012/091/3/c/steampunk_sword__zanki__by_tamonten-d2ogz1x.jpg)), uses it on the PCs and then drops it after being killed.", "score": 4 } ]
Help, I feel like im being overcharged
My telephone and internet provider (Virgin Media) has added £81 to my bill of £60 for 2 months. I have just recently switched to virgin 2 months ago, and dreading my decision after bring referred by a friend. I contacted them and they said I had the wrong package, I told them I wanted to change it, I though they had, but on the 6th of august I checked my account to see that I was charged £150 by virgin. I feel like I've been mis-sold this contract and am extremely angry, but their customer relations team only could offer me £30 of the £150 and if I wanted further action I must contact their head office, can anyone help me please **bold** TL;DR I feel like I've mis-sold my telephone contract and am being over charged, help please?
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[ { "body": "Was this paid by direct debit? If so, and you can prove they billed you in error, then you can go to your back and ask for your money back under the \"Direct Debit Guarantee\".\n\nImportant: This wont get you off the bill, just get you the money back, then they will have to negotiate with you to get the money.\n\nThe ultimate recourse is for them to take you too court, but don't be scared by this, you get to go in front of a judge, where you'll be able to state your case.\n\nHowever the judge will only go on the evidence, both oral and written, so make sure you know your position. \n\nHowever before it gets there you'll probably be able to negotiate your way to a better discount.\n\nSo to recap, contact your bank and DEMAND they repay the money as what you've been charged is not what you agreed.\n\nhttp://www.thesmartwaytopay.co.uk/directdebitexplained/pages/directdebitguarantee.aspx\n\nGood luck.", "score": 3 } ]
My wait went from 3 months to 3 days!
My SO moved about a month ago and things got really bad between us with him leaving so we broke up. Since moving we've actually talked more and he's been more open with his feelings to me and we both agreed we wanted to at least try and make it work. I still have about 2 weeks before school starts for me so I decided to buy a last minute flight to go out and see him! We originally weren't going to see each other until he came home for Thanksgiving. He was super surprised because I normally don't do anything quite that spontaneous and I've never actually been on a plane before so it's going to be a crazy adventure for me. So I'll be spending my last week of Summer break with him and I couldn't be more excited. :)
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[ { "body": "We did that too. Went from not seeing each other until December/January til me flying over in July. \n\nCongrats :)", "score": 3 } ]
NFC West Preview: Randy Moss and TO in the same division, Kolb looking for a bounce back year, the Rams hoping for a healthy Bradford
We are under the one month window before the 2012 NFL season, which has all of our writers here at The Waiver Wire gearing up for another year of debates, poorly made bets and trash-talking. This year, we’ve decided to break down the season-to-be division by division. We will preview all eight divisions and pick our division winners, likely wild cards for both the AFC and NFC, and even which teams will be lining up for the Matt Barkley 2013 Draft Sweepstakes. Last year the story of the NFC West was the unexpected emergence of Jim Harbaugh's San Francisco 49er's. The division also saw the Rams go from "team with potential" to "suck for Luck." As the year went on the Seahawks and Cardinals proved to be tough outs despite their mediocre records. We'll examine all of the big questions going into this year from Randy Moss's return, Seattle's quarterback questions, the viability of Kevin Kolb as a starter and the Jeff Fischer era in St. Louis. Answers to all the questions you were too afraid to ask from Michael Cresci and Matt McCarthy. Previous Previews: AFC East - AFC North-AFC West- NFC East 1.) San Francisco 49ers MM: This is an easy pick for division winner right here. The 49ers are coming off a year in which they burst onto the relevancy scene under their brand new rookie head coach Jim Harbaugh, finishing with a 13-3 record and a playoff berth. The Niners look to duplicate their success last year with some key off-season moves that seem to only make an already good team better. This is a team that preached defense the entire year and proved that a team led by its defense can succeed in the NFL. Key Additions/Losses: With no big losses on the defensive front, expect these 49ers to cruise through a relatively soft division and expand on the defensive domination that this team showed last year. Key additions were made on the offense however, which only makes this pick for division winner even more of a lock. The 49ers went out and got 2 new targets for Alex Smith to throw to in Mario Manningham and Randy Moss...[read more here!](http://waiverwireblog.com/2012/08/14/nfl-2012-season-preview-nfc-west/#more-5509) 2.) Seattle Seahawks MC: If the Seahawks are able to make the right call at the quarterback position they are set up to have a pretty good year. They spent the second half of last year establishing themselves as a tough out who played beyond their record and they have a solid defense and dynamite running game lead by the Skittles fueled robot known as Marshawn Lynch. The big story has been Seattle's signing of Terrell Owens but their acquisitions of Jason Jones and first round pick Bruce Irvin have bolstered the Seahawks pass rush and been the real noticeable upgrade. Key Additions/Losses: The big additions have been Terrell Owens, Braylon Edwards, Matt Flynn, Russell Wilson, Jason Jones and Kellen Winslow. These were all smart picks ups and tempered their few losses. Backup QB Charlie Whitehurst showed flashes of strong play last year but has been replaced by two potential quarterbacks of the future....[read more here!](http://waiverwireblog.com/2012/08/14/nfl-2012-season-preview-nfc-west/#more-5509) 3.) Arizona Cardinals MM: One of the only good things to say about this team is they still have Larry Fitzgerald, one of the best receivers in the game. With Michael Floyd on the other side of the field, Fitz should expect big numbers this year even though he has John Skelton throwing him the ball. Key Additions/Losses: Michael Floyd is a flat-out physical monster. At 6'3 225 lbs, he is going to be a problem for anyone trying to D him up. He is the biggest addition the Cards made this off-season without question. The biggest loss for Arizona did not come in the shape of a lost player, but more of a lost opportunity. Arizona had a great chance to improve on their weak points this off-season and failed to do anything. Last season, Arizona ranked 24th in rushing and 21st in run defense, both numbers suggest that something had to be done in these areas for the Cardinals to make any noise this season, but alas, no significant moves were made to shore up either side of the ball when it came to the ground game....[read more here!](http://waiverwireblog.com/2012/08/14/nfl-2012-season-preview-nfc-west/#more-5509) 4.) St. Louis Rams MC: The Rams are going to have a decent amount of attention this year because of their head coach, Jeff Fischer. One of the staples of the league until he left the Titans, Fischer's return is going to be an interesting one as the Rams are a serious project after last year's 2-14 record. There is some reason for optimism, though, as they seemingly have the QB of the future in Sam Bradford. After an impressive rookie season Bradford's 2011 was marred by a high ankle strain but the organization and coaches see something special in Bradford and are very confident about building around him. Key Additions/Losses: The Rams biggest addition outside of Head Coach might be Pro Bowl center, Scott Wells. He is going to strengthen a weak offensive line while facilitating the transition to a more run oriented offense focused around Stephen Jackson and rookie Isaiah Pead. Former Giant and Eagle, Steve Smith should lend some depth at the wide receiver position (one which was weakened last year by Danny Amendola's injury). The Rams have really focused on defense this off-season and upgraded at cornerback through free agency by signing Cortland Finnegan and the draft, with the selection of Janoris Jenkins....[read more here!](http://waiverwireblog.com/2012/08/14/nfl-2012-season-preview-nfc-west/#more-5509)
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[ { "body": "its great that we have WRs now and everything, but I liked last year so much better when I didn't have expectations for Alex Smith. expectations suck. why do we need to have such frivolous things!", "score": 14 }, { "body": "Words cannot describe how relieved I am that the Hawks didnt sign Kolb. [Hallelujer!](http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m506buUEzP1rvtc7qo1_400.gif)", "score": 10 }, { "body": "We lost Hawthorne who led the team in tackles in the offseason, that's a pretty big loss that I'm surprised they picked Charlie Whitehurst over.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I bet TO gets cut before the season ends.\n\nAnd with all those shiny first round picks, the Rams will be a force by 2014", "score": 3 } ]
Reddit, I just moved into my college dorm four days ago. I'm extremely homesick. Anyone have any advice?
I moved 8 hours away from home to go to college. I'm currently sitting in my dorm room. My roommate is out working, and I'm sitting here awkwardly on reddit. BUT, before anyone starts in with, "Go out and socialize," I am. I'm actually waiting to go to a friend's dorm in a bit to meet with her and play Xbox. That still doesn't stop the fact that I miss my mom, my cats, my old bed, etc. Anyone have any ideas on how to lessen the homesickness? Also, I'm naturally introverted, so it's hard for me to make friends. I'm trying, slowly but surely.
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[ { "body": "Go walk around the halls and meet your floormates. Also keep your door open and invite people to come in and talk with you.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Take a long hot shower. Maybe pop in a movie or take a walk around campus or hit up the gym. Get into a new routine. ", "score": 3 } ]
Doctor Who will return with series 7 on September 1st on BBC One
Confirmation should be up soon. Screening of Asylum of The Daleks just started - so I am guessing right after? Edit: The Save Doctor Who Confidential campaign concurs: https://twitter.com/SaveDWC/status/235447958424911872
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[ { "body": "Would rather wait until BBC/Moffat actually confirm this. Everyone thought 25th August would be the air date, but then when the time slots for BBC1 came out for that week, it didn't show Doctor Who, so everyone is now just thinking/hoping for the week after.", "score": 8 } ]
I intend to pursue legal action against Rogers Communications, and I could use some advice?
About two weeks ago, I signed a three-year contract with Rogers because they offered to discount my current plan, should I stay with the company. I just received my first bill and I did not receive the agreed upon price (not surprising, hence I'm here), each of my lines were charged at an additional rate respectively. I have spoken to client relations and as well their supervisors but no resolution was reached. The bottom line was "our notes say otherwise, so you're out of luck". I given false information on the cost of the plans and certain aspects of the discounts were not disclosed (eg. the discount would expire in 2months). This was not a "I misunderstood the rep" situation, I have confirmed the details on multiple occasions. That being said, I am writing to the Care of Privacy office to obtain my transcripts/recordings of those conversations. I know for a fact that multiple representatives have confirmed and reiterated the cost and details of the agreed upon plan. The amount overcharged every month is not a lot, but I refuse to just "deal with it". I've already been advised by to pay first and be compensated later, since I can't get credit ratings fixed. Now before I go any further with this, I hope reddit can give me some advice on the matter. EDIT - The Rogers Social Media Rep below, Nicolas, told me to talk to a supervisor, which I already did prior to this post. He did not assist me any further. Just a PR move on Rogers to look like "they care".
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[ { "body": "Hi, \n\nI'm Nicolas from Rogers Social media team. \n\nFirst off, I'm sorry to hear about your issue. \n\nI'm sending you a PM.\n\nNicolas\n@RogersNicolas | Rogers Social Media team", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Yeah, I have some advice for you. Don't take legal advice from Reddit.\n\nAnd that includes the above advice.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Before you fly off the handle. Make sure the charges were not in fact due to prorated billing. Not many people understand how proration works and it has the unfortunate side-effect of making billing changes look like the wrong price.\n\nSince you say in your post that they seemed to charge you twice, that is a tell tail sign that you are dealing with prorated billing.\n\nTo check, there should be dates attached to each of the charges somewhere on the bill.\n\nAnd as always, treat the call center people with respect. You catch more flies with honey than vinegar.", "score": 3 } ]
Have an NVidia 570. Better to upgrade to a 6-series or get another 570 and SLI?
I currently have a single 570 video card and was wondering if i'd get better gaming performance by buying another and running them in SLI or if I should move up to a 6-series? Have a Core 2 Quad Proc (Q9450). Thanks for any tips!
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[ { "body": "The Q9450 is probably just barely a bottleneck on the 570 when you are playing cpu intensive games. Before considering a better GPU, I would focus on upgrading that first.\n\nTo answer your question: It depends. If you have the power supply to handle it, you don't mind the extra heat and you can afford the electric bill, another 570 would probably be a better choice than a 6-series card. This is assuming you could get the 570 for ~$200-230.", "score": 7 } ]
How high can you swing a child in a toddler swing without the child being in danger of falling out?
/r/askphysics had nothing to say about it, maybe you guys have an opinion. I swing my boy so high in a toddler swing, and the thought is in the back of my mind: "How high is too high?" [This](http://li4kids.com/images/li4k125.jpg) is the kind of swing I'm talking about.
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[ { "body": "You can tell when it's too high because at the top of the swing you can see them reach what I'll call negative gravity because all of a sudden they kind of float in the seat and you can tell that gravity is no longer pushing them down into the seat.\n\nIt's kind of scary because they float a cm or two out of the seat and then gravity grabs them again and pushes them back into the seat.+\n\n+Legal disclaimer: I do not know this from personal experience. **\n\n**I might", "score": 5 }, { "body": "When the child falls out of the swing, then that is too high.\n\nThis is related to [the way in which the load limit on bridges is determined](http://www.gocomics.com/calvinandhobbes/1991/12/18).\n\n", "score": 4 } ]
20f and hes almost 21. together for 4 years. Have you ever stayed together, but slept with other people to get that experience of being with other people out of the way?
My boyfriend mentioned the other day that if we marry, and i get this urge to sleep with only man some day down the road, then hes open to it as long as i will never see him again. lately, i've been getting that urge already. Ive only had sex with him, and he's only been with me. Guy's at his work always talk about the girls they've fucked and I know it's starting to get to him that he's only been with one. So my question is... have you ever been in a long term strong relationship where you both agreed that you would take a break and go out and get that urge out of the way...and it stayed strong and healthy. ALSO, i am a very jealous girl and hate the fact of him fucking another girl and he hates thinking of me with another guy. So that's a big problem. But if this will make our relationship stronger and make that urge go away then i think maybe we should go for it. **tl;dr** boyfriend of 4 years, i think we are both having an urge to see what it's like to sleep with other people since we were each others first and onlys. we are both very protective and jealous so idk if that will work out. Wondering who has ever stayed in their relationship, both sleeped with other people, and stayed in the relationship and was still healthy. We both love eachother and want to stay together.
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[ { "body": "If you sleep with other people the relationship is done.\n\non the upside, you're probably not missing out on anything. Stranger sex is awkward and compared to sex with someone you know and trust, it just isn't good. You do get to feel that nice conquering feeling, but that's about it. You than spend the next 10 minutes wondering if the other person hates you now and is completely unsatisfied. ", "score": 13 }, { "body": "If you really love each other, sleeping with other people *just for experience* is simply low hanging fruit. It'll seem exciting when you get it, but after the deed is done, it'll be just another lay. If you truly love each other, go after the stuff at the top. It takes commitment and dedication to each other, but I'll be damned if the reward isn't the sweetest thing ever.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "If you both have jealous personalities, it won't work. Even if you both promise to never see the one-nighter again, you'll both be left wondering \"were they better than me?\", etc, etc. It will slowly kill what you guys have.\n\nYou are at a point where you have to decide what happens next. Do you keep what you have and remain faithful or do you go out into the world and date around. Unfortunately, you can't have it both ways. I think the sex life comparing stuff sort of gets to guys. I know when my husband worked around a bunch of single horny guys, he'd get a bit jealous, but realized he was coming home to something much more valuable than just meaningless sex. :) Have an honest talk with your SO about everything and see where you two stand.", "score": 5 } ]
Help an aspiring copywriter get a running start?
Hey guys! Long-time lurker, second-time poster. I was wondering if any of you copywriting redditors currently studying/in the field would consider [helping a brotha' out](http://dspatlanta.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/HABO1.png)? I am an aspiring copywriter whose school unfortunately does not have much in the way of advertising courses, nor does it have much in the way of anything to develop my writing beyond gen-ed. This has left me with the fortunately unfortunate task of teaching myself (through books, online resources, ect.) what I think I need to know to be successful. Obviously that will only take me so far. I've been *meaning* to start writing more each week, but I seem to always find an excuse not to. SO, this is what I've come up with. **Would any current/soon-to-be copywriters be able to shoot me a weekly writing assignment? Nothing too big or time consuming on your part, just whatever you think will get me off my ass and start building the skills I need for this industry.** I've sort of likened it to exercise - until I can motivate myself to get up every morning to run my sets and reps, having a coach yell profane things at me will do the trick. **TL;DR:** Student looking for help/motivation to start developing writing abilities.
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[ { "body": "That would be a cool idea for the budding copywriters on Reddit, a weekly portfolio project, and then after the ads are done, the experienced ad folk an critique them.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "The best advice I can give (short of going to portfolio school) is to look at student portfolios that are already out there and then emulate them.\n\nHere's two random ones: [Drew Burton's portfolio](http://conciseprofundity.com/) and [Leigh Browne's portfolio](http://leighwritescopy.com/portfolio.html).\n\nYou'll get a sense of the type of work that creative directors are expecting when they spend time looking at your work.\n\nThere are literally thousands and thousands of portfolios out there. Take a look at the people you're going to competing with for jobs and make stuff that's better.\n\nAsk other creatives for their feedback and never stop improving your work. It's extremely competitive and, depending on your location, opportunities may be limited. Best of luck!", "score": 3 } ]
I have a scar on my arm. Any potential designs to make it look better?
Hey, I don't if this is the right subreddit, but I have a scar down my left shoulder, and I thinking about getting a tattoo done on or around it, to make it look better/different. Does anyone know of any designs that may look good or interesting in that place on the arm? I know it's a vague question, but I can't think of anything creative (I'm no artist) and I don't wanna just stick something on top and ruin the tat. I'm into gaming, if anyone has an potential ideas in that area http://i.imgur.com/RnTHm.jpg
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[ { "body": "I'd go for a skin rip style and make it look like your arm was completely sewn back on, it would look badass", "score": 6 } ]
Oily Skin and Facewash
Hello! I have a problem with oily skin on my face. I've used so many different face washes, and they all work for the first week or so, but then it's like my skin becomes immune to it and it stops working. This happened with the Clean and Clear three step acne system, too. At one point, I was even using MD Forte that my doctor sells (I'm not sure how common MD Forte is, but it's just another one of those three step systems). It worked great for a week, then stopped. I wash my face every morning and every night, but during the day, my skin gets so oily that I have to use three of those oil absorbing sheets (really gross, I know) to clean my face off. I even rinse my face with water when I go to the bathroom. I feel like I'm running out of options. It's like my skin is immune to everything I try after the first week of use. I use the whole bottle of face wash because I don't want to spend that much money, just to waste it because it doesn't work, but it never seems to get any better. If anything, it gets worse. Any suggestions are greatly appreciated. Thanks Reddit.
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[ { "body": "Controlling skin oil is like solving a Chinese finger trap - you need to relax in order to get it figured out. Sounds like you are actually *over*-cleansing your skin. Yup, that's right...you are using products that are much too aggressive on the oil-stripping and are probably using them too often. Sounds paradoxical, but if you think about it, it makes sense...your skin is actually over-producing oil to compensate for all of the oil-stripping you have been doing. That's why the cleansers you use seem to work for a little bit then do absolutely nothing - your skin has adjusted. So what you wind up with is a totally out-of-whack oily mess for skin.\n\nSolution? Relax. Use gentle cleansers. Some people in your position actually use the oil cleansing method with fantastic results - this involves using a mixture of castor oil and a vegetable oil (frequently coconut, jojoba, or olive oil) in place of a soapy cleanser to dissolve the dirt and oils in your skin without actually drying out your skin too much, You may want to give it a try.\n\nWhatever you wind up doing, you need to give your skin a chance to mellow out before you get impatient with lack of results and start punishing it with harsh cleansers again. It needs time to equilibrate, and trust me - it will get less oily.", "score": 13 }, { "body": "I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from. My skin is oily and will take any excuse to break out. I have the same problem with products that everyone else seems to love, and I buy them with high hopes, and it seems like they're working until I break out again. I don't have a permanent solution, but I'll give you pointers that have helped me.\n\nFirst: Wash your pillowcase every time you do laundry. You can't wash it too much.\n\nSecond: Don't touch your face. Every time you realize you're resting your chin on your hand or anything like that, STOP. Don't touch!\n\nThird: Disinfect your phone often.\n\nFourth: Only buy small sizes of products, never the economy size. I know this seems pricier, but products do have shelf lives. The little symbol of an open jar with 6M or 12M will tell you how long it lasts. I don't think many people have reactions to expired products, but I do, and you might also. The smaller of a container you get, the fresher the ingredients you are putting on your face. I have thrown out half-used jugs (yes jugs lol) of expensive name brand products like Philosophy and Clinique, that seemed to work great but then literally soured before I used it up. What a waste.\n\nAnd, finally, a product plug: I don't think evangelizing for particular brands is all that helpful usually, because everyone has different chemistry and different reactions to things, and there are a zillion products that SOMEbody swears are like the angels playing harps on their skin. But, since you have similar issues to me, I will just let you know that the best line I have found is DHC. It is a Japanese brand that specializes in a cleansing oil (counterintuitive to clean with oil but it works) and products with high-quality clean ingredients for sensitive skin. I have been using their stuff for about a year with good results.\n\nGood luck. :)", "score": 3 } ]
Internet censoring encouraged in wards
I'm just curious, but has anyone else's wards been encouraging the use of internet blocks and such to limit the time people can spend on computers? Or was this prevalent in your ward before you left? I was wondering because recently our ward has encouraged all adults to put internet filters on computers to limit time and avoid "harmful content" to all members, adult or kids. In our ward it is encouraged to give the mother the password.
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[ { "body": "*raises hand*\n\n \"yes brother ____\" \n\nUhhhh.... if there's a filter, how are we supposed to watch porn?", "score": 10 }, { "body": "Lot of good comments here, but I'd like to add one of the most distressing parts of this in my opinion. \"Encouraged to give the mother the password\", so this is saying what? The husband is untrustworthy? This is just selling the gender stereotype that men \"can't help it\" and women are pure innocent virgins, unless they're also skanky sluts then they deserve whatever happens to them. Ulg, fuck that. I'm an adult, I'm responsible for my own fucking actions.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "there was at least one \"5th sunday\" meeting that i attended in which they laid out the 'dangers of the internet' and gave recommendations as to which filters are good, etc.\n\nmy parents bought into it hook, line, and sinker. it took them ages to even get DSL because they were convinced that using this utah-based filtered dial-up ISP (when we lived on the east coast, too) was safer. never mind that i'd figured out how to get around the filter and find whatever i wanted by the time i was 17.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Sure! Lots of encouragement for internet censorship. Problem is though that its couched in a discussion of utah-based businesses that specialize in firewalls. Fear, control and denial of access to information takes a sideline to the true purpose, profits.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "We was taught the computer should always be in the family, living room and should only be used when others are in the room... I think that was more to do with the porn issue, but I assume it was for parents to censor anti-mormon material also.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "My parents tried to forbid me from using my personal laptop (that I bought with my own money) anywhere but the living room / dining room when I was 18/19 before I moved out. They also tried making me give them my passwords.\n\nDidn't work too well. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "And yet, despite all of this, Utah remains the #1 ranked state on google trends for searching the word: pornography.\n\nPornography thrives off secrecy.", "score": 3 } ]
[Rant] My sister thinks she is a dieting expert and it's starting to piss me off.
"So you're not going to eat anything I make for dinner?" Well I'll eat some chicken but I don't know, I'm not really hungry. "You know you need carbs to function. No carb doesn't work." Well it's a good thing that this is LOW carb, not no carb. And you think neanderthals were eating pasta back in the day? They did just fine until the whole dying out thing. "I just feel like you aren't eating things you like and that's when diets go wrong." That's because I would eat anything with carbs. That's where eating goes wrong. I would just like to point out that my sister is only losing weight because she is on Phentermine. She doesn't work out, doesn't really watch what she eats (whole wheat pasta is still 35g net carbs, and that's when you eat a serving). After struggling through an eating disorder completely alone, the last thing I need is my family telling me what to do with the food I eat. Sorry that this is petty lol, it just reallllly bothers me.
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[ { "body": "You can't give people keys to the kingdom, they need to find it on their own.\n\nI said something earlier that kinda describes how I feel. Mostly, when people judge harshly, the best way to go about things is to zip your lips, and carry on. Show them your results, and do not try to convince them. Because **you can't**. \n\nI suffered through 2 years of self loathing before finding my way to diet and exercise. Everyone comes around, it just has to be a personal mission. \n\nI'm sorry that you've had to endure eating disorder. I can't imagine the horrors associated. \n\nIn short, haters gonna hate, baiter's gonna bait, and 'maters gonna ketchup. ", "score": 37 }, { "body": "None of use are experts, that's the point. People who do scientific dietary research for a living can't even agree with each other. All that matters is results - if you are seeing positive results, and you feel good, then continue.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "I had a few friends that were this way but as soon as I hit 50lbs lost they all shut up. I haven't heard a negative word since.\n\nSuccess is the best revenge.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "one thing i've come to realize with this diet... EVERYONE thinks they're the expert and your kidneys are going to explode any minute now. my favorite used to be \"you know, atkins went into a coma and DIED! why would you follow that kind of diet??\" i tell them \"dr. atkins died because he slipped on an icy step and cracked open his skull on the concrete. if you've got a diet that will prevent THAT, i'll happily follow it!\"", "score": 6 }, { "body": "My father has been telling me I need to lose weight for years. Since January I've lost ~45 lbs and counting. Last week when I saw him he said, \"You're getting too skinny\". /mindblown Don't let family fuck with you. Ignore it and move on. I'm doing this shit for myself not for anyone else. \n\nAnother story. My good friend would tell me all the shit I eat is bad, fattening etc. etc. I now weight less than he does. He shut the fuck up. ", "score": 5 }, { "body": "My sister is actually the same way. My mom said something about my weight loss (17# in a month, not too shabby) and she said she couldn't notice a difference, then proceeded to jump down my throat every time I prepared something to eat or mentioned anything keto related (like my increased energy or improved mood). \n\nMy sis has had an unspecified eating disorder for many years, keeps saying how fat she is st 5'8\" 130#, eats nothing all day and drinks like a frat boy every night. It seems like it really makes her angry that not only am I having success with my weight loss, that I am not doing it the way she has through self denial and obsessive exercise. \n\n She refuses to read anything about keto and won't even listen to me when I try and explain the legitimate health benefits of a LCHF diet. Very frustrating to the point where I feel like this is just one of many issues that are preventing us from having the awesome bff sisterly relationship we have always had. \n\nI don't know what to tell you as I am currently not even speaking to her after the last time I saw her when she very aggressively got all up in my face about thus. Time will prove me right, I am just worried about her health, her drinking, and most of all about her one year old baby. \n", "score": 4 }, { "body": ">And you think neanderthals were eating pasta back in the day?\n\nWhy would you bring up neanderthals? we didnt evolve from them...", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I gave my wife this book to read, and she shut up about 'fat is bad, etc' and got interested in trying it herself with me. \n\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Why-We-Get-Fat-About/dp/0307272702", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Hah, takes Phentermine and gives diet advice. I'm constantly amazed at how easily people can rationalize anything about themselves and totally fail to see how ridiculous they look to others.", "score": 3 } ]
Help understanding "credit" report.
I use the site Credit Karma to give me a semi-legit view of my credit and how it is going. I am so confused on how my bank is reporting information to the credit bureaus though... My billing period for my credit card starts the 14th of a month and ends on the 13th of the next month. Looking at my previous bill period, this is my expenses and payments: 08/01/12 PAYMENT $2.91 07/30/12 EXPENSE $2.91 07/25/12 PAYMENT $43.19 07/20/12 EXPENSE $43.19 So by August 1st, I paid in full my balance on my credit card and it has sat unused at $0 since then. HOWEVER, when I reloaded Credit Karma today, since the previous billing period ended yesterday, it shows my credit usage as $3. Does my bank take a random sampling of my usage during the period and then save that information to send to creditors at the end of the cycle? Thanks, Mr. Confused
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[ { "body": "It's almost certainly not \"random.\" Looking at the info you provided, I'd assume your credit card company reports the balance on your account (rounded to the nearest dollar) on the last day of the calendar month. So on 7/31/12, you had a balance of $2.91 (rounded up to $3) and that's what was sent to the bureaus. \n\nIn my own experience I think I've typically only seen statement balances being reported, but I understand that creditors can report on whatever schedule they want, even if it doesn't align with the dates your statements post. If this is a concern for you, I'd call and ask, or just watch it for another month or two to see if that's what is happening, and adjust your payments accordingly.", "score": 3 } ]
Joining a Volunteer Fire Department as a PostCollapse Strategy
What better way to get ready? You get in shape, network with people who have already demonstrated they are willing to put the common good in front of their own comfort, put yourself into pressure situations where you have to think quickly about safety, learn EMS, other tactical skills... This seems like a winner to me. Anybody want to talk me out of this?
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[ { "body": "Just make sure you are actually committed to the idea of being a volunteer firefighter, and will stick it out - it'd be a shame if you used up thousands of the department's dollars for training, then did not stay on to actually fight fires and such. Some (especially smaller) departments really struggle with this, and it hurts the department and the community in the long run.", "score": 31 }, { "body": "Paid firefighter/paramedic here... Unfortunately you will not learn too many things that will apply to survival. We use few things that I could see being applicable, such as, leaning different techniques with ropes and knots (mechanical advantage/self rescue/high angle/confined space). Realistically it has become a trade with specialized equipment. So in a sense most none of our training is useful without the toys for it.\n Now as far as the two most important aspects you could learn is EMS and how to remain calm and clear headed to appropriately manage a very chaotic situation. (I wont tough on the EMS because that doesn't need explaining) Some people are pretty natural at it, but most people have difficulty controlling their adrenal and emotional response. I don't just mean as a firefighter (Although you will learn situational awareness). I really am directing this towards serious EMS calls. Guys will lose their cool. Remaining composed and professional while focusing on your training is mostly a learned behavior from occupational desensitization. (Seeing a few fucked calls a month will do that)\n As far as the fitness... its solely up to you. Very few departments that I am familiar with have a mandatory fitness routine. \n I can only account for a city/suburban paid fire dept. I imagine leaning fire suppression in forestry would be different because those guys might be in the forest for long periods at a time.\n I dont want this to discourage you.... Go. volunteer. Learn. Be part of something that is bigger than you. I wish more people would feel that civil service doesn't have to be an occupation, but a place for self fulfillment. \n", "score": 8 }, { "body": "Where do you live that your volunteers get in shape and learn \"other tactical skills\" our volunteer dept are just a bunch of guys who know CPR, and have been to a few classes on how to ventilate a structure so it burns out and how to prevent it from spreading.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I am not one who believes in preparing for an eminent collapse. I found this sub through /r/zombies, and it makes for fun reading and critical thinking.\n\nI will say though, if you're interested in this stuff, or interested in helping your kids prepare for *life in general* the scouts were great to me.\n\nI'm an eagle scout, I learned leadership, first aid, lifesaving, fitness, wilderness survival, gun safety and use, bow safety and use, orienteering, pioneering, electronics, cooking, and loads of other very useful skills (like useful _today_) in my youth.\n\nFlipping through a scout handbook would give you a decent feel for the types of skills you need to progress, and flipping through a merit badge handbook would give you even more of that (for specific areas) The merit badge books themselves are about $7/each and have the actual guts you have to learn.\n\nI can't say that I agree with some decisions the BSA has made, but it was good for me. You can get involved as a volunteer. It helps if you were a scout or have scout-aged kids, even girls if you check out venture scouts. Scouts need a mentor for every merit badge, an adult who is comfortable with the curriculum, probably as good an excuse as any to get comfortable with the curriculum and do some good while you're at it.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Excellent post!\n\nAlso, in many cities there are local emergency management agencies with volunteer ham radio services and urban search and rescue.\n\nThe ham groups don't usually require a licence but will train you for free to make licensing a breeze. And obviously you'll end up with key skills and amazing connections. Same with urban search and rescue.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "I joined my local volunteer force when i moved to a rural location. It was exactly as you described, OP. I got to meet the locals, learn the geography of the area, I stayed in shape, and I got to help people. No down side at all.", "score": 3 } ]
SUBMITTING THEORY FOR PEER REVIEW: The earth is not flat, nor round, it is bumpy.
EVIDENCE: * the ocean is never flat or round * land is never absolutely-positively-guaranteedly-completely flat or round * snow is too fluffy * ice EDIT: MORE EVIDENCE: * Mountains * Canyons * Plants * buildings * Rocks * Statues * bridges * hills * valleys
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[ { "body": "Seeing as I've tripped over the earth, I find myself agreeing with this theory. Also, I have marbles, which are well recognised as perfectly round, and they don't have skyscrapers or mountains on them.\n\nTheory approved. ", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Heresy! \n\nMy Globe is totally round and flat and I've been assured by a very helpful associate at Staples that it is a scale model of the earth. There's no bumps on it at all.", "score": 3 } ]
Sometimes I feel like I'm set up to fail.
I'm gay and I've seen a lot of the arguments for why it might be ok to be actively homosexual because it's about as bad as disobeying parents and the others and I don't agree. I think the Bible is pretty clear about it. So I try to resist sex altogether. I try to resist sloth, but there isn't a whole lot that really interests me and what does is usually TV shows. I try to avoid drunkenness, but I'm alone and bored most of the time and getting drunk is one of the few entertaining things that I can do. There are other sins, many. The point is, if I can't do any of these...what am I supposed to do? I try to show love and kindness and almost always it's taken advantage of and I get the same people coming to me every day or every couple of days for more and more when I can barely provide for myself. I'm just having a really difficult time being Christian I guess. I feel like I'm set up to fail. I'm given a list of things that are wrong, but that list is all I had. And now I'm trying to resist, but wtf am I supposed to do without those things? Am I supposed to sit around all day and night and read the Bible? I can accept that as an answer, except when I've tried my mind runs away from me. I start thinking about other stuff and I ended up reading entire pages and none of it sticks and I have to go back and read the page again. When I do fail I feel awful. Jesus is supposed to be this amazing thing in my life, but since I've become Christian I've never felt worse about myself.
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[ { "body": "“This life therefore is not righteousness, but growth in righteousness, not health, but healing, not being but becoming, not rest but exercise. We are not yet what we shall be, but we are growing toward it, the process is not yet finished, but it is going on, this is not the end, but it is the road. All does not yet gleam in glory, but all is being purified.” - Martin Luther\n\n", "score": 18 }, { "body": "Thanks, for what is clearly an honest post from the heart. I think we all feel like this sometimes. Probably no single comment will answer all your questions. \n\nI would simply say this. You are not alone. \n\nGet out and have some fun. I don't doubt that God is working something out in your life that may not be obvious now.\n\nPlease don't stay inside reading your bible while there are people out here that need you.\n", "score": 8 }, { "body": "It sounds like you are *forever alone*. \" “It is not good for the man to be alone....\" Gen. 2:18. As difficult as it is, being in fellowship with one another for the purpose of \"rejoicing with those who rejoice and weeping with those who weep\" is desired by God. I would look at Acts 2:42-47 to get an idea of the relationships you need to strive to create with other believers. \nAnd one big encouragement for people like myself who \"can never get it together\": we don't have to have it all together here on earth. We are not made holy and righteous... We are *being* made holy Heb 10:14.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Honestly that is a very healthy feeling.\n\n \"I feel like I'm set up to fail. I'm given a list of things that are wrong, but that list is all I had. And now I'm trying to resist, but wtf am I supposed to do without those things?\"\n\nBeg, cry, and incessantly ask God to conform your heart to one that looks like Jesus'. There are periods in my life where I will absolutely HATE reading the Bible and praying. Then along comes the harvest for a few months or so and I kid you not, reading the Word and talking with God are literally my most favorite things. I will stay home - I will abstain from friends not because I like them any less but because I'd RATHER stay and contemplate God. The dry periods are hard. Especially with the temptation to sin. Sin attempts to satisfy this need in your heart for pleasure, but it doesn't and it ultimately leads to destruction. \n\nGod sees your tiny endeavors as tremendous. Ransack the Bible to the best of your ability and pray without ceasing that God would help. You really don't need to know exactly what to pray.. . Sorry you sound a lot like me but God came in ways greater than I ever imagined because I stuck with it. I'm praying for you.\n", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Hang in there. \n\nI suggest thinking and praying about what ministries you might like to do in your life ahead, in line with your spiritual gifts and natural abilities - how you can advance the kingdom of God, in ways that you can really get passionate about, and find interesting, and are naturally willing to work toward. Once you have a sense of direction, you can start to willingly use your days in that direction. That can help reduce the times of boredom. \n\n\n\n\n", "score": 5 }, { "body": "There are other ways to enjoy life without falling into sin. Sit with friends and family, and think about the smaller things in life, the extrapolate on that.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "This exactly why I stopped being a christian. I was raised christian, and was extremely devout till my mid twenties. No matter what I did, how much I prayed, how much I read the Bible or how often I went to church, I was still guilty and sinful.\n\nSo you know what? I got tired of it. Tired of the guilt, the failure, the pressure. I realized that I didn't believe in a god that would want me to always feel that way. I wasn't productive, I wasn't doing anything, and I certainly wasn't happy. So I stopped. I left the church and found my own belief. A belief in myself.\n\nBe a good person. Do what makes you happy. Always help others. Be loving, kind and encouraging. These are the things to do to be happy, and you're born with them. We all are. Be yourself.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "The others have given you a lot of good advice, and a lot of encouraging words. I hope you see that people care about you, even though they don't know you. Jesus and God love you in whatever state you come to them, and Jesus will continue to love you through all of your struggles and pains.\n\nAdvice: Don't go through this alone. Find people who believe that you feel you can trust, and just talk to them and be with them. Growth is hard and painful, but we don't have to grow by ourselves.", "score": 3 } ]
/r/Politics, how can you blast Fox News for making up stories, and then turn around and upvote crap like this?
http://www.addictinginfo.org/2012/08/14/romney-broke-the-law-by-raising-money-from-foreign-donors-should-he-be-disqualified/ This story, which currently sits on the front page, is just as bad as claiming Obama wasn't born in the US. The article is entirely speculative, yet the title and content of the article are completely accusatory. There is absolutely no factual basis for the claims made in that article, yet it's been upvoted high enough for people to read the title and believe it. This is absolutely no better than Fox News suggesting that Obama is a pedophile because he's taken pictures with kids, you're just picking and choosing which bias is okay, when none should be at all. Luckily, a lot of comments in that thread call out the article as pure, speculative BS, but I guarantee there are people who now believe this. This isn't okay, as it only helps to lower the level of political discourse.
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[ { "body": "Because people tend to see problems with the things they disagree with not the things they want to believe are true.\n\nYoure right its completely speculative. For instance it is not illegal to raise money from American citizens living abroad, and there are quite a few living in London and Israel.\n\nPlus from what I hear Obama has done the same - ie its a completely one sided argument blinded by bias.\n\nGood point but prepare to be downvoted. \n\nEdit: Punctuation ", "score": 12 }, { "body": "Did you see the top comments including mine? They pointed out that the story is indeed BS - this kind of self-correction will never happen at Fox who actually double down many times on false stories.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "You might be misunderstanding why people upvote. They don't just upvote because they want it to get to the front page and they want to pass it off as facts, but maybe they do agree with it, maybe they think it's funny (I sure did) or maybe they do want more attention drawn to it to promote more people to join the discussion as more people would be likely to see it. Don't just assume it is because all of /r/politics agrees with it. \n ", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Part is to blame that people don't read the actual artical, only the headline and assume the case was made.\n\nIt is the failure of the hive mind to assume that all members of the mind are equal. We need to keep pointing out crap with logic and working to downvote it.", "score": 3 } ]
I just picked up a CM Spawn and need a mouse pad to match it.
I just got the mouse today and love how it feels but I need a new mouse pad. The one I'm using is an ancient allsop that is probably as old as I am and frayed all to hell. I have one of those pullout trays on my desk and still have the mouse pad flipped vertically. I've done a little reading but I need a high quality cloth mouse pad that's pretty small. I want one that's going to last me and not be frayed in a month, but it also needs to be $20 or less. I've seen there are bigger mouse pads, which I guess I could just put my keyboard on top of, but it really doesn't matter. As long as it fits in the keyboard tray and fulfills my other requirements, I'm good. Any recommendations?
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[ { "body": "Steelseries QCK mousepad, i use the QCK+ thats the XXL version but they have smaller ones all of which are under $20 on newegg", "score": 6 }, { "body": "C4 ngen 04. \n\nIts high quality. It will last longer than any cloth (some people have had theirs for 6+ years). It tracks better than cloth (tracks like a hard pad). It is less than 0.5mm thick so you can put your keyboard on it. You can order a GIANT one and cut it into smaller ones. It has lower friction than a cloth pad. Washable with tap water. \n\nDownsides:\nIncreased friction when it gets dirty. (give it a wet wipe)\nImperfections in your desk will show through", "score": 3 }, { "body": "My apologies in advance for the Australian link, but I am very happy with my [\"Razer Goliathus- Fragged Extended Mousemat\"](http://www.scorptec.com.au/computer/43469-rz-golia-f-ctl-ext-r). ", "score": 3 } ]
Graduate Schools for Planetary Science
Hello! I am a senior in college and am looking at graduate schools for planetary science. I was wondering if you guys knew of any schools? I have been looking but I wanted to see if I was missing any. Thanks! Edit: Schools I'm looking at right now: U of Arkansas, U of Arizona, Wesleyan, U of Hawaii, U of Wyoming, U of North Dakota, and a program in Europe called Astromundus.
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[ { "body": "Here's a list I put together a year ago: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0AmBP968NTOn2dFpEVXMzSThWV1JOb0JwYkVZQ3JwWmc. Hope it's helpful. \n\nI graduated in 2009 with a PhD in planetary science from U of AZ.", "score": 4 } ]
Help me build a Gaming Rig. (U.S. <$2,000. preferably $1,500.)
Hello, This will be the first computer I will have ever built. I mainly want it for gaming. I'd like to be able to run new games at high resolution for at least a year or two. I will not need an OS as I can get that very cheap through work. I will however need a mouse, a keyboard, and a monitor. I would like to be able to run dual graphics cards at some point, so I would like the option to add a second in the future. I have looked on Newegg a bit at mobos, but I feel fairly ignorant to what would be best. I would also like to be able to upgrade the pc fairly easily in the future, so ensuring parts are customizable in the future is important to me. Thank you for any help and suggestions you may have. Let me know if I can offer any additional information.
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[ { "body": "Here is a basic one I threw together, there are probably plenty of improvements to make but it's a pretty good build none the less.\n\n[PCPartPicker part list](http://pcpartpicker.com/p/eEbv) / [Price breakdown by merchant](http://pcpartpicker.com/p/eEbv/by_merchant/) / [Benchmarks](http://pcpartpicker.com/p/eEbv/benchmarks/)\n\nType|Item|Price\n:----|:----|:----\n**CPU** | [Intel Core i5-3570K 3.4GHz Quad-Core Processor](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/intel-cpu-bx80637i53570k) | $189.99 @ Microcenter \n**Motherboard** | [Gigabyte GA-Z77X-UD5H ATX LGA1155 Motherboard](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/gigabyte-motherboard-gaz77xud5h) | $169.98 @ Amazon \n**Memory** | [G.Skill Ripjaws X Series 8GB (2 x 4GB) DDR3-1600 Memory](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/gskill-memory-f312800cl8d8gbxm) | $56.99 @ Newegg \n**Storage** | [Samsung Spinpoint F3 1TB 3.5\" 7200RPM Internal Hard Drive](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/samsung-internal-hard-drive-hd103sj) | $89.99 @ Newegg \n**Storage** | [Crucial M4 128GB 2.5\" Solid State Disk](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/crucial-internal-hard-drive-ct128m4ssd2cca) | $104.64 @ Amazon \n**Video Card** | [EVGA GeForce GTX 670 2GB Video Card](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/evga-video-card-02gp42678kr) | $407.99 @ Newegg \n**Case** | [NZXT Tempest EVO ATX Mid Tower Case](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/nzxt-case-tevo001bk) | $119.98 @ Newegg \n**Power Supply** | [Corsair 750W ATX12V / EPS12V Power Supply](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/corsair-power-supply-cmpsu750hx) | $104.99 @ NCIX US \n**Monitor** | [Asus VH236H 23.0\" Monitor](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/asus-monitor-vh236h) | $149.98 @ NCIX US \n**Keyboard** | [Microsoft SIDEWINDER X4 Wired Gaming Keyboard](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/microsoft-keyboard-jqd00001) | $47.52 @ B&H \n**Mouse** | [Logitech G9x Wired Laser Mouse](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/logitech-mouse-910001152) | $62.97 @ Amazon \n | | **Total**\n | Prices include shipping and discounts when available. | $1505.02\n | Generated by PCPartPicker 2012-08-14 18:52 EDT-0400 |", "score": 3 } ]
Hey everyone. So, I work in an environment where I help out lots of people my age, including cute girls. I'd like to ask out one of them, but it seems inappropriate to ask them out while I'm helping them. Is there any way for me to do this while still remaining professional?
EDIT: For clarification, I work in IT. So it's not like I'll lose a license or anything. Jeeze guys.
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[ { "body": " What do you do for these people. I only ask because some cases it can be confused with you taking advantage of the situation. ", "score": 3 } ]
Have you voted yet today?
The Republican Senate primary is not the only race on the ballot. There are important primary elections in many races, including Senate District 6 and many Assembly districts. Learn about who is on the ballot and get to the polls before they close at 8!
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[ { "body": "Be aware that you are not allowed to vote in the senate primary and then also vote in a democratic primary. You must choose either republican or democrat.", "score": 3 } ]
What is the point of partitioning data when building a model?
I don't entirely understand why one would want to partition their data into Training, Testing, and Validation sets. What is the point of doing this? If each subset is a representative random sample, then shouldn't the results of the model be the same in each set? Also, if the largest subset is supposed to be the training data (usually 70%), then it doesn't really bring down computing time by all that much. Why couldn't I just build my model using the entire data set and then test it on a subset of that?
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[ { "body": "Training sets are used to avoid overfitting the model. That is, having the model represent the particular data rather than the underlying pattern. Overfitted models do not generalize well to novel data, thereby reducing their validity. Methodologically, if a model is tested on the same data it was constructed with, is the model really being tested?", "score": 7 } ]
(Spoilers All) Do you think Tywin knew about Jamie and Cersei
He was a really smart guy, shouldn't he have figured it out, I mean even Kevan knew by the end, or do you think he thought too highly of of them to even consider that they were engaging in incestous acts? Basicaly a friend and I were discussing this earlier today and he thinks Tywin knew but did not think about it too much, choosing to ignore it, while I maintained that Tywin thought his kids(atleast the twins) were much more noble than that and there is no way he thought his kids could do something like that
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[ { "body": "I think he suspected him at least, because he definitely actively tried to keep them apart. While Cercei was at court in KL, Jamie was at Casterly Rock. When Jamie joined the white cloaks, Tywin sent Cercei back to Casterly Rock.", "score": 29 }, { "body": "Kevan knew because Stannis had been spreading the rumor all over the kingdoms, and by that point Cersei had also been arrested on the accusation that she'd screwed several other guys. So it was not really the logical leap that it would have been earlier on. \n\nI'm not sure that Tywin could have known. You can be really, really cunning, but it can still be hard to imagine an outlandish scenario like, \"Oh, maybe my son and daughter are having an adulterous, incestuous affair behind the king's back.\" It's not something you would even suspect without pretty telling evidence to start from.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "I remember them saying Tywin burned Stannis's letter a few chapters after Tyrion said not to in KL because it would show they are afraid of what the message was saying.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Everyone seems to misunderstand Tywin. At youth, he was forced to take control of his house due to his fathers incompetence, and suffered throughout his life for it. His fathers affair after his mothers death is a compliant reason for not marrying again. His anger at oppurtunists like his mothers whore is the primary reason for Tyrions marriage punishment. Reaving the river lands and butchering children? All part of his experience that everything is permitted for his goals. He destroyed the Reynes, and half the kingdom respected and feared him for it. Like a machine, Tymin is a hard motherfucker who gets shit done.", "score": 3 } ]
Refinance question - 10 years left with a super high interest rate
Hey Reddit. My parents got divorced a long time ago (over 15 years ago) and my Mom kept the house. She has been struggling to pay the ~$950 mortgage due to a change of income. (All figures are from memory.) the interest rate is around 8% with about 10 years left. My Dad keeps suggesting she refinance, but my Mom insists he is being deceitful and is going to take the house. Basically both parent names are on the mortgage and she is afraid that if she refinances, he will somehow "screw" her out of the house. I am 21 and know nothing about these sorts of things. Please advise me on if and how this would be possible, and maybe a suggested route to reduce the payment. Thanks.
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[ { "body": "Unless it got refinanced and she got taken off of the note, that would be the only way she'd get \"screwed\" here.\n\nAt 8%, she likely definitely needs to look into refinancing. She needs to contact multiple lenders and get good faith estimates to calculate the cost of refinancing, along with what her new payment will be.", "score": 6 } ]
I'm doing a bit better, I guess
It's been 3 days since I've wanted to commit suicide. That's like a new record. For the past 3 days, I've actually eaten more than a few hundred calories. I feel better. But for some reason, I can't shake the feeling that I *want* to be depressed. I can't shake the feeling that I *deserve* it. I can't shake the feeling that this is the calm before the storm. This may be the best I've felt in a long while, but it doesn't feel "right" to me. Maybe I'm not used to happiness, or eating normally, or sleeping normally. This is making me feel uneasy. I feel like depressed me was who I am and right now I feel like I'm faking it.
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[ { "body": "I often feel this way. As strange as it sounds, the depression can become comforting, for lack of better words. You're so used to it as it is how you deal with whatever is going on in life. So not having it there, can feel weird for a lot of reasons.\n\nOne thing I found for me is part of the uneasiness was realizing that I was scared to do anything about my depression. And not feeling so overwhelmed by my depression meant that I was closer to taking that first step to addressing the issue in the bigger picture (for me, that meant therapy). And honestly, I used that as an excuse not to go for a while. I'm not saying this is what is happening to you. Just that the unfamiliar can be scary. But over time, I've also learned it can be exhilarating. Letting go and accepting that I don't have the kind of control I want over whether or not this is a calm before the storm. Accepting that when the next storm hits, I can get through it because I've been through other storms.\n\nYou definitely do not deserve to feel depressed or suicidal. Just enjoy that you're feeling good. You mentioned getting back some of your appetite...just keep it going. Go out and get something you know you like the taste of and just appreciate how good it tastes. :)", "score": 4 } ]
Probability puzzle debunked?
I was debating with some coworkers about a probability puzzle we were discussing. It is #4 on this page, the one about aces in bridge hands: http://www.datagenetics.com/blog/may12012/index.html my one of my coworkers is convinced he has debunked it. This is the email he sent out this morning: >This finally occurred to me last night after excessive thought: The suit of an ace in a hand is fixed regardless of whether it is revealed. > >A hand with an unknown ace must contain an ace of some fixed, secret suit, just as a hand with the ace of spades must contain the ace of spades. > >Thus it is invalid to consider all hands with an ace as possible hands containing the unknown ace, and instead we end up with the same calculation for all hands containing the unknown suit as we do for spades. > >To get fancy, the total probability of MA(multi ace hand) given A(ace in hand), where the ace in hand could be H, D, C, or S (heart, diamond, club, spade) is: > >P(MA|A) = P(H)P(MA|H) + P(D)P(MA|D) + P(C)P(MA|C) + P(S)P(MA|S) > = 0.25P(MA|H) + 0.25P(MA|D) + 0.25P(MA|C) + 0.25P(MA|S) > = 0.25(4 P(MA|S)) > = P(MA|S) > >Thus P(MA|A) = P(MA|S), the probability of multiple aces conditioned on any ace is equal to the probability of multiple aces conditioned of the ace of spades. What does /r/math think?
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[ { "body": "The error is in \n\n> P(MA|A) = P(H)P(MA|H) + P(D)P(MA|D) + P(C)P(MA|C) + P(S)P(MA|S)\n\nThis formula is only valid if H, D, C, and S are disjoint events (whose union is A). They aren't disjoint in this case.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "You can partition all bridge hands into 16 subsets, which I'll call Hxxxx. H0000 are the hands with no aces, H1000 are the hands containing only the ace of clubs, H0100 are the hands containing only the ace of diamonds, and so on, with order Clubs, Diamonds, Hearts, Spades. H0011 are all the hands containing just the aces of hearts and spades.\n\nYou can combine these 16 sets into 5 sets based on the counts of aces. \n\n J0 = H0000, |J0| = 48C13\n J1 = H1000 U H0100 U H0010 U H0001, |J1| = 4 * 48C12\n J2 = H1100 U H1010 U ... U H0011, |J2| = 6 * 48C11\n J3 = H1110 U H1101 U H1011 U H0111, |J3| = 4 * 48C10\n J4 = H1111, |J4| = 48C9\n\nThe first question asks for (# of hands with at least 2 aces) / (# of hands with at least one ace), which is (|J2| + |J3| + |J4|)/(|J1| + |J2| + |J3| + |J4|), or 1 - |J1|/(52C13 - |J0|), which is 1 - (4 \\* 48C12)/(52C13 - 48C13) = 1 - 278674137872/442085310304 = 5359/14498.\n\nThe second question asks for (# of hands with ace of spades + at least one more eace)/(# of hands with the ace of spades), or (|H0011|+|H0101| + |H0111| + |H1001| + |H1011| + |H1101| + |H1111|) / (|H0001| + |H0011|+|H0101| + |H0111| + |H1001| + |H1011| + |H1101| + |H1111|), which is equal to 1 - |H0001| / (# of hands with ace of spades), which equals 1 - 48C12 / 51C12 = 1 - 69668534468 / 158753389900 = 11686/20825.\n\nThese answers are different numbers.", "score": 3 } ]
What do you guys think about drug testing for those on welfare?
I go back and forth on it. On one hand, it can be discriminatory against the poor class, which is the bulk of people on welfare. So it can be used as just another way to keep down the middle class. But at the same time, I've seen people who use welfare and charity like that not to help their families, but to get a bunch of shit that doesn't matter or actually causes more problem. (my very religious family does lots of charity type work. Most of the people we help just use money we give them for drugs or alcohol or cigarettes. Their kids are usually a second thought) also, if you haven't been doing any illegal drug usage, you'll pass just fine... But what about the dignity of a person? They're already desperately poor, this is just kicking them while they're down... But why waste money on people who will waste it on drugs and alcohol rather than for bettering / moving forward in life? See, I go back and forth on it. But that's about all I know/have seen about welfare and such so I probably don't know the whole story. What are the big political/social/etc reasons that make you for or against drug testing?
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[ { "body": "They tried it in Florida. 97.4% passed, and the ACLU is currently suing the state on the grounds that mandatory drug testing is a violation of a persons constitutional rights.\n\nMillions of tax dollars are being wasted just to \"save\" money on welfare.\n\nThe system is being abused from the top down, not the bottom up.", "score": 21 }, { "body": "Drug testing of welfare recipients is just a cheap political ploy and vilification of the poor, it's always costs more money than it saves.\n\nDrug testing should always come with *due process* - if at all. If the agency has reasonable belief / evidence that the person isn't looking for a job after some duration for whatever reason, then they should rectify *that*.", "score": 20 }, { "body": "100% against, for several reasons.\n\n* It furthers the whole punitive stance of the War on Drugs, rather than taking a more sane harm reduction approach. It also singles out a particular population and implicitly assumes that they are guilty of something without due process or probable cause.\n* The act of submitting to a drug test inherently robs a person of their dignity. Generally speaking you are being forced to urinate into a cup and, if any sort of chain of custody is being observed, you are doing this in the presence of some stranger in a position of authority. \n* Drug tests, in general, are pretty much cheating in my view. Using the employment example; it is one thing to have a policy requiring that I submit to a test, but it should be because a reasonable suspicion exists. In other words, if I am showing up on time every day, doing the work I am paid to do competently that should be enough. \n\nJust off the top of my head. ", "score": 13 }, { "body": "I think it would cost more than it would save - people like to talk about how welfare is \"abused\" but there are far more people unable to get help then there are who abuse the system. \n\nThe only way it might be OK, was if they were then offered rehab free of charge. Otherwise, you're penalizing someone for having a medical/mental health problem.\n", "score": 11 }, { "body": "They are out of work, living in poverty, with no hope and no future... and they should be tested for drugs? sure after the police, bankers and politicians.", "score": 11 }, { "body": "Surprisingly(?) most will pass. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/18/us/no-savings-found-in-florida-welfare-drug-tests.html ", "score": 11 }, { "body": "My biggest issue with it is purely economical. Drug tests are expensive and can be pretty inaccurate. I have friends who smoke cannabis, and though I don't find anything wrong with it, jobs that drug test do. And yet, they remain gainfully employed because every drug test is beatable. So we waste a bunch of money on tests that aren't accurate enough to solve the problem we're trying to solve. I don't believe it belittles the person in any way, though. While the downtrodden and disenfranchised deserve the help of their fellow man, that doesn't mean they can act irresponsibly while receiving that help.", "score": 9 }, { "body": "Noooo! Who gives a crap if poor people smoke/do drugs? We don't drug test students receiving student loans either and some of them are using your taxpaye money to buy/use drugs as well... ", "score": 8 }, { "body": "It's already illegal to do drugs. Taking away the minimal life support we provide to the lowest-income citizens isn't going to stop addicts from getting their fix, and it's humiliating for the families who desperately need assistance. \n\n\nIt's costly and, just a few months ago, testing like OP is talking about in Florida was [found to be unconstitutional](http://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/27/us/court-rules-florida-governors-drug-testing-order-unconstitutional.html), since it is an unreasonable search and seizure.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "\"Number 2: You have the right to food money \n\nProviding of course you \n\nDon't mind a little \n\nHumiliation, investigation \n\nAnd if you cross your fingers \n\nRehabilitation\"\n\n-\"Know Your Rights\" by the Clash, 1982\n\nThey are being sarcastic, of course. They're aren't in favor of humiliating the poor. They sum up my feelings pretty well. Great song too. (The other rights in the song are the right not be killed unless it was done by an aristocrat or a policeman and the right to free speech as long as you're not dumb enough to actually try it.) \n\n ", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Alcohol is far more destructive and prevalent, should anyone who has a glass of wine be denied welfare too? Anyone on perscription medication? It's a huge waste of money, takes money away from the children of welfare recipients and is unfairly targeting those who use marijuana since the hard drugs are usually out of a persons system in 72 hours. ", "score": 7 }, { "body": "If I was poor I'd probably want to smoke a j occasionally too, as I'm sure being poor sucks. I don't really care that much, I'm still paying taxes either way. If you start drug testing welfare peeps, unemployment is probably next and so on. ", "score": 6 }, { "body": "A few points:\n\n * First and foremost this was tested in Florida already and was essentially a failure.\n\n * Drug testing is essentially marijuana testing. Table here shows how long each drug stays in your system. Most are out in a few hours, some a few days. They could solve the issue by hair testing but this is more expensive.\n\n * Commonly alcohol is left out as it is legal. So, someone could smoke 1 cannabis cigarette and be invalidated, but drink every day and be OK? Ditto for abusing prescription drugs.\n\n * Aside of the above issues it is an invasion of privacy and abuse of individual rights. The tax payer savings are not there. Spend the money elsewhere, such as welfare fraud and leave individuals to pursue life as they please.\n\n", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Maybe instead of always harping on people receiving welfare we actually try and do something to help them other than financial assistance? Educate them, help them land jobs, and not stick them all in public housing. \n\n\"Oh, but that's wasting money on the poor. They'll just turn around and use it on drugs.\" I'm pretty sure most people would rather not be living in a shithole and addicted to drugs. Rehabilitation and support would help with drug issues. Not entirely, but it would help.\n\nYou need to fix the problems at the root, not just patch up and try to fix it all afterwards. Unfortunately, the U.S. is too conservative to do anything like this, and anybody who would preach helping those on welfare would be labelled as a \"commie\". Nobody wants to be poor.", "score": 3 } ]
I just feel like being spiteful, down vote away guys...
Hey reddit Well, quite frankly, it's been a shit day. Ya know, typical day at the office, dealing with the perverts, sluts and various array of dickheads. Then, to top it all off I find out my close friend and co-worker is pregnant. Im overcome with emotion for her, then. Something dark and somewhat horrifying seeps in.. I want her to lose it. It's a horrible thing to say, and I'm sickened with myself for saying such a thing! I mean, why shouldn't a heavy drinker, who smokes weed and takes cocaine and ketamine on a weekly basis get pregnant for the 3RD TIME and decide she wants to keep this one, unlike the other 2 she had aborted because she was lazy with her pill? Who am I to judge her, it's up to her when she goes outside for her 3rd cigarette for the day. It's wrong of me to be envious, that her and her on/off BF should have a child when they are already living with her parents be because she's too busy spending money on drugs to rent a house. I guess couples like me and my boyfriend will have to wait a few years before we even get the double blue line, it's ok, we have thousands of £££ to spend on IVF and treatments, so why am I getting worked up over nothing?! Silly me... Rant over. I sure hope you guys are good with sarcasm.... X
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[ { "body": "When my husband and I see terrible parents (those who don't notice their 3 yo is running around a parking lot, the mother who screamed 'you little motherfucker!' at her son at the zoo)... I say to him, \"See? That's who God gives children to.\" Just as a gallows humor attempt. It helps, for some reason, don't know why. Seriously, though, maybe you're in her life because you're an example of what a parent should be... you never know.", "score": 11 }, { "body": "I know how you feel. It's hard to see the scummy family at the restaurant with their 3 kids and 2 babies, allowing the kids to run around unchecked, acting like obnoxious slobs, etc. It's just not fair.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I'm with you, sickens me when nature doesn't give any fucks about who gets to have kids. I know so many wonderful people who are struggling with infertility while pieces of garbage keep procreating, drink/smoke/drug while pg, and can't even discipline them for anything....ugh. It's perfectly healthy to feel angry but maybe you should see a therapist to see if you can find ways to help you during those difficult times. and BIG HUGS!", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Rant away! I have to spend my day helping families like this. Was never an issue until infertility became my issue. Meanwhile I still have to teach parents how to parent and dance around the fact that medication won't fix the effects of shitty parenting (I'm not anti-med by any means, just anti-shitty-parenting).", "score": 4 } ]
[Build Complete] What do you think?
Just waiting on the parts to arrive so I can put them all together and post the picture! Holy crap I can't wait lol... Anyway, any comments on the choices for the build? [PCPartPicker part list](http://pcpartpicker.com/p/eD5n) / [Price breakdown by merchant](http://pcpartpicker.com/p/eD5n/by_merchant/) / [Benchmarks](http://pcpartpicker.com/p/eD5n/benchmarks/) Type|Item|Price :----|:----|:---- **CPU** | [AMD FX-6100 3.3GHz 6-Core Processor](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/amd-cpu-fd6100wmgusbx) | $119.99 @ Newegg **CPU Cooler** | [Xigmatek GAIA SD1283 56.3 CFM CPU Cooler](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/xigmatek-cpu-cooler-gaiasd1283) | $29.99 @ Newegg **Motherboard** | [ASRock 990FX Extreme3 ATX AM3+/AM3 Motherboard](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/asrock-motherboard-990fxextreme3) | $104.99 @ Newegg **Memory** | [G.Skill Ripjaws Series 8GB (2 x 4GB) DDR3-1600 Memory](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/gskill-memory-f312800cl9d8gbrl) | $45.99 @ Newegg **Storage** | [OCZ Agility 3 120GB 2.5" Solid State Disk](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/ocz-internal-hard-drive-agt325sat3120g) | $79.99 @ NCIX US **Video Card** | [XFX Radeon HD 7850 2GB Video Card](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/xfx-video-card-fx785acnfc) | $234.99 @ Newegg **Power Supply** | [Raidmax 700W ATX12V / EPS12V Power Supply](http://pcpartpicker.com/part/raidmax-power-supply-rx700ac) | $55.98 @ Newegg **Other**| 1 x ARCTIC COOLING MX-2 Thermal Compound|- **Other**| RAIDMAX Skyline ATX-948WS Black / Silver SECC ATX Mid Tower Computer Case|- **Other**| 1.5 Terabyte External Hard Drive|- **Other**| 500G Hard Drive from the old CPU|- | | **Total** | Prices include shipping and discounts when available. | $671.92 | Generated by PCPartPicker 2012-08-14 14:49 EDT-0400 |
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[ { "body": "You are showing how brave you are by posting a AMD build in a subreddit where Intel is worshiped. No offense redditors but there is still AMD and it is pretty good for the money (I am an 2500K user), but to your build, I like it. I am waiting for Pile Driver to come out so I can get the 6 core. Can't wait to see build pics. Hope you enjoy it.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "I'm suprised more people don't use the 6100, it's a great processor for the cash.\nBut yeah, as others have said - Raidmax power supplies would probably be removed by the bomb squad in Afghanistan, let's just say they aren't renowned for their quality and reliability.\n\nHowever, since you're going to be using far less than 700w (even at full load) the chances are you'll never be drawing enough watts to pop it - but I would be wary of the voltage jitter.\n\nI would test the system for stability once you've got it, and make sure there isn't even a hint of shitty voltages, or else replace it with a known good PSU.", "score": 3 } ]
Did anyone notice this?
After downloading both songs from the episode Incedium. I realized that Jake's tribute to the flame princess was almost the same as finn's song, he just replaced "fire" with "hole".
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[ { "body": "I know this is rude and I'm sorry for saying this, but how did you not notice this? I thought it was pretty obvious. ", "score": 5 } ]
IWTL how to improve my speaking voice
I come from a family of very LOUD individuals. Unfortunately that physical trait eluded me and I am somewhat soft spoken. When I raise my voice to be heard I feel like I'm shouting and it doesn't come across naturally. I want to learn how to improve my voice projection so I'm not drowned out by ambient noise anymore.
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[ { "body": "I found [this article by Toastmasters](http://www.toastmasters.org/199-YourSpeakingVoice) very informative and helpful.\n\nThe most important thing: Don't expect changes to quickly. While it may be easy to follow the instructions and have good results at home, application IRL is more difficult due to many distractions/anxiety.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Liam Gallagher sings with his arms behind his back to allow for a better projection of his voice. Once I realised my posture was somewhat hunched, I straightened myself out, and with it my voice was less strained and that little bit clearer. Just to test, [try this out and see if it makes a difference.](http://www.econoco.com/images/display/sym-c.jpg)", "score": 3 } ]
Whatever happened to the "sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me" thing
Seems like folks are pretty up in arms about the statements that inconsequential people make. It's one thing for the President to make offensive statements but what's the deal with folks getting prickly?
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[ { "body": "It doesn't add up. See, sticks and stones can break bones, but a sword can kill you, right? And we all know the pen is mightier than the sword. And pens write words. Therefore words hold a much higher danger than sticks or stones.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "Because words suck when used in a certain way. It doesn't really feel good when some tells you that you should kill yourself/burn in hell/are a terrible person/etc.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "I think it's because back when it was said all the time people actually thought that in general words don't hurt. You really didn't get in trouble for calling people names. But since the whole bullying revolution people are starting to tell their kids that words do hurt. Now people are in serious trouble for calling people names. Then again i could be completely wrong, because the only degree I have is in bullshit ", "score": 3 } ]
Considering getting a ferret...
As the titles says, I've never owned a ferret before, but I'm seriously considering one. I've been doing some research on them, I've browsed a few websites and have read Ferrets for Dummies. I understand they are a huge responsibility, and the cost associated with them, etc... I have a few concerns though, namely I've heard that they can smell really bad. I know that a good diet, as well as not bathing them too often, cleaning their cage often, are all factors that can help reduce smell. All that aside, how bad would an altered ferret smell on average? Some say you get used to the smell quickly, but then guest still smell them... Anyway, any other deciding factors, advice, tidbits, whatever, would be appreciated.
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[ { "body": "Hi there ! You've done your research alright, congrats ;) ! \"Ferrets for Dummies\" is in my opinion the best book on the subject so good choice. For the smell, I owe 3 ferrets : 2 males and 1 female. My one male Whiskey smells like honey, I love his smell ! Really sweet. He used to smell pretty bad when his hormones appeared. Until he was neutered and then it just stopped. My other male, Koda (angora) still smells a bit because he was just neutered a month ago. But it doesn't stinks. And my 3rd one Cookie (cute little female) doesn't smell whatsoever. It is indeed necessary to change the litter every week, and to clean the poos everyday (especially if it's hot !). But really, the smell is really ok =)) ! They do need lots of attention, and will love you to play with them in their time out. I have them almost a year now, and I couldn't live without ! Good luck ! If you need to know anything else, let me know (not that I'm an expert, but I've learned a lot).", "score": 5 }, { "body": "1. Wash all bedding once a week, this is important as the oils from their skin will rub off onto fabrics and make them smell\n\n2. Scoop out the litter box once per day and use a clumping litter. You CAN use cat litters, just not clay or any kind with \"crystals\". I prefer [Shweat Scoop](http://swheatscoop.com/)\n\n3. Feed a [decent diet](http://moredooks.herobo.com/search.php?chart=ferret)\n\nAnd you won't even notice the smell until you stick your face into their fur.\n\nAlso as you said, don't give them soapy baths. You can give them plain water baths pretty much whenever you like, this helps get dust and what-not off their fur without drying out the skin (which in turn causes the skin to over-produce oils to compensate, which makes them stink)\n\nDoing the above and they won't smell any more than a dog or cat. Diet is truly key, though. Feed a raw diet or [Wysong Epigen 90](http://www.wysong.net/products/ferret-epigen-90.php) if you can.", "score": 3 } ]
Still New to Homebrewing... What Causes a Blow-off? Cause I Haven't had Anything Close.
I just finished making only my 6th beer. This latest one I'm fermenting in a 6 gallon Better Bottle and was told I needed a blow-off because it wasn't enough room. Well I filled it to just over 5 gallons, maybe 5.2 gallons and still have plenty of room. I mean my krausen is growing and looking great, but not close to blowing over the cap. Before I used a Northern Supply brew bucket and had tons of room. My question is, what causes one krausen to grow to massive proportions while others stay somewhat manageable? I am only doing either extract or (partial mash) mini-mash setups, no all-grain yet.
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[ { "body": "Vigorous fermentation with insufficient head-space to contain the krausen. I have blowoff on every beer I make.... I always use yeast starters & oxygenate with pure oxygen prior to pitching. I make 5 gallon batches in 6 gallon better bottles. If they made 7 gallon better bottles I would buy the crap out of them & then it would be significantly less likely that I would have blowoff issues.", "score": 7 } ]
Refinancing Help - Know a Few Things, Not Sure What Else to Consider?
Hey guys, So I'm trying to help my parents because their interest rate sucks. They currently have a 4.75% 15 yr fixed mortgage with a remaining principal balance of $121,000. Our house is worth around $300,000 so I think we have some leverage in refinancing. I've been on some websites looking at rates, but I really have no idea what I should be doing from there. I've been googling around and trying to figure out some things, but I'd rather get more information from someone's personal experience. My questions: * Should I just be going to some big banks around my neighborhood and get estimates from them? Should I scout out smaller banks/credit unions? * Anything I can be doing online? Checking my parents credit history/score? * Should I just go after a bank with no or small closing costs? * Is there anything such as a 10-year fixed rate, or are we limited to 30 year and 15 year? * Any tips/advice would be helpful. I printed a checklist of documents my parents should get and I think we will be going tomorrow.
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[ { "body": "\n\n >> Should I just be going to some big banks around my neighborhood and get estimates from them? Should I scout out smaller banks/credit unions?\n\nGo anywhere you think might do refinancing and get good faith estimates on the refi. You do not have to stick to local banks for this.\n\n>> Anything I can be doing online? Checking my parents credit history/score?\n\nThey will have to apply for refinancing online usually. I don't see the point in you personally checking their credit score. You're not a loan officer.\n\n>> Should I just go after a bank with no or small closing costs?\nYou need to do all the calculations. Just because it says no closing costs, doesn't mean there are no closing costs. Sometimes these costs get rolled into the loan. Other times, they offer a higher interest rate in lieu of no closing costs.\n>> Is there anything such as a 10-year fixed rate, or are we limited to 30 year and 15 year?\n\nI believe a 10 year is offered, but you probably won't save much over a 15.\n\n", "score": 3 } ]
us - Moral Values (5-10 min) - Jamie Luguri - .50/<4 min - >100, >95%
http://adf.ly/Bt42W DO NOT MISS THE CODE. It's on the page *after* the warm/cold sliders. You answer a question about how seriously you took the study and the code is below that.
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[ { "body": "What a stupid place to put a code... thanks for the warning.\n\nLooks like Qualtrics is working again too!", "score": 9 } ]
Theres some amazing deals on houses in mableton, is that because its a craphole?
The houses look great, but is the area/schools crap? Any reasoning for nice houses at such a cheap rate, besides a bad house market?
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[ { "body": "The further out you are from the perimeter, the cheaper the houses get and the worse the local economy gets. ", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I live in Mableton and have for about 20+ years. I love Mableton. \nIf you send me the addresses I can tell you what is good and bad. Also, if you are looking to buy then get a realtor. I suggest to you Wendy Bunch. She is an awesome realtor and has been specializing in the south Cobb area for many, many years.\n\nPros:\n* My area is awesome. We have sidewalks with people on them 24-7 and even a running club that uses it on the weekend.\n* I can walk to a nature park from my house.\n* Silver Comet Trail is 1.5 miles from my house.\n* Grocery stores are 1 mile from my house.\n* I work in Midtown and it is only 12 miles away. (24 min drive in the AM, 30 min drive home in the PM)\n* Growing population of 20-30 somethings because of the closeness to Atlanta.\n* Very diverse so if you don't like black, mexicans, africans, or any others then you won't like it.\n\nCons:\n* Schools: Most professional white people send their kids to private school once they hit middle school age. Whitefield is a big one around here.\n* I'm sure there are others but I'm tired of typing.\n\nIf you have any specific questions let me know, I'd be more than happy to help.\n\n", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Cobb County tends to have cheaper property values I'm pretty sure. But I can't tell you much about Mableton since I live in East Cobb. I don't really go around there much.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "It's a nice enough area depending on the particular location. The low prices might be because of the large amount of subdivisions that were built before and during the housing bust.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "It's 100% schools. We have been looking for a house for a year now. Anytime there is a decent house in a decent school district that we like, we end up competing with 2 or 3 other buyers. We have been out bid 4 times now. The best two districts in Smyrna/Mableton are Teasley and King Springs, but middle schools are crap and so is the high school. \n\nLook in 30082 and 30080, but since supply is historically low, be ready to fight for the good homes. Don't dick around and try to low ball offers, if you like the house figure out what you are willing to pay and offer that up front. We lost on house by $1500 when we were prepared to offer almost $4000 more. We got screwed by trying to get a deal and hoping that they were going to allow for more bidding.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I can't attest to the schools but the are is nice. It's quite and most neighbor hoods suffer from little crime. A lot of older black residents mixed with older white and some Hispanic families. There are some very rich neighborhoods around the area to so the area looks pretty nice. I take 20 into downtown every morning fr work and it's a breeze. What is it specifically you want to know?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I grew up in Mableton. Went to South Cobb high school. The only redeeming factor is it's only 10 minutes to downtown Atlanta. ", "score": 3 } ]
Two 21-year old girls in Miami next weekend - any suggestions?
My best friend and I will be in town Aug 23-27. I have been to Miami before, she has not. We'll be spending about half our time on the beach but would like suggestions on how to fill up the rest of our time. We're not interested in the tourist-y activities as I've done all of them on previous trips and she's just not into that. We'll be staying in South Beach at a pretty central location to most places of interest. Also, we are very much into getting a genuine 'local' experience/perspective of the city. So we would appreciate tips/suggestions for the following: - cheap restaurants, preferably ones that are not tailored for tourists/out of towners - good places to shop, privately owned stores or boutiques, etc. - clubs that play good hip-hop, RnB, reggae, etc Thank you all in advance!
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[ { "body": "God this thread is creepy. Check the [Miami New Times](http://www.miaminewtimes.com/events/search/date:%5B2012-08-18%5D/) for events. ", "score": 8 }, { "body": "Unfortunately, there aren't a whole lot of \"privately owned stores or boutiques\" on the beach. It's pretty touristy, and as you work your way south (down Ocean Drive or Collins) the stores become more and more overpriced, \"high-end fashion\"-esque. As for cheap/not touristy food, here are my suggestions:\n\nLa Sandwicherie (sandwiches, obviously. cheap. delivers)\n\nYummy (middle of the road in terms of price and quality, but I think it's the best chinese on the beach)\n\nYardbird (not cheap. Suuuuper delicious)\n\n\nDoraku on Lincoln Road has a really good happy hour on food and drinks from 5-7 every day. I wouldn't go there outside of happy hour, however.\n\nCheeseburger Baby (not too expensive, good drunk food. Delivers. Open until 5am)\n\nThe cafe at the Wolfsonian on 10th is really nice. One of the few calm, enjoyable locations in the heart of the beach. The coffee's fine. The book selection is pretty academic and specialized, but I like the atmosphere.\n\nI'll post more if/when I think of them.\n\nOh and I don't club, but I know the good dive bars if you're interested.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "It's been a while since I lived on the beach but there are plenty of great places to eat. I know Rok: BRGR just opened up 5800 sw 73rd st, Miami, FL. If you want a true south beach gem, go hit up Le Sandwichere on 14th http://www.lasandwicherie.com/ It is awesome! [Le Sandwicherie](http://www.lasandwicherie.com/)\n\nAnother good choice is Lime. Fresh, organic Mexican food.\n\nYou should just go to Yelp or Urbanspoon if you know what kind of food you are looking for.\n\nShopping, cant help you there. I do all my shopping online and avoid malls/etc like the plague. Good luck though.\n\nClubs..take your pick. You'll be fine, there is plenty of nightlife on SoBe as you know.", "score": 3 } ]
Serious question: How many of the men who use FADating have been successful?
This may stir the pot a bit but I always see about 10 male posts to every 1 female post and 9/10 of the male ones have zero comments. Are any of the guys here actually getting anywhere with the ladies?
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[ { "body": "I was semi-successful. We had a weird sort of quasi-relationship for a couple of months - neither of us wanted a long distance relationship but things kinda started heading that way. Things reached critical mass and we \"stopped talking\". We're still on good terms. We PM each other from time to time, I'm actually holding a postcard I got from her today. This all happened about a year ago, however. Things between us are awkward still because of the feelings involved and the distance between.\n\nWas there a legitimate relationship? No. Did we ever meet? No. I'd still consider it a success though. I met a wonderful person that's still, in a small way, an uplifting part of my life.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I met a girl on FAD that lived 20 minutes or so away from me. We talked for a while but it turned out she was a more than a little crazy, so I'd say the success was minimal.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "A little over 3 weeks ago I (male from Iceland) posted in this subreddit. A day later I got a PM from a Canadian girl (who had actually made a post here a few days earlier). At this point we've fallen hard for each other and have decided to meet up in a couple of months.\n\nSo, yeah. Pretty successful.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Also female here and went out with a fella. We sparked online, but in person it fell flat. Rather disappointing for both of us. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Not at all. Never had any luck and I'm not even sure why I'm still subscribed to this sub-Reddit. I'm too old and too weird to even be trying anymore. ", "score": 3 } ]
Ideas for a science themed weekend with my 4 year old son?
Trying to think of some basic experiments that we can do in the kitchen that will introduce physics and chemistry concepts to him. Any ideas?
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[ { "body": "Specific gravity? Float, sink, float oil on water. Try syrup. Food coloring. Make some crystals out of sugar so you can eat them. Make a volcano - one with a frame, so you can explain the vent, magma chamber, etc. Mix colors together. Get some plaster and make sidewalk chalk. Microwave things as experiments (grapes, marshmallows, etc.). Get a clear bowl, some normal bagged popcorn, and some oil, and let him watch it pop all over the place (cover the bowl so your wife doesn't get pissed). Tons of stuff man, the world is your oyster! ", "score": 4 } ]
You guys feel it, too, right?
That change? That tug? That pull? It's only just recently, starting maybe about a year ago, but it seems it's infectious. Strange encounters, and times where you are acting in full flow and only afterward realize what you did or said and maybe it seems a little nutty but harmlessly so? things have been getting aggressively playful, i feel. it's pretty.... beyond the words "beyond words"
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[ { "body": "I think the human race is coming of age, I feel the energy you're talking about and it is so much more than being in your early 20's. You're not alone either, plenty of people feel it. Though it is completely invisible to most of the world. ", "score": 15 }, { "body": "This is deffinately your brain maturing. I've started to notice that my thoughts have cleared up greatly after going through a few struggling years of psychological stress. Ever since highschool ended I felt like i'd be dead or homeless or in jail within a few years. Now, i've been through all those shitty situations that you're supposed to go through, (getting into fights with parents or employees, losing your job, losing friends, losing a girlfriend, not being able to meet people as well, being made fun of at a bar or concert, being seen as the awkward penguin). All these things suck but are meant to shake you up so that you can perceive yourself better. Now that I've been through it all I'm literally like \"Let's just see what happens if I say this, or do that\" and without giving a fuck I'm easily the dominate force of my own life, not other people. That's how it used to be. Also, my creativity has increased 10 fold ever since I started going through strong hallucinations on DMT and LSD. The fact that I know nothing about my surroundings has made me go from being an athiest to How the fuck is this shit even possible? Enjoy the ride, my friend.", "score": 15 }, { "body": "It's not just young people. I'll be 39 next Fri, haven't done anything stronger than pot in 5 years and I've been feeling the shift coming for the past 2-3 years. I know what you're talking about.", "score": 13 }, { "body": "I feel nothing of the sort. I've come here to say this because I feel like this is the kind of post where self-selection bias comes right into its own: pretty much the only people likely to reply to this post are the ones that feel that they feel \"it\" too. Of course there's no way to be sure that what they're feeling is in any way related to whatever it is you're feeling, let alone that there may be hundreds of people who see this post and silently note that they (like me) don't know what the hell it is you might be talking about.\n\nNot trying to rain on your parade, and I'm happy for you that you feel good, but try not to feel completely vindicated by the replies to this post... It would be very odd if there were nobody out there who felt similarly to you, but that says nothing about interconnectedness of human minds, or that something has changed in human consciousness compared to 10 years ago, 50 years ago, 500 years ago.\n\nIn my humble(ish) opinion.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "I hear you, there's a new age dawning. Ride that cusp, meditate, find your bliss (that means find a way to make some money without hating yourself and get rid of materialism), and don't let these naysayers poopoo you feeling your calling.", "score": 6 }, { "body": "\"Beyond the words 'beyond words'\" is reminiscent of the closing words of the Heart Sutra: \"Gate gate paragate, parasamgate bodhi svaha,\" translated by Conze as \"gone gone, gone beyond, gone altogether beyond, O what an awakening, all hail!\"\n\nGo deeper into the vortex, friend.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "This so called change feels so real. It started perhaps a few years ago, but I first confronted some of my friends about it last autumn. Turns out they both been feeling it for a little while, and they both told me they were feeling like they were finally waking up. ", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Last age it took hundreds of years for things to play out. However, things are moving much faster today. I know it will not be hundreds of years. I am still unsure if it will be in our life times though.\n\nThings are always changing. It never stops. Noticing it now, doesn't mean it wasn't happening earlier. And a new age is like a new year or a new month. Not much happens on the first day of the new year, but at the end of the year we can look back and remember what happened. The same for this age, I suppose.\n\nKeep doing the dance of life. It never stops. It keeps going and going and going. It will drive you to hilarity if you notice the insanity of it.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I feel it. It's especially interesting when you were born in 1990 and are coming of age just as this new frontier is in sight. If there was ever a time to live, wouldn't it be right now?", "score": 3 }, { "body": "The strange attractor at the end of history, or so it is called by the mathematicians. That's the pull you feel. It's more than just a 'coming of age', it's a coming of time for all of humanity and existence as we know it. Just look at our society at the present moment. Culturally, we are in the dark ages. The last 2 years were the worst actually, for the majority of humanity. But something historic is about to occur. It can only be understood by us, the psychonauts. We are the only ones who understand. I posted [this](http://www.reddit.com/r/Psychonaut/comments/xqnc4/the_paradigm_shift_is_occurring_and_we_are_the/) 10 days ago..", "score": 3 } ]
The Illuminates Of Thanateros (IOT) North America - Are these guys for real?
So, I've recently become interested in "the occult" and especially chaos magick. I want to learn more and (I think) even begin practicing, but I'm not sure exactly where to start. After some research, I came across the IOT North America website (http://iota.thanateros.org/chaos.php) and once again I'm thoroughly fascinated. It seems like they have a pretty good base-plan laid out already for someone to get into this stuff. It begins with reading Peter Carroll's *Liber Null and Psychonaut*, then there's a series of progressive steps to prove proficiency in the practice, and then the process culminates with applying to become an IOT member. Again, I find the whole thing fascinating. My question is: Are these guys for real? Is the average IOT member the way I ideally would picture them (incredibly interesting and well-read people like Robert Anton Wilson, Grant Morrisson, and Alan Moore), or is the average IOT member more like a nerdy disillusioned weirdo who just happened to get into the occult instead of Live Action Role Playing or Dungeons and Dragons? (sorry if I offend anyone with the LARP and D&D analogy, it's not my intent but I can't think of a better way to phrase it). Also - is the IOT method of learning about this stuff the best way to go about it, or is there a better path?
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[ { "body": "93 Chaos Magick is a brilliant advancement in Magical theory and practice. Pete Carroll is a genius in some regards, and the IOT does have some very prominent Occult personalities among it's ranks. Full Stop. But...\n\nThe average IOT member, and more broadly speaking the average ”Chaote”, is going to severely disappoint you for exactly the reasons you gave. Why? Because despite the explicitly stated requisite for hard work to be able to do anything magical (Liber MMM), many see CM as a complete ”fuck you” to structualized magick (it isn't) and hide behind certain Carroll quotes to avoid study and/or work. So where with a sedentary armchair ceremonial magician, grimoire scholar, Thelemite, Golden Dawn, etc. you at least have a common knowledge base or egregore (a la Qabalah or Astrology or Tarot) with CM that's not necessary. It's actually looked down upon a lot of the time. Someone can just say: ”D&D is the composite magical system I work with, and DMing is a dramatic ritual for me, and I don't need a doctrinal magical system to subject my will on the universe, and blah blah blah” and all that's really happening is they want to look like ”teh uber scary life haxxor illuminatiz” instead of just admit to being a basement dweller with a propensity for the Occult and weird.\n\n You have this same problem with every branch of Magick and Occultism, but CM facilitates it a bit more frequently and to a much more intense degree by very nature of the system. \n\nAlso: IOT has been in disarray for years now (note lack of site updates or news bulletins). Membership is small, and interest in chaos magick has been waning since the mid-2000's. As a relevant sidebar: Pete Carroll hasn't been affiliated with IOT since the late 90's early 2000's. \n\nFurthermore, I have been told firsthand by initiates that the membership strictures are much less intense than the A.'.A.'.-like prerequisites listed. And another thing: Chaotes, Discordians, Typhonians, Setians, and any other LHP sect essentially, are very volatile in groups. A lot of schism (sometimes by choice a la discordians), a lot of open petty bickering and open magical warfare on par with the Crowley Mathers Golden Dawn fiasco of yesteryear, but with the added insanity of Chaos Magick (IOT has a lot of this latter, especially because bodies are usually not totally localized but in radii of sometimes several states and hundreds of miles, leading to confusion and bad organization).\n\nIf I come off as seeming negative towards Pete Carroll and Chaos Magick, I'm not. In fact I have a large Chaos Magick streak in me: My preffered mantra is the Bene Geserit littanny against fear, and I have created a group ritual based on a magical formula I believe exists on the Instrumentality sequence from The End of Evangelion. I have successfully created servitors on two seperate occasions, and enjoy sigil magick as an occasional tool. I even have a personal mythos based around Nietzsche and Thus Spake Zarathustra. I also once created a magical oath on poetic form based on the song ”The Cave” by Mumfors and Sons. That all being said, I believe that Chaos Magick without a firmer and more formalized magical base can lead to a lot of bullshit. See Kenneth Grant and the Cult of LAM or the endless rehashing of the Lovecraft mythos by Donald Tyson (the most scholarly yet phony total armchair magician ever). I'm biased, and full disclosure, I'm a Thelemite and an active initiate of the Caliphate OTO; the largest, highest functioning, and in my personal opinion, best, magical order currently in existence by far (let the flaming and butthurt commence). I further believe Thelema to be the greatest and most successful system of personal magical and mystical attainment currently in existence, and feel that Chaos Magick works as a branch of magick when in a Thelemic context.\n\nI may be completely off. You could join IOT, fall in with just the right crowd, and no doubt have an amazing and intense set of initiatic and spiritual expiriences to rival anyone else.\n\nBut, to summarize, based on the concerns you expressed, you're probably in my opinion going to be disappointed.\n\nIn the end, however, Thy Will be done. There is much gold and much dross in any magical order or system (OTO especially on both accounts), and in the majority if cases what you get out will depend greatly on what you put in. I wish you all the best, regardless of where you end up, in your magical adventure.\n\n93, 93/93 -Frater Zarathustra\n", "score": 9 }, { "body": "\"is the average IOT member more like a nerdy disillusioned weirdo who just happened to get into the occult instead of Live Action Role Playing or Dungeons and Dragons?\"\n\nI have found this to be 85% true of most chaotes I've met", "score": 6 }, { "body": "IOT NA is the largest active chaos magick order in existence next to the German branch. You really can't pin down the \"average\" chaos magician since everyone does their own thing. One guy could be a total medieval nerd and the next guy could be into chanting \"hare krishna\" for 6 hours over a sigil. ", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Probs in for a disappointment. \n\nI practice chaos magic, mainly within a LHP context and I put in the hours. By that I mean the hours of sitting still, staring at walls, visualizing objects etc etc. I have found most people do not. Actually I am going so far as most people do not irregardless of them being Chaotes, Thelemites, Golden Dawnsters. Likewise, the people who I have met who practice ecstatic methods, methods that I myself am very fond of, seem to be weaksauce.\n\n\nI think the problem is twofold.\n\n1. People want answers.\n\n2. People want other people to want their answers.\n\nI find that I can't talk about the problems you may find in organized CM without bringing up up Thelema. This is because I see CM as an attempt to rectify the one big problem with the Thelemic system and how most CMs missed the point. \n\nYou see Thelema is great and all, but its problem is that it is Crowley's end and yet it is offered to people as their own means. Crowley traveled the world and studied under a wide variety of spiritual teachers, got immersed in western magick and ultimately synthesized all these experiences into his very own system of attainment. Good for him.\n\nI believe that looking at the anticipation of Thelema is far more important then the system itself. What made big C great was everything that led up to Thelema, not Thelema. Personally I find the Thelema mindnumbing, mainly because I don't want to follow the spiritual footsteps of another and in doing so I feel you miss out on some valuable formative experiences. \n\nThis is what CM tries to fix. It gives us the tools and demands of us the effort to make our own way and forge our own paths, synthesizing our experiences as we go along while attempting to prevent messianic delusions and dogma with varying levels of success. Most Chaotes I find miss this and use CM as an excuse for being inert and calling out those who start to develop as being 'dogmatic'. Equivocating structure with dogma. \n \n\nSo what am I talking about? Well I find most Thelemites to be squares and most CMs to be losers, the kind you talk about with a \"look at me I am doing magick lololol\" attitude. I have checked out a few other groups and its all cardboard tasting bleh (the group dynamics that is, many have very interesting systems, ideas etc).\n\nGo and find out for yourself. \n\n\n\nPS. I sound kinda mean, if some description or jab that I make does not sound like you then it obviously is not about you.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Given a large enough library, you can create any kind of system you want. \n\nEventually you can publish your own conclusions as a stand alone system.\n\nThen you can cross the abyss and leave all the systems behind.\n\nYMMV.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "They're most likely much like you. So consider that before joining. In the words of Groucho Marx, \"I don't care to belong to any club that will have me as a member\".", "score": 4 } ]
When does Financial Aid usually get disbursed?
The website said the 16th, but I called an the lady said that she didn't know, but she knew that some had already been disbursed. My award payment status says that most has been paid. Does anyone know from experience when it usually gets transferred via EFT?
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[ { "body": "I just got an email saying that my refund will be deposited on my account within the next few days. So I guess people are right when they say aug 16th.\nI have a question though, what is the average that people who live off campus ( not in the dorms) receive? I lived in the dorms last year but wont this year and I am getting a lot more.. It's a bit scary. ", "score": 3 } ]
is it cheaper to fill a fridge?
or is it better to keep the fridge as empty as possible? ie: is it better to keep 10 bottles of beer rather than one or two?
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[ { "body": "Liquid maintains heat (or lack thereof) better than air. The refrigerator should run less often if it's full of stuff than if it's empty.", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Find the right sized fridge to accomodate the amount of food you typically store.\n\nIt costs more to operate a larger fridge.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "I know that for the freezer, it's best to keep it packed. I've read suggestions of making sure you have ice cube trays, even throw in bottles of water just to keep it as packed as possible. However as for the fridge, it's best to keep it empty. Is it practical? Probably not. I'd love for a chemist to explain in depth.", "score": 3 } ]
How do you guys handle your alts? Will you split PvE/PvP, crafting disciplines and starter areas?
I'm definitely creating 5 characters on launch, but I'm not quite sure how I'm going to play them. How will you guys handle that? Will you create characters for PvE or PvP only? Do you play to lv 80 on one and then switch or will you play them simultaneously (to a certain level). (the latter would make item sharing via bank pretty easy) What about the crafting disciplines? Even if I would plan to play only one character, why shouldn't I create others just to craft with them? Is there a downside? (the upside is I don't have to pay to change my discipline) I'm just looking for some ideas and tips. So far I only decided that I want to play a character of each race and what profession they will be. The idea is to experience the starting zones with the appropriate race. Thanks.
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[ { "body": "I will play one main that will do **everything** but have 3 alts for the other 6 crafting disciplines. I think it'll be easier (and cheaper) to have alts who handle the crafting rather then swapping on my main. Then they also can act as mules if need be.", "score": 7 }, { "body": "To jump on what stroubled said, it really doesnt make sense. By the way, Op, your flair is amazing :p", "score": 5 }, { "body": "Alts?! Every game ever I played I looked shortly through the available Character Options and decided in a minute which would be my main Combination.\n\nThis game?! I don't f'ing know! I just can't decide... :/\n\n/firstworldproblems", "score": 4 } ]
Desktop randomly freezing up, avast detects no viruses
Alright, so our desktop has been acting a tad wonky lately. Two weekends ago I got the desktop and got barely anywhere into surfing the internet before it froze up completely. ctrl+alt+del didn't work, I couldn't click anything, and I had to restart it by holding the power button until it shut off. A few hours later, everything is fine, and I ran an avast virus scan that came up with no results. Today, it started doing it again. Hasn't fixed yet, but I'm hoping it fixes itself somehow in a few hours. My brother said he ran an avast scan a few days ago and still got no results. Does anyone know what could be causing this?
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[ { "body": "Overheating.\n\nDownload speccy and have it visible while you're doing stuff. Take note of the temperatures.", "score": 3 } ]
English is NOT a Romance (Latin-Based) language
I'm sick of people saying this. English is a Germanic language... YES, It is RIDDLED with French words, but Dutch and Vietnamese are, too! Is Vietnamese a Romance Language? (rhetorical...) Did you know that English also has words from: Greek, Hebrew, Japanese, Spanish, Hindi, and many others? I didn't know I spoke an Asian-semetic language... wait... that doesn't exist. For your reading pleasure: * [wikipedia's English Language article](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/English_language) * [an article in Anglosaxon](http://ang.wikipedia.org/wiki/N%C4%AB%C6%BFu_Englisc_spr%C7%A3c) * [an Op-Ed article, non-wiki](http://www.veritaslanguagesolutions.com/why-english-is-not-a-romance-language) Furthermore, here's a selection of Text in the various germanic languages. You should recognize it. Eng. The quick brown fox jumped over the lazy dog Ger. Der schnelle braune Fuchs sprang über den faulen Hund Dut. De snelle bruine vos sprong over de luie hond Dan. Den hurtige brune ræv hoppede over den dovne hund Nor. Den raske brune reven hoppet over lat hund. Swe. Den snabba bruna räven hoppade över den lata hunden. The same text in a few Romance languages Spa: el ágil zorro saltó sobre el perro perezoso Fr: le renard marron agile saute par dessus le chien paresseux Ita: La veloce volpe rossa saltato il cane pigro So... Now, all Ye English (which reminds me, Ye is pronounced The... it was a shortcut at the time instead of printing the entire þ, which is ALSO the TH sound), please realize the power that having a language built of 2 languages can wield... As a Native English Speaker, you have a head start on 2 language families. You get vocabulary from french (~35-40%) AND germanic languages (50-55%). So, with your new powers, I suggest you go into the world, learn as many european languages as possible, then rally with me to invade China! (not serious about this last part)
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[ { "body": "You have the proportions wrong, the vocabulary of english is overwhelmingly Latin based while the GRAMMAR is germanic. Exactly how Persian is still Indo-European despite having an almost unequal distribution of Arabic vocabulary.", "score": 28 }, { "body": "I had a prof in university who once called English a romance language. Other than that I have never heard anyone make this claim and certainly no one in this subreddit (or am I mistaken?). So... why post it here?", "score": 19 }, { "body": "> Spa: el ágil zorro saltó sobre el perro perezoso\n\nMissing a word here.\n\nSpa: el ágil zorro __marrón__ saltó sobre el perro perezoso", "score": 12 }, { "body": "People make the mistake because of the amount of Latin based words we use, but that's just vocabulary, if you're going to categorise languages the best way is by the grammar.\n\nI have a friend who is a Brahui, his language is mental, dravidian language with all sorts of mixtures from Arabic, Persian, Urdu, Sindi, Balochi, English etc depending on where you're from. \n\nTo be honest, I don't really care how people categorise language anyway, I just enjoy learning weird and wonderful stuff. \n\n", "score": 7 }, { "body": "As a Classicist, let me tell you that many people believe ALL European languages come from Latin. It's difficult to dissuade them of this. ", "score": 6 }, { "body": "Just to emphasize that English has very pervasive use of Romance vocabulary in higher registers, much more so than other Germanic languages, here is the first line from the UN Universal Declaration of Human Rights:\n\nGermanic:\n\n> Eng: Whereas recognition of the inherent dignity and of the equal and inalienable rights of all members of the human family is the foundation of freedom, justice and peace in the world,\n\n> Ger: Da die Anerkennung der angeborenen Würde und der gleichen und unveräußerlichen Rechte aller Mitglieder der Gemeinschaft der Menschen die Grundlage von Freiheit, Gerechtigkeit und Frieden in der Welt bildet,\n\n> Dut: Overwegende, dat erkenning van de inherente waardigheid en van de gelijke en onvervreemdbare rechten van alle leden van de mensengemeenschap grondslag is voor de vrijheid, gerechtigheid en vrede in de wereld;\n\n> Dan: Da anerkendelse af den mennesket iboende værdighed og af de lige og ufortabelige rettigheder for alle medlemmer af den menneskelige familie er grundlaget for frihed, retfærdighed og fred i verden,\n\n> Nor: Da anerkjennelsen av menneskeverd og like og umistelige rettigheter for alle medlemmer av menneskeslekten er grunnlaget for frihet, rettferdighet og fred i verden,\n\n> Swe: Enär erkännandet av det inneboende värdet hos alla medlemmar av människosläktet och av deras lika och oförytterliga rättigheter är grundvalen för frihet, rättvisa och fred i världen,\n\nRomance:\n\n> Spa: Considerando que la libertad, la justicia y la paz en el mundo tienen por base el reconocimiento de la dignidad intrínseca y de los derechos iguales e inalienables de todos los miembros de la familia humana,\n\n> Fr: Considérant que la reconnaissance de la dignité inhérente à tous les membres de la famille humaine et de leurs droits égaux et inaliénables constitue le fondement de la liberté, de la justice et de la paix dans le monde,\n\n> Ita: Considerato che il riconoscimento della dignità inerente a tutti i membri della famiglia umana e dei loro diritti, uguali ed inalienabili, costituisce il fondamento della libertà, della giustizia e della pace nel mondo;\n\nI would hazard a guess that the Romance examples are easier to understand for an English native speaker. The following words would be quite opaque:\n\n* Anerkennung/erkenning/anerkendelse/anerkjennelsen/erkännandet\n\n* angeborenen, iboende/inneboende\n\n* unveräußerlichen/oförytterliga, onververemdbare, ufortabelige, umistelige\n\n* Mitglieder, leden, medlemmer/medlemmar\n\n* Frieden/vrede/fred \n\n* Gemeinschaft der Menschen/mensengemeenschap, menneskeslekten/människosläktet\n\nOn the other hand, I don't think any of the content words from the Romance examples present similar levels of difficulty for an educated but monolingual English speaker.", "score": 6 }, { "body": ">Ita: La veloce volpe rossa saltato il cane pigro\n\nLa veloce volpe rossa **saltò** or **ha saltato** il cane pigro \n\nThis still sounds funky, but at least is grammatically correct.\n\n", "score": 4 } ]
OMG Julian dropped his drink!!!
Season 6 Episode 3 - High Definition Piss Jugs @20:50 Bubbles is trying to tell the camera about Kitty Land while a fight between Randy, Ricky, and Lahey occurs in the background. Julian comes running up from his car at the back of the scene. Julian attempts to grab Ricky who in turn raises up and knocks Julian's drink out of his hand. Here is a screen shot of the drink starting to come out of Julian's hand. http://i.imgur.com/OmLVG.jpg This may begin a quest to find every time Julian has dropped his drink...
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[ { "body": "Also right after he drops the drink it cuts to a different scene and then right back. Julian is holding a drink when it cuts back to the fight. lol!", "score": 3 }, { "body": "In the first or second episode of season one he briefly puts his drink down on a table. He didn't *drop* it, but it's still incredibly rare. \n\nI've seen every episode many times and just noticed this for the first time last night. ", "score": 3 } ]
Emote Guide and New Emote Suggestion Thread
Wondering how to make emotes? Well... it's simple!   ###Emote Example: \[](#mabel "Mysteries, Mysteries Everywhere.") *turns into* [](#mabel "Mysteries, Mysteries Everywhere.") [](#sp) **Remember: you can see embedded text in emoticons by rolling over them with your mouse!** **If you want the hidden text to always display, [install this handy userscript](http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/109869).** There's also one available for [safari](http://www.sitharus.com/2011/11/reddit-title-text-expander-safari-extension.html).   ###Reversing Emotes: To reverse an emoticon (flip it horizontally), simply put 'r' before the code. For Example: \[](#rdipmad) turns into [](#rdipmad) [](/sp) ###Spacing Out Emotes: In order to properly space out emotes, simply use the code \[](#sp). It will create a new line in between emotes. \[](#gnome) \[](#sp) \[](#rgnome) turns into [](#gnome) [](#sp) [](#rgnome) [](#sp) ###RES: When composing replies, you may find that the Live Comment Preview feature of [Reddit Enhancement Suite](http://reddit.honestbleeps.com) helps make sure you're posting the emoticon you intend to! It's also a handy tool for a variety of other reasons. Definitely recommend an install if you intend to stick around.   ###EMOTES! You can also use the grid system for emotes, \[](/gfXY). X is the column, and Y is the row. To reverse them using this system, put an r in front of it. \[](#gf01) [](#sp) turns into [](#rgf01) [](#sp) | | | | :-:|:-:|:-:|:-: **gf**|0|1|2 0|[](#gf00)|[](#gf10)|[](#gf20) |#mabel|#dipmad|#soos 1|[](#gf01)|[](#gf11)|[](#gf21) |#gideon|#gnome|#grunkle 2|[](#gf02)|[](#gf12)|[](#gf22) |#paperjam|#wendy|#waddles 3|[](#gf03)|[](#gf13)|[](#gf23) |#robbie|#grunklemad|#mabelwat ###Suggest your emotes here ...but please keep in mind they must be from the show (no fan-art) and look good at 70x70px (standard emote size). An image must be provided, please do not simply describe the scene.
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[ { "body": "How about [this](http://i.imgur.com/gUU8d.png)?\n\n(From [this](http://i.imgur.com/T1AQ5.png) source image)", "score": 11 }, { "body": "Oh yay you took my suggestion! Sorry for not answering earlier, I was cooking and whatnot.\n\n[But celebratory gnome emote!](http://i.imgur.com/tIZou.png)", "score": 11 }, { "body": "[Gruncle Stan?](http://i.imgur.com/Q62iU.png) (I wanted him in his disco suit but it was hard to get a good image)", "score": 6 }, { "body": "I've already made [Sheriff Blubbs](http://fav.me/d5a1zyx) and a [Mabel](http://fav.me/d5a5rbx), and I have partial work done on a couple Grunkle Stan (eye patch smile, facepalm), a couple Dippers (thinking with a pen in his mouth, after having his face gnomed) a gnome puking rainbows, Soos after licking fish bait. Oh, and Mabel with the leafblower on her mouth because shut up that's why.\n\nHowever, I'm commissioning/collaborating with another artist on another project and it's taking a bit of time. So, RainbowCrash, I'm sorry I haven't been working on this the last week, but it is still on my to-do list and I'll be back to churning out 1-2 vectors a day once the other project wraps up.\n\nIt's really awesome working on this!", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Would it be possible to have a table of smaller emoticons? Obviously, what you can do with small ones is more limited, but I've found in /r/mylittlepony that if you're using a lot of them it's nice to have small ones so your post isn't enormous.", "score": 3 } ]
Headed to NoLa for opening day Skins @ Saints.
Skins fan here from the DC area, and I am very very excited as New Orleans is one of my favorite cities to travel to. Staying in the FQ to party Saturday night, and plan on walking to the game Sunday Morning. What kind of experience can I expect? I will be in all my Skins gear and definitely enjoy friendly trash talk and ribbing...
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[ { "body": "A lot of people take anything negative being said against the Saint's *very* personally. And by personally I mean that what starts out as friendly trash talk can *quickly* escalate to a physical confrontation. It's a post-Katrina / Superbowl thing that I don't think most people who aren't from here can really understand. You won't have any problems walking around in Skins gear or anything - I would just be mindful of what you say against the Saints.\n\n\nAlso, if you see someone passed out in a Crystal Burger, don't rub your nut sack on them.", "score": 4 } ]
Ok, stupid health care question time.
My wife's friend had knee surgery lately. It was an elective surgery to fix a torn meniscus. The doctor informed him that he *must* get this surgery done soon because of Obama's health care bill. The doctor told him that since he is almost 75, that if he wanted to get this same surgery after Obama's changes take place, that the decision to have the surgery will be put up to a board of health professionals that work for the patients insurance. If the board deems the procedure unnecessary, then he will be turned down for coverage. My first thought was that this is bull shit. I've read the Affordable Care Act and I can't find anything that supports this. Am I wrong? Thanks!!
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[ { "body": "I am a huge critic of the ACA, and desperately want it repealed, but I think something is getting lost here in what the doctor told the patient, what the patient told your wife, and what your wife told you. Either that, or he's just trying to do everything he can to get the patient to receive the procedure before he gets on Medicare. Medicare payments are pathetically low compared to commercial group policies, so he may just be trying to coerce him in order to receive a higher payment, which is extremely unethical. I'm more inclined to believe that this isn't exactly what the MD said.\n\nEdit- grammarz", "score": 15 }, { "body": "that is bullshit. The board of health professionals is something that simply discusses what medicare should cover. If it's covered by medicare then it's covered. Moreover, that seems pretty important to me, so even if by some strange reason it IS true, then it would most likely get approved. ", "score": 12 } ]
A friend of mine is gay and suppressing it. I'm not sure if I should talk to him about it or if I should leave it alone.
23 year old female here. OK, so a friend of mine [19 m] is gay. Let's call him John. I got him a job with me as a favor to his mother, who is employed by my parents. We quickly struck up a close friendship because of his wonderful personality and common interests. John came out to me about a year ago and I was completely supportive of him and told him how I would love him no matter who he loved or wanted to spend the rest of his life with. He embraced his newfound sexual openness and started dating men for a short while. However, his parents were not so supportive. His father is a youth minister at a local baptist church and their entire family is deeply involved, including John. He deeply believes in the christian faith and thought that god would love him no matter what his lifestyle choices were, as long as he was still a good person and accepted jesus as his personal savior and all that jazz. Well, John told a friend at his church about his sexual orientation. The friend told the pastor, who told John's father. His parents were livid and deeply mortified that people in the church knew. They started monitoring all of his phone calls and texts and had a system put in place that allowed them to see all the websites visited using their modem. They wouldn't allow him out past 9 PM anymore except to work. They also started forcing him to see a christian counselor who specializes in fixing homosexuality. John hated all of this and started talking about moving out. I told him he was welcome in my home as long as he paid his share of the utilities and he wouldn't have to worry about rent for the first month or two. He was on the verge of moving in with me and started packing his stuff, when his parents told him that if he did that they would see it as a sign he didn't want help and would cut off all ties with him. He has always been very close to his family, so this news completely devastated him. He decided to completely throw himself into the counseling and the church. He started pursuing females again and another co-worker who is also extremely religious became his accountability partner. Whenever John was feeling tempted back into homosexuality, he would call our co-worker and they would talk it out. I told him my opinion of the whole situation, which is that he could only repress his sexual orientation, not fix it and that his parents would more than likely learn to love him anyway, because a parent's love is supposed to be unconditional. I also told him that if he wanted to try anyway, that I would still support him and love him. Well, I let him use my Netflix account... He's been watching what is basically softcore gay porn. I wasn't snooping, it pops up on my recently viewed list. His parents can't see the movies he's been watching because he just watches it on his iPhone using 3G. He is seriously dating a girl and still goes to his counseling sessions. Whenever I ask about his orientation he says "it really is a choice, laenooneal. I have completely turned my life around. I'm a better christian because of the experience and I love my girlfriend so much." I just want him to be happy. Should I tell him that I have seen what he's been watching on Netflix and that I think he should go to a real therapist, not a christian counselor? Should I just keep my mouth shut and stick with my role as the supportive BFF? Is there a line where I need to talk to him and just keep quiet until it reaches that point? Where is that line? Is it when he graduates college or when he's moved out of his parent's home or when he gets engaged? He's like a younger brother to me and I'm lost about what to do. Any help would be greatly appreciated Reddit! **TL;DR: Friend came out as gay to me, his parents flipped out when they found out, now he is claiming to be straight and dating a girl while secretly watching softcore gay porn on my netflix account. Should I confront him? How? When?**
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[ { "body": "You shouldn't. I know you care about your friend. That's incredibly obvious. But if you try to force him to do something like come out and he ends up losing his family and friends he will resent you. You can't make people choose something like that. They have to want it for themselves. \n\nYou have already expressed how you feel about everything. That's good. Keep doing that. Friends should be honest with each other. But that is as far as it should go IMO. Feel free to bring up the movies if you want since they are on your Netflix account but do it privately. Who knows, he might just be waiting until he gets and education and then moves out. That's exactly what I would do if I were gay and had unsupportive parents. You're a good friend and he is lucky to have you. Good luck.", "score": 5 } ]
Any Yahoo! Fantasy Premier League players out there? We've set up a Reddit group again this year. The info to join is inside.
Mod zSolaris has been kind enough to let me post the info here. We had about 60 players last year and would love to see more! http://uk.premierleague.fantasysports.yahoo.com/football Group ID:7751 Password: r/soccer Spread the word! Let me know if you have any questions. Thanks and good luck! (and don't forget that Chelsea and Reading play twice in gameweek 1, so load up on those guys!)
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[ { "body": "For anyone wondering, here's a brief rundown of the Yahoo! game that I've posted elsewhere:\n\nThe biggest difference from the official game is no transfer limits. You just pick the best 11 that fits your budget for the week. This is great because you learn a lot and really have to keep up with the match ups, form, and tactics. Stoke City playing a team vulnerable in the air this week? Might be a good time to pick Crouch. Arsenal playing the league's worst team? Try to anticipate their starting lineup and cram as many Gunners into your team as possible.\n\nBasically, you get 100 points to spend on 11 players whose values are set by popularity and performance. If a player is new to the league or having a rough patch in form, their value is lower. If the player does well and racks up points (also a nice aspect of Yahoo... you get points for stuff other than goals, assists and clean sheets... like successful crosses, shots on target, and blocks), then their value goes up. This adds an additional element of strategy. What if you picked up Rooney on the cheap during a dip in form, then he gets injured after lighting up the score sheet for a few weeks? Do you keep him in hope that he only misses one game, or do you drop your discount on him and pick another striker?\n\nIt's definitely a hands-on, more time-intensive fantasy game as you'll be tinkering with your lineup based on roster and match up news up until the weekly deadline. (Just wait until there's a heavy snow and you're up all night trying to figure out which matches are postponed...)", "score": 3 } ]
Is eating 1,200 calories essentially starving yourself?
To me it feels like I'm basically starving myself, and because I'm starving myself and not eating enough, I'm losing weight. How else could I lose weight and still eat if I wasn't starving myself? I'm finding it really hard to stick to 1,200 calories. I lost 3lbs in the first week counting calories (or trying) then I slacked off the 2nd week and gained it all back. Ugh. I lived off sugary drinks 2 weeks ago and I stopped drinking them and I thought my 3lb loss was mainly due to that, but I'm still not drinking them and I gained all the weight back so I guess cutting out sugary drinks didn't make me lose anything.
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[ { "body": "Are you eating 1200 calories of nutrient-dense, filling food that provides your daily vitamins and minerals and a good amount of protein and fibre? There is a big difference between that and 1200 calories of random junk. The less you eat on a daily basis, the more important it is to make careful dietary choices.\n\nNobody can assess whether 1200 calories is an appropriate intake for you unless you post your age, sex, height, weight, and any exercise routine you follow.", "score": 8 }, { "body": "Unless we know your age/weight/gender/height, that's a really tough question to answer.\n\nBut ultimately, no. It's not starving you. \n\nHowever, what you eat, and how often you eat? Those are going to have a major impact on how you *feel*.\n\nMFP is pretty good, but their macros are a load of crap, for me. It has me at 35g protein (half of what I need to feel okay), 50g fat (about right), and 400g carbs (noooo way). Oh, and 15g fiber! HA!!! No, I need about 35g fiber a day to feel good.\n\nYour food intake shouldn't make you feel like shit, dude. If you feel starved all the time, up your protein and up your fiber. Drink way more water - I hit about 120 oz a day. Choose things you like, and that keep you feeling full. \n\nBased on the food you provided to bob_mcbob, I'd say you need a lot more protein. And if you're a guy, you need more protein than us ladies. \n\nI'm on MFP - if you want to add me, feel free! =) This stuff is so hard to figure out, because it's different for everyone. What works for me might not work for you, so you do have to play around with it.\n\nBut you shouldn't ever have to feel like you're starving, or that you're not eating enough. ", "score": 5 }, { "body": "I eat 1000-1200 calories of nutritious food like vegetables and meats (chicken, beef). I also take a multivitamin everyday. I've never felt better in my life and feel like I've changed my life by doing this.", "score": 3 } ]
English Premier League @ Gainesville House of Beer
Gainesville House of Beer [has announced](http://www.gainesvillehob.com/?p=115) that they'll be opening early on weekends to broadcast this year's Premier League matches. $4 Boddington specials and free breakfast, which I *think* will be bagels. Any soccer fans interested in heading up there? I'm planning to be there at 12:30PM on Saturday for the Newcastle v Spurs match but I'll head up for the 10AM matches (Arsenal/Sunderland and West Brom/Liverpool) if any GNVers want to hang out.
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[ { "body": "If any of you are also US Soccer fans, we're trying to start an American Outlaws chapter. I'm sure House of Beer will be great for Premier League games, but we've been going to Mothers because they've been very good to us and even showed the Guatemala game in June that was on PPV for free. They always leave spaces for us.\n\nI'll definitely be there tonight for USA v. Mexico.\n\nFacebook page to like here: https://www.facebook.com/AOGainesville", "score": 3 } ]
Redstone class suggestions.
Those that plan to come to the class, let me know if there is anything specific you want to learn. I'll try to accommodate what I can. Those that can't make it Saturday please let me know and I'll try to either do another class or something.
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[ { "body": "I was hoping this was a suggestion for an engineer class... that used dispensers as turrets with that \"turret dispenser plugin.\"\n\ni left disappointed", "score": 4 } ]
[Request] Someone made really awesome neon outline wallpapers of various champs, could anyone make me one of any of the following champs? :D
This is an example of the style I'm referring to http://i.imgur.com/rJytq.jpg If someone could do that with either Kassadin, Morgana or Zyra I would love you forever :D
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[ { "body": "[Here they are](http://imgur.com/a/FjAZE) I uploaded them all to my imgur and posted it on this reddit.", "score": 4 } ]
I ended in tears with above and beyond
my grandpa died and 6 days ago (2 days ago of now) i had tickets to A&B in argentina.. Well A&B helped me to pass the hardes times of my life so i was decided to go (they helped me to pass over the death of my grandma a year ago in creamfields) was a wonderfull night, all i dreamed about that nigth wsa there... but being close to the final something just appeared, one message in the board who said "we been playing this around the world for those who passed away too early" with the acoustic version of "on a good day" I just cant hold myself anymore and I cryed like never before... the next day i wrote them a letter about this (ill post that later) in a picture and uploaded to his twitter oficcial account, they answered me "ty for that wonderfull nigth" Now i wanna meet them or just chat with them if soeone can help me ill give everything i have for that..
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[ { "body": "I can only imagine. Thanks for sharing your beautiful moment. Sorry I am unable to help, i don't have the necessary hook ups.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Oh man i cried like nothing else when they finished with that song at the Tomorrowland festival this year, that moment just made my summer.\nBeauty like that makes life worth living. Cheers <3", "score": 4 } ]
Can someone explain how link karma works?
For example, my link karma used to be 18, i posted something that got 329 points but my link karma now is 261? How many upvotes do you need for link karma to go up one point?
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[ { "body": "Self posts don't grant link Karma, so if you post a link to another website, you get Karma, but any upvotes you get here don't count.\n\nIf that didn't help, /r/TheoryOfReddit might be a better place to ask.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "It's normally a 1:1 ratio, but when the moon is in certain phases, the karma gnomes come out and randomly feed on excess karma on the site. The higher the karma, the more of it gets scooped into the greedy little gnomes' mouths like spunk off a porn star's face. ", "score": 3 } ]
If you could un-experience something so that you could go and do it again for the first time, what would it be?
I'm a scuba instructor, sometimes i wish I could take my first breath underwater again. Also, I'd like to see the Shawshank Redemption for the first time again.
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[ { "body": "Seeing an amazing movie. It would probably be Lord of the Rings. Fuck, the feeling when you left the theatre after watching Return of the King and knowing it was over. And you wished you could just wipe your mind and go experience it all over again.\n\nThat, and being able to read Harry Potter (or see the movies) for the first time all over again. ", "score": 3 } ]
Predict the network evening news for 08/14/12: Will "they'll put you back in chains" get the play that "(Israeli) culture makes all the difference" got 2 weeks ago when Romney said it?
My guess is that Biden's "gaffe", that [Obama agrees with](http://www.realclearpolitics.com/video/2012/08/14/cutter_on_bidens_chain_comment_we_have_no_problem_with_those_comments.html) (so I guess it isn't really a gaffe, its just a statement of position), won't even be addressed by ABC, CBS or NBC tonight.
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[ { "body": "Heck no! They don't care what they spout, even if it's false, since the cancer causing ad still hasnt been detracted. This will just get dirtier and dirtier. Pathetic.", "score": 6 } ]
Headlight restoration
What is the best way to restore cloudy headlights? I have used the turtle wax headlight restorer kit and it worked great for a few months but they are back to being cloudy again.
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[ { "body": "I detail cars for a living, we charge 60 bucks for the full on headlight restoration job. Our kit uses a drill (pneumatic in my case) and 4 grades of sandpaper.\n600 grit,\n800 grit, \n1500 grit, and \n2000 grit.\nOnce I've sanded harshest to softest, I have a special compound to buff with (with a small wool pad), and then a polish to use with a foam pad. I follow up with a coat of sealant and they're LITERALLY as good as new.\nTakes about an hour's work.\n\nIn my opinion, the kits you purchase at an auto parts store are simply not \"up to snuff\". IMO, stop at a reputable dealer nearby and ask them to do the work for you.", "score": 6 } ]
Need an external ringer for a Cisco 8961 IP phone - Any suggestion?
I really don't know where to begin and what exactly to look for. The vehicle shop where I work is in need of a ringer/bell that can be placed out in the shop so they can hear the phone when it rings. The phone does have a USB port and a headset jack that are available for use. Can someone lend me a hand?
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[ { "body": "You won't find anything that plugs into the phone directly, but you can pick up a [SIP Audio Alerter](http://www.algosolutions.com/products/Audible-and-Visual-Alerting/8180-sip-audio-alerter.html). There are a few products like this, and they should configure as a standard SIP device with an extension.", "score": 3 } ]
Will I still be able to update to 4.1 Jelly Bean on my rooted s3?
I rooted my S3 and am now running synergy 1.4. Rumor going around is that the JB update could come as soon as August 29th. Would I have to unroot my phone in order to get the update?
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[ { "body": "You can get jellybean now if you root, either AOKP or CM10 or Paranoidandroid (though they don't have touchwiz). But if you wanted the stock one you wouldn't (if someone made a CWM flashable version) but you would lose root if you did. Someone will make a rooted version of the official update but it might take a day or two.\n\nThere really isn't a downside to rooting (as you can always unroot), its pretty hard to mess the galaxy series up in any serious way. If you are worried about something happening then you can root without causing the flashcounter to trip but thats more difficult and takes more time. ", "score": 5 } ]
We need Mono Class Competitions
We need round Competitions with teams all made up of one class Scout: Boston Bot Bashers Soldier: American Automaton Attackers Pyro: Mmmmph Mmmmmph MMPH Demo: Drunk Drudge Destroyers Heavy: Russian Robot Removers Engie: Manipulating Mechanical Mutilators Medic: Multiple Machine Malpractice Sniper: Hextupal Humanoid Headshotters Spy: Deadly Deadbolt Detectives [](/sp) [](/ajlie "this definately wasnt an excuse to post robot themed alliteration")
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[ { "body": "Alright. \n\n*raises knife*\n\nTNS ASSEMBLE\n\n*a chorus of de-cloaks rings out as the members of the nova shadowbolts materialize out of thin air*\n\n[](/sbsmug \"We got this\")", "score": 11 } ]
Help with using commercial printers.
Hi /r/graphic_design, I'm having an issue I hope you can help with. I offer graphic design services to help with supplemental income. Recently I've had clients ask me to do print design for them. My problem that I run into when using commercial printers is the outcome of my products. Text and vector based materials print out perfect, very crisp, very sharp. The issue is, when I print using images such as logos (which aren't vector) for a client's business or a photograph they come out blurry and lack the sharp qualities. It's becoming frustrating as I search for answers as I cannot find a clear-cut answer to my problem. I know the importance of creating work in 300dpi and I use high-res images/logos but too no avail. I often have to shrink down images and logos as they are too large for my work area and am wondering if that's where I run into the issue. If anybody has an information on what exactly I am doing wrong that would be great. I've seen work come from the same commercial printer done by other people and theirs come out beautiful so I can't fathom that it is an issue with the actual printing company I use. Thanks r/graphic_design.
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[ { "body": "if it ain't originally 300, it ain't gonna come out lookin' good\n\n(unless you recreate it in vector)", "score": 3 } ]
Just started watching Dr Who. Still on Season 1. Does it get better?
Finally succumbing to many a friend's urge to watch, I finally fired up Netflix and decided to check this show out. I enjoy Sci-Fi and Fantasy, and I know the fanbase is huge. The problem I'm having, though, is that I just finished episode 6, and I'm wondering if/when the quality picks up? The costumes and many of the visuals and audio are laughably bad and campy, and a lot of the supporting actors are pretty awful. I find Eccleston to be very enjoyable, and since I'm told he's the least favorite of the 3 new Doctors, then that's a very good thing. Rose is also ok so far. After watching episode one, my desire to keep going was all but completely crushed. Episode 2 brought me back, and Episode 6 is where I really saw the potential. However, for me to REALLY enjoy it, I have to really concentrate on looking past the campiness, and I'm finding that difficult. Does the quality of visuals and acting get better as the series rolls on, or is this pretty much par and something I'll have to get over? I'm not trying to insult the show by any means, as I find the story to be pretty darn good.
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[ { "body": "The production values exponentially increase. The acting also gets better, but it still has moments every so often. Keep with it I promise it gets to be amazing very quickly.", "score": 19 }, { "body": "There's going to be a few episodes with these annoying aliens that love to fart, but if you make it through those you will see production values increase dramatically over the seasons. If you would like some encouragement in regards to how great it will become, watch 'Blink' as that's a terrific episode and I love showing it to potential new Whovians. Or maybe try out Matt Smith's first episode.", "score": 10 }, { "body": "Copy-paste from another thread I posted in recently:\n\nI've always forewarned people that the opening 4 or 5 episodes are, in my opinion, really poor (with episode 3 a slight exception, that's not bad). But from episode 6 onwards it picks up significantly. Dalek, Father's Day, The Empty Child & The Doctor Dances are all classics, and the finale is excellent too. \nSeries one is also by far the most campy and tacky when it comes to effects and audio etc. Stick with it, it'll be well worth it. ", "score": 9 }, { "body": "Season 2 has better production. Season 3 has even better. Season 4 has even better. Season 5 feels like you're watching an entirely different show, the production is so different. It's smoother and shinier and feels like it was produced in the States. \n\nBasically it feels like they just get more money every season, and they spend it well. \n\nThe campiness is the draw for most people, if you're looking for a serious adult type of sci-fi, you're not gonna be happy. Remember that it's technically a childrens show, and the humor and silliness is part of the legacy and part of the draw. It slowly decreases with the seasons though, and by season 6 there is almost no campiness anymore. \n\nIn my humble opinion. ", "score": 8 } ]
Why do we keep David Reed around?
We have plenty of other young receivers....to me it seems like Reed has had more then enough time to impress and I'm just not seeing it...
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[ { "body": "Harbaugh likes competition and Reed has something to prove. There is no harm keeping him around at this point in the season. Soon enough NFL teams will have to start trimming down their rosters. I would be pretty surprised if he makes the team considering the other receivers that seem to be ahead of him.", "score": 3 } ]
At age 20 I finally got my first blow job. And it was terrible.
I was making out with this girl, we've been together for a few weeks, and suddenly she goes down on me. At first it was kinda nice, but then it just started to hurt. I'm not sure if she was using her teeth, or if it was just hurting me because I'm not circumcised, but she got going pretty quickly. We're gonna try again sometime, what should I do or tell/ask her in order for it not to be as painful?
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[ { "body": "Are you able to fully retract your foreskin? Are you able to directly stimulate your glans once it's pulled back? ", "score": 9 }, { "body": "Happens to the best of us man. My first BJ was like a goat eating grass. It's all uphill from here buddy", "score": 4 }, { "body": "The real secret to a good blow job is to start with licking his dick to get it wet and not being afraid of drooling a bit. ", "score": 3 } ]
Is Capitalism a Social Movement? [Economics]
When I hear socialists debate capitalism, socialists tend to talk about the social inequality of capitalism. But that seems unfair, I see socialism as a social movement regarding people and the overtake of the market on the behalf of the people. But to me Capitalism isn't a social structure, it is a market function. It is the idea of free production where a producer and consumer meet in the marketplace. Capitalism doesn't care whether you're white or black or gay or a woman, it cares whether you're a producer or a consumer and your role in the market. It could be used successfully by a society that embraces racism, it could used successfully by as society that embraces all humans, it could be used successfully by a society on the far side of the moon. Capitalism provides a market, it's up to us to decide and battle against social inequality. Sure, businesses can act unethically, but that has to do with business ethics and not the market structure. So simply, is Capitalism in its true sense and purpose a social movement, is it fair to compare it that way to socialism which is based more on a societal structure?
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[ { "body": "Capitalism is where the means of production are privately owned. The means of production are basically phyiscal capital, i.e., factories. So Capitalism, by itself, isn't really a social movement. However, there are a lot of social movements that are associated with Capitalism. The idea of private property, for example, is absolutely central to Capitalism (can't have privately owned means of production without private property). It is also strongly associated with voluntary exchange markets (free markets) and competition with profit as the main motivator.\n\nSocialism is where the means of production are publically owned - owned by the government or some other \"collective\". Private property still exists within Socialism, but the physical capital in the economy is nationalized. Note, however, that with Socialism you can still have voluntary exchange markets, private property and competition depending on the political and market structure, though Socialism is often associated with doing things for the \"greater good\" rather than for profit.\n\nSo yes, as an economist I think it is perfectly fair to compare the two. I don't even really need to bring in the social movements and associations with each idea to compare them - I just want to know which is \"better\" by whatever criteria I choose. \n\nIf we're talking purely philosophically speaking, then we're not just considering economics but also political science, history, philosophy, sociology and who knows what else. *I would also say that yes, Capitalism counts as a social phenomena, though maybe not a recent \"movement\" per se because it has much older roots.* Just as Socialism is often associated with equality, positive rights (such as the right to education/living standards) and anti-exploitation, Capitalism is often associated with individualism, negative rights (right to not be murdered/to not be enslaved) and freedom. \n\nHopefully I'm not rambling.", "score": 13 }, { "body": "I think that while you've accounted for social inequality in most of the ways it usually manifests itself (e.g. race), you haven't addressed one of the most prevalent – intergenerational inequality. Simply put, capitalism, even assuming a fair and transparent market structure, does not address the wildly different circumstances into which people are born. Capitalism may not technically care if you're black or white, but it surely your education, parentage, and other inborn factors make an enormous difference in the odds of your economic success. I would argue that capitalism is also a system that disproportionately values the present/short-term over the long-term.\n\nThe other criticism that comes to mind is that capitalism inevitably involves the accumulation of capital in few, concentrated hands, who will then inevitably use their means to influence the system in their favor. \n\nNow, neither of these critiques are *exclusive* to capitalism, nor are they necessarily reasons to reject it as a system. Not to mention I don't think there are any examples of \"pure\" capitalism in use today, if there ever were – every economy/society is a mixture of the free market and government/societal intervention, it's just a matter of degree.", "score": 6 } ]
You guys thought of everything
Todd, to Jesse & Walt, in s5e5: "Wow, you guys thought of everything." Jessie, talking about Gus to that doctor down in Mexico, in S4: "Wow, he thought of everything." In both cases it was a young buck being impressed with the master's planning. Could probably read a lot more into it, but that's not my style. Just thought it was interesting.
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[ { "body": "Something else interesting that happened in that little exchange with the doctor was that we learned Jesse has an allergy to some drug. Chances Walt/someone else learns this and uses it? Maybe the doctor? Mike? ", "score": 4 } ]
Hamilton writing tell-all about doping in the professional peloton.
Personally, I'm all for this. The cycling powers that be have been doing their best to pretend that doping isn't widespread, generally accepted and something with a long history in the sport. Anything which shakes that official denial is good. I do feel bad, however, that cycling has been singled out by their efforts to clean it up. As far as I'm concerned, all professional sports (okay, maybe not curling) are rife with doping. My only worry is that cycling may come out with a black eye when, in fact, global professional sports culture is probably pretty much the same. [Velonews article](http://velonews.competitor.com/2012/08/news/hamilton-coyle-to-expose-doping-practices-in-new-book_234516)
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[ { "body": "> As far as I'm concerned, all professional sports (okay, maybe not curling) are rife with doping.\n\nNot just curling, but a [positive test in wheelchair curling](http://wheelchaircurler.blogspot.com.au/2012/03/cca-resonses-to-jim-armstrong-doping.html)!", "score": 9 } ]
GF (25F) slept with a married guy before we met. I'm 24M. Been dating for 7 months. This is a BIG red flag for me. We had a discussion and decided to stay together. But it's been eating me. How do I get over it?
This is a throwaway. It came up in a conversation because I was just talking to my girlfriend about one of my friends who's regularly sleeping with a married dude who's not in an open marriage and told her it's horrible to do such a thing - be an aide to cheating. She looked flustered, so I asked her what the problem was. She broke down, saying before we even met, she had a friend with benefits. They used to date in college and after college they decided to break up but still continued hooking up. The guy met another girl and they were in a relationship, but my girlfriend still continued hooking up with him - because the guy claimed he was in an open relationship. Their relationship escalated and they got married, my girlfriend continued hooking up with him (she was still under the impression that they were in an open marriage, when they were not, the guy just didn't tell my gf and assumed she knew, because they got married). Fast forward a few weeks, my girlfriend asks him if they are actually in an open marriage, the guys says no and said he's not really happy with the marriage etc., plays the sympathy card and sweet talks my girlfriend into sleeping with him. Then, when my gf met his wife, she realized what a horrible person the guy was and realized she'd been an aide in cheating and felt terrible about it and cut all contacts with him. Save one string. When they were in college, she helped him with a lot of things - giving him her old car and even some money. So, he owes her a ton of money and still hasn't returned the money. Whenever she asks for it, he says he'll return it and tries to talk her into sleeping with him, but she refuses and is strongly against it. Now, the things that bother me about this are: * The last time she slept with him, she knew he was NOT in an open marriage, and that he was actually cheating on his wife but still went ahead (she says he's the quintessential sweet talker, who can get his way with anything he wants) * She also said she was a girl with very low self esteem growing up (weight problems, acne, etc.) hence she saw this as an ego boost - that someone would desire her so much. She's obviously grown up now and is totally over this. * The guy still owes her money and everytime she asks he's trying to get her to sleep with him. I obviously cannot ask her to forget the money and she doesn't want me involved in getting the money from him because she thinks it can get awkward. * I come from a family that got totally torn apart when I was a teenager because my dad cheated on my mom (my parents still live together, but I know it's a loveless marriage) - so I inherently see someone who aids in cheating as a horrible person. I know for a fact that my girlfriend is not cheating on me now and I trust her 100% and don't want to break up with her over a mistake she did in the past (we've all made mistakes in the past, right?). I love her, we have fun when we hang out and we are even planning on moving in together next year. Now the question is, how do I get over this fact about her past and continue having a good life? No "dump her" advice please. I'm not planning on dumping her. I just wanna know ways to get over this one fact and continue on with the relationship. **tl;dr - girlfriend slept with a married guy much before we met (FWB). This is a big deal for me coming from a family that was torn apart because of dad's cheating. Need advice on how to get over this.**
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[ { "body": "That guy sounds like a narcissist. Talk it out. Be honest, see if going to a counselor together will help. Don't bottle the feelings up and try to deal with it yourself. You will need to tell her that it will take time to get over this and that you want to do this with her.\n\nAlso, seeing a therapist about your family being torn apart might help since it sounds like you have unresolved issues about that.\n\nEdit: The fact that she is willing to share her faults with you and be honest means that it is worth trying to resolve.", "score": 14 }, { "body": "It sounds like she was taken advantage of by this other, crappy dude. Especially since he assured her his relationship was 'open'. \nShe [unwittingly, by the sounds of it] got involved in a shitty situation, and felt awful about it, and made her best efforts to stop it as soon as she fully realised what the situation was. \nIt's something in the past. Don't hold it against her.\n", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Two things to remember OP: \n\nOne, she didn't cheat. I haven't seen any mention in your post about how she cheated on her own boyfriend at the time to be with this guy.\n\nTwo, it happened before you had even met. Look at it from her point of view: I'm sure you've got things in your past that you're not proud of but as long as you're not doing those things to her and you're treating her right, should that really have an impact on your relationship together now?\n\nIt's in the past, let it stay there.", "score": 3 } ]
Best Buy screwed it up again....
**Just a heads up & a warning to those of you that pre-ordered the collectors edition of DarkSiders 2 from Best Buy** I pre-ordered the Collectors edition of Darksiders 2 from Best Buy several months ago & to my surprise when I went in this morning to pick it up I was told that not only did they not have any they would be unable to order any & none were available in my region. The only option they gave me was to buy the regular edition & if they get a collectors edition I would be allowed to buy that too.... Every single best buy exclusive I have attempted to order has been screwed up. I've emailed THQ explaining my predicament & politely asked them to stop giving best buy exclusives as a result. I am also vowing from this point further that I will never purchase another game from Best Buy, let alone pre-order anything there. **Who's with me?** This is bullshit & its every pre-order. Best Buy won't change anything unless we make a very vocal angry army of gamers screaming collectively **"WTF?!?!"** with the tenacity & geek-rage that could level a city block.
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[ { "body": "This has also happened to me. Never pre-ordered from Best Buy again. \n\nActually, I can't remember the last I bought at all since then from Best Buy.", "score": 4 }, { "body": "I don't even know why you gave them another chance. \nMy friend spent 30 minutes in the parking lot telling people to leave the other day when they dicked him over on a warranty he bought. \nfriends don't let friends shop at best buy", "score": 4 }, { "body": "Don't pre-order from Best Buy, I honestly feel like a pre-order is one of those things where it is 9 times out of 10 inexcusable to fuck up", "score": 3 } ]
Cross-Buy speculation/questions
So I'm heading off to school pretty soon. Not bringing my Ps3 but my Vita is definitely coming with me. I opted to get the crappy 4GB card at launch. I'm really hoping that Cross-Buy will give you a physical copy (or at least that option) and not just a voucher for the digital Vita copy of the game when you purchase the Ps3 version. I don't have the space for the game. I'm not sure if I missed it: but did they specifically say anything like how this would work? EDIT: Well, crap, didn't have the money at launch but I guess I've gotta shell out the extra bones for a new card. Any way to transfer my saves and data onto another card?
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[ { "body": "Plug your vita into your PS3 and use the media manager app to transfer your stuff from the old card to the new card. Pretty simple process.", "score": 3 } ]
Reddit, My wife and I would love to travel outside of the US. Could you offer advice or just share stories?
So my wife and I would love to travel and go somewhere. We are currently students living in Oklahoma and I have never been outside of the US(she has been to Mexico and Japan.) I would love to see Europe as I love European/Roman history. I've heard bad things about places like Italy and Rome which was disappointing but I would like to hear more from you all! If you'd like I do have questions on travel but I would love to hear any stories about travels to foreign countries you may have(good or bad). A few questions I have if anyone would offer input: What is pricing like? How much per day USD would you expect us to spend(including lodging and food) what are some ways to save without killing the experience of visiting(The things we would like to do will be listed below) Is there a way to save on a ticket? I would pretty much be limited to only traveling during Summer(May-August, and winter December, January due to school) Where have you been that you would recommend? How much of a language should we know before travelling to that country? Any other advice? Some more details: We are both over 21 We both love scenery. Oceans, forests, green things, mountains, etc. I love the look of green Scottish fields you see in pictures(whether or not this is accurate I have no idea) However how would this compare to the US? Is there something special about the scenery in Europe compared to say the USA? We both enjoy history though I love Medieval/Roman history a lot more. So if there are any good castles or ruins to see feel free to let me know. We both greatly enjoy foods, especially seafood/Mediterranean food. However we do enjoy tasting new things and trying new stuff as well. Museums, art etc would all be cool Architecture is awesome Culture is also equally awesome and I love to see different cultures. Neither of us drink that much and when we do it's generally a drink or 2 so the bar scene isn't important at all. Feel free to ask any questions that will help, thank you to everyone who takes the time to respond!
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[ { "body": "Visit Turkey!! Friendly culture, fantastic food, Greek/Roman culture up the wazoo, fabulous beaches, great shopping. It's a beautiful place and there is something there for everyone. You could spend your entire trip on a beach, or touring ancient ruins, or shopping, whatever you like. Lived there for 7 years when my dad was in the military; would love to go back some day. We were in Izmir for that time and I was able to visit that part of the country and the coast a lot. Never made it to Istanbul, but I've heard it is incredible.\n\nEdit: Yeah, it's a cheap Google search, but lots of info here. Kusadasi is a great coastal area and you'll find lots of ruins/etc nearby as well. I highly recommend Ephesus (also called Efes), it's a MUST if you go to Turkey. http://www.goturkey.com/", "score": 3 }, { "body": "Last year, me and one friend travelled across europe by train. \nhttp://www.b-europe.com/Travel/World/InterRail/InterRail%20Global\nI'm a Belgian though, I don't know if Americans can buy this. Definitely worthwile though.\n\nI loved Rome. It's a fantastic city, really my all-time favorite destination. I would definitely recommend you go there. I also loved Berlin, didn't care much for London and Paris. \n\nI can't really give an estimate on pricing, the differences between countries and even in countries are enormous, it really depends on where you're going and and the quality of hotels you're looking for. In Rome I stayed in a crappy hotel next to the station, but it was dirt cheap. :) \n\nAbout the nature, again the differences between countries are huge. We're talking about an entire continent here after all. There's a lot of beautiful architecture, again pretty much everywhere. :)\n\nLastly, English should suffice, especially among younger generations English is well known. The only countries where I think you'll really hit a language barrier are Italy and France but ofcourse it never hurts to know some basic sentences like how to get directions and such. Don't let the languages scare you, in a lot of countries and especially among -30 year olds English is pretty much the second language.", "score": 3 }, { "body": "**England:** very pretty, friendly people. Street signs often don't explain what they mean, speed limit signs are just numbers, they don't say speed limit, for example. London, at least when I was there, was easily the dirtiest city I've ever been in. Covered in a brown bubble and I had to hold my shirt over my nose every time I went out because it smelled horrible. The country side is fantastic. Food is comparatively bland from America. Edit: The train system was pretty horrible as I remember. We missed our plane because the train broke down on the way. Hopefully this has been improved since, as this was in '99.\n\n**Austria:** Lots of beer. Fantastic countryside. Food is slightly more flavorful, lots of meat and pastries. Wasn't that hard to find our way around. A few basic phrases and words will orient you easily, and many people speak at least a little English. The churches are amazing! Especially in Old Town (at least in Innsbruck, where we were). Chocolate is exquisite. Seriously. Chocolate shop is where it's at. Salzburg is pretty cool too, though I spent less time there.\n\n**France:** Had an unfair advantage as we stayed with natives who were family friends. Some of the sites of Paris are really cool, but I highly recommend visiting Versailles and the palace. Once every 4 years I think they put on a show in the palace gardens that reenacts the building of the palace. Not sure if they still do that, but if you can get in on it it's incredible. Be wary of the food. For France, please know your menu. They do eat things there that the American stomach cannot handle, much like if you tried to drink tapwater in Mexico. Raw and undercooked meat, for example.\n\n**Italy:** Fantastic art. Prime tourist spots will be ridiculously expensive. Streets are small and close quartered, best to either walk or take a taxi, but we did get shortchanged by our taxi driver, so be careful. Italy was the one place in Europe I did not get hit on. We think this was because I have dark hair and looked like a native. My mother, however, was blonde and got groped in the street.\n\n**Germany:** Didn't like. There seemed to be an issue with crime, lots of graffiti, smoke stacks creating haze. Could have just been where we stayed though. Otherwise much like Austria in orienting yourself.\n\nIt's been about 10 years since I've been any of these places, so there may be some changes, but these were my experiences. I've been more places, various Caribbean islands and such so I can offer more if interested, but you seemed mostly interested in Western Europe.", "score": 3 } ]
Has anyone wondered about this??
Falling out of a tree... Ur just about asleep and u start to dream, then you later on 5 minutes after u feel like ur falling but when u wake, your leg gives a shake or a kick. Don't you wish you knew why you do that yet its always a mystery... I wonder!!
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[ { "body": "It's called 'Hypnic myoclonia' It's just a muscle contraction in the first stage of sleep, I get it all the time! ", "score": 6 }, { "body": "My mom always told me it was a leftover instinct from when we used to sleep in trees.\n\nObviously falling out of the tree you were sleeping in was a really dangerous thing, so our bodies are really really sensitive to any perceived falling sensation when you're trying to sleep.\n\nDo I have science to back that up? No, not at all. It's just a hypothesis.", "score": 3 } ]