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[ { "content": "ako lang ba nagpapaa sa bahay?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "ako din.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "kayong dalawa lang.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Nani??? I thought everyone does it.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "o sige, kayong tatlo na.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Wala na bang dadagdag?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "pwede sumali?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ako din pasali", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Same", "role": "user" }, { "content": "ako din. di ko feel magtsinelas sa bahay, like ko nga yung malamig na sahig eh hehe", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Jourland", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Lol alam ko yan ah", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Most likely certain people from that \"other sub\" don't want this non-political sub to succeed.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I stay away from that \"other sub\". It's a cesspool. Full of feminazis, snowflakes, and anti-government sentiments. That's how I see it anyways.\n\nI want this sub to grow. 🤞\n\nEdit: I no longer want this sub to grow. Mod doesn't give a shit.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Lol your mod of your beloved subreddit doesn't care. Whine all you want. \n\nhttps://www.reddit.com/r/CasualPH/comments/bvow7k/meta_if_admin_does_not_want_us_to_engage_here/eps5zkv/", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thanks for the link. To be clear, \"beloved\" is too strong of a word. 😋\n\nIt's only now that I've seen a mod see its members as insects (locusts) and squatters (Kadamay) in his/her/its \"lawn\".\n\nBy any chance, do you know an alternate sub with the same subject (Philippines sans politics)? Hopefully with a non-troll mod.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Lone creator-mods literally are Gods of their own subreddits. It's just him, and so there's no check and balances of his total mod privileges (unless a higher deity, aka an actual admin is called upon). You just have to acknowledge that. \n\nI think you were misled when you thought this sub was going to be 'non-political'. I saw the post: https://www.reddit.com/r/Philippines/comments/bv3alo/meta_is_it_time_for_a_rcasualph/ , and the creator-mod of /r/CasualPH 's opinion about the whole thing was not consulted. He didn't say the sub wasn't going to be politics-discussion-free. \n\nI don't think a politics-discussion-free subreddit is necessary as you can just block users who frequently posts politics shit. I sadly don't know of a politics-discussion-free ph-related subreddit.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Wait, you were banned?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yeah. The moderators there decided to ban me instead of doing something to lessen the amount of shitposts in r/Philippines", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "They forgot?\n\n> instead of doing something to lessen the amount of shitposts in [r/Philippines](https://www.reddit.com/r/Philippines/) \n\nThey did that by banning you! lol", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Yung backjoy! Para makeep nya posture nya kahit nakaupo all day.\n\nOr back massager. Lagi naman may sale.\n\nOr inexpensive options:\n- tumbler\n- mug\n- karesperespetong pen\n- quality sunscreen for the commute\n- hand cream\n- cute toiletry bag for the office\n- quality mouse kasi masakit sa kamay pag trackpad lang\n- cute rain boots/jelly shoes kung magkocommute sya pag bagyo\n- quality baunan and utensils for snacks/meals\n\n\n\nOk so hindi ako marunong magformat ng list. Sori.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "These are all solid options! Thank you so much!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Welcome. Update us with your final choice. You're a vgood jowa, very supportive. :) Good luck kay gf mo. :)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thank you so much! My top choices would be backjoy, karesperespetong pen, handcream, and baunan, although i’m thinking of your other options din.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Yung akala ko magiging magandang hangout place ang r/CasualPH kasi toxic na raw sa main sub, tapos lalangawin lang rin pala dito... tapos the mod doesn't give a fuck about us pa... sorang sakit grabe... I was so heartbroken...", "role": "user" }, { "content": "**tangina** u/EinKreuz **masakit**", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Kahit saan kayo lahat tumambay magiging toxic. Dahil kayo mismo mga balat sibuyas na toxic", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Step by step:\n\n1. Me: \\*invites girl to date on a day near our birthdays (magkalapit kami ng birthday)\\*\n2. Girl is well-aware that I like her, accepts date\n3. I arrive early (lagi akong maaga)\n4. Girl arrives 3-4 hours later\n5. Kain and exchange gifts\n6. Girl leaves after a few minutes kasi may emergency daw\n7. Ako naman umoo na lang pero sa sobrang lungkot ko nun, inubos ko na lang din yung pagkain na natira niya\n\n​\n\nYeah, maraming beses na akong ni-reject but this one rings clear in my head kasi katatapos ko lang mag-birthday, kaya mas preferred ko na din na ako na lang gagala kapag birthday ko.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "First time niyo bang mag-meet that time?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Not really. Schoolmates kami eh.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ah, I thought it was your first time, and when she saw you, she didn't like your appearance, that's why she left. Do you think why she did that? May nasabi ka kayang bagay na hindi niya nagustuhan?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "> May nasabi ka kayang bagay na hindi niya nagustuhan? \n\nWala naman sa naalala ko. Hahaha.\n\n​\n\n> Do you think why she did that? \n\nHanggang ngayon iniisip ko pa din eh. Haha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "My ka date syang ibs 100%", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Where the iced coffee lovers @ ?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Cold brew ftw.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I think he has to work on his issues first before dating somebody. How can you take care of the person in front of you if you don't know how to take care of yourself right? Hindi ikaw ang makakapagayos sa kanya kundi sarili nya lang.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "He expects me to take care of him because he can't take care of himself, actually. Though it's taken a toll on my mental health, too.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "If so then that defeats the purpose of having a partner. You guys are supposed to lift each other up pero kabaligtaran ung nangyayare. Mahirap yan ate", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "During college, 1 hour ang intayan or 2 hours. May mga taong nagmamalaki pa na late lagi sila kala nila mga cute kawaii walang arte sila kapag ganon. Kapag on time dumating, nagmamalaki lalo tila isa itong achievement whereas ito ay isang obligation. Tapos ang tawag pa sa akin ay early bird dahil palagi raw ako early and ang OA ko raw.\n\nSobrang accurate nito OP. I love you", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Kasama pa diyan yung hindi ka na mapakali kapag malapit na yung oras tapos wala ka pa dun sa meeting place. Hahahaha\n\n​\n\n> Sobrang accurate nito OP. I love you \n\nI love you too. HAHAHAHAHAHA", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Kadalasan ito yung mga tao na love me or hate me kind of personality, yung take it or leave it, non-apologetic kind of persona. Nakakainis at gusto ko na lang sila kotongan\n\nAs an early bird, my mind goes like \"dadating pa kaya sila? Pinagtitripan lang ba nila ako? Baka mamaya akala nila joketime lang yung plan namin? Dapat natutulog na lang muna ako ngayon kung paghihintayin nila ako ng 2 oras\"", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ako minsan naiisip ko na din na umuwi na lang para hindi na din ako mapagod kakahintay, kaso hanggang isip lang kasi hinihintay ko pa din.\n\n​\n\n> Kadalasan ito yung mga tao na love me or hate me kind of personality, yung take it or leave it, non-apologetic kind of persona. \n\nNa dadagdagan pa nila ng: \"At least dumating pa, hindi ba?\"", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Hindi rin naman kailangan lahat sabayan. Piliin mo lang yung mga tao o bagay na dapat may pakialam ka :) Currently reading Mark Manson's *The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F\\*ck,* feel ko makakatulong ito sayo.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "binabasa ko rin ngayon. haha", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "That's cool. Sad that you get smart-shamed for it.\n\nI play several musical instruments. None of them expert level though lol", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Coool. Yan pangarap ko dati eh, kaso hindi na natuloy.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Not a music major and never had any formal music training, but I regularly play in a church choir. So it's a given na alam ng mga tao na marunong akong tumugtog.\n\nWhat they don't know is that I have perfect pitch, yung so-called \"golden ears\" or *oido* (which is often mispelled as \"wido/widow\"). Sometimes, there would be occasions where I'd be ask to play a song I've never heard of in my entire life (e.g. kung sa weddings, or kung sa special occasions gaya ng first communion or kumpil). Ang gagawin ko lang, ipapakanta ko yung kanta dun sa nagrequest. Then habang nakikinig ako, I'd figure out what the chords are. Pagdating ng totoong tugtugan/kantahan at nagsimula na ako, nagugulat yung nagrequest kasi it's as if nakopya ko yung kanta galing sa CD (kung me CD man).", "role": "user" }, { "content": "COOOOOOOOOOOOOL", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Kaya kong dilaan yung siko ko.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Kaya ko rin dilaan siko mo. 😝", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Sa pangaraw-araw nating buhay, mas malaking percentage ng oras natin ay nasa trabaho, I think. Kaya ganun? So nagiging conversation starter ang mga pinagkakaabalahan natin for a living. Haha! For sure, he/she didn't mean to make you uncomfortable.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yeah good point. I guess we just have to more vocal on things that make us uncomfortable.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Maybe you can try evading the question in a nice way or kahit pabiro.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Umm pede ko ba sabihin na impluwensya din ng media?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Kinondisyon eh. Pati tuloy pamantayan sa paghahanap ng kaparehas nag-iba.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Meron pang common paniniwala na ang \"happy ending\" ay pag kinasal ka na sa taong mahal mo. Lage kasi ganon ending sa movies na parang lahat ng problema tapos na.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Agree. That is why I do not watch local TV.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "The more you look for it the less you'll see it. Placing too much focus gives you too much attention to detail. Human personality is complex and looking for perfection will make you see more imperfections than usual.\n\nIt's not the people around you, it's how you approach and see life. Give your environment a chance to show it's aesthetics. Let go of your self-destructive mindset. The real toxic here is not the people, it's your mindset. It harms you and your potentials.\n\nMy professor once told us something about 'toxic.' We tend to label people doing etiquettes off our standards as toxic. Socially, toxic people are those who manipulate others to do 'wrong.' It's toxic because it harms us and our personal values.\n\nDuring our childhood, our parents used to tell us not to be friends with 'bad' kids. Our professor told us that this is a bad approach. A better way is to teach them how to say no and to stick to your values.\n\nShe's in a circle where people swear and drink a lot. She even once labeled them as toxic people. One day she realized that whenever her friends hangout with her, they decrease their bad habits. That's the time when she realized that you didn't really have to ditch 'toxic' people. You simply just need to stand your ground and to be yourself. At the end of the day, you are setting an example; unconsciously.\n\nDon't lose hope in humanity. You cannot control the road to be ideal but you can control the bus and have a smooth ride. It's all our mindset.\n\n\nEDIT:\nYou don't have to look for friends that will 'stay.' They are their own and should never move according to your will (exaggerating). There are people, like me, that will always jump from one circle to another. I do this because I like the diversity of personalities in my class. I always get this 'galit ka ba sa amin' and 'sabihin mo lang' expressions. I hate it. Let your friends be.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That's why i would like to take a rest from it. Anyway, i really appreciate this. ♥", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Rest and do something about it hahahaha. I know it's not easy but you should make this as an obligation rather than an advise.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yep! Maybe a me time or a day of sleep would do haha. Thanks!", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I have this concept I have been writing in my mind inspired by The Twilight Zone and Black Mirror. An anthology series exploring Filipino Traits, Thoughts and Traditions.\n\nOne episode I have in mind is about the exploration of an unhinged person who believes he has been 'gayuma-ed' by a beautiful co-worker. \n\nI already know how it should feel and look and I am trying to find a way to make it and release it on youtube.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "WHY ARE WE NOT FUNDING THIS?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "love", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Gaygay gay", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Hanapin mo yung kusang dumadating.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Hamburjer", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Sometimes listening is enough. Most people don't really want others to solve their problems for them, gusto lang nila may karamay at mapapalabasan ng sama ng loob. This is based on my experience an is very true for girls.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thank you, Escanor.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "magSick Leave, the best!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Nakaka demonyong suggestion ito. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "o alam mo na gagawin mo bukas. haha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Wahahaha. mamaya umpisahan nang umarte, onti ubo ubo.. “guys punta ako clinic, medyo masakit ulo ko” hahahaha para bukas alam na.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Bute maaraw ngayon, at hindi tayo nagSL. haha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "gy shift ako beshy mas malaki ang chance kong mag SL kasi naguulan ng hapon hahahahaha", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Good for you. hahaha. tulog tulog kapatid kapag may time", "role": "user" }, { "content": "hindi ako nakapag SL, pero late ako ng 3hrs sa shift hahahaha", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Dun ako sa pangalawa. At least db kahit maghintay ka meaningful naman ung replies na makukuha mo. E dun sa una mababali na lang ung likod ko kakacarry ng conversation e wala pang masyadong napagusapan.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hahaha...ito yong tipong chat mo malanobela tapos ang reply malatelegrama. Wtf!? Sunog ka lagi dito. No matter how humorous you are mauubusan ka pa rin.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Comfort. Anxiety has made uncomfortable for as long as I can remember. Gusto ko lang kumalma at maging kumportable.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I get you. \nThat one person na kahit anong trigger ni anxiety you defy the doubts and malicious excuses kasi mahal mo and the comfort it gives you from that person is well enough as a reward for defiance.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "you gotta appreciate yourself first", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Can't recommend this enough.\nYou can't pour from an empty cup. Pour yourself first.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "mer nel's cake in los banos", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yeah right. 10 times more delicious than red ribbon and goldi yet cheaper.\nSa SM Calamba lang ako bumubili. Layo ng LB eh.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "dun kasi ako nag-aral dati kaya malapit lang. nakakakain na lang ako ngayon pag dumadalaw na lang", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Step back, sit down, think, hard. What activity or situation would give you a continuous cashflow on a regular basis?\n\n \n\n\nMarry rich.\n\nDo business.\n\nWork where you get paid more than you want.\n\nInherit a trust fund.\n\nGet stuff that people will pay you to borrow/use, like apartments or lawnmowers or bags.\n\nGet stuff that bear fruit that you can sell, like plants or animals.\n\nMake a blog, or a youtube channel. You seem interesting, share your point of view.\n\nReduce expenses. Living far away from the city means lower cost of living but higher transport cost ang longer travel times.\n\nDon't add to your expenses by buying in installments.\n\nGet other people to pay for you!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Suggested blog/vblog title: Abi Normal", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "pasuggest rin kung pwede hahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ang suggest ko sayo: Inner Glow\n\n \n\n\nMadami ka pinoproblema, madami sa worries mo e hindi mo kaya gawan ng paraan, learn to live with them. May prayer that goes something like ”please give me the strength to fix the things i can, the patience to accept the things i can't fix, and the wisdom to know the difference\". I like how you are concerned with the environment and how you try to make others be concerned about it as well. I don't like how you worry too much about acne, it's your hormones at your age, it will pass. What is more important than looks is your inner confidence, your inner beauty, your inner glow. Kapag accept mo ang sarili mo, kapag naniniwala ka na may something special about you, people will see that confidence. Kung ikaw mismo ayaw mo sa sarili mo, ang mga tao aayawan ka din. Kung feeling mo beautiful ka, may inner peace ka about yourself, makikita din yun ng iba, hindi ng lahat pero kahit konti lang, basta importante din sila na hindi sa physical appearance lang nakatingin. Ayaw mo ng boyfriend na liligawan ka kasi maganda ka, paano ka na kapag nakakita sya ng mas maganda sa iyo? Be good, be happy, be confident.\n\n \n\n\nInner confidence, inner beauty, inner glow!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I appreciate that you really took your time for this, for me! thank you :)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Wow, This memory was from my then boyfriend from college. He's from Liberal Arts and I'm from Engineering.\n\nSo minsan ako sumusundo sa kanya sa building nila kasi mas malapit sila sa exit ng uni. Tapos pag magpapaalam na sya sa mga friends nya sasabihin nya.\n\n\"Una na ko, andito na yung Misis ko.\"\n\nEh kaso naghiwalay kami eh hahaha <\\3", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Huy answeet 💕💕💕", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Allow yourself a bit of space to grieve. If you skip this phase, you won't ever get over her completely. Bite down and ride it out.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I so agree with you on this one. In fact, there are 5 stages of grief. It's much healthier to acknowledge the predicament (case in point: the relationship is over) and deal with it constructively. If OP doesn't, there'll be a part of him tied to the past that can potentially affect his next relationship.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Bat ako parang na-stuck pa rin sa 5 stages of grief na yan :<", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Saan sa denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Depression", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sorry to hear. Prayers help.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "You probably have a mismatch of love languages and/or priorities. It’s sad though, instead of talking about it and making compromises that would work for both of you, you jumped the gun and broke up. Maybe there’s more to it than just her feeling you’re needy.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thank you for this. I really want an unbiased opinion tungkol dito.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "But the hookup posts aren’t in the wrong, it just so happens people are more inclined to look for that. May mga wholesome posts din naman, to be fair. Create a new thread about what you’re looking for instead of waiting for others to post about stuff that you like. Or maybe stop browsing the sub altogether if it depresses you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Maybe push dirtyPhr4r back. But i know it's a risk i have to take kasi.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Nope. At 8 I'd have thought I'd have a girlfriend now but look at me, swiping right for guys on Tinder lmao", "role": "user" }, { "content": "🤣", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Wow, that third girl is really something. Actually, they all are. \n\nWhy can’t they just be honest right then and there instead of making up excuses. It’s one thing to ghost, but to make a person go all the way to them just to get flaked is so rude and inconsiderate. No respect for other people’s time and feelings. No common decency >:( \n\nI’m sorry that happened to you, Mr. hardboiledeggnog.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I've never been so frustrated in my life because of what happened tonight. It's probably the alcohol kicking in, but I feel so sad, ugly and disgusted with myself. Thank you for your words.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Don't let it get to you, OP. You're not lacking, it's just that these people are after something else. Hugs! 🍻", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Sobrang prevalent nito from lower to upper middle class. Usually yung mga parents pa yung nagyayabang - ipagyayabang ka, or yung mga achievements mo kahit wala naman nagtatanong. Magiging dating mayabang kaming pamilya.\n\nTapos may side comments pa sa mga pinsan nyo na kesho ganito lang tinapos, ganyan lang ang work.\n\nId been on the receiving end of both types of verbal assault from my mom. I'm sure she means well but it comes as super tacky and wildly off-putting. Nung nag aaral pa ako, \"buti pa si anak mo engineer ang pinili. Etong si panda ewan ko ba bakit nag marketing?\"", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ouch. Very Ouch", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Haha natawa ako sa tulfo and chill kasi wala naman chill ang mga tulfo :p all the best to you!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Nakakaentertain kaya. Hahaah. Thank you!", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Sabagay puwedeng iwan mo lang siya sa background na nagrereklamo hahaha", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Yes. You need to have a reason why you wake up in the morning to do things over and over again. Find a purpose. To me, my purpose is masarap kumain.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Food is life, di ka na nasaktan busog ka pa. not unless bawal sayo food na yun and pwede mo pala ikamatay.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Life is meaningless really. But that doesn't mean it can't have a meaning. Ilaw ang magbibigay ng meaning sa sarili mong buhay. Everything can be worth it if you think it is worth it", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Point taken this is a good eye opener, thank you", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Personally, I don't know what's out there and why we're here. Regardless of whether such a Supreme Being exists, we should always strive to be the best person that we can be.\n\nBeing nice and stuff shouldn't be guided by the fear that eternal damnation awaits for those who don't do so. Just be a nice and decent person. If God and Heaven does exist, then good for you. If not, then at least you'll leave a nice impression on other people. And who knows, maybe they'll look up to you and copy what you've done and accomplished and increase the number of good people in the world.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I agree with you.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "A person can never be too busy to make time for people who matter. It won’t even take a minute to compose a short reply. \n\nActions speak louder than words", "role": "user" }, { "content": "sabagay, i always reply kahit short message lang na lunch or dinner na ganon. Anyway, di ko naman na masyado iisipin, & i deleted telegram muna para iwas ako hahahaha thanks for the insight!", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Sobrang basic ng \"jowa requirements\" ko. \n\n1. Do not cheat on me. \n\n2. Message me at least once a day, so I know you're still alive. \n\n3. Be there for important occassions in my life. \n\n4. See me at least once a week. \n\n5. Legit date night at least once a month. \n\nI don't require guys to hatid me home, lalo if walang car. It's too much of a hassle for him and medyo impractical. I can go home by myself. \n\nUsually mas gusto ko din kkb or we pay alternately for dates. \n\nSa texts, I like exchanging messages throughout the day pero kung busy sya, all he has to do is say so. It's perfectly understandable.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Totally agree with this", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Sabi nga sa hello love goodbye, mas okay daw mag open up sa strangers, para walang judgment. Which is totoo naman base sa mga nami-meet ko haha, mas marami pa akong chika sa mga strangers kesa sa mga kaibigan ko", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Same!!!", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Tapos 'yung iba \"sana oil\" pa noh? Like WTF :)))", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Pota ano pa. Sakit sa tenga/mata.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "RIP Tagalog :)))", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "/r/im14andthisisdeep", "role": "user" }, { "content": "/r/im4feetthisisdeep", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "2 lang yan pre, either pangit ka or mahirap ka. Kaya pa kapag wala ang isa, pero kapag both ka, no comment na po.\n\nSeryoso OP. Hayaan mo ang mga tao na hindi marunong makuntento sa buhay, or talagang may problema lang sila. \n\nHindi naman ibig sabihin na may SO ay auto happy life, meron iba na gusto lang ang feeling na magka SO, pero hindi yun tao na gusto mismo nila.\n\nMeron din naman na puro landian akala inlove kaya shoot to the top, pagdating dun at normalize na feelings, going downhill fast inaabot.\n\nIba't ibang scenario sa life yan. Wala tayong alam sa full story nila.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "At least sila nakaka-experience HAHAHAHAHAHAHA", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Dude, seriously. May mga tinatawag tayong toxic or abusive relationships. Subukan mo yang sabihin sa mga taong nastuck sa mga ganung relationships. Ayusin mo mindset mo boi.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "My criteria for a good gift:\n1. Magagamit\n2. Magtatagal\n3. Mura*\n\nWith these in mind, I always go for socks, blanket, or cool looking mugs. Pero nasa tito phase na ako eh. Depende siguro sa pagbibigyan. Haha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Lahat ng sinabi mo asa list ng gusto kong mareceive! Also essentials like lotions, body wash, skin care hehehehe", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "i dont think you wanna buy your skin care routine from lazada/shoppe nakakatakot", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Lahat naman siguro nadaanan ito, especially ung mga hindi pa nakaka-experience or ung matatagal na ang last relationship. Though maraming nagsasabi na gusto, may mga iba admit hindi ready. Marami rin akala nila hindi sila ready, so paralyzed lang. Marami rin magsasabi ng iba't ibang excuses na hindi naman connect, madalas tungkol sa qualities or attributes ng sarili. Marami rin nagsasabi na sa sobrang baba ng chance na magkatuluyan, sayang lang sa oras.\n\nPara sakin, kung gusto mo na talaga at sa tingin mo ready ka na sa commitment, edi gora. It doesn't matter if you're a strong independent woman. Kahit na kaya mo buhatin ang mga bagahe mo mag-isa, hindi naman ibig sabihin na bawal humingi ng kasama sa pagbubuhat. Huwag mo intayin ang oras na hindi mo na kaya.\n\nSince you've already established that you want to pursue a relationship (or maybe you're just temporarily feeling it), the next step is to check if you're emotionally prepared for it. Also, don't go into the market with a glass half empty kind of attitude (i.e. assuming guys just want to bang), but don't be complacent about picking your dates as well. It's not going to be a fun process unless timing sa unang date mo nag hit off talaga kayo. Otherwise, it demands a lot of sacrifice. And I think, if hindi man kayo nagkatuluyan in the end, pero nagagawa naman niya ung boyfriend duties at naexperience mo naman ang feeling bilang isang girlfriend, at ang pinaka importante, may natutunan ka, edi hindi siya sayang sa oras.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ang ganda ng hanash", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Linyahan ng mga panget na lalaki", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hahaha! Oo, usually yung mga nag rereply ng ganon super tigang. Pag una palang ganon na sagot sayo, panget yun.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Linyahan ng mga panget na lalaki na walang kwenta.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Galit na galit? Haha! Pero true, panget lang talaga ang gumagamit non", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "“For those women who are offended by indecent proposals, chill lang kayo” \n\nLol i don’t know what you’re trying to say here, but consent is #1 when it comes to sex. Be respectful about women’s boundaries and feelings. Kaya lang naman may nao-offend dahil unsolicited o di kaya bastos yung pagka “propose” niyo. \n\n“Chill lang kayo” yeah okay pag may nacat call sa sidewalk, chill lang. Pag may humipo na total stranger, chill lang. Sorry but as a woman who’s on alert 24/7 kahit naka sweater and pants with no skin showing at all, ang hirap mag “chill lang” when you don’t even feel safe? Wtf OP", "role": "user" }, { "content": "This is true! Hindi dahil na merong iba na pumapayag and open to discuss on such acts, eh it is a viable reason for other people to just commit on indecent proposals. It is some hasty generalization on that part. Also, sabi nga, consent is #1, not only sa sex but also sa kahit anong sexual act. I have female friends that are open to discuss their sexual experiences to others like me pero when it comes to people na nakahook-up na nila dati and \"magbibiro\" na irarape siya eh she would not hesitate to report them to the authorities.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Ewww rape jokes are not okay 100%!! Kaya anlalakas ng loob nila eh pati si president natin nagbibiro ng ganun. Haaay. :-(", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Being too much and not being enough at the same time.\n\nNakakatawa na lang kasi yung too much part - Dalawang ex ko na nagsabi na emasculating ako i-date. I’m too independent. Too practical. Too realistic. Too detached to be clingy. At this point, I’m also too annoyed at the line “you deserve the best and I don’t feel like that’s me yet”. (Sobrang BS, kasi wala siyang sagot sa \"but I just want you\")\n\nPero not enough - not enough para hindi saktan, not good enough to not lie to, not good enough to be treated like a partner you can share your burdens to, not enough to commit to. Sadt.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "feel you sis! <//3 Laban lang.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Well if they cant accept your decisions then they might not be a good pwople to be with on those kind of occassions. We have 3 people in our barkada who doesnt drink but still niyayaya namen sila na sumama since ang gusto namin ay makasama sila and not to feel left out.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "It’s easy saying no to friends but it’s a lot harder with colleagues. Connections are your best bet surviving in the corporate world, and kailangan “makisama”. Never thought I’d say this but one really needs to kiss ass in order to survive adulting. That includes drinking, a LOT of drinking, especially when it’s your manager who’s giving you a tall shot of Absolut, then another of Jack Daniels, until you can no longer count how many you’ve been drinking.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "That's very unprofessional of your manager.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "It happens all around the globe, man.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Tiwala lang, wag mo hanapin kusa yan dadating sayo. - from ur friendly tito", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Hi, hydrate yourself. haha segue lang", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Life is too short for mind games. Do what you want, show people you care, send that reply 3 seconds after you read his message. Just know when you’re already being taken for granted.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "This very point was brought up in the office discussion earlier. That sometimes you need another person to say hey you're being taken for granted already coz you won't be able to see it yourself", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I used to play that game but not anymore. Typing ka palang may reply na agad ako sayo. There is never too much on the right person 😉", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Haha ganyan din kasi ako. I'm constantly online and on my phone coz of work, and sanay ako na talagang nagrereply agad when I am able to.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Keep doing that. Kung di niya gusto yan, move on. Okay lang maging clingy :)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "...I actually don't have time to be constantly clingy hahaha. Sometimes na within seconds sumasagot na ko, may times din na whole day di ako makakareply. \n\nSiguro this post was me rambling about how sometimes it's hard to gauge interest. Labo. Haha.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "If he likes you, he will pursue you. If you like him, you should pursue him as well. Screw all these rules and mind games. If he's the kind of person who will be turned off by you replying too soon, being too available, or putting in too much effort, is he really the kind of man you want to be with? Don't change your personality to fit what he wants, that's how you end up with someone you're not truly compatible with. Do what you're comfortable with and what feels right for you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "THIS. SOLID. Sobrang spot on.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Don’t get me wrong, it’s okay to make libre for as long as yung tao ang nag-initiate. Hindi yung tinutukso / pinipilit just because ✌🏻", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You're on firm ground, friend. Don't throw a peace sign after that.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Nakakalungkot man aminin pero mga babae ang need mag adjust para di mabastos ng mga ibang lalake. Di naman porke naka sexy na damit yun girl invitation na yun para bastusin sya.\nKumbaga pag yun bahay ba maganda tapos ninakawan kasalanan ba ng may ari ng bahay na ninakawan sya? Kasi maganda bahay nya?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Well, kasalanan din ng may-ari kung hindi niya sinasara ang pinto or hindi nag-install ng cctv para mahuli ang magnanakaw\n\nAnyway, hindi rin naman dapat kasi ikumpara ang sexual harassment sa simpleng pagnanakaw. Yung isa ay may simpleng depinisyon at yung isa ay medyo mahirap mabigyan ng konkretong halaga.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "K", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Galing mag reply nito, gusto mo ba ng gintong medalya?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Children. Are. Not. A. Retirement. Plan.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Also, hndi dapat WaLanG MgA UtAnG nA LoOb or nanunumbat. Responsibilidad ng parents yon e", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "ghosting ba na maituturing kung hindi naman siya talaga nagrereciprocate ng same amount of interaction in the first place?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ayan ang di ko sure haha last time I dated someone di pa uso yung term na ghosting kaya di ako masyado familiar sa meaning niya", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "palagay ko hindi siya ghosting kung wala siyang paki sayo.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "\"You can't ghost a ghost OP ;)\"\n\nOn a serious note, base sa mga sinasabi mo, she is not interested at all. So, don't bother.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Relate ako dito. Habang tumatanda ako ayoko na dumaan birthday ko kasi parang required ka maging happy kasi birthday mo. I hate it. Last birthday ko wala naka alala kaya natulog lang ako whole day.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sana nga may \"skip\" kapag birthday. It's just an ordinary day for us.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My first and last relationship ended two years ago. We were still in college then. My parents were very strict with me that I always fail to go out at night to be with her. She was that kind of person who always wants to go out at night to go to cafes, bars etc. Even though I was always with her during day time (since we are in the same block back then), my inability to go out with her at night took a toll in our relationship. She basically cheated on me with someone who can do what I can't and someone who's better looking and richer that me lol\nEver since then, I focused on myself. Started my master's degree and learning ways to earn money. \nSa ngayon, I am trying to get back into the dating scene. Pero wala eh, it's either di sila interesado saken or babae din gusto nila haha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I'm sorry to hear that. You didn't deserve to be cheated. I'm glad, though, that you have done ways to further yourself. Keep it up—for sure there'd be someone who's gonna accept you for who you are. Happy for you, fam :)\n\nEdit: overlooked misspelling", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Not always tho...\n\nSome bad guys just win and good folks just slowly die screaming", "role": "user" }, { "content": "True. As much as I want to believe in Karma. Hindi talaga eh.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Just be parient, baka hindi pa tamang panahon for karma to hit them hard :)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "*looks at various world leaders*\n\n\nIf you say so.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "She simply grew up faster than you did.\n\nDid you love her because she was this pretty salon-hopping woman or because she was someone driven with her own plans for the future? Sounds like the former. If you can't love her simply because she's starting to look a lot different than before, what about when she starts getting maternity fat rolls?\n\nYou could get out. Then eventually complain about the new woman turning into a boring person as well. Surprise surprise, bro. Life will always settle into this boring stable routine. I mean there was probably a last time when your parents stayed out until 4am from a night of drinking at bars. And there were numerous untold times your mom chose to devote her time to raising money for her children than to go out for a mani-pedi.\n\nIf a boring stable lifestyle doesn't suit you, then you should leave her so she could find someone else. You're already near the kind of life that most 'forever alone' people dream of.\n\nAlso, keep in mind you're not supposed to expect people to keep you entertained all of the time. Before deciding if you want to split up with her, maybe you're just bored because you're a pretty boring person too. Try to get a wholesome hobby that doesn't have to include her, like biking or hiking.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "T H I S.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "You can be a wonderful person and be the wrong person for someone at the same time.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I've been going on a lot of dates this year.. And I've heard different versions of that multiple times, so I don't know what's wrong with me", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Sometimes it's you, sometimes maybe it's not you; who is to say?\n\nThink of this way: it's a way to spare your feelings. Would you rather they say you're a horrible person and they don't want to be with you? How would YOU break up with someone who you think is a nice person overall but you don't really want to be with or don't really see a future with?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I would prefer honestly so I can work on those things that they didn't like about me which is the reason why they didn't wanna stay", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Chances are, you're not a horrible person. Sometimes you just gotta dig thru the dirt before you get to the gold.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "In a man's lingo. \"Okay ka pero di ikaw ang hanap ko\". Minsan ang lalake para di makasakit nagbibigay na lang ng compliment sabay wishful na magsasabi na swerte ang lalake na makakapartner mo", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sana naman meron na ako yung hanap haha. Kasawa na yung ganyan eh", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Darating din yan. May kusa... basta maging open ka lang", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "1st thing you should remember is dapat \n\n~~gwapo/maganda~~ aesthetically pleasing ang iyong itsura para mabawasan yung stalker or creep vibes. then second, extrude confidence. wag uutal-utal magsalita pero wag din magtunog mayabang sa mga sasabihin.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ito ang pinaka realistic na approach. Aminin na natin na looks does matter talaga since yan ang magdadala lalo na first impression ang habol ni OP.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Hmmm Did the guy know that you only wanted a wholesome meetup? I guess one way to also help you avoid hooking up is to not make it conducive for that. Don’t make it easy to happen. Like meet up in a public place, not where there’s only the two of you in the room. Yung malayo sa mga motels. Kasi kung kailangang bumyahe ka pa para pumunta sa place, pwedeng deterrent sya or pwede ka pang magisip-isip while on the way. \n\nBesides, your worth is not based on that din naman. And it’s not always your fault. Some guys are just predatory and mapilit, kahit na sinabi mo nang wholesome lang, they’ll still try to convince you otherwise. Watch out for those lang din.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I like this bit of advice. Sound.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "\"Sipa\" daw sabi ni Mommy Dionisia", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Kek naman yun e, walang y yun", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "To be fair, there are still a couple of good people in r4r whose intentions are genuine. Yun nga lang, you’d be bombarded with tons of messages and requests, and you have to filter out the good and the bad as you get to know them. Some are easy to spot cause it’ll be obvious with their first message, while others pretend to ride with what you’re looking for just so they could get your attention. \n \nDon’t take everything at face value, and always be wary of the people you talk to especially in the beginning. Most guys will be nicest when they want something from you, so don’t just trust them completely right off the bat. Explicitly define what you’re looking for. Check their profiles, see the types of comments they leave. Talk to them. Once the novelty fades, you’re left with those who *might* be interested in you, cause the ones only looking for a good time will get tired of trying to get in your pants.\n\nYes, kailangan malakas ang loob mo for this. Trial and error talaga eh. But who knows, you might get lucky the next time.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Comment saved", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Age and intelligence do not always correlate. The former is never a guarantee that you'll get yourself a brainy partner who will fuck your brains out.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "If you will check OP's profile, posts and comments submitted. You will understand why she did put that age range.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Did the same. Scanned them earlier. Took a good grasp anyway.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "pag pinapafeel sayo na hindi sya interested, stop na. wag mag sayang ng oras sa tao na hindi iniintindi yung attention na binibigay mo.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "+1", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Let normies be normies. Just silently judge them nalang.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Sigh", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When speaking english, think in english not in filipino. Don’t translate from filipino to English.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Oh that's new, I find this idea interesting. Would this change my personality?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Not quite. But you’ll be more confident. \nAlso read out loud an English book. It helps me learn pronunciation. I use The Free Dictionary app to learn the British and American pronunciation.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "High probability na mali lang yun grupo/taong nakikilala/nakakasalamuha mo.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yeah. Thanks!", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Baka na-miss mo lang yung feeling ng may jowa? Reminiscing :)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Parang ganun na nga. Nakakamiss din kasi talaga.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "It happens man, pero tiwala lang, It'll get better", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Does it really?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yep. It does. Kaya mo yan, ikaw pa!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm going to quote our high priestess, Shakira (Sison), \"The objective of dating is to be rejected as quickly as possible. Life is too short and love is too rare to settle for a lukewarm version, or to change yourself to be liked by someone who never will, when there's someone else you're ignoring who can love you for who you are.\"\n\nYou're doing great by putting yourself out there, OP. The rejection does take a toll on your self-esteem. It helps to think of it as finding 100 ways it won't work, teaching and helping you find the one that will.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thank you so much for this. It dampened the pain. Hahaha.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "\"Am I in love with you or am I in love with the feeling?\" I salute you for being aware haha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Pag naalala mo kasi yung tao, bigla mong maiisip na may valid reasons nga din pala bakit kayo nagbreak. Tsaka ko narealize na ang namimiss ko to be exact are the happy memories. Haha", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "She was probably superficial. Malamang siguro bak nakita ka niya, and she didn't consider you as an eye candy kaya ghinost ka na. Sorry dude, perils of meeting people online.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Ok lang maging choosy. Lahat naman tayo may preferences. Olats lang na ididitch ka bigla knowing na nasa parehas kayong lugar. Labo ni ate girl. Hahaha.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Yup, yun nga. Di ba kayo nag exchange photos beforehand?? Nakkairata la kasi alam mong nandun na siya sa venue e no? Lol", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I did not ask for her photo because my only intention is that I want a concert buddy for that show. I would have sent a photo if she asked kaso hindi rin naman siya nanghingi.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "oo nga naman. wala naman reason to exchange photos if wala namang dating or meeting up to have anything more than a concert buddy. she is weird. but im glad u enjoyed the show hey! ive posted before, movie buddy naman un gusto ko. and kahit di ko naman din bet ung guy to like date him or what, i still went on with it kasi kasama lang din naman talaga ang hanap ko non.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "And really, folks—especially certain men, you aren’t owed anything—frequent posting doesn’t mean you deserve to get laid. \n\nIf you’re not getting your desired response, maybe assess the quality of your posts. And do NOT post something whiny or bitter. ESPECIALLY a rant on how fat/ugly/below standard some folks are. It’s an even bigger turn off and you certainly need to get your shit together before even attempting to get some ass. \n\nWhat sane person would be attracted to someone talking about how sad/bored they are? How ugly and demanding some folks are? Parang...kadiri diba. I’m speaking as a reasonably attractive person. Entitlement and insecurity are freaking easy to sniff out and dismiss.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "THIS SHOULD BE ANOTHER POST. preach!!!", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Kung trip mo yung niloloko ka edi siya na nga yun.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "What I mean is walang makapantay sa kanya like fucked up na yung ibang tao like may mahal ng iba or may true love na napunta sa wala and di na siya nagpapapasok ng iba.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Ha? nag papasok ng?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yung mga nakikilala ko. Like meron ng nakapunan sa puso nila.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Wag ka hahanap ng mga di pa nakaka move on.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Pero usually yun lang nahahanap ko. Like, napagtanto kong halos lahat ng nasa age na 21 may minahal na or what. I'm 21 btw", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Not true. 21 is still so young. A lot will change. I was wrong about a lot of things and have mistakenly thought I would forever feel the things I felt when I was your age.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Apparantly this sub has no strict policy and anyone can just post random things apart from politics", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yep. Can’t blame those folks when there are no set guidelines for this sub.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Thanks for the PSA. Saw someone in r/phgonewildcouples asking to swap girlfriends nudes yesterday. Maybe he’s running multiple accounts?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Possible. Sana pala na-identify muna sya para makilala.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Parang nakita ko ung handle nya sa phgw or other something before.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "Mag Reddit ka sa work, pare. Haha.\n\nAko kasi results oriented trabaho ko so halata pag hindi ako nagtatrabaho. \n\nPag di ka talaga masaya sa work, okay din mag focus sa self improvement. Learn a new language, train high intensity sa gym, meal prep, make art. Tapos work ka lang sa workhours mo. Hehe", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Guess self improvement might work. Might be me making excuses, pero diba nakakapagod ang commute pauwi. Pag uwi wala na gana gumawa ng iba.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Nakaka adik bro. Kelangan lang simulan. Power po sa inyo 😉", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "IMO, it’s really not a very good platform for forming meaningful friendships.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I agree with this one. If you want to make friends enjoy the outside world", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I thirdhand this. chz. true eh.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "I admire the strength.\nThis year you are stronger. Next year you'll be wiser\nGoodluck OP", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Thank you, kind stranger.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Fill the void. Pero, kahit makahanap ka ng kausap or ka-meet mo, the void is still there. Kasi, most of the time, saglit lang talaga kayo magkakausap or mag-kasama. Phr4r is just for flings and temporary urges lang talaga base sa nababasa or nakita ko.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I personally think na, if you search at the wrong places, yung void never ma fifill yan. It will always feel empty.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "It's true. It's a journey looking for that missing piece in our lives. It's just, some of us keep on looking for it in the wrong place. 😂 \nI guess anything that can give solace to our lonely souls is ok, even if it's temporary. Anyway, keep on looking guys.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "It is easier to tell your story to a stranger. I came here to Reddit with the same reason. I am burdened and Reddit became my safe space.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Did this too. Some of my stories na I cannot tell with someone close to me, sa stranger ko nakukwento.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Para sakin, kung di mo rin naman talaga kilala personally, wag nalang. Mas marami pang pwede gawin sa pera na pangbibili mo na mapapakinabangan mo pa. :)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Oo nga e.. Sabi nga ng kapatid ko, \"Wala naman silang magagawa kung wala kang dala pag-uwi.\" Hahaha", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "For me \"pag may sense kausap or matalino, mas madali bumibigay.\"", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yas! Pag may sense of humor din 😜", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "And may I add yung boses. Lalo yung whispering voice hay asdfghjkl ASMR lang 😂", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": ">Finally be in a relationship with someone that actually cares about the relationship and cares about my mental health and supports my dreams\n\nwe're always looking for these type of people to come in our life but the question is, are you ready to do the same to them?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "* ʰᵃʰᵃʰᵃ ⁿᵉʳᵛᵒᵘˢ ˡᵃᵘᵍʰᵗᵉʳ*", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Freedom from a toxic work and relationship", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Omg same sis, best feeling in the world no?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Indeed! Natanggalan ako ng tinik sa dibdib", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "It doesn't matter kung anong gender orientation nya. Pag di ka type ng isang tao tanggapin na lang and mag move on. One day sa future matatawa ka na lang sa sarili mo pag naalala mo", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Noted. Thank you!", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm getting bored as well. The whole routine of having to introduce myself and getting to know each other is starting to sound like a chore. I start to view any act of goodwill from the guy as possibly another way of him getting closer to the goal of getting in my pants. I count everything they say as disingenuous. It's really messing how I view people.\n\nSo now I'm looking into meeting semi-religious guys, businessesmen at least five years my senior, and single widowed dads. They have to have a boring lifestyle, a hunger for knowledge, and a mild temper. Three things most fuccboi bar hoppers and depressing weeb goths seem to lack.\n\nEdit: Of course observations are from my own biased personal experiences. I didn't quote from a sociology dating textbook.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "That's one way to generalize a whole gender group.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": ">So now I'm looking into meeting semi-religious guys, businessesmen at least five years my senior, and single widowed dads. They have to have a boring lifestyle, a hunger for knowledge, and a mild temper. Three things most fuccboi bar hoppers and depressing weeb goths seem to lack.\n\nI think I should be somehow offended but this whole thing is hilarious.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "and mundane perhaps? lol", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "He won't stop unless he knows you're not ok with it.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "this!", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "* I learned that you shouldn't trust other people so easily. You can treat other people with kindness and respect, and some of them won't even think twice about screwing you over just like that. \n\n* On the flip side, I also learned that people, even strangers, are capable of showing you so much kindness and support if you let them. \n\n* I learned that you should never ignore your gut. Pay attention to red flags and don't make excuses for other people's behavior. If they tell you who they are, believe them. \n\n* I learned that it's ok to ask for help and support when you really need it. It doesn't make you weak, it makes you human.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Right on!", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Magtoothbrush ka OP para mawala ang plaque", "role": "user" }, { "content": "hahahaha!! thanks man! Plague pala!!", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "hindi naman lahat pero meron talaga mga pinoy na toxic sa trabaho\n\neto ung mga nabigyan lang ng konting kapangyarihan e akala mo partner na sila ng may ari", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Meron kaming ganto kaso di namin pinansin for a week ayun na humble ulit", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "At a certain point calling yourself a sapiosexual comes off as pretentious and also kinda casts a big and weird net. Would be cooler to list specific things your brain enjoys. Books, music—what genre? Art? Which artist, medium?\n\nEDIT: read the thread before commenting. Not gonna engage na. Kapoy nako and I’ve been more than patient. \n\nTl; DR LOL @ the usage of the term sapiosexual without irony, amirite. \n\nBUT if you’re convinced it applies to you, GO AHEAD and be free! Free!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Mas convoluted pakinggan parang nakaka talino.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I guess it works as bait but actually landing a catch... *shrug*\n\nPero I guess it works if pareho kayong self-proclaimed na “sapiosexual” na mahilig sa “deep talks”.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "no offense pero... are you actually gatekeeping for \"sapiosexual\" people?", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "None taken. I think you mean am I gatekeeping the use of the term. God, no. \n\nPeople are very, very, very free to use it—I’m saying it can be unattractive and suggested being more specific about particular intellectual pursuits instead of using a lazy, dated and catch-all word.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Well...this makes a lot more sense.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Thanks, glad you asked so I could explain. Someone help /u/bettybloopbloop cos she strugglin", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Now OP, do you really just, just have to say that? :)\nI just love your intensity in putting labels :) and your failed attempt to mask your animosity to anyone who opposes your idea/s. But again, you’re covered by First Amendment, so it’s all good :) and you should take it easy when someone is not on the same side as you or the general population. \n\nYou’re unraveling here online and it’s not making you look good darling...take a step back and look inside you :)\n\nAnd at the end of the day, First amendment still rules. And having a little sense of humor is always charming. :)", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "The First Amendment doesn't apply to exchanges between individuals. Nor does it apply outside of the United States.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Absolutely wrong. :) I appreciate your attempt though. :)", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "The First Amendment isn't just a fancy-schmancy snynoym for \"freedom of speech\". But I'm not surprised that someone who'll happily die on the prententious hill of sapiosexuality isn't even sapient enough to use Google.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "The fact that you’re able to make such a statement unintelligible or not is a concrete example of first amendment. First amendment isn’t exactly just freedom of speech but it sure beats the hell out of having none :)", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Other point, yes may taong attracted sa bobo", "role": "user" }, { "content": "there *are* very attractive people whose selling point isn’t necessarily their brain. I agree w you.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "... possibly people with very good heart.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Exactly. Personally I’d gravitate towards that person more myself.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I've met really smart people whose \"nature\" is to care about people. Seems like what fits with them the best eh airheaded people with really good intentions/heart. \"Opposite attracts\", whatever. Really rare case, though. It seems now with the information age, people have become more dismissive of people who aren't able to readily spit out a 10-page essay on every little issue. Hence the birth of \"sapiosexuals.\"\n\nSpeaking of \"opposite attracts,\" would that mean sapiosexuals are.. Hahaha", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Tama. I like how you put it. And it’s that dismissiveness and taking themselves so seriously that I find off putting and hilarious. \n\nI personally have yet to meet a self-proclaimed sapiosexual who can explain complex things simply or can write without sounding like they jack off with a thesaurus. So again, not attractive to me. Not my kind of smart. \n\n*To me* ha, baka may magwawarla nanaman sakin kasi kinakawawa yung sapiosexuals. Lol don’t be mad. Di tayo talo 😂", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "I guess with the things I've said eh you can already picture out that I've always surrounded myself with people who I consider smarter than myself (which isn't hard, tbh, considering I'm a dum dum). What I've noticed eh the more they use vague/flowery/trendy/sensationalized terms, the more chances that they only have surface level understanding of the topic we were talking about. Actual smart people would love to touch the most minute detail of the topic.\n\nI guess we have the same experience. What I do these days to filter out the fake smart ones eh ask them something, anything. If their answer is not well thought out, you already know wassup. If their argument is something you've already heard of from Twitter, ask them why they believe that, they can't spit out any sort of explanation that didn't come from Twitter as well.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You sound intuitive and pretty eloquent for someone who calls himself/herself a dumdum 😉. I like it. You sound like someone who gets more out of life.", "role": "assistant" }, { "content": "Just a combination of daily observation + meeting so many people online + meeting \"sapiosexuals\" + dating someone whose only reference during an argument are Twitter threads with 10k+ RTs.\n\nBut, thanks. Hahaha.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You’re welcome!\n\n(Sorry this is my xxx profile, but im speaking sincerely hehehehe)", "role": "assistant" } ]