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Hello /r/relationships, I have a minor predicament on my hands. I currently work at a Credit Union as a teller and I enjoy my job for the most part. I get the pleasure of dealing with the general public and in return I get to talk to beautiful women. There is one woman in particular that I really like and would love to be in a relationship with her. The issue is she is a member at the credit union and hitting on members is frowned upon. I don't think there is an official rule, it's more of a common sense thing. That's not helping me because I want to remain professional, but at the same time get with her. The good news is this is not my career, I am in engineering school and hope to have a good internship by the end of the school year in May. What should I do here, I really want to be in a relationship with her, but at the same time I don't think I could deal with the awkwardness if she said no or if she closed her account?

I work at a credit union and I want to ask a member out, but I want to remain professional.

Is it a no go to ask someone out, but want to remain professional?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello /r/relationships, I have a minor predicament on my hands. I currently work at a Credit Union as a teller and I enjoy my job for the most part. I get the pleasure of dealing with the general public and in return I get to talk to beautiful women. There is one woman in particular that I really like and would love to be in a relationship with her. The issue is she is a member at the credit union and hitting on members is frowned upon. I don't think there is an official rule, it's more of a common sense thing. That's not helping me because I want to remain professional, but at the same time get with her. The good news is this is not my career, I am in engineering school and hope to have a good internship by the end of the school year in May. What should I do here, I really want to be in a relationship with her, but at the same time I don't think I could deal with the awkwardness if she said no or if she closed her account? TL;DR:

I work at a credit union and I want to ask a member out, but I want to remain professional.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello /r/relationships, I have a minor predicament on my hands. I currently work at a Credit Union as a teller and I enjoy my job for the most part. I get the pleasure of dealing with the general public and in return I get to talk to beautiful women. There is one woman in particular that I really like and would love to be in a relationship with her. The issue is she is a member at the credit union and hitting on members is frowned upon. I don't think there is an official rule, it's more of a common sense thing. That's not helping me because I want to remain professional, but at the same time get with her. The good news is this is not my career, I am in engineering school and hope to have a good internship by the end of the school year in May. What should I do here, I really want to be in a relationship with her, but at the same time I don't think I could deal with the awkwardness if she said no or if she closed her account? TL;DR: I work at a credit union and I want to ask a member out, but I want to remain professional.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello /r/relationships, I have a minor predicament on my hands. I currently work at a Credit Union as a teller and I enjoy my job for the most part. I get the pleasure of dealing with the general public and in return I get to talk to beautiful women. There is one woman in particular that I really like and would love to be in a relationship with her. The issue is she is a member at the credit union and hitting on members is frowned upon. I don't think there is an official rule, it's more of a common sense thing. That's not helping me because I want to remain professional, but at the same time get with her. The good news is this is not my career, I am in engineering school and hope to have a good internship by the end of the school year in May. What should I do here, I really want to be in a relationship with her, but at the same time I don't think I could deal with the awkwardness if she said no or if she closed her account? TL;DR: Is it a no go to ask someone out, but want to remain professional?<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend of almost 4 years has lost his job in February and since then has had no stable income. We have had to move back to my mothers house which is stressing me out to the moon and back due to her hoarding and the house being an hour away from the city. I'm 22F and still studying but also taking any and all temp jobs just to get some income. My boyfriend seems to literally not do anything - he checks LinkedIn for jobs every couple of days and occasionally sweeps the bedroom floor (he cooks dinner every couple of days which is a plus though) but other than that he is just sitting in front of his computer playing games. I think he is completely demotivated due to lack of work/income but he doesn't seem to be doing anything about it, saying he will start really checking for jobs tomorrow/on Monday/next week or whatever. How can I motivate him to work harder on finding a job, especially because he is rigid about his salary and won't take a job 'beneath him'. I am struggling and stressing here and need him to step up. Any advice how to gently push him to work harder on finding a job without making him feel like less of a man?

boyfriend is unemployed and doesn't seem to be doing anything to find a job, how can I help him find a job without sounding like a bitch?

Boyfriend has no job, has a lot of stress on his life and I need to show him how seriously I want him to work on it.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend of almost 4 years has lost his job in February and since then has had no stable income. We have had to move back to my mothers house which is stressing me out to the moon and back due to her hoarding and the house being an hour away from the city. I'm 22F and still studying but also taking any and all temp jobs just to get some income. My boyfriend seems to literally not do anything - he checks LinkedIn for jobs every couple of days and occasionally sweeps the bedroom floor (he cooks dinner every couple of days which is a plus though) but other than that he is just sitting in front of his computer playing games. I think he is completely demotivated due to lack of work/income but he doesn't seem to be doing anything about it, saying he will start really checking for jobs tomorrow/on Monday/next week or whatever. How can I motivate him to work harder on finding a job, especially because he is rigid about his salary and won't take a job 'beneath him'. I am struggling and stressing here and need him to step up. Any advice how to gently push him to work harder on finding a job without making him feel like less of a man? TL;DR:

boyfriend is unemployed and doesn't seem to be doing anything to find a job, how can I help him find a job without sounding like a bitch?<|endoftext|>

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Boyfriend has no job, has a lot of stress on his life and I need to show him how seriously I want him to work on it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend of almost 4 years has lost his job in February and since then has had no stable income. We have had to move back to my mothers house which is stressing me out to the moon and back due to her hoarding and the house being an hour away from the city. I'm 22F and still studying but also taking any and all temp jobs just to get some income. My boyfriend seems to literally not do anything - he checks LinkedIn for jobs every couple of days and occasionally sweeps the bedroom floor (he cooks dinner every couple of days which is a plus though) but other than that he is just sitting in front of his computer playing games. I think he is completely demotivated due to lack of work/income but he doesn't seem to be doing anything about it, saying he will start really checking for jobs tomorrow/on Monday/next week or whatever. How can I motivate him to work harder on finding a job, especially because he is rigid about his salary and won't take a job 'beneath him'. I am struggling and stressing here and need him to step up. Any advice how to gently push him to work harder on finding a job without making him feel like less of a man? TL;DR: boyfriend is unemployed and doesn't seem to be doing anything to find a job, how can I help him find a job without sounding like a bitch?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend of almost 4 years has lost his job in February and since then has had no stable income. We have had to move back to my mothers house which is stressing me out to the moon and back due to her hoarding and the house being an hour away from the city. I'm 22F and still studying but also taking any and all temp jobs just to get some income. My boyfriend seems to literally not do anything - he checks LinkedIn for jobs every couple of days and occasionally sweeps the bedroom floor (he cooks dinner every couple of days which is a plus though) but other than that he is just sitting in front of his computer playing games. I think he is completely demotivated due to lack of work/income but he doesn't seem to be doing anything about it, saying he will start really checking for jobs tomorrow/on Monday/next week or whatever. How can I motivate him to work harder on finding a job, especially because he is rigid about his salary and won't take a job 'beneath him'. I am struggling and stressing here and need him to step up. Any advice how to gently push him to work harder on finding a job without making him feel like less of a man? TL;DR: Boyfriend has no job, has a lot of stress on his life and I need to show him how seriously I want him to work on it.<|endoftext|>

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Yesterday, I finally became that girl who goes into the bathroom to cry while at work. I work at a domestic violence shelter, and normally I'm pretty capable of brushing things off. I'm somewhat ashamed to say that it was not secondhand truama that led me to weep in the bathroom stall like a little girl, but my coworkers. It had been a rough day, which are pretty normal around here, but it was a tolerable level of rougness. My patience was wearing thin and I just wanted to go to the support group for advocates and take a breather. Unfortunately, my coworker decided at that time to demand that I clean one of the recently vacated rooms. Not just clean it, but DEEP clean it. I'm not talking clean-it-like-your-parents-are-coming-home-after-a-weekend-away type clean. I mean, she wanted it hospital-grade clean. She wanted to be able to perform surgery on any surface of that room. The checklist she gave me- handwritten of course- had at least thirty tasks on it. For a dorm-sized room. I lost it, guys. I just completely lost my shit. I told her that I would be happy to help clean that room, but she was absolutely off her rocker if she thought I was going to spend the next four hours cleaning by myself. She was incensed at my apparent refusal, and though I tried to reiterate that I would do it, but not alone, she started screaming for the lead advocate to put me in my place. Well, the lead advocate just didn't want to deal with the situation and told me to just do it. I was absolutely frustrated, appalled, and overwhelmed. And so...I went into the bathroom and cried. Then I went and cleaned the stupid room.

I was stressed, my lazy coworker demanded I clean every speck of dust from a room alone, I lost my shit, my supervisor sided with my coworker.

Coworker thinks it's okay to ask me to clean a room she thinks is a dumpster, so I cried. Then I cleaned it.

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I was stressed, my lazy coworker demanded I clean every speck of dust from a room alone, I lost my shit, my supervisor sided with my coworker.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Yesterday, I finally became that girl who goes into the bathroom to cry while at work. I work at a domestic violence shelter, and normally I'm pretty capable of brushing things off. I'm somewhat ashamed to say that it was not secondhand truama that led me to weep in the bathroom stall like a little girl, but my coworkers. It had been a rough day, which are pretty normal around here, but it was a tolerable level of rougness. My patience was wearing thin and I just wanted to go to the support group for advocates and take a breather. Unfortunately, my coworker decided at that time to demand that I clean one of the recently vacated rooms. Not just clean it, but DEEP clean it. I'm not talking clean-it-like-your-parents-are-coming-home-after-a-weekend-away type clean. I mean, she wanted it hospital-grade clean. She wanted to be able to perform surgery on any surface of that room. The checklist she gave me- handwritten of course- had at least thirty tasks on it. For a dorm-sized room. I lost it, guys. I just completely lost my shit. I told her that I would be happy to help clean that room, but she was absolutely off her rocker if she thought I was going to spend the next four hours cleaning by myself. She was incensed at my apparent refusal, and though I tried to reiterate that I would do it, but not alone, she started screaming for the lead advocate to put me in my place. Well, the lead advocate just didn't want to deal with the situation and told me to just do it. I was absolutely frustrated, appalled, and overwhelmed. And so...I went into the bathroom and cried. Then I went and cleaned the stupid room. TL;DR: I was stressed, my lazy coworker demanded I clean every speck of dust from a room alone, I lost my shit, my supervisor sided with my coworker.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Yesterday, I finally became that girl who goes into the bathroom to cry while at work. I work at a domestic violence shelter, and normally I'm pretty capable of brushing things off. I'm somewhat ashamed to say that it was not secondhand truama that led me to weep in the bathroom stall like a little girl, but my coworkers. It had been a rough day, which are pretty normal around here, but it was a tolerable level of rougness. My patience was wearing thin and I just wanted to go to the support group for advocates and take a breather. Unfortunately, my coworker decided at that time to demand that I clean one of the recently vacated rooms. Not just clean it, but DEEP clean it. I'm not talking clean-it-like-your-parents-are-coming-home-after-a-weekend-away type clean. I mean, she wanted it hospital-grade clean. She wanted to be able to perform surgery on any surface of that room. The checklist she gave me- handwritten of course- had at least thirty tasks on it. For a dorm-sized room. I lost it, guys. I just completely lost my shit. I told her that I would be happy to help clean that room, but she was absolutely off her rocker if she thought I was going to spend the next four hours cleaning by myself. She was incensed at my apparent refusal, and though I tried to reiterate that I would do it, but not alone, she started screaming for the lead advocate to put me in my place. Well, the lead advocate just didn't want to deal with the situation and told me to just do it. I was absolutely frustrated, appalled, and overwhelmed. And so...I went into the bathroom and cried. Then I went and cleaned the stupid room. TL;DR: Coworker thinks it's okay to ask me to clean a room she thinks is a dumpster, so I cried. Then I cleaned it.<|endoftext|>

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Hi there. I'm single for 3 months now, it was a painful break up considering I really loved my ex, and maybe I still do. We were together for 2 years and I know for a fact that she has moved on, and I'm trying to do the same. So I met this girl, which is 21 as well. We've been out a couple of times, but just casual stuff, going to a cafe and that. Now we are both with finals and it's kinda hard to see each other because we spend all day in college studying. We text but last night she said that she needed to study. Should I text her today, or should i wait to see if she says something? I've always been confident about myself but since I broke up with my ex I'm not really sure how to act around women.

don't know how to act around this girl I met, or other girls, since my last break up

I'm a 21 year old guy who broke up with my ex and just met a new girl.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi there. I'm single for 3 months now, it was a painful break up considering I really loved my ex, and maybe I still do. We were together for 2 years and I know for a fact that she has moved on, and I'm trying to do the same. So I met this girl, which is 21 as well. We've been out a couple of times, but just casual stuff, going to a cafe and that. Now we are both with finals and it's kinda hard to see each other because we spend all day in college studying. We text but last night she said that she needed to study. Should I text her today, or should i wait to see if she says something? I've always been confident about myself but since I broke up with my ex I'm not really sure how to act around women. TL;DR:

don't know how to act around this girl I met, or other girls, since my last break up<|endoftext|>

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I'm a 21 year old guy who broke up with my ex and just met a new girl.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi there. I'm single for 3 months now, it was a painful break up considering I really loved my ex, and maybe I still do. We were together for 2 years and I know for a fact that she has moved on, and I'm trying to do the same. So I met this girl, which is 21 as well. We've been out a couple of times, but just casual stuff, going to a cafe and that. Now we are both with finals and it's kinda hard to see each other because we spend all day in college studying. We text but last night she said that she needed to study. Should I text her today, or should i wait to see if she says something? I've always been confident about myself but since I broke up with my ex I'm not really sure how to act around women. TL;DR: don't know how to act around this girl I met, or other girls, since my last break up<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi there. I'm single for 3 months now, it was a painful break up considering I really loved my ex, and maybe I still do. We were together for 2 years and I know for a fact that she has moved on, and I'm trying to do the same. So I met this girl, which is 21 as well. We've been out a couple of times, but just casual stuff, going to a cafe and that. Now we are both with finals and it's kinda hard to see each other because we spend all day in college studying. We text but last night she said that she needed to study. Should I text her today, or should i wait to see if she says something? I've always been confident about myself but since I broke up with my ex I'm not really sure how to act around women. TL;DR: I'm a 21 year old guy who broke up with my ex and just met a new girl.<|endoftext|>

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So this all started a couple months ago. I was dating a woman, let's call her Betty. Betty and I got along great and I got to the point where I wanted to start introducing her to my friends. Mainly my best friend, who just happens to be a woman (Sally). Betty and I met my BFF at a bar surrounded by our mutual friends and Sally's bf. After that night, things got weird and Betty thought I was having an affair with Sally. Betty gave me an ultimatum and of course I picked Sally. Fast forward to a date I had a few nights ago. I let this date know that I have a female best friend and she's more like my sister and that there is nothing more there than plutonic friendship. Not to mention, Sally has an awesome boyfriend who is now my roommate. She said that she is not comfortable with a guy that has a female best friend. She said that men and women aren't meant to be best friends. Betty said the same thing. I'm not willing to give up my best friend as she is family to me. What do I do? Are there women out there that really don't mind a guy having a female best friend?

Me having a female best friend is causing me problems with dating even though it's 100% platonic.

my best friend is afraid that I have a female best friend. Are there women out there that don't mind a guy having a female best friend?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So this all started a couple months ago. I was dating a woman, let's call her Betty. Betty and I got along great and I got to the point where I wanted to start introducing her to my friends. Mainly my best friend, who just happens to be a woman (Sally). Betty and I met my BFF at a bar surrounded by our mutual friends and Sally's bf. After that night, things got weird and Betty thought I was having an affair with Sally. Betty gave me an ultimatum and of course I picked Sally. Fast forward to a date I had a few nights ago. I let this date know that I have a female best friend and she's more like my sister and that there is nothing more there than plutonic friendship. Not to mention, Sally has an awesome boyfriend who is now my roommate. She said that she is not comfortable with a guy that has a female best friend. She said that men and women aren't meant to be best friends. Betty said the same thing. I'm not willing to give up my best friend as she is family to me. What do I do? Are there women out there that really don't mind a guy having a female best friend? TL;DR:

Me having a female best friend is causing me problems with dating even though it's 100% platonic.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So this all started a couple months ago. I was dating a woman, let's call her Betty. Betty and I got along great and I got to the point where I wanted to start introducing her to my friends. Mainly my best friend, who just happens to be a woman (Sally). Betty and I met my BFF at a bar surrounded by our mutual friends and Sally's bf. After that night, things got weird and Betty thought I was having an affair with Sally. Betty gave me an ultimatum and of course I picked Sally. Fast forward to a date I had a few nights ago. I let this date know that I have a female best friend and she's more like my sister and that there is nothing more there than plutonic friendship. Not to mention, Sally has an awesome boyfriend who is now my roommate. She said that she is not comfortable with a guy that has a female best friend. She said that men and women aren't meant to be best friends. Betty said the same thing. I'm not willing to give up my best friend as she is family to me. What do I do? Are there women out there that really don't mind a guy having a female best friend? TL;DR: Me having a female best friend is causing me problems with dating even though it's 100% platonic.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So this all started a couple months ago. I was dating a woman, let's call her Betty. Betty and I got along great and I got to the point where I wanted to start introducing her to my friends. Mainly my best friend, who just happens to be a woman (Sally). Betty and I met my BFF at a bar surrounded by our mutual friends and Sally's bf. After that night, things got weird and Betty thought I was having an affair with Sally. Betty gave me an ultimatum and of course I picked Sally. Fast forward to a date I had a few nights ago. I let this date know that I have a female best friend and she's more like my sister and that there is nothing more there than plutonic friendship. Not to mention, Sally has an awesome boyfriend who is now my roommate. She said that she is not comfortable with a guy that has a female best friend. She said that men and women aren't meant to be best friends. Betty said the same thing. I'm not willing to give up my best friend as she is family to me. What do I do? Are there women out there that really don't mind a guy having a female best friend? TL;DR: my best friend is afraid that I have a female best friend. Are there women out there that don't mind a guy having a female best friend?<|endoftext|>

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I'm 17 and I have never felt an urge to get a girlfriend before, or at least this big, I have had some crushes but they where mainly made-up for some sort of social pressure, and I decided I wont make up crushes again and I'll wait till college to start looking for a GF. But then I met this new girl at school who just moved in here, she is in my french class and I see her only during that class(and in between clases obviously), she seems quite nice, I have talked to her a few times and I like her, she is very beautiful, perhaps way too much for me,but I really, really like her, its the first time in my life I have felt like this for a girl before, I would really like to talk to her, but since we dont see each other that often I see any kind of approach as a bit creepy(like, she is with her friends and I suddenly join in.................. mmmmmmm, nope). She has a twin brother by the way, with whom I get along really well, we are in just one class toghether but we get along quite well, but not as big friends. But I have found out before that the best way to aproach a girl isnt by her brother, that may make it even worse actually.What do you think? I'm starting to think if its even good to want to talk to her, I mean, I barely know her, but I really like her. Should I just abandon this girl and wait for a better opportunity? or should I start talking to her a bit more? I'm quite shy so this isn't that easy for me.

I met this new girl whom I barely know and barely see (just in one class) and I really like, should I let it go? or go on with it?

I have the urge to talk to a girl who may or may not be interested in me, should I try or not?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm 17 and I have never felt an urge to get a girlfriend before, or at least this big, I have had some crushes but they where mainly made-up for some sort of social pressure, and I decided I wont make up crushes again and I'll wait till college to start looking for a GF. But then I met this new girl at school who just moved in here, she is in my french class and I see her only during that class(and in between clases obviously), she seems quite nice, I have talked to her a few times and I like her, she is very beautiful, perhaps way too much for me,but I really, really like her, its the first time in my life I have felt like this for a girl before, I would really like to talk to her, but since we dont see each other that often I see any kind of approach as a bit creepy(like, she is with her friends and I suddenly join in.................. mmmmmmm, nope). She has a twin brother by the way, with whom I get along really well, we are in just one class toghether but we get along quite well, but not as big friends. But I have found out before that the best way to aproach a girl isnt by her brother, that may make it even worse actually.What do you think? I'm starting to think if its even good to want to talk to her, I mean, I barely know her, but I really like her. Should I just abandon this girl and wait for a better opportunity? or should I start talking to her a bit more? I'm quite shy so this isn't that easy for me. TL;DR:

I met this new girl whom I barely know and barely see (just in one class) and I really like, should I let it go? or go on with it?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm 17 and I have never felt an urge to get a girlfriend before, or at least this big, I have had some crushes but they where mainly made-up for some sort of social pressure, and I decided I wont make up crushes again and I'll wait till college to start looking for a GF. But then I met this new girl at school who just moved in here, she is in my french class and I see her only during that class(and in between clases obviously), she seems quite nice, I have talked to her a few times and I like her, she is very beautiful, perhaps way too much for me,but I really, really like her, its the first time in my life I have felt like this for a girl before, I would really like to talk to her, but since we dont see each other that often I see any kind of approach as a bit creepy(like, she is with her friends and I suddenly join in.................. mmmmmmm, nope). She has a twin brother by the way, with whom I get along really well, we are in just one class toghether but we get along quite well, but not as big friends. But I have found out before that the best way to aproach a girl isnt by her brother, that may make it even worse actually.What do you think? I'm starting to think if its even good to want to talk to her, I mean, I barely know her, but I really like her. Should I just abandon this girl and wait for a better opportunity? or should I start talking to her a bit more? I'm quite shy so this isn't that easy for me. TL;DR: I met this new girl whom I barely know and barely see (just in one class) and I really like, should I let it go? or go on with it?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm 17 and I have never felt an urge to get a girlfriend before, or at least this big, I have had some crushes but they where mainly made-up for some sort of social pressure, and I decided I wont make up crushes again and I'll wait till college to start looking for a GF. But then I met this new girl at school who just moved in here, she is in my french class and I see her only during that class(and in between clases obviously), she seems quite nice, I have talked to her a few times and I like her, she is very beautiful, perhaps way too much for me,but I really, really like her, its the first time in my life I have felt like this for a girl before, I would really like to talk to her, but since we dont see each other that often I see any kind of approach as a bit creepy(like, she is with her friends and I suddenly join in.................. mmmmmmm, nope). She has a twin brother by the way, with whom I get along really well, we are in just one class toghether but we get along quite well, but not as big friends. But I have found out before that the best way to aproach a girl isnt by her brother, that may make it even worse actually.What do you think? I'm starting to think if its even good to want to talk to her, I mean, I barely know her, but I really like her. Should I just abandon this girl and wait for a better opportunity? or should I start talking to her a bit more? I'm quite shy so this isn't that easy for me. TL;DR: I have the urge to talk to a girl who may or may not be interested in me, should I try or not?<|endoftext|>

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I totally fell for this amazing girl and she was actually really into me too, but I'm not as emotionally available as she needs in a partner and she got frustrated and moved on, but still wants to be friends and I do, too. But it sucks cause I'm not really over her so I'm avoiding her and it's hurting our friendship to the point where I feel like we might not even be friends and that's killing me. Not sure what to do, either way I'm gonna be miserable. The fucked up part is that I really identify with this misery and sort of enjoy it.

I have really strong feelings for a friend, but I'm not emotionally available because I'm not over her.

I fell for a girl, she got really upset and moved on, but I don't want to be friends with her (and I'm not, believe it or not) but I feel like we're not even friends. I want to be friends, but I don't want to be miserable.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I totally fell for this amazing girl and she was actually really into me too, but I'm not as emotionally available as she needs in a partner and she got frustrated and moved on, but still wants to be friends and I do, too. But it sucks cause I'm not really over her so I'm avoiding her and it's hurting our friendship to the point where I feel like we might not even be friends and that's killing me. Not sure what to do, either way I'm gonna be miserable. The fucked up part is that I really identify with this misery and sort of enjoy it. TL;DR:

I have really strong feelings for a friend, but I'm not emotionally available because I'm not over her.<|endoftext|>

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I fell for a girl, she got really upset and moved on, but I don't want to be friends with her (and I'm not, believe it or not) but I feel like we're not even friends. I want to be friends, but I don't want to be miserable.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I totally fell for this amazing girl and she was actually really into me too, but I'm not as emotionally available as she needs in a partner and she got frustrated and moved on, but still wants to be friends and I do, too. But it sucks cause I'm not really over her so I'm avoiding her and it's hurting our friendship to the point where I feel like we might not even be friends and that's killing me. Not sure what to do, either way I'm gonna be miserable. The fucked up part is that I really identify with this misery and sort of enjoy it. TL;DR: I have really strong feelings for a friend, but I'm not emotionally available because I'm not over her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I totally fell for this amazing girl and she was actually really into me too, but I'm not as emotionally available as she needs in a partner and she got frustrated and moved on, but still wants to be friends and I do, too. But it sucks cause I'm not really over her so I'm avoiding her and it's hurting our friendship to the point where I feel like we might not even be friends and that's killing me. Not sure what to do, either way I'm gonna be miserable. The fucked up part is that I really identify with this misery and sort of enjoy it. TL;DR: I fell for a girl, she got really upset and moved on, but I don't want to be friends with her (and I'm not, believe it or not) but I feel like we're not even friends. I want to be friends, but I don't want to be miserable.<|endoftext|>

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First off, I'm not too sure if this is the right subreddit so if you don't mind kindly redirecting me to a better suited one, that would be great. 8 pm last night I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket. On the bus ride back home after meeting her, I decided to visit my boyfriend at work instead of going straight home. I got off the bus and I briefly caught a glimpse of a van pulling in from right behind me. I didn't think much of it as it parked in front of the store as I opened the store door. So, I walked in, greeted my boyfriend as usual and watched 30 secs of Modern Family - until he walked in. He walked in and greeted me by my name, asked how I was doing, and did not break eye contact with me with a really unsettling smile. Even when my boyfriend asked him if he needed any help finding a specific brand of protein, he still kept his eye contact with me. At first, I thought he might've been a highschool teacher or even a professor - but I've never seen him or met him before. Nothing was familiar about him. I felt uneasy. I didn't like the way he was staring at me with those crazed eyes and my boyfriend didn't either. He was over weight, had some stubble, looked to be about 35-40, wore framed glasses, was balding, and honestly... He looked really creepy. His van was even more creepy. He left without us questioning him because I was still processing the situation. My boyfriend has been on edge ever since this incident and insists on driving me everywhere and never letting me go anywhere on my own. I'm quite paranoid but I'm not sure if my boyfriend is overreacting or not. He's been fixed on scrolling through sex offenders pages to see if he shows up on the registry. How can I show him that I can protect myself to put him at ease? What are some measures I can take to protect myself against potentional creeps? I really hope I'm overreacting, but there really was something off and scary about that guy...

creepy guy knows me but I dont even know him. I'm afraid. Bf is paranoid. What do I do?

I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket, and my boyfriend walked in and immediately stared at me with those creepy eyes. I'm paranoid and don't know how to put him at ease.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off, I'm not too sure if this is the right subreddit so if you don't mind kindly redirecting me to a better suited one, that would be great. 8 pm last night I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket. On the bus ride back home after meeting her, I decided to visit my boyfriend at work instead of going straight home. I got off the bus and I briefly caught a glimpse of a van pulling in from right behind me. I didn't think much of it as it parked in front of the store as I opened the store door. So, I walked in, greeted my boyfriend as usual and watched 30 secs of Modern Family - until he walked in. He walked in and greeted me by my name, asked how I was doing, and did not break eye contact with me with a really unsettling smile. Even when my boyfriend asked him if he needed any help finding a specific brand of protein, he still kept his eye contact with me. At first, I thought he might've been a highschool teacher or even a professor - but I've never seen him or met him before. Nothing was familiar about him. I felt uneasy. I didn't like the way he was staring at me with those crazed eyes and my boyfriend didn't either. He was over weight, had some stubble, looked to be about 35-40, wore framed glasses, was balding, and honestly... He looked really creepy. His van was even more creepy. He left without us questioning him because I was still processing the situation. My boyfriend has been on edge ever since this incident and insists on driving me everywhere and never letting me go anywhere on my own. I'm quite paranoid but I'm not sure if my boyfriend is overreacting or not. He's been fixed on scrolling through sex offenders pages to see if he shows up on the registry. How can I show him that I can protect myself to put him at ease? What are some measures I can take to protect myself against potentional creeps? I really hope I'm overreacting, but there really was something off and scary about that guy... TL;DR:

creepy guy knows me but I dont even know him. I'm afraid. Bf is paranoid. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off, I'm not too sure if this is the right subreddit so if you don't mind kindly redirecting me to a better suited one, that would be great. 8 pm last night I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket. On the bus ride back home after meeting her, I decided to visit my boyfriend at work instead of going straight home. I got off the bus and I briefly caught a glimpse of a van pulling in from right behind me. I didn't think much of it as it parked in front of the store as I opened the store door. So, I walked in, greeted my boyfriend as usual and watched 30 secs of Modern Family - until he walked in. He walked in and greeted me by my name, asked how I was doing, and did not break eye contact with me with a really unsettling smile. Even when my boyfriend asked him if he needed any help finding a specific brand of protein, he still kept his eye contact with me. At first, I thought he might've been a highschool teacher or even a professor - but I've never seen him or met him before. Nothing was familiar about him. I felt uneasy. I didn't like the way he was staring at me with those crazed eyes and my boyfriend didn't either. He was over weight, had some stubble, looked to be about 35-40, wore framed glasses, was balding, and honestly... He looked really creepy. His van was even more creepy. He left without us questioning him because I was still processing the situation. My boyfriend has been on edge ever since this incident and insists on driving me everywhere and never letting me go anywhere on my own. I'm quite paranoid but I'm not sure if my boyfriend is overreacting or not. He's been fixed on scrolling through sex offenders pages to see if he shows up on the registry. How can I show him that I can protect myself to put him at ease? What are some measures I can take to protect myself against potentional creeps? I really hope I'm overreacting, but there really was something off and scary about that guy... TL;DR: creepy guy knows me but I dont even know him. I'm afraid. Bf is paranoid. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off, I'm not too sure if this is the right subreddit so if you don't mind kindly redirecting me to a better suited one, that would be great. 8 pm last night I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket. On the bus ride back home after meeting her, I decided to visit my boyfriend at work instead of going straight home. I got off the bus and I briefly caught a glimpse of a van pulling in from right behind me. I didn't think much of it as it parked in front of the store as I opened the store door. So, I walked in, greeted my boyfriend as usual and watched 30 secs of Modern Family - until he walked in. He walked in and greeted me by my name, asked how I was doing, and did not break eye contact with me with a really unsettling smile. Even when my boyfriend asked him if he needed any help finding a specific brand of protein, he still kept his eye contact with me. At first, I thought he might've been a highschool teacher or even a professor - but I've never seen him or met him before. Nothing was familiar about him. I felt uneasy. I didn't like the way he was staring at me with those crazed eyes and my boyfriend didn't either. He was over weight, had some stubble, looked to be about 35-40, wore framed glasses, was balding, and honestly... He looked really creepy. His van was even more creepy. He left without us questioning him because I was still processing the situation. My boyfriend has been on edge ever since this incident and insists on driving me everywhere and never letting me go anywhere on my own. I'm quite paranoid but I'm not sure if my boyfriend is overreacting or not. He's been fixed on scrolling through sex offenders pages to see if he shows up on the registry. How can I show him that I can protect myself to put him at ease? What are some measures I can take to protect myself against potentional creeps? I really hope I'm overreacting, but there really was something off and scary about that guy... TL;DR: I met up with a girl to sell her an event ticket, and my boyfriend walked in and immediately stared at me with those creepy eyes. I'm paranoid and don't know how to put him at ease.<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a over a year, and in that time I've noticed an unpleasant habit of his. Whenever we're relaxing in bed watching a movie, cuddling, reading, or even when he is playing video games, he touches his penis/butt/butthole. I should clarify that this is not in a sexual manner. At first I let this odd habit slide, but now it's starting to irritate me, and more importantly gross me out. My boyfriend will very obviously (he will even tell me he is doing it, or raise his legs up so I can see.) itch his bare butthole, play with the hair around his butt and penis, cup his balls, etc. What makes this worse, is that even when I ask, or show distaste, he won't wash his hands. He acts like I'm being ridiculous when I ask. My boyfriend is very hygienic otherwise. He takes daily showers, brushes his teeth everyday, keeps his nails trimmed and clean, and never wears his clothes more than once before washing them. This behavior confuses me. I get touching his penis occasionally out of habit, or satisfying an itch but I feel like this is going too far. Reddit, am I being silly?

my boyfriend touches/itches his genitals and doesn't wash his hands afterwards. He does it in spite of my obvious discomfort, and I'm not sure how to approach this.

My boyfriend will touch his butt/penis/butthole a lot, and it makes me feel grossed out.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for a over a year, and in that time I've noticed an unpleasant habit of his. Whenever we're relaxing in bed watching a movie, cuddling, reading, or even when he is playing video games, he touches his penis/butt/butthole. I should clarify that this is not in a sexual manner. At first I let this odd habit slide, but now it's starting to irritate me, and more importantly gross me out. My boyfriend will very obviously (he will even tell me he is doing it, or raise his legs up so I can see.) itch his bare butthole, play with the hair around his butt and penis, cup his balls, etc. What makes this worse, is that even when I ask, or show distaste, he won't wash his hands. He acts like I'm being ridiculous when I ask. My boyfriend is very hygienic otherwise. He takes daily showers, brushes his teeth everyday, keeps his nails trimmed and clean, and never wears his clothes more than once before washing them. This behavior confuses me. I get touching his penis occasionally out of habit, or satisfying an itch but I feel like this is going too far. Reddit, am I being silly? TL;DR:

my boyfriend touches/itches his genitals and doesn't wash his hands afterwards. He does it in spite of my obvious discomfort, and I'm not sure how to approach this.<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend will touch his butt/penis/butthole a lot, and it makes me feel grossed out.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for a over a year, and in that time I've noticed an unpleasant habit of his. Whenever we're relaxing in bed watching a movie, cuddling, reading, or even when he is playing video games, he touches his penis/butt/butthole. I should clarify that this is not in a sexual manner. At first I let this odd habit slide, but now it's starting to irritate me, and more importantly gross me out. My boyfriend will very obviously (he will even tell me he is doing it, or raise his legs up so I can see.) itch his bare butthole, play with the hair around his butt and penis, cup his balls, etc. What makes this worse, is that even when I ask, or show distaste, he won't wash his hands. He acts like I'm being ridiculous when I ask. My boyfriend is very hygienic otherwise. He takes daily showers, brushes his teeth everyday, keeps his nails trimmed and clean, and never wears his clothes more than once before washing them. This behavior confuses me. I get touching his penis occasionally out of habit, or satisfying an itch but I feel like this is going too far. Reddit, am I being silly? TL;DR: my boyfriend touches/itches his genitals and doesn't wash his hands afterwards. He does it in spite of my obvious discomfort, and I'm not sure how to approach this.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for a over a year, and in that time I've noticed an unpleasant habit of his. Whenever we're relaxing in bed watching a movie, cuddling, reading, or even when he is playing video games, he touches his penis/butt/butthole. I should clarify that this is not in a sexual manner. At first I let this odd habit slide, but now it's starting to irritate me, and more importantly gross me out. My boyfriend will very obviously (he will even tell me he is doing it, or raise his legs up so I can see.) itch his bare butthole, play with the hair around his butt and penis, cup his balls, etc. What makes this worse, is that even when I ask, or show distaste, he won't wash his hands. He acts like I'm being ridiculous when I ask. My boyfriend is very hygienic otherwise. He takes daily showers, brushes his teeth everyday, keeps his nails trimmed and clean, and never wears his clothes more than once before washing them. This behavior confuses me. I get touching his penis occasionally out of habit, or satisfying an itch but I feel like this is going too far. Reddit, am I being silly? TL;DR: My boyfriend will touch his butt/penis/butthole a lot, and it makes me feel grossed out.<|endoftext|>

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He (36m) went out with a friend for drinks the other night. I (37f) have had issues for the last couple of years with his drinking and social activities that revolve around drinking. So he is well aware of how I feel about him staying out until 4am and coming home drunk. Yet he still does it...so I have been feeling pretty disrespected by him lately. We've been together for 13 years with no major problems until recently (his party habits). The only reason I found out he went to a strip club is I found his jacket in a pile of his dirty laundry this morning and noticed it smells like cheap perfume. I asked him about it and he said - "OK, I went to a strip club the other night. My friend wanted to go." I'm not angry that he would go to a strip club. I'm angry that he would hide something from me. It makes me feel like he has a secret life that is separate from our marriage. Am I being a freak about this?

husband of 13 yrs went to a strip club and hid it from me. I found out by accident and am upset that he feels the need to hide something from me.

husband went to a strip club the other night and hid it from me. I feel disrespected and am wondering if I should tell him to stop hiding it from me. I love him and am not sure if I should make a big deal about this or just let it go.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: He (36m) went out with a friend for drinks the other night. I (37f) have had issues for the last couple of years with his drinking and social activities that revolve around drinking. So he is well aware of how I feel about him staying out until 4am and coming home drunk. Yet he still does it...so I have been feeling pretty disrespected by him lately. We've been together for 13 years with no major problems until recently (his party habits). The only reason I found out he went to a strip club is I found his jacket in a pile of his dirty laundry this morning and noticed it smells like cheap perfume. I asked him about it and he said - "OK, I went to a strip club the other night. My friend wanted to go." I'm not angry that he would go to a strip club. I'm angry that he would hide something from me. It makes me feel like he has a secret life that is separate from our marriage. Am I being a freak about this? TL;DR:

husband of 13 yrs went to a strip club and hid it from me. I found out by accident and am upset that he feels the need to hide something from me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: He (36m) went out with a friend for drinks the other night. I (37f) have had issues for the last couple of years with his drinking and social activities that revolve around drinking. So he is well aware of how I feel about him staying out until 4am and coming home drunk. Yet he still does it...so I have been feeling pretty disrespected by him lately. We've been together for 13 years with no major problems until recently (his party habits). The only reason I found out he went to a strip club is I found his jacket in a pile of his dirty laundry this morning and noticed it smells like cheap perfume. I asked him about it and he said - "OK, I went to a strip club the other night. My friend wanted to go." I'm not angry that he would go to a strip club. I'm angry that he would hide something from me. It makes me feel like he has a secret life that is separate from our marriage. Am I being a freak about this? TL;DR: husband of 13 yrs went to a strip club and hid it from me. I found out by accident and am upset that he feels the need to hide something from me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: He (36m) went out with a friend for drinks the other night. I (37f) have had issues for the last couple of years with his drinking and social activities that revolve around drinking. So he is well aware of how I feel about him staying out until 4am and coming home drunk. Yet he still does it...so I have been feeling pretty disrespected by him lately. We've been together for 13 years with no major problems until recently (his party habits). The only reason I found out he went to a strip club is I found his jacket in a pile of his dirty laundry this morning and noticed it smells like cheap perfume. I asked him about it and he said - "OK, I went to a strip club the other night. My friend wanted to go." I'm not angry that he would go to a strip club. I'm angry that he would hide something from me. It makes me feel like he has a secret life that is separate from our marriage. Am I being a freak about this? TL;DR: husband went to a strip club the other night and hid it from me. I feel disrespected and am wondering if I should tell him to stop hiding it from me. I love him and am not sure if I should make a big deal about this or just let it go.<|endoftext|>

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Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. here's the breakdown We always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf We text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work She rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks i spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her shes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others she does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont she often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me going with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship any opinions, much appreciated!

i like a girl who im pretty sure is interested in me but she has a long term boyrfriend of 2 years, what can i do?

I like a girl in a relationship. get along well, shes flirty with me and texts me, but doesn't flirt or act the same way with me.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. here's the breakdown We always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf We text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work She rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks i spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her shes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others she does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont she often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me going with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship any opinions, much appreciated! TL;DR:

i like a girl who im pretty sure is interested in me but she has a long term boyrfriend of 2 years, what can i do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. here's the breakdown We always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf We text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work She rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks i spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her shes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others she does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont she often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me going with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship any opinions, much appreciated! TL;DR: i like a girl who im pretty sure is interested in me but she has a long term boyrfriend of 2 years, what can i do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Ive worked with this girl once a week for almost a year. When we met we were both in relationships, i came out of mine in august, she is still in her relationship of 2 years. We have always got on well and over the last few months have started getting very flirty. here's the breakdown We always joke that il take her out after we finish our work shift, she has told me that she wants to go out with me but cant because of her bf We text a lot and if we dont she will ask me why ive been so quiet when i next see her at work She rarely initiates the texting, which bothers me and makes it seem like she isnt interested, but then again, as she is in a relationship i wouldnt expect her too. the other day she told me she likes it when i text her and that she wants me to text her as ive ignored her this past couple of weeks i spoke to a colleague of ours and said i think theres a little something between me and this girl, he then went and told her that i thought she likes me or i like her. she mentioned to me that our colleague had told her this and she didnt seem to mind and still talks to me and replies to my texts. i neither denied or confirmed this as im not to keen on telling a girl in a relationship that i like her shes quite touchy feely with me and i havent noticed that between her and others she does mention her boyfriend a fair amount of times, sometimes i think its to make me jealous sometimes i dont she often compares me to the previously mentioned colleague as being guy friends but doesnt flirt or act the same with him as she does me going with my gut i feel its quite obviously a mutual liking but she still has a boyfriend for now. what shall i do? i like her and we get on really well but i need a plan of action, i dont really want to be strung along by a girl whos in a relationship any opinions, much appreciated! TL;DR: I like a girl in a relationship. get along well, shes flirty with me and texts me, but doesn't flirt or act the same way with me.<|endoftext|>

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I work as a bouncer at weekends for the extra cash and have done since January and this Saturday just gone the inevitable happened and it all went to hell at work as a rugby team had too much to drink and kicked off fighting each other, me and the other 3 guys working the bar went in to defuse the situation and I took the lead, clearly my nochalent attitude to their issues bothered one of them. He sniped me (hit me in the blind side) so I went on the defensive but I was in the middle of a lot of hostile bodies so I got my ass kicked, within seconds I realised my only goal was staying standing so that they couldn't kick me on the ground. I managed it. Pretty soon the bouncers from the bar across from us joined in and I got pulled out by two of the other guys the rugby team was beat back as they were drunk and we were sober. Once the situation was dealt with with the police and so on and the bar was closed up to clean up, the other 3 guys started cracking jokes and so on calling me "one of the boys" etc, what shocked me was how protective they were of me, as we had only met at the start of the shift but already we were bonded. The manager also came around to check when he was told about it and saw me sat there nursing a bust up hand and bloody lip and eye and cracked jokes too.

Got my ass kicked at work, coverage was great by my fellow bouncers & manager, felt awesome afterwards and proud of myself.

Got my ass kicked this weekend in rugby and got the support of the bar staff and the manager too! Pretty cool dude :D

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I work as a bouncer at weekends for the extra cash and have done since January and this Saturday just gone the inevitable happened and it all went to hell at work as a rugby team had too much to drink and kicked off fighting each other, me and the other 3 guys working the bar went in to defuse the situation and I took the lead, clearly my nochalent attitude to their issues bothered one of them. He sniped me (hit me in the blind side) so I went on the defensive but I was in the middle of a lot of hostile bodies so I got my ass kicked, within seconds I realised my only goal was staying standing so that they couldn't kick me on the ground. I managed it. Pretty soon the bouncers from the bar across from us joined in and I got pulled out by two of the other guys the rugby team was beat back as they were drunk and we were sober. Once the situation was dealt with with the police and so on and the bar was closed up to clean up, the other 3 guys started cracking jokes and so on calling me "one of the boys" etc, what shocked me was how protective they were of me, as we had only met at the start of the shift but already we were bonded. The manager also came around to check when he was told about it and saw me sat there nursing a bust up hand and bloody lip and eye and cracked jokes too. TL;DR:

Got my ass kicked at work, coverage was great by my fellow bouncers & manager, felt awesome afterwards and proud of myself.<|endoftext|>

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Got my ass kicked this weekend in rugby and got the support of the bar staff and the manager too! Pretty cool dude :D<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I work as a bouncer at weekends for the extra cash and have done since January and this Saturday just gone the inevitable happened and it all went to hell at work as a rugby team had too much to drink and kicked off fighting each other, me and the other 3 guys working the bar went in to defuse the situation and I took the lead, clearly my nochalent attitude to their issues bothered one of them. He sniped me (hit me in the blind side) so I went on the defensive but I was in the middle of a lot of hostile bodies so I got my ass kicked, within seconds I realised my only goal was staying standing so that they couldn't kick me on the ground. I managed it. Pretty soon the bouncers from the bar across from us joined in and I got pulled out by two of the other guys the rugby team was beat back as they were drunk and we were sober. Once the situation was dealt with with the police and so on and the bar was closed up to clean up, the other 3 guys started cracking jokes and so on calling me "one of the boys" etc, what shocked me was how protective they were of me, as we had only met at the start of the shift but already we were bonded. The manager also came around to check when he was told about it and saw me sat there nursing a bust up hand and bloody lip and eye and cracked jokes too. TL;DR: Got my ass kicked at work, coverage was great by my fellow bouncers & manager, felt awesome afterwards and proud of myself.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I work as a bouncer at weekends for the extra cash and have done since January and this Saturday just gone the inevitable happened and it all went to hell at work as a rugby team had too much to drink and kicked off fighting each other, me and the other 3 guys working the bar went in to defuse the situation and I took the lead, clearly my nochalent attitude to their issues bothered one of them. He sniped me (hit me in the blind side) so I went on the defensive but I was in the middle of a lot of hostile bodies so I got my ass kicked, within seconds I realised my only goal was staying standing so that they couldn't kick me on the ground. I managed it. Pretty soon the bouncers from the bar across from us joined in and I got pulled out by two of the other guys the rugby team was beat back as they were drunk and we were sober. Once the situation was dealt with with the police and so on and the bar was closed up to clean up, the other 3 guys started cracking jokes and so on calling me "one of the boys" etc, what shocked me was how protective they were of me, as we had only met at the start of the shift but already we were bonded. The manager also came around to check when he was told about it and saw me sat there nursing a bust up hand and bloody lip and eye and cracked jokes too. TL;DR: Got my ass kicked this weekend in rugby and got the support of the bar staff and the manager too! Pretty cool dude :D<|endoftext|>

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I met her online and we hit it off. Your typical story of how this person is perfect. We did this for a few months before finally starting to meet. I saw pictures of her, but they were deceitfully old. When I met them, I was completely turned off by how they looked in person. The problem for me though is I've never broken up with someone. I've always been the one that's been heartbroken. I don't know how to do this. People always say, "Just do it!" but it's so difficult because...well...it would hurt her feelings and like I said, I've never done it to anyone before me.

I'm broken up with and don't know how to break up with someone.

I'm a virgin. I don't know how to break up with my girlfriend. Please help.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met her online and we hit it off. Your typical story of how this person is perfect. We did this for a few months before finally starting to meet. I saw pictures of her, but they were deceitfully old. When I met them, I was completely turned off by how they looked in person. The problem for me though is I've never broken up with someone. I've always been the one that's been heartbroken. I don't know how to do this. People always say, "Just do it!" but it's so difficult because...well...it would hurt her feelings and like I said, I've never done it to anyone before me. TL;DR:

I'm broken up with and don't know how to break up with someone.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a virgin. I don't know how to break up with my girlfriend. Please help.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met her online and we hit it off. Your typical story of how this person is perfect. We did this for a few months before finally starting to meet. I saw pictures of her, but they were deceitfully old. When I met them, I was completely turned off by how they looked in person. The problem for me though is I've never broken up with someone. I've always been the one that's been heartbroken. I don't know how to do this. People always say, "Just do it!" but it's so difficult because...well...it would hurt her feelings and like I said, I've never done it to anyone before me. TL;DR: I'm broken up with and don't know how to break up with someone.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met her online and we hit it off. Your typical story of how this person is perfect. We did this for a few months before finally starting to meet. I saw pictures of her, but they were deceitfully old. When I met them, I was completely turned off by how they looked in person. The problem for me though is I've never broken up with someone. I've always been the one that's been heartbroken. I don't know how to do this. People always say, "Just do it!" but it's so difficult because...well...it would hurt her feelings and like I said, I've never done it to anyone before me. TL;DR: I'm a virgin. I don't know how to break up with my girlfriend. Please help.<|endoftext|>

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I went out for drinks with a friend last night because she was upset. Due to her urgency I didn't have time for dinner and had barely eaten all day so the bottle of wine I had (over the course of several hours) hit me hard. I also revealed to her something that has been weighing on my mind a lot: that I had found a lump in my breast. Relevant because I was very emotional and distressed about it. Next thing I know she leaned in and kissed me. Close mouthed, matter of seconds, but I was slow to respond because wine and emotions. I left the bar immediately and managed to get in touch with my SO and tearfully explain and apologise profusely on the walk home and he said he wasn't angry but we haven't talked in any depth about it. He's coming over tonight and I am fully prepared to grovel but I'm just so scared he'll leave me. Would you? How would you want someone to show just how furious they are with themselves and how sorry?

female friend kissed me. Told boyfriend immediately but racked with guilt and terrified he'll leave me. How to gain his forgiveness?

Female friend kissed me last night. Not angry. How do I make him understand how sorry I am?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I went out for drinks with a friend last night because she was upset. Due to her urgency I didn't have time for dinner and had barely eaten all day so the bottle of wine I had (over the course of several hours) hit me hard. I also revealed to her something that has been weighing on my mind a lot: that I had found a lump in my breast. Relevant because I was very emotional and distressed about it. Next thing I know she leaned in and kissed me. Close mouthed, matter of seconds, but I was slow to respond because wine and emotions. I left the bar immediately and managed to get in touch with my SO and tearfully explain and apologise profusely on the walk home and he said he wasn't angry but we haven't talked in any depth about it. He's coming over tonight and I am fully prepared to grovel but I'm just so scared he'll leave me. Would you? How would you want someone to show just how furious they are with themselves and how sorry? TL;DR:

female friend kissed me. Told boyfriend immediately but racked with guilt and terrified he'll leave me. How to gain his forgiveness?<|endoftext|>

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Female friend kissed me last night. Not angry. How do I make him understand how sorry I am?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I went out for drinks with a friend last night because she was upset. Due to her urgency I didn't have time for dinner and had barely eaten all day so the bottle of wine I had (over the course of several hours) hit me hard. I also revealed to her something that has been weighing on my mind a lot: that I had found a lump in my breast. Relevant because I was very emotional and distressed about it. Next thing I know she leaned in and kissed me. Close mouthed, matter of seconds, but I was slow to respond because wine and emotions. I left the bar immediately and managed to get in touch with my SO and tearfully explain and apologise profusely on the walk home and he said he wasn't angry but we haven't talked in any depth about it. He's coming over tonight and I am fully prepared to grovel but I'm just so scared he'll leave me. Would you? How would you want someone to show just how furious they are with themselves and how sorry? TL;DR: female friend kissed me. Told boyfriend immediately but racked with guilt and terrified he'll leave me. How to gain his forgiveness?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I went out for drinks with a friend last night because she was upset. Due to her urgency I didn't have time for dinner and had barely eaten all day so the bottle of wine I had (over the course of several hours) hit me hard. I also revealed to her something that has been weighing on my mind a lot: that I had found a lump in my breast. Relevant because I was very emotional and distressed about it. Next thing I know she leaned in and kissed me. Close mouthed, matter of seconds, but I was slow to respond because wine and emotions. I left the bar immediately and managed to get in touch with my SO and tearfully explain and apologise profusely on the walk home and he said he wasn't angry but we haven't talked in any depth about it. He's coming over tonight and I am fully prepared to grovel but I'm just so scared he'll leave me. Would you? How would you want someone to show just how furious they are with themselves and how sorry? TL;DR: Female friend kissed me last night. Not angry. How do I make him understand how sorry I am?<|endoftext|>

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So here's the story: About a month ago I went on a school sponsored trip with a bunch of schoolmates I'd almost never talked to (some I knew from sports, a few I had never seen in my life). We all became somewhat decent friends, and it was a blast. Near the end of the trip, we finally got access to computers (we had not had internet for a few weeks), and everyone quickly went on facebook, email, whatever. One girl (whom I admittedly like) was using a computer I was waiting for (not enough for everybody), and I saw that she had a few "pokes" that she promptly returned. Having never really poked people, I casually (at least from my perspective) remarked that I didn't see the point of it and had never poked or returned a poke. She laughed and then proceeded to go on my facebook page and poke me. When it was my turn to use the computers, I poked her back out of courtesy, thinking it would end there. A few days later, when the trip had ended and I was back home, I received a notification on my phone that she had poked me again. I didn't think anything of it, and poked her back, to get rid of the annoying notification on my phone. She poked me again the next day, so I poked her back. This went on for another day, but then the next day she didn't poke me. I didn't think much of it, but I noted it was a break in a pattern that I had grown accustomed to. She poked me again the next day, and I poked her back immediately to once again get rid of the facebook notification on my phone. Once again two days later, she pokes me. This continues, but soon the time intervals between her pokes increase. The problem is, every morning I wake up wondering whether she has poked me back yet. I'm always thinking about it when I go on facebook, and by transition her. Then suddenly I realized that this could be exactly what she wants: maybe she's intentionally increasing the intervals to get me addicted and always thinking about her, as if slowly increasing the dose of a drug. Is this possible? Or am just a paranoid idiot craving attention?

A girl I've known from school pokes me every day, but every morning I wake up wondering if she's poked me back. Is this typical behavior? Or am I just paranoid?

girl pokes me, I poke back, she pokes me more. I have the odd feeling that she's bored with me and is increasing the intervals between her pokes to get me addicted. Is this possible or am I paranoid?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So here's the story: About a month ago I went on a school sponsored trip with a bunch of schoolmates I'd almost never talked to (some I knew from sports, a few I had never seen in my life). We all became somewhat decent friends, and it was a blast. Near the end of the trip, we finally got access to computers (we had not had internet for a few weeks), and everyone quickly went on facebook, email, whatever. One girl (whom I admittedly like) was using a computer I was waiting for (not enough for everybody), and I saw that she had a few "pokes" that she promptly returned. Having never really poked people, I casually (at least from my perspective) remarked that I didn't see the point of it and had never poked or returned a poke. She laughed and then proceeded to go on my facebook page and poke me. When it was my turn to use the computers, I poked her back out of courtesy, thinking it would end there. A few days later, when the trip had ended and I was back home, I received a notification on my phone that she had poked me again. I didn't think anything of it, and poked her back, to get rid of the annoying notification on my phone. She poked me again the next day, so I poked her back. This went on for another day, but then the next day she didn't poke me. I didn't think much of it, but I noted it was a break in a pattern that I had grown accustomed to. She poked me again the next day, and I poked her back immediately to once again get rid of the facebook notification on my phone. Once again two days later, she pokes me. This continues, but soon the time intervals between her pokes increase. The problem is, every morning I wake up wondering whether she has poked me back yet. I'm always thinking about it when I go on facebook, and by transition her. Then suddenly I realized that this could be exactly what she wants: maybe she's intentionally increasing the intervals to get me addicted and always thinking about her, as if slowly increasing the dose of a drug. Is this possible? Or am just a paranoid idiot craving attention? TL;DR:

A girl I've known from school pokes me every day, but every morning I wake up wondering if she's poked me back. Is this typical behavior? Or am I just paranoid?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So here's the story: About a month ago I went on a school sponsored trip with a bunch of schoolmates I'd almost never talked to (some I knew from sports, a few I had never seen in my life). We all became somewhat decent friends, and it was a blast. Near the end of the trip, we finally got access to computers (we had not had internet for a few weeks), and everyone quickly went on facebook, email, whatever. One girl (whom I admittedly like) was using a computer I was waiting for (not enough for everybody), and I saw that she had a few "pokes" that she promptly returned. Having never really poked people, I casually (at least from my perspective) remarked that I didn't see the point of it and had never poked or returned a poke. She laughed and then proceeded to go on my facebook page and poke me. When it was my turn to use the computers, I poked her back out of courtesy, thinking it would end there. A few days later, when the trip had ended and I was back home, I received a notification on my phone that she had poked me again. I didn't think anything of it, and poked her back, to get rid of the annoying notification on my phone. She poked me again the next day, so I poked her back. This went on for another day, but then the next day she didn't poke me. I didn't think much of it, but I noted it was a break in a pattern that I had grown accustomed to. She poked me again the next day, and I poked her back immediately to once again get rid of the facebook notification on my phone. Once again two days later, she pokes me. This continues, but soon the time intervals between her pokes increase. The problem is, every morning I wake up wondering whether she has poked me back yet. I'm always thinking about it when I go on facebook, and by transition her. Then suddenly I realized that this could be exactly what she wants: maybe she's intentionally increasing the intervals to get me addicted and always thinking about her, as if slowly increasing the dose of a drug. Is this possible? Or am just a paranoid idiot craving attention? TL;DR: A girl I've known from school pokes me every day, but every morning I wake up wondering if she's poked me back. Is this typical behavior? Or am I just paranoid?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So here's the story: About a month ago I went on a school sponsored trip with a bunch of schoolmates I'd almost never talked to (some I knew from sports, a few I had never seen in my life). We all became somewhat decent friends, and it was a blast. Near the end of the trip, we finally got access to computers (we had not had internet for a few weeks), and everyone quickly went on facebook, email, whatever. One girl (whom I admittedly like) was using a computer I was waiting for (not enough for everybody), and I saw that she had a few "pokes" that she promptly returned. Having never really poked people, I casually (at least from my perspective) remarked that I didn't see the point of it and had never poked or returned a poke. She laughed and then proceeded to go on my facebook page and poke me. When it was my turn to use the computers, I poked her back out of courtesy, thinking it would end there. A few days later, when the trip had ended and I was back home, I received a notification on my phone that she had poked me again. I didn't think anything of it, and poked her back, to get rid of the annoying notification on my phone. She poked me again the next day, so I poked her back. This went on for another day, but then the next day she didn't poke me. I didn't think much of it, but I noted it was a break in a pattern that I had grown accustomed to. She poked me again the next day, and I poked her back immediately to once again get rid of the facebook notification on my phone. Once again two days later, she pokes me. This continues, but soon the time intervals between her pokes increase. The problem is, every morning I wake up wondering whether she has poked me back yet. I'm always thinking about it when I go on facebook, and by transition her. Then suddenly I realized that this could be exactly what she wants: maybe she's intentionally increasing the intervals to get me addicted and always thinking about her, as if slowly increasing the dose of a drug. Is this possible? Or am just a paranoid idiot craving attention? TL;DR: girl pokes me, I poke back, she pokes me more. I have the odd feeling that she's bored with me and is increasing the intervals between her pokes to get me addicted. Is this possible or am I paranoid?<|endoftext|>

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I just posted a little bit ago about the relationship problem I have, but turns out, I realize it's an internal problem I have. So here's random things I do- Girlfriend goes to a concert, so I say I'm gonna go gamble (she doesn't like when I go, so I don't). So I ended up saying I was going to just go to a movie. I'm extremely jealous. And she is too. My jealousy though made her jealousy worse. We'd make our instagrams private. Then after our last breakup she made it public. I didn't know that. Just realized that today. So I made mine public and added hashtags and shared it to my twitter so the girls on there would click on it and then possibly like it on Instagram. I want to control the relationship. I want to be able to keep her by my side and not have any external people get into the relationship so that I'm her "everything". My anxiety goes through the roof. I say the wrong things all the time. But whenever things are good, and no other guys or anything is in the picture, I'm all sunshine. But when it's barely negative, I mess it up more than it should be. I try to get even with everything. If she changed a profile pic, I would too. I'd make negative tweets. I'd retweet sad tweets. The thing is, I was the same way in my last relationship. However, there was a 2 year gap in between relationships. But yet I turn out to be the same way. I don't understand what is going on. I need some advice or something. I'm just lost.

I'm jealous. My jealousy has made my girlfriend jealous. And now she got jealous because I have. I get angry and upset and cause more problems and say stupid things and think she'll eventually leave me.

I'm lost. I'm 21 and act like I'm 11. I have internal demons that I cannot control.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I just posted a little bit ago about the relationship problem I have, but turns out, I realize it's an internal problem I have. So here's random things I do- Girlfriend goes to a concert, so I say I'm gonna go gamble (she doesn't like when I go, so I don't). So I ended up saying I was going to just go to a movie. I'm extremely jealous. And she is too. My jealousy though made her jealousy worse. We'd make our instagrams private. Then after our last breakup she made it public. I didn't know that. Just realized that today. So I made mine public and added hashtags and shared it to my twitter so the girls on there would click on it and then possibly like it on Instagram. I want to control the relationship. I want to be able to keep her by my side and not have any external people get into the relationship so that I'm her "everything". My anxiety goes through the roof. I say the wrong things all the time. But whenever things are good, and no other guys or anything is in the picture, I'm all sunshine. But when it's barely negative, I mess it up more than it should be. I try to get even with everything. If she changed a profile pic, I would too. I'd make negative tweets. I'd retweet sad tweets. The thing is, I was the same way in my last relationship. However, there was a 2 year gap in between relationships. But yet I turn out to be the same way. I don't understand what is going on. I need some advice or something. I'm just lost. TL;DR:

I'm jealous. My jealousy has made my girlfriend jealous. And now she got jealous because I have. I get angry and upset and cause more problems and say stupid things and think she'll eventually leave me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm lost. I'm 21 and act like I'm 11. I have internal demons that I cannot control.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I just posted a little bit ago about the relationship problem I have, but turns out, I realize it's an internal problem I have. So here's random things I do- Girlfriend goes to a concert, so I say I'm gonna go gamble (she doesn't like when I go, so I don't). So I ended up saying I was going to just go to a movie. I'm extremely jealous. And she is too. My jealousy though made her jealousy worse. We'd make our instagrams private. Then after our last breakup she made it public. I didn't know that. Just realized that today. So I made mine public and added hashtags and shared it to my twitter so the girls on there would click on it and then possibly like it on Instagram. I want to control the relationship. I want to be able to keep her by my side and not have any external people get into the relationship so that I'm her "everything". My anxiety goes through the roof. I say the wrong things all the time. But whenever things are good, and no other guys or anything is in the picture, I'm all sunshine. But when it's barely negative, I mess it up more than it should be. I try to get even with everything. If she changed a profile pic, I would too. I'd make negative tweets. I'd retweet sad tweets. The thing is, I was the same way in my last relationship. However, there was a 2 year gap in between relationships. But yet I turn out to be the same way. I don't understand what is going on. I need some advice or something. I'm just lost. TL;DR: I'm jealous. My jealousy has made my girlfriend jealous. And now she got jealous because I have. I get angry and upset and cause more problems and say stupid things and think she'll eventually leave me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I just posted a little bit ago about the relationship problem I have, but turns out, I realize it's an internal problem I have. So here's random things I do- Girlfriend goes to a concert, so I say I'm gonna go gamble (she doesn't like when I go, so I don't). So I ended up saying I was going to just go to a movie. I'm extremely jealous. And she is too. My jealousy though made her jealousy worse. We'd make our instagrams private. Then after our last breakup she made it public. I didn't know that. Just realized that today. So I made mine public and added hashtags and shared it to my twitter so the girls on there would click on it and then possibly like it on Instagram. I want to control the relationship. I want to be able to keep her by my side and not have any external people get into the relationship so that I'm her "everything". My anxiety goes through the roof. I say the wrong things all the time. But whenever things are good, and no other guys or anything is in the picture, I'm all sunshine. But when it's barely negative, I mess it up more than it should be. I try to get even with everything. If she changed a profile pic, I would too. I'd make negative tweets. I'd retweet sad tweets. The thing is, I was the same way in my last relationship. However, there was a 2 year gap in between relationships. But yet I turn out to be the same way. I don't understand what is going on. I need some advice or something. I'm just lost. TL;DR: I'm lost. I'm 21 and act like I'm 11. I have internal demons that I cannot control.<|endoftext|>

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Hi /r/relationships. I think I need help. A couple of weeks ago I met this guy over the internet, we met up for a drink and liked each other. We have dated a few more times and I have NO idea what came into me but I'm turning into this insecure, clingy, inappropriate monster that I absolutely don't recognise. I feel like I'm possessed. I've never been like this before and this is seriously affecting me. On a purely logical level I completely realise that my behaviour is only going to affect things negatively. And yet, I just can't help it. My brain is constantly thinking about this guy, to the extent that my work and family life is also getting affected. I keep checking my phone for messages, and keep wondering why he doesn't reply to me. It's obsessive. I tend to keep texting to a minimum because I don't want to overwhelm him but when I do text him I always end up coming on too strong or saying something that I invariably regret texting (see my last text to him below). I have lost my appetite and I'm not sleeping properly anymore. I'm love struck and lovesick. I do have a history of unhappy relationships and unrequited loves, the last relationship ended last summer when I dumped my ex for his abusive behaviour. Please, can anyone help me approaching things in a healthier way, before I completely lose it and finally really screw things up? That is, if I already haven't done that, seeing that he hasn't replied to my last text 2 hours ago (which I know for a fact he received and read...) in which I told him I was crazy about him. I do know that was way out of line and I wish I could go back in time and un-send that last text. Please, help, I'm going insane.

I met a guy and in two weeks I became obsessed with him, which is really affecting my mental health.

I'm a psycho who has lost control of her life and it's making me lose my mind.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi /r/relationships. I think I need help. A couple of weeks ago I met this guy over the internet, we met up for a drink and liked each other. We have dated a few more times and I have NO idea what came into me but I'm turning into this insecure, clingy, inappropriate monster that I absolutely don't recognise. I feel like I'm possessed. I've never been like this before and this is seriously affecting me. On a purely logical level I completely realise that my behaviour is only going to affect things negatively. And yet, I just can't help it. My brain is constantly thinking about this guy, to the extent that my work and family life is also getting affected. I keep checking my phone for messages, and keep wondering why he doesn't reply to me. It's obsessive. I tend to keep texting to a minimum because I don't want to overwhelm him but when I do text him I always end up coming on too strong or saying something that I invariably regret texting (see my last text to him below). I have lost my appetite and I'm not sleeping properly anymore. I'm love struck and lovesick. I do have a history of unhappy relationships and unrequited loves, the last relationship ended last summer when I dumped my ex for his abusive behaviour. Please, can anyone help me approaching things in a healthier way, before I completely lose it and finally really screw things up? That is, if I already haven't done that, seeing that he hasn't replied to my last text 2 hours ago (which I know for a fact he received and read...) in which I told him I was crazy about him. I do know that was way out of line and I wish I could go back in time and un-send that last text. Please, help, I'm going insane. TL;DR:

I met a guy and in two weeks I became obsessed with him, which is really affecting my mental health.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a psycho who has lost control of her life and it's making me lose my mind.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi /r/relationships. I think I need help. A couple of weeks ago I met this guy over the internet, we met up for a drink and liked each other. We have dated a few more times and I have NO idea what came into me but I'm turning into this insecure, clingy, inappropriate monster that I absolutely don't recognise. I feel like I'm possessed. I've never been like this before and this is seriously affecting me. On a purely logical level I completely realise that my behaviour is only going to affect things negatively. And yet, I just can't help it. My brain is constantly thinking about this guy, to the extent that my work and family life is also getting affected. I keep checking my phone for messages, and keep wondering why he doesn't reply to me. It's obsessive. I tend to keep texting to a minimum because I don't want to overwhelm him but when I do text him I always end up coming on too strong or saying something that I invariably regret texting (see my last text to him below). I have lost my appetite and I'm not sleeping properly anymore. I'm love struck and lovesick. I do have a history of unhappy relationships and unrequited loves, the last relationship ended last summer when I dumped my ex for his abusive behaviour. Please, can anyone help me approaching things in a healthier way, before I completely lose it and finally really screw things up? That is, if I already haven't done that, seeing that he hasn't replied to my last text 2 hours ago (which I know for a fact he received and read...) in which I told him I was crazy about him. I do know that was way out of line and I wish I could go back in time and un-send that last text. Please, help, I'm going insane. TL;DR: I met a guy and in two weeks I became obsessed with him, which is really affecting my mental health.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi /r/relationships. I think I need help. A couple of weeks ago I met this guy over the internet, we met up for a drink and liked each other. We have dated a few more times and I have NO idea what came into me but I'm turning into this insecure, clingy, inappropriate monster that I absolutely don't recognise. I feel like I'm possessed. I've never been like this before and this is seriously affecting me. On a purely logical level I completely realise that my behaviour is only going to affect things negatively. And yet, I just can't help it. My brain is constantly thinking about this guy, to the extent that my work and family life is also getting affected. I keep checking my phone for messages, and keep wondering why he doesn't reply to me. It's obsessive. I tend to keep texting to a minimum because I don't want to overwhelm him but when I do text him I always end up coming on too strong or saying something that I invariably regret texting (see my last text to him below). I have lost my appetite and I'm not sleeping properly anymore. I'm love struck and lovesick. I do have a history of unhappy relationships and unrequited loves, the last relationship ended last summer when I dumped my ex for his abusive behaviour. Please, can anyone help me approaching things in a healthier way, before I completely lose it and finally really screw things up? That is, if I already haven't done that, seeing that he hasn't replied to my last text 2 hours ago (which I know for a fact he received and read...) in which I told him I was crazy about him. I do know that was way out of line and I wish I could go back in time and un-send that last text. Please, help, I'm going insane. TL;DR: I'm a psycho who has lost control of her life and it's making me lose my mind.<|endoftext|>

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Throwaway because my brother has a Reddit account. The older I get the more overprotective my mother becomes, and since im leaving for uni this year, its becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with. We're having arguments about it nearly every other day and its getting to the point where I almost want to cut her off and move out which is something I'd prefer to avoid (it would be hard to keep in touch with my ill grandma). Most of my frustration stems from the fact that she views me as a child, even though I'm very responsible and mature for my age. As well as that she was much more relaxed with my brother who's 22, even though he was frankly a mess at my age (drinking illegally, bullying other students, hanging around with the wrong crowd, violent, moody and angry etc). I've tried to bring this up to her, and she keeps coming up with shitty excuses; im too young to understand, im a girl so of course she's going to treat me differently, my brother is a boy so there's no danger of getting raped, she's less overprotective than my friends parents etc etc which is all bullshit, not that she cares. So basically what I'm asking is how do I get her to back off, or should I just suck it up and deal with it until I leave for uni?

My mother is overprotective and I'm sick of it, how can I get her to back off or should I just suck it up and deal with it?

Overprotective mother who views me as a child and who's becoming increasingly frustrated at my behaviour. How do I get her to back off, or should I deal with it until I leave for uni?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Throwaway because my brother has a Reddit account. The older I get the more overprotective my mother becomes, and since im leaving for uni this year, its becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with. We're having arguments about it nearly every other day and its getting to the point where I almost want to cut her off and move out which is something I'd prefer to avoid (it would be hard to keep in touch with my ill grandma). Most of my frustration stems from the fact that she views me as a child, even though I'm very responsible and mature for my age. As well as that she was much more relaxed with my brother who's 22, even though he was frankly a mess at my age (drinking illegally, bullying other students, hanging around with the wrong crowd, violent, moody and angry etc). I've tried to bring this up to her, and she keeps coming up with shitty excuses; im too young to understand, im a girl so of course she's going to treat me differently, my brother is a boy so there's no danger of getting raped, she's less overprotective than my friends parents etc etc which is all bullshit, not that she cares. So basically what I'm asking is how do I get her to back off, or should I just suck it up and deal with it until I leave for uni? TL;DR:

My mother is overprotective and I'm sick of it, how can I get her to back off or should I just suck it up and deal with it?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Throwaway because my brother has a Reddit account. The older I get the more overprotective my mother becomes, and since im leaving for uni this year, its becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with. We're having arguments about it nearly every other day and its getting to the point where I almost want to cut her off and move out which is something I'd prefer to avoid (it would be hard to keep in touch with my ill grandma). Most of my frustration stems from the fact that she views me as a child, even though I'm very responsible and mature for my age. As well as that she was much more relaxed with my brother who's 22, even though he was frankly a mess at my age (drinking illegally, bullying other students, hanging around with the wrong crowd, violent, moody and angry etc). I've tried to bring this up to her, and she keeps coming up with shitty excuses; im too young to understand, im a girl so of course she's going to treat me differently, my brother is a boy so there's no danger of getting raped, she's less overprotective than my friends parents etc etc which is all bullshit, not that she cares. So basically what I'm asking is how do I get her to back off, or should I just suck it up and deal with it until I leave for uni? TL;DR: My mother is overprotective and I'm sick of it, how can I get her to back off or should I just suck it up and deal with it?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Throwaway because my brother has a Reddit account. The older I get the more overprotective my mother becomes, and since im leaving for uni this year, its becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with. We're having arguments about it nearly every other day and its getting to the point where I almost want to cut her off and move out which is something I'd prefer to avoid (it would be hard to keep in touch with my ill grandma). Most of my frustration stems from the fact that she views me as a child, even though I'm very responsible and mature for my age. As well as that she was much more relaxed with my brother who's 22, even though he was frankly a mess at my age (drinking illegally, bullying other students, hanging around with the wrong crowd, violent, moody and angry etc). I've tried to bring this up to her, and she keeps coming up with shitty excuses; im too young to understand, im a girl so of course she's going to treat me differently, my brother is a boy so there's no danger of getting raped, she's less overprotective than my friends parents etc etc which is all bullshit, not that she cares. So basically what I'm asking is how do I get her to back off, or should I just suck it up and deal with it until I leave for uni? TL;DR: Overprotective mother who views me as a child and who's becoming increasingly frustrated at my behaviour. How do I get her to back off, or should I deal with it until I leave for uni?<|endoftext|>

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I was given an ultimatum today. I've been acting more childish than usual after he went to visit his family and couldn't actively talk with me for 4 days. Today, after one whole day of not talking ~~(mostly because I didn't answer his last message)~~ we finally talked and I started asking questions and apologizing for my behavior this last week. One thing lead to the next until he said he couldn't say if he wanted to have a future with me, but all he knew is that I could be "really selfish, childish, jealous, and can get very irritated very easily". I'm not ranting about him calling me anything, in fact, I agree with him, so I want to change. I know this is because I'm probably still very immature, and I know changes don't happen from one day to the other, but I need to start somewhere. I am nowhere near the person I was one year ago, as I see I'm far less the things he pointed out than I was last year, but I can see I need to change. To point some stuff out: 1) While I do care for his problems and his life, I do end up thinking "ok, but when is my turn to be thought for/listened to". 2) I do get easily jealous when he makes a couple of jokes about hooking-up with another person. More than over a short period of time, other than that I respond with jokes myself. 3) I am irascible. I can't help it. It takes me time to gather enough anger to actually explode, but when I do I am all in. Passive aggressiveness, sarcasm, cold-shoulder, you name it.

I'm childish in every sense of the word, how do I get my shit straight and grow the fuck up?

I want to change, but I'm nowhere near the person I was last year, and I want to change.** I'm going to talk to my dad tomorrow, and I'm going to find out how to change. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was given an ultimatum today. I've been acting more childish than usual after he went to visit his family and couldn't actively talk with me for 4 days. Today, after one whole day of not talking ~~(mostly because I didn't answer his last message)~~ we finally talked and I started asking questions and apologizing for my behavior this last week. One thing lead to the next until he said he couldn't say if he wanted to have a future with me, but all he knew is that I could be "really selfish, childish, jealous, and can get very irritated very easily". I'm not ranting about him calling me anything, in fact, I agree with him, so I want to change. I know this is because I'm probably still very immature, and I know changes don't happen from one day to the other, but I need to start somewhere. I am nowhere near the person I was one year ago, as I see I'm far less the things he pointed out than I was last year, but I can see I need to change. To point some stuff out: 1) While I do care for his problems and his life, I do end up thinking "ok, but when is my turn to be thought for/listened to". 2) I do get easily jealous when he makes a couple of jokes about hooking-up with another person. More than over a short period of time, other than that I respond with jokes myself. 3) I am irascible. I can't help it. It takes me time to gather enough anger to actually explode, but when I do I am all in. Passive aggressiveness, sarcasm, cold-shoulder, you name it. TL;DR:

I'm childish in every sense of the word, how do I get my shit straight and grow the fuck up?<|endoftext|>

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I want to change, but I'm nowhere near the person I was last year, and I want to change.** I'm going to talk to my dad tomorrow, and I'm going to find out how to change. Thank you for taking the time to read this.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was given an ultimatum today. I've been acting more childish than usual after he went to visit his family and couldn't actively talk with me for 4 days. Today, after one whole day of not talking ~~(mostly because I didn't answer his last message)~~ we finally talked and I started asking questions and apologizing for my behavior this last week. One thing lead to the next until he said he couldn't say if he wanted to have a future with me, but all he knew is that I could be "really selfish, childish, jealous, and can get very irritated very easily". I'm not ranting about him calling me anything, in fact, I agree with him, so I want to change. I know this is because I'm probably still very immature, and I know changes don't happen from one day to the other, but I need to start somewhere. I am nowhere near the person I was one year ago, as I see I'm far less the things he pointed out than I was last year, but I can see I need to change. To point some stuff out: 1) While I do care for his problems and his life, I do end up thinking "ok, but when is my turn to be thought for/listened to". 2) I do get easily jealous when he makes a couple of jokes about hooking-up with another person. More than over a short period of time, other than that I respond with jokes myself. 3) I am irascible. I can't help it. It takes me time to gather enough anger to actually explode, but when I do I am all in. Passive aggressiveness, sarcasm, cold-shoulder, you name it. TL;DR: I'm childish in every sense of the word, how do I get my shit straight and grow the fuck up?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was given an ultimatum today. I've been acting more childish than usual after he went to visit his family and couldn't actively talk with me for 4 days. Today, after one whole day of not talking ~~(mostly because I didn't answer his last message)~~ we finally talked and I started asking questions and apologizing for my behavior this last week. One thing lead to the next until he said he couldn't say if he wanted to have a future with me, but all he knew is that I could be "really selfish, childish, jealous, and can get very irritated very easily". I'm not ranting about him calling me anything, in fact, I agree with him, so I want to change. I know this is because I'm probably still very immature, and I know changes don't happen from one day to the other, but I need to start somewhere. I am nowhere near the person I was one year ago, as I see I'm far less the things he pointed out than I was last year, but I can see I need to change. To point some stuff out: 1) While I do care for his problems and his life, I do end up thinking "ok, but when is my turn to be thought for/listened to". 2) I do get easily jealous when he makes a couple of jokes about hooking-up with another person. More than over a short period of time, other than that I respond with jokes myself. 3) I am irascible. I can't help it. It takes me time to gather enough anger to actually explode, but when I do I am all in. Passive aggressiveness, sarcasm, cold-shoulder, you name it. TL;DR: I want to change, but I'm nowhere near the person I was last year, and I want to change.** I'm going to talk to my dad tomorrow, and I'm going to find out how to change. Thank you for taking the time to read this.<|endoftext|>

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I went to a game/comic convention somewhat recently, and got some photos with various people dressed up as various characters (male and female). I showed my wife [23f] the pictures when I got home one that night excited to share my fun with her. When she saw some of the photos I was in, next to female cosplayers she was mad. She felt disrespected that I would think to take pictures next to attractive women in "inappropriate" clothing, and that I didnt consider how uncomfortable she is with that kind of thing. None where actually too revealing, just normal what you'd typically see at such events. Still, She doesnt want me doing that again. Did I go out of line? I also bought, around that same time, a small canvas art painting of Game of Thrones that has several characters collages on the front. I love it! However, she does not like it at all (sad, but fine) because - and was disappointed that - one of the lead female character lying down in the front of the art "suggestively" (Khaleesi, thought she's fully clothed in a dress). To me, its just art and beauty that I appreciate and think looks cool. Am I really being insensitive and disrespectful to her? Im not a pervert and have never cheated, or shown to her that she can't trust me. Yet I feel like this is limiting my freedom to just *be* and experience life. But the I wonder if I really shouldn't do those things? Where do you draw the line between respecting a SO's insecurities? Are her insecurities placing unhealthy binds on me? I can't quite tell. She has been insecure in other areas amd went into a rage one time when I disobeyed her insecurities of me walking 25 feet from a dirt ledge in a park (she was afraid I'd fall). That doesn't seen right, but this here is a different matter. So im just unsure where i need to find the healthy boundary.

Wife angry and feels disrespected that I was I photos with women in, to her, innappropriate" costumes of characters from games/comics. None where actually too revealing, just normal what you'd typically see at such events.

Wife [23f] is mad that I [24M] went out of my way to take pictures with attractive women in revealing costumes at a recent convention. She feels disrespected. I never felt disrespected when I showed her the photos, and don't know whether I did disrespected her. Am I being insensitive

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I went to a game/comic convention somewhat recently, and got some photos with various people dressed up as various characters (male and female). I showed my wife [23f] the pictures when I got home one that night excited to share my fun with her. When she saw some of the photos I was in, next to female cosplayers she was mad. She felt disrespected that I would think to take pictures next to attractive women in "inappropriate" clothing, and that I didnt consider how uncomfortable she is with that kind of thing. None where actually too revealing, just normal what you'd typically see at such events. Still, She doesnt want me doing that again. Did I go out of line? I also bought, around that same time, a small canvas art painting of Game of Thrones that has several characters collages on the front. I love it! However, she does not like it at all (sad, but fine) because - and was disappointed that - one of the lead female character lying down in the front of the art "suggestively" (Khaleesi, thought she's fully clothed in a dress). To me, its just art and beauty that I appreciate and think looks cool. Am I really being insensitive and disrespectful to her? Im not a pervert and have never cheated, or shown to her that she can't trust me. Yet I feel like this is limiting my freedom to just *be* and experience life. But the I wonder if I really shouldn't do those things? Where do you draw the line between respecting a SO's insecurities? Are her insecurities placing unhealthy binds on me? I can't quite tell. She has been insecure in other areas amd went into a rage one time when I disobeyed her insecurities of me walking 25 feet from a dirt ledge in a park (she was afraid I'd fall). That doesn't seen right, but this here is a different matter. So im just unsure where i need to find the healthy boundary. TL;DR:

Wife angry and feels disrespected that I was I photos with women in, to her, innappropriate" costumes of characters from games/comics. None where actually too revealing, just normal what you'd typically see at such events.<|endoftext|>

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Wife [23f] is mad that I [24M] went out of my way to take pictures with attractive women in revealing costumes at a recent convention. She feels disrespected. I never felt disrespected when I showed her the photos, and don't know whether I did disrespected her. Am I being insensitive<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I went to a game/comic convention somewhat recently, and got some photos with various people dressed up as various characters (male and female). I showed my wife [23f] the pictures when I got home one that night excited to share my fun with her. When she saw some of the photos I was in, next to female cosplayers she was mad. She felt disrespected that I would think to take pictures next to attractive women in "inappropriate" clothing, and that I didnt consider how uncomfortable she is with that kind of thing. None where actually too revealing, just normal what you'd typically see at such events. Still, She doesnt want me doing that again. Did I go out of line? I also bought, around that same time, a small canvas art painting of Game of Thrones that has several characters collages on the front. I love it! However, she does not like it at all (sad, but fine) because - and was disappointed that - one of the lead female character lying down in the front of the art "suggestively" (Khaleesi, thought she's fully clothed in a dress). To me, its just art and beauty that I appreciate and think looks cool. Am I really being insensitive and disrespectful to her? Im not a pervert and have never cheated, or shown to her that she can't trust me. Yet I feel like this is limiting my freedom to just *be* and experience life. But the I wonder if I really shouldn't do those things? Where do you draw the line between respecting a SO's insecurities? Are her insecurities placing unhealthy binds on me? I can't quite tell. She has been insecure in other areas amd went into a rage one time when I disobeyed her insecurities of me walking 25 feet from a dirt ledge in a park (she was afraid I'd fall). That doesn't seen right, but this here is a different matter. So im just unsure where i need to find the healthy boundary. TL;DR: Wife angry and feels disrespected that I was I photos with women in, to her, innappropriate" costumes of characters from games/comics. None where actually too revealing, just normal what you'd typically see at such events.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I went to a game/comic convention somewhat recently, and got some photos with various people dressed up as various characters (male and female). I showed my wife [23f] the pictures when I got home one that night excited to share my fun with her. When she saw some of the photos I was in, next to female cosplayers she was mad. She felt disrespected that I would think to take pictures next to attractive women in "inappropriate" clothing, and that I didnt consider how uncomfortable she is with that kind of thing. None where actually too revealing, just normal what you'd typically see at such events. Still, She doesnt want me doing that again. Did I go out of line? I also bought, around that same time, a small canvas art painting of Game of Thrones that has several characters collages on the front. I love it! However, she does not like it at all (sad, but fine) because - and was disappointed that - one of the lead female character lying down in the front of the art "suggestively" (Khaleesi, thought she's fully clothed in a dress). To me, its just art and beauty that I appreciate and think looks cool. Am I really being insensitive and disrespectful to her? Im not a pervert and have never cheated, or shown to her that she can't trust me. Yet I feel like this is limiting my freedom to just *be* and experience life. But the I wonder if I really shouldn't do those things? Where do you draw the line between respecting a SO's insecurities? Are her insecurities placing unhealthy binds on me? I can't quite tell. She has been insecure in other areas amd went into a rage one time when I disobeyed her insecurities of me walking 25 feet from a dirt ledge in a park (she was afraid I'd fall). That doesn't seen right, but this here is a different matter. So im just unsure where i need to find the healthy boundary. TL;DR: Wife [23f] is mad that I [24M] went out of my way to take pictures with attractive women in revealing costumes at a recent convention. She feels disrespected. I never felt disrespected when I showed her the photos, and don't know whether I did disrespected her. Am I being insensitive<|endoftext|>

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My girlfriend has many close male friends and i have many close female friends. She hangs out with them regularly and it doesn't bother me at all I trust her completely. But a few times she has slept over at the houses of a couple of men she has had sex with previous to me. When ever i try to explain to her that this bothers me she tells me that i'm to jealous and i don't trust her. is it wrong for me to feel bothered? is it wrong for me to ask her not to sleep at their houses? Edit: also, how should i make a the conversation more constructive with her? Edit: they have also been best friends for years.

girlfriend wants to sleep at friends house where she has had sex before we started dating. is it wrong for me to be bothered by this?

girlfriend wants to sleep over at the house of a guy she had sex with before we started dating. How to I make it less of a problem for me?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend has many close male friends and i have many close female friends. She hangs out with them regularly and it doesn't bother me at all I trust her completely. But a few times she has slept over at the houses of a couple of men she has had sex with previous to me. When ever i try to explain to her that this bothers me she tells me that i'm to jealous and i don't trust her. is it wrong for me to feel bothered? is it wrong for me to ask her not to sleep at their houses? Edit: also, how should i make a the conversation more constructive with her? Edit: they have also been best friends for years. TL;DR:

girlfriend wants to sleep at friends house where she has had sex before we started dating. is it wrong for me to be bothered by this?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend has many close male friends and i have many close female friends. She hangs out with them regularly and it doesn't bother me at all I trust her completely. But a few times she has slept over at the houses of a couple of men she has had sex with previous to me. When ever i try to explain to her that this bothers me she tells me that i'm to jealous and i don't trust her. is it wrong for me to feel bothered? is it wrong for me to ask her not to sleep at their houses? Edit: also, how should i make a the conversation more constructive with her? Edit: they have also been best friends for years. TL;DR: girlfriend wants to sleep at friends house where she has had sex before we started dating. is it wrong for me to be bothered by this?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend has many close male friends and i have many close female friends. She hangs out with them regularly and it doesn't bother me at all I trust her completely. But a few times she has slept over at the houses of a couple of men she has had sex with previous to me. When ever i try to explain to her that this bothers me she tells me that i'm to jealous and i don't trust her. is it wrong for me to feel bothered? is it wrong for me to ask her not to sleep at their houses? Edit: also, how should i make a the conversation more constructive with her? Edit: they have also been best friends for years. TL;DR: girlfriend wants to sleep over at the house of a guy she had sex with before we started dating. How to I make it less of a problem for me?<|endoftext|>

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Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, **periods**) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. I wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. Well everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. I think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. A big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going.

I lost another two pounds and finally fit into my old pants.

lost 15 pounds despite having an emotional week and a pant size change, and I'm back to my old size 10 and ready to get back to my old self.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, **periods**) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. I wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. Well everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. I think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. A big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going. TL;DR:

I lost another two pounds and finally fit into my old pants.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, **periods**) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. I wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. Well everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. I think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. A big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going. TL;DR: I lost another two pounds and finally fit into my old pants.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, **periods**) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. I wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. Well everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. I think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. A big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going. TL;DR: lost 15 pounds despite having an emotional week and a pant size change, and I'm back to my old size 10 and ready to get back to my old self.<|endoftext|>

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* First off thank you for clicking. * Second, I am looking for advice that might preclude the following from happening **BUT** i have come to terms with the very real possibility that i am going to join the group of people whom have a black mark on their record for something they honestly never did. **Situation:** i am 7 days from 21st bady, come home to roommates having a party (Guy1,Girl1,gf,guy2, guy3), roommates = 1 Guy 1 Girl, Guy's gf says out loud "someone do X [hands are full]" LegalThrowaway972011 says "I'll do X" Guy1 "Hey man don't talk about my girl like that!" LegalThrowaway972011 " dude chill out! she asked for someone to pour drink in mouth" Guy1 " DUDE don't talk about my girl" escalations ensues he lands a punch, i only block and duck no offensive attacks. cool down he comes back and apologize but i wouldn't accept till he understood that there is freedom of speech(hes from India) and you cant attack someone for what they say. he refused to be peaceful, i walked away. another fight broke out he landed 2 more while elbowing Girl1 in the face. LegalThrowaway972011 was tackled and choked in own room by Guy2. Guy3's statment said he went back to my room and as soon as he opened LegalThrowaway972011's door, LegalThrowaway972011 slapped Girl1 across the face.(and thumb and pointer finger size red mark from Guy1's elbow on her right eyebrow. police photo evidence girl1 smiling big. LegalThrowaway972011 is a righty, and slaps leave hand prints not eyebrow vertical redness.

LegalThrowaway972011 slapped left eyebrow vertical redness and thumb and pointer finger size red mark from Guy1's elbow on girl1's right eyebrow. legalthrowaway972011: k.

i am a man, and i am here to peacefully say to my roommates "hey man don't talk about my girl like that. she asked for someone to pour drink in mouth." don't go to reddit unless you want to have a bad time.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: * First off thank you for clicking. * Second, I am looking for advice that might preclude the following from happening **BUT** i have come to terms with the very real possibility that i am going to join the group of people whom have a black mark on their record for something they honestly never did. **Situation:** i am 7 days from 21st bady, come home to roommates having a party (Guy1,Girl1,gf,guy2, guy3), roommates = 1 Guy 1 Girl, Guy's gf says out loud "someone do X [hands are full]" LegalThrowaway972011 says "I'll do X" Guy1 "Hey man don't talk about my girl like that!" LegalThrowaway972011 " dude chill out! she asked for someone to pour drink in mouth" Guy1 " DUDE don't talk about my girl" escalations ensues he lands a punch, i only block and duck no offensive attacks. cool down he comes back and apologize but i wouldn't accept till he understood that there is freedom of speech(hes from India) and you cant attack someone for what they say. he refused to be peaceful, i walked away. another fight broke out he landed 2 more while elbowing Girl1 in the face. LegalThrowaway972011 was tackled and choked in own room by Guy2. Guy3's statment said he went back to my room and as soon as he opened LegalThrowaway972011's door, LegalThrowaway972011 slapped Girl1 across the face.(and thumb and pointer finger size red mark from Guy1's elbow on her right eyebrow. police photo evidence girl1 smiling big. LegalThrowaway972011 is a righty, and slaps leave hand prints not eyebrow vertical redness. TL;DR:

LegalThrowaway972011 slapped left eyebrow vertical redness and thumb and pointer finger size red mark from Guy1's elbow on girl1's right eyebrow. legalthrowaway972011: k.<|endoftext|>

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i am a man, and i am here to peacefully say to my roommates "hey man don't talk about my girl like that. she asked for someone to pour drink in mouth." don't go to reddit unless you want to have a bad time.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: * First off thank you for clicking. * Second, I am looking for advice that might preclude the following from happening **BUT** i have come to terms with the very real possibility that i am going to join the group of people whom have a black mark on their record for something they honestly never did. **Situation:** i am 7 days from 21st bady, come home to roommates having a party (Guy1,Girl1,gf,guy2, guy3), roommates = 1 Guy 1 Girl, Guy's gf says out loud "someone do X [hands are full]" LegalThrowaway972011 says "I'll do X" Guy1 "Hey man don't talk about my girl like that!" LegalThrowaway972011 " dude chill out! she asked for someone to pour drink in mouth" Guy1 " DUDE don't talk about my girl" escalations ensues he lands a punch, i only block and duck no offensive attacks. cool down he comes back and apologize but i wouldn't accept till he understood that there is freedom of speech(hes from India) and you cant attack someone for what they say. he refused to be peaceful, i walked away. another fight broke out he landed 2 more while elbowing Girl1 in the face. LegalThrowaway972011 was tackled and choked in own room by Guy2. Guy3's statment said he went back to my room and as soon as he opened LegalThrowaway972011's door, LegalThrowaway972011 slapped Girl1 across the face.(and thumb and pointer finger size red mark from Guy1's elbow on her right eyebrow. police photo evidence girl1 smiling big. LegalThrowaway972011 is a righty, and slaps leave hand prints not eyebrow vertical redness. TL;DR: LegalThrowaway972011 slapped left eyebrow vertical redness and thumb and pointer finger size red mark from Guy1's elbow on girl1's right eyebrow. legalthrowaway972011: k.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: * First off thank you for clicking. * Second, I am looking for advice that might preclude the following from happening **BUT** i have come to terms with the very real possibility that i am going to join the group of people whom have a black mark on their record for something they honestly never did. **Situation:** i am 7 days from 21st bady, come home to roommates having a party (Guy1,Girl1,gf,guy2, guy3), roommates = 1 Guy 1 Girl, Guy's gf says out loud "someone do X [hands are full]" LegalThrowaway972011 says "I'll do X" Guy1 "Hey man don't talk about my girl like that!" LegalThrowaway972011 " dude chill out! she asked for someone to pour drink in mouth" Guy1 " DUDE don't talk about my girl" escalations ensues he lands a punch, i only block and duck no offensive attacks. cool down he comes back and apologize but i wouldn't accept till he understood that there is freedom of speech(hes from India) and you cant attack someone for what they say. he refused to be peaceful, i walked away. another fight broke out he landed 2 more while elbowing Girl1 in the face. LegalThrowaway972011 was tackled and choked in own room by Guy2. Guy3's statment said he went back to my room and as soon as he opened LegalThrowaway972011's door, LegalThrowaway972011 slapped Girl1 across the face.(and thumb and pointer finger size red mark from Guy1's elbow on her right eyebrow. police photo evidence girl1 smiling big. LegalThrowaway972011 is a righty, and slaps leave hand prints not eyebrow vertical redness. TL;DR: i am a man, and i am here to peacefully say to my roommates "hey man don't talk about my girl like that. she asked for someone to pour drink in mouth." don't go to reddit unless you want to have a bad time.<|endoftext|>

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A co-worker who got fired, said he was contemplating suicide to a co-worker at work. I told someone and now he's not answering my phone calls

My co-worker who got fired recently told me he was going to kill himself. I found out and told someone.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I had been trying to help him over the past few weeks because he was under his 90 days and was having a hard time adapting to the aircraft we build. Out of no where today in the middle of the day, he came up to me and said, "Alright Alex, Good bye." I asked where he was going and he told me that they had just fired him. I shook my head and asked if he would be okay? He responded, "Fuck no man, I've got no money, no where to go and no way to get there. Why do you think I keep a shot gun in my hotel?" And I could see it in his eyes that he was crushed I was, I guess stunned that he just said that to me and didn't know how to respond and he walked away. I guess another guy on the other side of the aircraft had slightly overheard this comment and he asked me what he just said and i just told him "Something I wish he hadn't told me." I sat there for 15 minutes or so going through the mental struggle of if I should tell someone and make his life worse because chances are he's going to end up on a 72 hour hold at a mental ward with no medical insurance to pay for it, or just not doing anything. I ended up telling someone. I feel terrible but I was mostly upset that it had to be on My conscience and I decided that if he was going to kill himself, it was not going to be because I didn't do anything about it. The last thing I said to him today was via text message of my favorite quote that I say to myself whenever things aren't going well from the movie "Blow" Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again, but life goes on. He hasn't responded. TL;DR:

A co-worker who got fired, said he was contemplating suicide to a co-worker at work. I told someone and now he's not answering my phone calls<|endoftext|>

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My co-worker who got fired recently told me he was going to kill himself. I found out and told someone.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I had been trying to help him over the past few weeks because he was under his 90 days and was having a hard time adapting to the aircraft we build. Out of no where today in the middle of the day, he came up to me and said, "Alright Alex, Good bye." I asked where he was going and he told me that they had just fired him. I shook my head and asked if he would be okay? He responded, "Fuck no man, I've got no money, no where to go and no way to get there. Why do you think I keep a shot gun in my hotel?" And I could see it in his eyes that he was crushed I was, I guess stunned that he just said that to me and didn't know how to respond and he walked away. I guess another guy on the other side of the aircraft had slightly overheard this comment and he asked me what he just said and i just told him "Something I wish he hadn't told me." I sat there for 15 minutes or so going through the mental struggle of if I should tell someone and make his life worse because chances are he's going to end up on a 72 hour hold at a mental ward with no medical insurance to pay for it, or just not doing anything. I ended up telling someone. I feel terrible but I was mostly upset that it had to be on My conscience and I decided that if he was going to kill himself, it was not going to be because I didn't do anything about it. The last thing I said to him today was via text message of my favorite quote that I say to myself whenever things aren't going well from the movie "Blow" Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again, but life goes on. He hasn't responded. TL;DR: A co-worker who got fired, said he was contemplating suicide to a co-worker at work. I told someone and now he's not answering my phone calls<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I had been trying to help him over the past few weeks because he was under his 90 days and was having a hard time adapting to the aircraft we build. Out of no where today in the middle of the day, he came up to me and said, "Alright Alex, Good bye." I asked where he was going and he told me that they had just fired him. I shook my head and asked if he would be okay? He responded, "Fuck no man, I've got no money, no where to go and no way to get there. Why do you think I keep a shot gun in my hotel?" And I could see it in his eyes that he was crushed I was, I guess stunned that he just said that to me and didn't know how to respond and he walked away. I guess another guy on the other side of the aircraft had slightly overheard this comment and he asked me what he just said and i just told him "Something I wish he hadn't told me." I sat there for 15 minutes or so going through the mental struggle of if I should tell someone and make his life worse because chances are he's going to end up on a 72 hour hold at a mental ward with no medical insurance to pay for it, or just not doing anything. I ended up telling someone. I feel terrible but I was mostly upset that it had to be on My conscience and I decided that if he was going to kill himself, it was not going to be because I didn't do anything about it. The last thing I said to him today was via text message of my favorite quote that I say to myself whenever things aren't going well from the movie "Blow" Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again, but life goes on. He hasn't responded. TL;DR: My co-worker who got fired recently told me he was going to kill himself. I found out and told someone.<|endoftext|>

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I(22) met a girl(23) last Summer, and we became really close on the run-up to Christmas. It's my first real relationship, although she's been engaged in the past. We get on great, and I've really fallen for her. **The Problem** She goes back to her country(France) in early April. Past this point, i know that i will only be able to see her once every few months. We both knew that it was a bad idea to get into a relationship, but i cant help how i feel for her. I was just wondering if reddit could advise me on how to approach the next few months, and if there is any point in continuing the relationship at all.

fell in love with a girl, want to know if it is a good idea to continue the relationship after she leaves for France.

Girlfriend Moves away Early April.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I(22) met a girl(23) last Summer, and we became really close on the run-up to Christmas. It's my first real relationship, although she's been engaged in the past. We get on great, and I've really fallen for her. **The Problem** She goes back to her country(France) in early April. Past this point, i know that i will only be able to see her once every few months. We both knew that it was a bad idea to get into a relationship, but i cant help how i feel for her. I was just wondering if reddit could advise me on how to approach the next few months, and if there is any point in continuing the relationship at all. TL;DR:

fell in love with a girl, want to know if it is a good idea to continue the relationship after she leaves for France.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I(22) met a girl(23) last Summer, and we became really close on the run-up to Christmas. It's my first real relationship, although she's been engaged in the past. We get on great, and I've really fallen for her. **The Problem** She goes back to her country(France) in early April. Past this point, i know that i will only be able to see her once every few months. We both knew that it was a bad idea to get into a relationship, but i cant help how i feel for her. I was just wondering if reddit could advise me on how to approach the next few months, and if there is any point in continuing the relationship at all. TL;DR: fell in love with a girl, want to know if it is a good idea to continue the relationship after she leaves for France.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I(22) met a girl(23) last Summer, and we became really close on the run-up to Christmas. It's my first real relationship, although she's been engaged in the past. We get on great, and I've really fallen for her. **The Problem** She goes back to her country(France) in early April. Past this point, i know that i will only be able to see her once every few months. We both knew that it was a bad idea to get into a relationship, but i cant help how i feel for her. I was just wondering if reddit could advise me on how to approach the next few months, and if there is any point in continuing the relationship at all. TL;DR: Girlfriend Moves away Early April.<|endoftext|>

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I'm in the middle of medical training. I suffer from a history of depression and anxiety (no meds, no therapy) and am a type A personality to the extreme. | Right now we've got a minor reprieve for the holidays, but I begin again soon. A few months into it I managed to get overwhelmed by all my work and had four really bad crying spells. I mean like, full on ugly cry, hyperventilating, inconsolable, choking level crying. It was pretty much an "I'm completely overwhelmed and can't escape this situation" triggered reaction. I also did not feel supported by my immediate supervisor, which I'm sure contributed (I know, I need to grow a thicker skin). I then switched medical settings (natural progression of the teaching, not forced) and had no issues in this new setting, but my embarrassment over the situation before is lingering. | I'll soon be in a new setting surrounded by people who know about and/or witnessed my previous spells (some of who act quite juvenile and may comment on it). I am mortified and ruminating on the shame of being seen as weak and unprofessional and unstable. If I had my way I'd simply drop all contact and never see them again, but obviously this is not feasible. I have my to finish this to ever get to the career I want. | Any words of wisdom or techniques or solutions to quash some of these feelings? They're eating at me quite badly the closer the new period gets.

I get overwhelmed at work, and I can't escape. I'm anxious and embarrassed to be seen as weak/unstable. How to quash some of the feelings?

I got emotional and acted completely unprofessional in front of people I wanted to look professional and well-composed in front of. How do I get over this embarrassment and move forward?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm in the middle of medical training. I suffer from a history of depression and anxiety (no meds, no therapy) and am a type A personality to the extreme. | Right now we've got a minor reprieve for the holidays, but I begin again soon. A few months into it I managed to get overwhelmed by all my work and had four really bad crying spells. I mean like, full on ugly cry, hyperventilating, inconsolable, choking level crying. It was pretty much an "I'm completely overwhelmed and can't escape this situation" triggered reaction. I also did not feel supported by my immediate supervisor, which I'm sure contributed (I know, I need to grow a thicker skin). I then switched medical settings (natural progression of the teaching, not forced) and had no issues in this new setting, but my embarrassment over the situation before is lingering. | I'll soon be in a new setting surrounded by people who know about and/or witnessed my previous spells (some of who act quite juvenile and may comment on it). I am mortified and ruminating on the shame of being seen as weak and unprofessional and unstable. If I had my way I'd simply drop all contact and never see them again, but obviously this is not feasible. I have my to finish this to ever get to the career I want. | Any words of wisdom or techniques or solutions to quash some of these feelings? They're eating at me quite badly the closer the new period gets. TL;DR:

I get overwhelmed at work, and I can't escape. I'm anxious and embarrassed to be seen as weak/unstable. How to quash some of the feelings?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm in the middle of medical training. I suffer from a history of depression and anxiety (no meds, no therapy) and am a type A personality to the extreme. | Right now we've got a minor reprieve for the holidays, but I begin again soon. A few months into it I managed to get overwhelmed by all my work and had four really bad crying spells. I mean like, full on ugly cry, hyperventilating, inconsolable, choking level crying. It was pretty much an "I'm completely overwhelmed and can't escape this situation" triggered reaction. I also did not feel supported by my immediate supervisor, which I'm sure contributed (I know, I need to grow a thicker skin). I then switched medical settings (natural progression of the teaching, not forced) and had no issues in this new setting, but my embarrassment over the situation before is lingering. | I'll soon be in a new setting surrounded by people who know about and/or witnessed my previous spells (some of who act quite juvenile and may comment on it). I am mortified and ruminating on the shame of being seen as weak and unprofessional and unstable. If I had my way I'd simply drop all contact and never see them again, but obviously this is not feasible. I have my to finish this to ever get to the career I want. | Any words of wisdom or techniques or solutions to quash some of these feelings? They're eating at me quite badly the closer the new period gets. TL;DR: I get overwhelmed at work, and I can't escape. I'm anxious and embarrassed to be seen as weak/unstable. How to quash some of the feelings?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm in the middle of medical training. I suffer from a history of depression and anxiety (no meds, no therapy) and am a type A personality to the extreme. | Right now we've got a minor reprieve for the holidays, but I begin again soon. A few months into it I managed to get overwhelmed by all my work and had four really bad crying spells. I mean like, full on ugly cry, hyperventilating, inconsolable, choking level crying. It was pretty much an "I'm completely overwhelmed and can't escape this situation" triggered reaction. I also did not feel supported by my immediate supervisor, which I'm sure contributed (I know, I need to grow a thicker skin). I then switched medical settings (natural progression of the teaching, not forced) and had no issues in this new setting, but my embarrassment over the situation before is lingering. | I'll soon be in a new setting surrounded by people who know about and/or witnessed my previous spells (some of who act quite juvenile and may comment on it). I am mortified and ruminating on the shame of being seen as weak and unprofessional and unstable. If I had my way I'd simply drop all contact and never see them again, but obviously this is not feasible. I have my to finish this to ever get to the career I want. | Any words of wisdom or techniques or solutions to quash some of these feelings? They're eating at me quite badly the closer the new period gets. TL;DR: I got emotional and acted completely unprofessional in front of people I wanted to look professional and well-composed in front of. How do I get over this embarrassment and move forward?<|endoftext|>

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So I will give you the backstory, I am 29, and I have ADHD, been diagnosed since I was 12. I decided after getting laid off to start going to school for my website design and development certificate back in May. This summer I took 9 credits, and this fall I am in 13 credits all online. I recently started a job, where I was working 40 hours, in addition I have indoor soccer on Thursday nights, outdoor soccer on Sunday days, flag football on Saturday mornings, and I just started coaching a under 13 soccer team which takes up an hour on Friday through Saturday each night. When I wasn't working it was really easy for me to keep up with my studies and do the work, but since I have gotten the job, I have really struggled to get the motivation to do my school work at night, because I put so much effort in my job. Starting last week we switched my time at my job from 40 hours to 20 hours where I am done at 1, but I still haven't able to get anything done and I fall further behind. So I am curious how other people with ADHD have dealt with having a lot on their plate, and also were able to get their work done as well. EDIT: So I guess I should be more clear, I am already on medications and I don't think that is the issue. I guess I am looking more towards ways people stay focused, and methods they use to get things done, like some sort of goal setting, etc.

I have ADHD, and I am struggling juggling my classwork with job and various other activities, and need advice.

I have ADHD, how the heck do I get my work done. More specifically how do I stay focused and not get distracted?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I will give you the backstory, I am 29, and I have ADHD, been diagnosed since I was 12. I decided after getting laid off to start going to school for my website design and development certificate back in May. This summer I took 9 credits, and this fall I am in 13 credits all online. I recently started a job, where I was working 40 hours, in addition I have indoor soccer on Thursday nights, outdoor soccer on Sunday days, flag football on Saturday mornings, and I just started coaching a under 13 soccer team which takes up an hour on Friday through Saturday each night. When I wasn't working it was really easy for me to keep up with my studies and do the work, but since I have gotten the job, I have really struggled to get the motivation to do my school work at night, because I put so much effort in my job. Starting last week we switched my time at my job from 40 hours to 20 hours where I am done at 1, but I still haven't able to get anything done and I fall further behind. So I am curious how other people with ADHD have dealt with having a lot on their plate, and also were able to get their work done as well. EDIT: So I guess I should be more clear, I am already on medications and I don't think that is the issue. I guess I am looking more towards ways people stay focused, and methods they use to get things done, like some sort of goal setting, etc. TL;DR:

I have ADHD, and I am struggling juggling my classwork with job and various other activities, and need advice.<|endoftext|>

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I have ADHD, how the heck do I get my work done. More specifically how do I stay focused and not get distracted?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I will give you the backstory, I am 29, and I have ADHD, been diagnosed since I was 12. I decided after getting laid off to start going to school for my website design and development certificate back in May. This summer I took 9 credits, and this fall I am in 13 credits all online. I recently started a job, where I was working 40 hours, in addition I have indoor soccer on Thursday nights, outdoor soccer on Sunday days, flag football on Saturday mornings, and I just started coaching a under 13 soccer team which takes up an hour on Friday through Saturday each night. When I wasn't working it was really easy for me to keep up with my studies and do the work, but since I have gotten the job, I have really struggled to get the motivation to do my school work at night, because I put so much effort in my job. Starting last week we switched my time at my job from 40 hours to 20 hours where I am done at 1, but I still haven't able to get anything done and I fall further behind. So I am curious how other people with ADHD have dealt with having a lot on their plate, and also were able to get their work done as well. EDIT: So I guess I should be more clear, I am already on medications and I don't think that is the issue. I guess I am looking more towards ways people stay focused, and methods they use to get things done, like some sort of goal setting, etc. TL;DR: I have ADHD, and I am struggling juggling my classwork with job and various other activities, and need advice.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I will give you the backstory, I am 29, and I have ADHD, been diagnosed since I was 12. I decided after getting laid off to start going to school for my website design and development certificate back in May. This summer I took 9 credits, and this fall I am in 13 credits all online. I recently started a job, where I was working 40 hours, in addition I have indoor soccer on Thursday nights, outdoor soccer on Sunday days, flag football on Saturday mornings, and I just started coaching a under 13 soccer team which takes up an hour on Friday through Saturday each night. When I wasn't working it was really easy for me to keep up with my studies and do the work, but since I have gotten the job, I have really struggled to get the motivation to do my school work at night, because I put so much effort in my job. Starting last week we switched my time at my job from 40 hours to 20 hours where I am done at 1, but I still haven't able to get anything done and I fall further behind. So I am curious how other people with ADHD have dealt with having a lot on their plate, and also were able to get their work done as well. EDIT: So I guess I should be more clear, I am already on medications and I don't think that is the issue. I guess I am looking more towards ways people stay focused, and methods they use to get things done, like some sort of goal setting, etc. TL;DR: I have ADHD, how the heck do I get my work done. More specifically how do I stay focused and not get distracted?<|endoftext|>

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So, met this girl at the beginning of April, we hit it off, eventually go on a date, connect with her better than anyone I've ever met, we hook up a couple of times, I get too attached, she stops talking to me, only, I can't stop thinking about her. Luckily, she starts talking to me again, we start hanging out again, only it seems more serious this time. Things seems to be going well then bang, she tries to kill herself (long story, not related to me). She lives thankfully, I go and visit her in the hospital until she gets transferred to a mental health facility, where only the patients can call you, you can't call the patients. I send her letters all of the time, only I haven't heard from her in a week, and I realize I'm desperately in love with this girl. I don't know now if she even wants to be with me when she gets out. I've been drinking a lot more than I should be at this point, I've even taken up smoking just to calm my nerves. The question is, what the fuck do I do? I should say as I type this, I'm completely drunk, so hopefully this makes sense.

met girl, hooked up with her, got too attached, she tried killing herself, I'm so lost.

I've been in love with my girl for 5 months, she's in a hospital, I'm in love with her.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, met this girl at the beginning of April, we hit it off, eventually go on a date, connect with her better than anyone I've ever met, we hook up a couple of times, I get too attached, she stops talking to me, only, I can't stop thinking about her. Luckily, she starts talking to me again, we start hanging out again, only it seems more serious this time. Things seems to be going well then bang, she tries to kill herself (long story, not related to me). She lives thankfully, I go and visit her in the hospital until she gets transferred to a mental health facility, where only the patients can call you, you can't call the patients. I send her letters all of the time, only I haven't heard from her in a week, and I realize I'm desperately in love with this girl. I don't know now if she even wants to be with me when she gets out. I've been drinking a lot more than I should be at this point, I've even taken up smoking just to calm my nerves. The question is, what the fuck do I do? I should say as I type this, I'm completely drunk, so hopefully this makes sense. TL;DR:

met girl, hooked up with her, got too attached, she tried killing herself, I'm so lost.<|endoftext|>

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I've been in love with my girl for 5 months, she's in a hospital, I'm in love with her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, met this girl at the beginning of April, we hit it off, eventually go on a date, connect with her better than anyone I've ever met, we hook up a couple of times, I get too attached, she stops talking to me, only, I can't stop thinking about her. Luckily, she starts talking to me again, we start hanging out again, only it seems more serious this time. Things seems to be going well then bang, she tries to kill herself (long story, not related to me). She lives thankfully, I go and visit her in the hospital until she gets transferred to a mental health facility, where only the patients can call you, you can't call the patients. I send her letters all of the time, only I haven't heard from her in a week, and I realize I'm desperately in love with this girl. I don't know now if she even wants to be with me when she gets out. I've been drinking a lot more than I should be at this point, I've even taken up smoking just to calm my nerves. The question is, what the fuck do I do? I should say as I type this, I'm completely drunk, so hopefully this makes sense. TL;DR: met girl, hooked up with her, got too attached, she tried killing herself, I'm so lost.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, met this girl at the beginning of April, we hit it off, eventually go on a date, connect with her better than anyone I've ever met, we hook up a couple of times, I get too attached, she stops talking to me, only, I can't stop thinking about her. Luckily, she starts talking to me again, we start hanging out again, only it seems more serious this time. Things seems to be going well then bang, she tries to kill herself (long story, not related to me). She lives thankfully, I go and visit her in the hospital until she gets transferred to a mental health facility, where only the patients can call you, you can't call the patients. I send her letters all of the time, only I haven't heard from her in a week, and I realize I'm desperately in love with this girl. I don't know now if she even wants to be with me when she gets out. I've been drinking a lot more than I should be at this point, I've even taken up smoking just to calm my nerves. The question is, what the fuck do I do? I should say as I type this, I'm completely drunk, so hopefully this makes sense. TL;DR: I've been in love with my girl for 5 months, she's in a hospital, I'm in love with her.<|endoftext|>

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A few months ago, I started carrying around a hardcover notebook. Every time I come across a fact or bit of information I'd like to reference instantly, I write it in the book. So far it is stuff like: * Phone numbers and addresses for family members and close friends * A few Bible verses * The periodic table * A list of the presidents * The preamble of the Constitution * et cetera. I know I could just use my smartphone (and I do for a lot of stuff), but the act of actually putting the information on paper seems to help etch it in my mind a bit better. Plus, pulling out a book and reading the text to an amendment lends a certain gravitas to your point.

carrying a book around with me for reference purposes, want to be able to pull specific information easily w/o looking at my phone/text. what are some good reference reference books to have in your immediate reach?

Anything referenceable on paper that you can pull out immediately for quick access to? Has anyone else gone through this process before and had any good experiences?

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carrying a book around with me for reference purposes, want to be able to pull specific information easily w/o looking at my phone/text. what are some good reference reference books to have in your immediate reach?<|endoftext|>

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Anything referenceable on paper that you can pull out immediately for quick access to? Has anyone else gone through this process before and had any good experiences?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A few months ago, I started carrying around a hardcover notebook. Every time I come across a fact or bit of information I'd like to reference instantly, I write it in the book. So far it is stuff like: * Phone numbers and addresses for family members and close friends * A few Bible verses * The periodic table * A list of the presidents * The preamble of the Constitution * et cetera. I know I could just use my smartphone (and I do for a lot of stuff), but the act of actually putting the information on paper seems to help etch it in my mind a bit better. Plus, pulling out a book and reading the text to an amendment lends a certain gravitas to your point. TL;DR: carrying a book around with me for reference purposes, want to be able to pull specific information easily w/o looking at my phone/text. what are some good reference reference books to have in your immediate reach?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A few months ago, I started carrying around a hardcover notebook. Every time I come across a fact or bit of information I'd like to reference instantly, I write it in the book. So far it is stuff like: * Phone numbers and addresses for family members and close friends * A few Bible verses * The periodic table * A list of the presidents * The preamble of the Constitution * et cetera. I know I could just use my smartphone (and I do for a lot of stuff), but the act of actually putting the information on paper seems to help etch it in my mind a bit better. Plus, pulling out a book and reading the text to an amendment lends a certain gravitas to your point. TL;DR: Anything referenceable on paper that you can pull out immediately for quick access to? Has anyone else gone through this process before and had any good experiences?<|endoftext|>

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I am a 16 year old student doing first level of NCEA hoping to get excellence endorsement for all subjects. I do have the potential to do so (I have been getting continuous merit grades throughout high school without any real effort). However I seem to lack the motivation needed to do so. I also am happy to answer questions about myself that may help you with this challenge. P.S I have been a lurker on this subreddit for a while however hasn't done much as such and also want possible advice on asking a girl out and getting fitter.

I need motivation to push myself from a merit student to excellence for N.Z first level examinations.

you all should read the above.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am a 16 year old student doing first level of NCEA hoping to get excellence endorsement for all subjects. I do have the potential to do so (I have been getting continuous merit grades throughout high school without any real effort). However I seem to lack the motivation needed to do so. I also am happy to answer questions about myself that may help you with this challenge. P.S I have been a lurker on this subreddit for a while however hasn't done much as such and also want possible advice on asking a girl out and getting fitter. TL;DR: you all should read the above.<|endoftext|>

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I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks.

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar

My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR:

Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar<|endoftext|>

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My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR: Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. edit: grammar<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one. So my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares. 'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). Cop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. But the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous... So I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge. My guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? Thanks. TL;DR: My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?<|endoftext|>

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Okay, first off I want to say that I'm legal where I live, and she's not an authority figure. I'm a lesbian, and though I've had a few girlfriends, I'm a lonely virgin. I was messaged a couple of days ago by an older woman who's a BDSM domme. I'm a sub, and though she didn't know that, she asked me if I was interested in things like that. She knows how old I am. Now, I've had a lot of crushes on older women before, so it's not that fact by itself that's a concern. Anyway, I told her I'm a sub, and she seems really into me. We've pretty much only talked sex so far, but apparently, she wants a 24/7 BDSM relationship, which I'm nervous about, since I haven't tried any of these things IRL. I feel so dirty because of this. I really just want sex and maybe validation as well, I'd probably prefer dating a girl my own age or just a bit older, and yet it's really hot that she's older. And I feel like I wouldn't get this chance again. I'm afraid my friends would judge me, and I don't even know the logistics, since I live with my parents in a different city than she does. To be honest, if it was a friend my age telling me this, I'd probably tell them to run away. But I'd personally feel pathetic for refusing to meet up with this woman. She's nice, too, and not pushy or anything. She just seems really attracted to me. Which feels good. Do you guys think this could work out?

Blinded by age, an old woman wants a 24/7 BDSM relationship with me.

I'm dating an older woman with a strapon. Do I go for it?

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Blinded by age, an old woman wants a 24/7 BDSM relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I'm dating an older woman with a strapon. Do I go for it?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay, first off I want to say that I'm legal where I live, and she's not an authority figure. I'm a lesbian, and though I've had a few girlfriends, I'm a lonely virgin. I was messaged a couple of days ago by an older woman who's a BDSM domme. I'm a sub, and though she didn't know that, she asked me if I was interested in things like that. She knows how old I am. Now, I've had a lot of crushes on older women before, so it's not that fact by itself that's a concern. Anyway, I told her I'm a sub, and she seems really into me. We've pretty much only talked sex so far, but apparently, she wants a 24/7 BDSM relationship, which I'm nervous about, since I haven't tried any of these things IRL. I feel so dirty because of this. I really just want sex and maybe validation as well, I'd probably prefer dating a girl my own age or just a bit older, and yet it's really hot that she's older. And I feel like I wouldn't get this chance again. I'm afraid my friends would judge me, and I don't even know the logistics, since I live with my parents in a different city than she does. To be honest, if it was a friend my age telling me this, I'd probably tell them to run away. But I'd personally feel pathetic for refusing to meet up with this woman. She's nice, too, and not pushy or anything. She just seems really attracted to me. Which feels good. Do you guys think this could work out? TL;DR: Blinded by age, an old woman wants a 24/7 BDSM relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay, first off I want to say that I'm legal where I live, and she's not an authority figure. I'm a lesbian, and though I've had a few girlfriends, I'm a lonely virgin. I was messaged a couple of days ago by an older woman who's a BDSM domme. I'm a sub, and though she didn't know that, she asked me if I was interested in things like that. She knows how old I am. Now, I've had a lot of crushes on older women before, so it's not that fact by itself that's a concern. Anyway, I told her I'm a sub, and she seems really into me. We've pretty much only talked sex so far, but apparently, she wants a 24/7 BDSM relationship, which I'm nervous about, since I haven't tried any of these things IRL. I feel so dirty because of this. I really just want sex and maybe validation as well, I'd probably prefer dating a girl my own age or just a bit older, and yet it's really hot that she's older. And I feel like I wouldn't get this chance again. I'm afraid my friends would judge me, and I don't even know the logistics, since I live with my parents in a different city than she does. To be honest, if it was a friend my age telling me this, I'd probably tell them to run away. But I'd personally feel pathetic for refusing to meet up with this woman. She's nice, too, and not pushy or anything. She just seems really attracted to me. Which feels good. Do you guys think this could work out? TL;DR: I'm dating an older woman with a strapon. Do I go for it?<|endoftext|>

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This girl and I have been together for 6 months and honestly she's freaking amazing and we have been discussing plans, marriage, house, etc in the future. I had planned on proposing this fall but honestly looking at some things has me concerned I'm in this for the wrong reasons. I love her and her son so much and hate to think being without them. They both make me feel incredible and make me look forward to the future. However, lately I've found myself thinking of the negative stuff like having a kid costs money, I lose my ability to do anything spontaneous, what if I want to pick up and move across the country again? All these things make me think I should quit and that maybe I'm more in a state of mind where I just don't want to be alone and that's why I'm with this girl. A lot of times just randomly I find myself thinking I should just break up with her for the reasons listed above and just stay single. I dont know why, I can be doing something totally and completely separate from her that a normal person wouldnt make the connection between and just start thinking I should end it. I hate thinking like that because really my heart starts to hurt when I think that way and begin to imagine being without them. My brain though, it's a douchebag and it doesnt give me a clear path to happiness, whether that be staying single or being with them. Am I just being irresponsible and afraid that I no longer have to worry about just myself if I continue to be with them? Should I just continue the way Im going and hope the thoughts stop? Im so confused and it really sucks.

I love this girl and her son and the thought of having a kid and being without them makes me think of breaking up with her and just being single. Am I being irresponsible?

I'm scared of being alone and want to know if I should break up with a girl and not be with her cause the thought of being alone makes me feel bad and makes me feel like I have to worry about myself if I can't stay with her.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This girl and I have been together for 6 months and honestly she's freaking amazing and we have been discussing plans, marriage, house, etc in the future. I had planned on proposing this fall but honestly looking at some things has me concerned I'm in this for the wrong reasons. I love her and her son so much and hate to think being without them. They both make me feel incredible and make me look forward to the future. However, lately I've found myself thinking of the negative stuff like having a kid costs money, I lose my ability to do anything spontaneous, what if I want to pick up and move across the country again? All these things make me think I should quit and that maybe I'm more in a state of mind where I just don't want to be alone and that's why I'm with this girl. A lot of times just randomly I find myself thinking I should just break up with her for the reasons listed above and just stay single. I dont know why, I can be doing something totally and completely separate from her that a normal person wouldnt make the connection between and just start thinking I should end it. I hate thinking like that because really my heart starts to hurt when I think that way and begin to imagine being without them. My brain though, it's a douchebag and it doesnt give me a clear path to happiness, whether that be staying single or being with them. Am I just being irresponsible and afraid that I no longer have to worry about just myself if I continue to be with them? Should I just continue the way Im going and hope the thoughts stop? Im so confused and it really sucks. TL;DR:

I love this girl and her son and the thought of having a kid and being without them makes me think of breaking up with her and just being single. Am I being irresponsible?<|endoftext|>

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I'm scared of being alone and want to know if I should break up with a girl and not be with her cause the thought of being alone makes me feel bad and makes me feel like I have to worry about myself if I can't stay with her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This girl and I have been together for 6 months and honestly she's freaking amazing and we have been discussing plans, marriage, house, etc in the future. I had planned on proposing this fall but honestly looking at some things has me concerned I'm in this for the wrong reasons. I love her and her son so much and hate to think being without them. They both make me feel incredible and make me look forward to the future. However, lately I've found myself thinking of the negative stuff like having a kid costs money, I lose my ability to do anything spontaneous, what if I want to pick up and move across the country again? All these things make me think I should quit and that maybe I'm more in a state of mind where I just don't want to be alone and that's why I'm with this girl. A lot of times just randomly I find myself thinking I should just break up with her for the reasons listed above and just stay single. I dont know why, I can be doing something totally and completely separate from her that a normal person wouldnt make the connection between and just start thinking I should end it. I hate thinking like that because really my heart starts to hurt when I think that way and begin to imagine being without them. My brain though, it's a douchebag and it doesnt give me a clear path to happiness, whether that be staying single or being with them. Am I just being irresponsible and afraid that I no longer have to worry about just myself if I continue to be with them? Should I just continue the way Im going and hope the thoughts stop? Im so confused and it really sucks. TL;DR: I love this girl and her son and the thought of having a kid and being without them makes me think of breaking up with her and just being single. Am I being irresponsible?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This girl and I have been together for 6 months and honestly she's freaking amazing and we have been discussing plans, marriage, house, etc in the future. I had planned on proposing this fall but honestly looking at some things has me concerned I'm in this for the wrong reasons. I love her and her son so much and hate to think being without them. They both make me feel incredible and make me look forward to the future. However, lately I've found myself thinking of the negative stuff like having a kid costs money, I lose my ability to do anything spontaneous, what if I want to pick up and move across the country again? All these things make me think I should quit and that maybe I'm more in a state of mind where I just don't want to be alone and that's why I'm with this girl. A lot of times just randomly I find myself thinking I should just break up with her for the reasons listed above and just stay single. I dont know why, I can be doing something totally and completely separate from her that a normal person wouldnt make the connection between and just start thinking I should end it. I hate thinking like that because really my heart starts to hurt when I think that way and begin to imagine being without them. My brain though, it's a douchebag and it doesnt give me a clear path to happiness, whether that be staying single or being with them. Am I just being irresponsible and afraid that I no longer have to worry about just myself if I continue to be with them? Should I just continue the way Im going and hope the thoughts stop? Im so confused and it really sucks. TL;DR: I'm scared of being alone and want to know if I should break up with a girl and not be with her cause the thought of being alone makes me feel bad and makes me feel like I have to worry about myself if I can't stay with her.<|endoftext|>

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I found a meth pipe in my sons room, he tried saying it was for marijuana (which i approve of, and know very much about) but I got him to confess it was for methamphetamine. As disgusted as I a As a parent, he was very honest after his initial attempt to cover up his lie, I can tell he is being sincere. He told me he has been buying it from a kid he went to school with who lives directly behind us (same landlord but technically a deprecate building. I really want this kid to be locked up for his wrong doings, but I refuse to let my son or I to be traced back as the source of the information. I have tried a few "anonymous tip" sites including one on the DEA's website, but I'm assuming this isn't big enough scale for them (even though he is selling roughly an ounce of heroin and methamphetamine a month.

My neighbor is selling meth, I have no proof other than what my son told me, how can I anonymously tip the authorities on him?

neighbor is selling large quantities of meth, I have no proof other than my son's word, how can I be anonymous and anonymously report it to the police?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I found a meth pipe in my sons room, he tried saying it was for marijuana (which i approve of, and know very much about) but I got him to confess it was for methamphetamine. As disgusted as I a As a parent, he was very honest after his initial attempt to cover up his lie, I can tell he is being sincere. He told me he has been buying it from a kid he went to school with who lives directly behind us (same landlord but technically a deprecate building. I really want this kid to be locked up for his wrong doings, but I refuse to let my son or I to be traced back as the source of the information. I have tried a few "anonymous tip" sites including one on the DEA's website, but I'm assuming this isn't big enough scale for them (even though he is selling roughly an ounce of heroin and methamphetamine a month. TL;DR:

My neighbor is selling meth, I have no proof other than what my son told me, how can I anonymously tip the authorities on him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I found a meth pipe in my sons room, he tried saying it was for marijuana (which i approve of, and know very much about) but I got him to confess it was for methamphetamine. As disgusted as I a As a parent, he was very honest after his initial attempt to cover up his lie, I can tell he is being sincere. He told me he has been buying it from a kid he went to school with who lives directly behind us (same landlord but technically a deprecate building. I really want this kid to be locked up for his wrong doings, but I refuse to let my son or I to be traced back as the source of the information. I have tried a few "anonymous tip" sites including one on the DEA's website, but I'm assuming this isn't big enough scale for them (even though he is selling roughly an ounce of heroin and methamphetamine a month. TL;DR: My neighbor is selling meth, I have no proof other than what my son told me, how can I anonymously tip the authorities on him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I found a meth pipe in my sons room, he tried saying it was for marijuana (which i approve of, and know very much about) but I got him to confess it was for methamphetamine. As disgusted as I a As a parent, he was very honest after his initial attempt to cover up his lie, I can tell he is being sincere. He told me he has been buying it from a kid he went to school with who lives directly behind us (same landlord but technically a deprecate building. I really want this kid to be locked up for his wrong doings, but I refuse to let my son or I to be traced back as the source of the information. I have tried a few "anonymous tip" sites including one on the DEA's website, but I'm assuming this isn't big enough scale for them (even though he is selling roughly an ounce of heroin and methamphetamine a month. TL;DR: neighbor is selling large quantities of meth, I have no proof other than my son's word, how can I be anonymous and anonymously report it to the police?<|endoftext|>

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Okay so this tifu happened a long time ago when I used to intern at a project management company. It happened during my first week of work. So the company had a main server that contained all the files that people could access and these files were shared among all the employees. I had been specifically told not to touch those files and save them to my computer before using them. I get assigned some procurement work to finish which requires excel. Being the professional player that I am, I wanted the company template on my document as well. So I go to the server, instead of copying the document to my computer , I use the file directly from the server and delete all their budget and keep the title and hit save. Only that it saved "weirdly" like shit happened in the bottom of the window idk. At that point my stomach dropped and eyes widened because I realized something was wrong. I see the folder and yes, I deleted the entire budget from the folder. I'm panicking my ass off since you can also see who edited the budget last. At this point I'm on Google searching for "I fucked up at work" with no idea what to do. I go over to the only other intern and explain the situation to him. He tells me that I will have to do the entire budget again. I ask him how and we go over to the finance department (we still didn't tell them anything) and ask for the transactions receipts. He gave me like 3 files worth of receipts,I take pictures on my phone for all and it took me two days to type them all in the excel. I had no idea what I was doing. On the 3rd day of the fuck up, one of the employees accesses the budget and comes to me and says , "I think you accidently replaced the budget on the server with your assignment task, I've put the original one back up". Whew. While he is telling me this, my boss from the other room overhears and asks to see my progress so far.

deleted company budget from server by mistake, boss found out and confronted me, had to redo entire budget, had to type everything again, boss overheard conversation and saw progress, saw the boss address.

deleted company budget, employees found out and replaced original copy with assignment task; boss heard, confronted me, fucked up progress.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so this tifu happened a long time ago when I used to intern at a project management company. It happened during my first week of work. So the company had a main server that contained all the files that people could access and these files were shared among all the employees. I had been specifically told not to touch those files and save them to my computer before using them. I get assigned some procurement work to finish which requires excel. Being the professional player that I am, I wanted the company template on my document as well. So I go to the server, instead of copying the document to my computer, I use the file directly from the server and delete all their budget and keep the title and hit save. Only that it saved "weirdly" like shit happened in the bottom of the window idk. At that point my stomach dropped and eyes widened because I realized something was wrong. I see the folder and yes, I deleted the entire budget from the folder. I'm panicking my ass off since you can also see who edited the budget last. At this point I'm on Google searching for "I fucked up at work" with no idea what to do. I go over to the only other intern and explain the situation to him. He tells me that I will have to do the entire budget again. I ask him how and we go over to the finance department (we still didn't tell them anything) and ask for the transactions receipts. He gave me like 3 files worth of receipts,I take pictures on my phone for all and it took me two days to type them all in the excel. I had no idea what I was doing. On the 3rd day of the fuck up, one of the employees accesses the budget and comes to me and says, "I think you accidently replaced the budget on the server with your assignment task, I've put the original one back up". Whew. While he is telling me this, my boss from the other room overhears and asks to see my progress so far. TL;DR:

deleted company budget from server by mistake, boss found out and confronted me, had to redo entire budget, had to type everything again, boss overheard conversation and saw progress, saw the boss address.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so this tifu happened a long time ago when I used to intern at a project management company. It happened during my first week of work. So the company had a main server that contained all the files that people could access and these files were shared among all the employees. I had been specifically told not to touch those files and save them to my computer before using them. I get assigned some procurement work to finish which requires excel. Being the professional player that I am, I wanted the company template on my document as well. So I go to the server, instead of copying the document to my computer, I use the file directly from the server and delete all their budget and keep the title and hit save. Only that it saved "weirdly" like shit happened in the bottom of the window idk. At that point my stomach dropped and eyes widened because I realized something was wrong. I see the folder and yes, I deleted the entire budget from the folder. I'm panicking my ass off since you can also see who edited the budget last. At this point I'm on Google searching for "I fucked up at work" with no idea what to do. I go over to the only other intern and explain the situation to him. He tells me that I will have to do the entire budget again. I ask him how and we go over to the finance department (we still didn't tell them anything) and ask for the transactions receipts. He gave me like 3 files worth of receipts,I take pictures on my phone for all and it took me two days to type them all in the excel. I had no idea what I was doing. On the 3rd day of the fuck up, one of the employees accesses the budget and comes to me and says, "I think you accidently replaced the budget on the server with your assignment task, I've put the original one back up". Whew. While he is telling me this, my boss from the other room overhears and asks to see my progress so far. TL;DR: deleted company budget from server by mistake, boss found out and confronted me, had to redo entire budget, had to type everything again, boss overheard conversation and saw progress, saw the boss address.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so this tifu happened a long time ago when I used to intern at a project management company. It happened during my first week of work. So the company had a main server that contained all the files that people could access and these files were shared among all the employees. I had been specifically told not to touch those files and save them to my computer before using them. I get assigned some procurement work to finish which requires excel. Being the professional player that I am, I wanted the company template on my document as well. So I go to the server, instead of copying the document to my computer, I use the file directly from the server and delete all their budget and keep the title and hit save. Only that it saved "weirdly" like shit happened in the bottom of the window idk. At that point my stomach dropped and eyes widened because I realized something was wrong. I see the folder and yes, I deleted the entire budget from the folder. I'm panicking my ass off since you can also see who edited the budget last. At this point I'm on Google searching for "I fucked up at work" with no idea what to do. I go over to the only other intern and explain the situation to him. He tells me that I will have to do the entire budget again. I ask him how and we go over to the finance department (we still didn't tell them anything) and ask for the transactions receipts. He gave me like 3 files worth of receipts,I take pictures on my phone for all and it took me two days to type them all in the excel. I had no idea what I was doing. On the 3rd day of the fuck up, one of the employees accesses the budget and comes to me and says, "I think you accidently replaced the budget on the server with your assignment task, I've put the original one back up". Whew. While he is telling me this, my boss from the other room overhears and asks to see my progress so far. TL;DR: deleted company budget, employees found out and replaced original copy with assignment task; boss heard, confronted me, fucked up progress.<|endoftext|>

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I've been long-distance dating this really sweet, caring and fun guy for a few months now, and I'm deeply in love with him. (*Though I'm yet to tell him this.*) We haven’t defined our relationship yet, mostly because we haven’t been able to spend as much time together as we’d liked, i.e not gotten to know each other *fully* yet. (*I would say we know each other quite well, though.*) However we both have seemed to enjoy our time together equally as much, and have said ”I like you” towards one another multiple times. We’ve met about every 2-3 weeks, but have texted almost daily, mostly about our lives, thoughts and values but also throwing in the occasional ”*I miss you <3*” etc. Last week we spoke on the phone for the first time, and we had a really fun, easy-going talk. We talked about meeting up again soon and everything seemed fine. He also said he was going to call me someday soon. The problem is, **he hasn’t contacted me at all in over a week**. No texts, no calls, not even a facebook-like. *Zero contact.* **This has led me to be confused beyond words, and I’m not sure at all what to do or how to act at this point, since:** **a)** I was the one who called him last **b)** He said he was going to call **c)** If I contact him first again, I’m afraid to seem clingy or needy (*Maybe he’s just been busy?*) **I know I could call, I could text, and I could do *anything*. But I have *no idea what to say* or *how to act* without it being awkward.** Any thoughts on this matter would be deeply appreciated.

Been long-distance dating this guy for a few months now. He said he was going to call me, but hasn't since. I don't understand why he hasn't contacted me, or how to act without it being awkward.

I'm dating this guy who I usually talk to almost daily, but now we haven't spoken for over a week. What should I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been long-distance dating this really sweet, caring and fun guy for a few months now, and I'm deeply in love with him. (*Though I'm yet to tell him this.*) We haven’t defined our relationship yet, mostly because we haven’t been able to spend as much time together as we’d liked, i.e not gotten to know each other *fully* yet. (*I would say we know each other quite well, though.*) However we both have seemed to enjoy our time together equally as much, and have said ”I like you” towards one another multiple times. We’ve met about every 2-3 weeks, but have texted almost daily, mostly about our lives, thoughts and values but also throwing in the occasional ”*I miss you <3*” etc. Last week we spoke on the phone for the first time, and we had a really fun, easy-going talk. We talked about meeting up again soon and everything seemed fine. He also said he was going to call me someday soon. The problem is, **he hasn’t contacted me at all in over a week**. No texts, no calls, not even a facebook-like. *Zero contact.* **This has led me to be confused beyond words, and I’m not sure at all what to do or how to act at this point, since:** **a)** I was the one who called him last **b)** He said he was going to call **c)** If I contact him first again, I’m afraid to seem clingy or needy (*Maybe he’s just been busy?*) **I know I could call, I could text, and I could do *anything*. But I have *no idea what to say* or *how to act* without it being awkward.** Any thoughts on this matter would be deeply appreciated. TL;DR:

Been long-distance dating this guy for a few months now. He said he was going to call me, but hasn't since. I don't understand why he hasn't contacted me, or how to act without it being awkward.<|endoftext|>

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I'm dating this guy who I usually talk to almost daily, but now we haven't spoken for over a week. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been long-distance dating this really sweet, caring and fun guy for a few months now, and I'm deeply in love with him. (*Though I'm yet to tell him this.*) We haven’t defined our relationship yet, mostly because we haven’t been able to spend as much time together as we’d liked, i.e not gotten to know each other *fully* yet. (*I would say we know each other quite well, though.*) However we both have seemed to enjoy our time together equally as much, and have said ”I like you” towards one another multiple times. We’ve met about every 2-3 weeks, but have texted almost daily, mostly about our lives, thoughts and values but also throwing in the occasional ”*I miss you <3*” etc. Last week we spoke on the phone for the first time, and we had a really fun, easy-going talk. We talked about meeting up again soon and everything seemed fine. He also said he was going to call me someday soon. The problem is, **he hasn’t contacted me at all in over a week**. No texts, no calls, not even a facebook-like. *Zero contact.* **This has led me to be confused beyond words, and I’m not sure at all what to do or how to act at this point, since:** **a)** I was the one who called him last **b)** He said he was going to call **c)** If I contact him first again, I’m afraid to seem clingy or needy (*Maybe he’s just been busy?*) **I know I could call, I could text, and I could do *anything*. But I have *no idea what to say* or *how to act* without it being awkward.** Any thoughts on this matter would be deeply appreciated. TL;DR: Been long-distance dating this guy for a few months now. He said he was going to call me, but hasn't since. I don't understand why he hasn't contacted me, or how to act without it being awkward.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been long-distance dating this really sweet, caring and fun guy for a few months now, and I'm deeply in love with him. (*Though I'm yet to tell him this.*) We haven’t defined our relationship yet, mostly because we haven’t been able to spend as much time together as we’d liked, i.e not gotten to know each other *fully* yet. (*I would say we know each other quite well, though.*) However we both have seemed to enjoy our time together equally as much, and have said ”I like you” towards one another multiple times. We’ve met about every 2-3 weeks, but have texted almost daily, mostly about our lives, thoughts and values but also throwing in the occasional ”*I miss you <3*” etc. Last week we spoke on the phone for the first time, and we had a really fun, easy-going talk. We talked about meeting up again soon and everything seemed fine. He also said he was going to call me someday soon. The problem is, **he hasn’t contacted me at all in over a week**. No texts, no calls, not even a facebook-like. *Zero contact.* **This has led me to be confused beyond words, and I’m not sure at all what to do or how to act at this point, since:** **a)** I was the one who called him last **b)** He said he was going to call **c)** If I contact him first again, I’m afraid to seem clingy or needy (*Maybe he’s just been busy?*) **I know I could call, I could text, and I could do *anything*. But I have *no idea what to say* or *how to act* without it being awkward.** Any thoughts on this matter would be deeply appreciated. TL;DR: I'm dating this guy who I usually talk to almost daily, but now we haven't spoken for over a week. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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So, for the past month or so, our valentines day plans were to go out to dinner with two of his friends who are also a couple. I was fine with this because the one friend was only coming up for the weekend and I know that my SO didn't get to see this person very much (I am not friends with either of these people, we'll call them A and B). Well, as of less than an hour ago, our plans have changed drastically. My SO apparently canceled our reservation a while back? and couldn't get another one, so now we're going to the house of another of his friend's (we'll call this guy C) to watch League of Legends and eat burgers with a bunch of his gaming friends. I don't really know any of these people well and this is the last thing I want to do this weekend. I would much rather stay home and study for the two midterms I have coming up this week, but I don't know how to back out of this without embarrassing my SO since all of his friend's think I'm coming! Help? I don't know what to do and this is all going down in about an hour!

Boyfriend canceled our plans to go out to dinner with another guy, I don't know if I should go with him or not

I'm going to a party with my boyfriend's friends and I don't know how to go about it.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, for the past month or so, our valentines day plans were to go out to dinner with two of his friends who are also a couple. I was fine with this because the one friend was only coming up for the weekend and I know that my SO didn't get to see this person very much (I am not friends with either of these people, we'll call them A and B). Well, as of less than an hour ago, our plans have changed drastically. My SO apparently canceled our reservation a while back? and couldn't get another one, so now we're going to the house of another of his friend's (we'll call this guy C) to watch League of Legends and eat burgers with a bunch of his gaming friends. I don't really know any of these people well and this is the last thing I want to do this weekend. I would much rather stay home and study for the two midterms I have coming up this week, but I don't know how to back out of this without embarrassing my SO since all of his friend's think I'm coming! Help? I don't know what to do and this is all going down in about an hour! TL;DR:

Boyfriend canceled our plans to go out to dinner with another guy, I don't know if I should go with him or not<|endoftext|>

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I'm going to a party with my boyfriend's friends and I don't know how to go about it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, for the past month or so, our valentines day plans were to go out to dinner with two of his friends who are also a couple. I was fine with this because the one friend was only coming up for the weekend and I know that my SO didn't get to see this person very much (I am not friends with either of these people, we'll call them A and B). Well, as of less than an hour ago, our plans have changed drastically. My SO apparently canceled our reservation a while back? and couldn't get another one, so now we're going to the house of another of his friend's (we'll call this guy C) to watch League of Legends and eat burgers with a bunch of his gaming friends. I don't really know any of these people well and this is the last thing I want to do this weekend. I would much rather stay home and study for the two midterms I have coming up this week, but I don't know how to back out of this without embarrassing my SO since all of his friend's think I'm coming! Help? I don't know what to do and this is all going down in about an hour! TL;DR: Boyfriend canceled our plans to go out to dinner with another guy, I don't know if I should go with him or not<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, for the past month or so, our valentines day plans were to go out to dinner with two of his friends who are also a couple. I was fine with this because the one friend was only coming up for the weekend and I know that my SO didn't get to see this person very much (I am not friends with either of these people, we'll call them A and B). Well, as of less than an hour ago, our plans have changed drastically. My SO apparently canceled our reservation a while back? and couldn't get another one, so now we're going to the house of another of his friend's (we'll call this guy C) to watch League of Legends and eat burgers with a bunch of his gaming friends. I don't really know any of these people well and this is the last thing I want to do this weekend. I would much rather stay home and study for the two midterms I have coming up this week, but I don't know how to back out of this without embarrassing my SO since all of his friend's think I'm coming! Help? I don't know what to do and this is all going down in about an hour! TL;DR: I'm going to a party with my boyfriend's friends and I don't know how to go about it.<|endoftext|>

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Hello, everyone. I got a an issue concerning my weight loss. I'm a letter-carrier and I want to lose about 30 pounds. I walk around 30-35 hours a week. So, the exercice part is not really an issue. However, since I burn a lot of calories, I eat a lot more than if I was working at a cubical job. Now, my problem is that I don't know where to cut in my calorie ingestion. If I eat less and I'm not full, I get tired during my workday and struggle to finish it. I tried changing some snacks to fruits, but I don't fell full and I get hungry and tired very quickly. I just wanted to know if you guys had some ideas on snacks or lunches that are high in nutrtion, but low fat/calories (if that exists) that I could eat to help me out. I think that proteins would be the thing that would be the most important, I guess thanks in advance

letter carrier wants to lose 30 lbs by adopting healthier eating habits; snack or lunch ideas to help cut calories/fat?

letter carrier wants to lose weight. Need snack/lunch ideas that are high in calories/nutrion, but low fat. protein and oats would be cool suggestions.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, everyone. I got a an issue concerning my weight loss. I'm a letter-carrier and I want to lose about 30 pounds. I walk around 30-35 hours a week. So, the exercice part is not really an issue. However, since I burn a lot of calories, I eat a lot more than if I was working at a cubical job. Now, my problem is that I don't know where to cut in my calorie ingestion. If I eat less and I'm not full, I get tired during my workday and struggle to finish it. I tried changing some snacks to fruits, but I don't fell full and I get hungry and tired very quickly. I just wanted to know if you guys had some ideas on snacks or lunches that are high in nutrtion, but low fat/calories (if that exists) that I could eat to help me out. I think that proteins would be the thing that would be the most important, I guess thanks in advance TL;DR:

letter carrier wants to lose 30 lbs by adopting healthier eating habits; snack or lunch ideas to help cut calories/fat?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, everyone. I got a an issue concerning my weight loss. I'm a letter-carrier and I want to lose about 30 pounds. I walk around 30-35 hours a week. So, the exercice part is not really an issue. However, since I burn a lot of calories, I eat a lot more than if I was working at a cubical job. Now, my problem is that I don't know where to cut in my calorie ingestion. If I eat less and I'm not full, I get tired during my workday and struggle to finish it. I tried changing some snacks to fruits, but I don't fell full and I get hungry and tired very quickly. I just wanted to know if you guys had some ideas on snacks or lunches that are high in nutrtion, but low fat/calories (if that exists) that I could eat to help me out. I think that proteins would be the thing that would be the most important, I guess thanks in advance TL;DR: letter carrier wants to lose 30 lbs by adopting healthier eating habits; snack or lunch ideas to help cut calories/fat?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, everyone. I got a an issue concerning my weight loss. I'm a letter-carrier and I want to lose about 30 pounds. I walk around 30-35 hours a week. So, the exercice part is not really an issue. However, since I burn a lot of calories, I eat a lot more than if I was working at a cubical job. Now, my problem is that I don't know where to cut in my calorie ingestion. If I eat less and I'm not full, I get tired during my workday and struggle to finish it. I tried changing some snacks to fruits, but I don't fell full and I get hungry and tired very quickly. I just wanted to know if you guys had some ideas on snacks or lunches that are high in nutrtion, but low fat/calories (if that exists) that I could eat to help me out. I think that proteins would be the thing that would be the most important, I guess thanks in advance TL;DR: letter carrier wants to lose weight. Need snack/lunch ideas that are high in calories/nutrion, but low fat. protein and oats would be cool suggestions.<|endoftext|>

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E: Forgot to say that she's 23. Should also add that I was pretty hammered during the night, but she was tipsy. Also I asked her if it was a drunken thing or not, apparently she was serious. So a new girl joined my office around 5 days ago, and we started off with essentially no talking, then we went out for office drinks yesterday and really started hitting it off. Essentially we're really similar people, so we spent all night talking about our interests and we were also pretty touchy feely, she put her head on my shoulder a lot and we had our arms around each other quite a lot too. By the end of the night we had organised a movie day for tomorrow, and we both seemed really excited. We also spent most of the night talking on chat which was amazing. So this morning she's at work and says she has to reschedule because she already made some plans that she forgot about. I'm fine with this, so I ask her if we want to make a date or play it by ear, she went for the latter. Then I asked later on if we wanted a specific date, so we both had something to look forward to. She then says she's really busy with work for a while (which she also mentioned last night). Then I suggested an evening next week, and she suggested that we do a number of evenings the week after. So essentially what i'm left with is a string of potential dates the week after next, and she's suggested movies we can watch etc. so she seems interested? I'm just really aware that there's a lot of mixed signals going on, and i don't know how to tell if she's politely saying no, or if she's just wanting to know me better before we start with these kind of dates? This has happened to me before and it's been brutal, as I tend to fall hard and fast so i'm really bad at keeping a distance.

Girl is giving me mixed signals, should I just give up, or wait and see?

two girls who like each other, one is saying yes, the other not so sure.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: E: Forgot to say that she's 23. Should also add that I was pretty hammered during the night, but she was tipsy. Also I asked her if it was a drunken thing or not, apparently she was serious. So a new girl joined my office around 5 days ago, and we started off with essentially no talking, then we went out for office drinks yesterday and really started hitting it off. Essentially we're really similar people, so we spent all night talking about our interests and we were also pretty touchy feely, she put her head on my shoulder a lot and we had our arms around each other quite a lot too. By the end of the night we had organised a movie day for tomorrow, and we both seemed really excited. We also spent most of the night talking on chat which was amazing. So this morning she's at work and says she has to reschedule because she already made some plans that she forgot about. I'm fine with this, so I ask her if we want to make a date or play it by ear, she went for the latter. Then I asked later on if we wanted a specific date, so we both had something to look forward to. She then says she's really busy with work for a while (which she also mentioned last night). Then I suggested an evening next week, and she suggested that we do a number of evenings the week after. So essentially what i'm left with is a string of potential dates the week after next, and she's suggested movies we can watch etc. so she seems interested? I'm just really aware that there's a lot of mixed signals going on, and i don't know how to tell if she's politely saying no, or if she's just wanting to know me better before we start with these kind of dates? This has happened to me before and it's been brutal, as I tend to fall hard and fast so i'm really bad at keeping a distance. TL;DR:

Girl is giving me mixed signals, should I just give up, or wait and see?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: E: Forgot to say that she's 23. Should also add that I was pretty hammered during the night, but she was tipsy. Also I asked her if it was a drunken thing or not, apparently she was serious. So a new girl joined my office around 5 days ago, and we started off with essentially no talking, then we went out for office drinks yesterday and really started hitting it off. Essentially we're really similar people, so we spent all night talking about our interests and we were also pretty touchy feely, she put her head on my shoulder a lot and we had our arms around each other quite a lot too. By the end of the night we had organised a movie day for tomorrow, and we both seemed really excited. We also spent most of the night talking on chat which was amazing. So this morning she's at work and says she has to reschedule because she already made some plans that she forgot about. I'm fine with this, so I ask her if we want to make a date or play it by ear, she went for the latter. Then I asked later on if we wanted a specific date, so we both had something to look forward to. She then says she's really busy with work for a while (which she also mentioned last night). Then I suggested an evening next week, and she suggested that we do a number of evenings the week after. So essentially what i'm left with is a string of potential dates the week after next, and she's suggested movies we can watch etc. so she seems interested? I'm just really aware that there's a lot of mixed signals going on, and i don't know how to tell if she's politely saying no, or if she's just wanting to know me better before we start with these kind of dates? This has happened to me before and it's been brutal, as I tend to fall hard and fast so i'm really bad at keeping a distance. TL;DR: Girl is giving me mixed signals, should I just give up, or wait and see?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: E: Forgot to say that she's 23. Should also add that I was pretty hammered during the night, but she was tipsy. Also I asked her if it was a drunken thing or not, apparently she was serious. So a new girl joined my office around 5 days ago, and we started off with essentially no talking, then we went out for office drinks yesterday and really started hitting it off. Essentially we're really similar people, so we spent all night talking about our interests and we were also pretty touchy feely, she put her head on my shoulder a lot and we had our arms around each other quite a lot too. By the end of the night we had organised a movie day for tomorrow, and we both seemed really excited. We also spent most of the night talking on chat which was amazing. So this morning she's at work and says she has to reschedule because she already made some plans that she forgot about. I'm fine with this, so I ask her if we want to make a date or play it by ear, she went for the latter. Then I asked later on if we wanted a specific date, so we both had something to look forward to. She then says she's really busy with work for a while (which she also mentioned last night). Then I suggested an evening next week, and she suggested that we do a number of evenings the week after. So essentially what i'm left with is a string of potential dates the week after next, and she's suggested movies we can watch etc. so she seems interested? I'm just really aware that there's a lot of mixed signals going on, and i don't know how to tell if she's politely saying no, or if she's just wanting to know me better before we start with these kind of dates? This has happened to me before and it's been brutal, as I tend to fall hard and fast so i'm really bad at keeping a distance. TL;DR: two girls who like each other, one is saying yes, the other not so sure.<|endoftext|>

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I have a year old French toy poodle. Great dog, full of energy, and very well behaved. I only have one gripe with this dog. When he was younger (we adopted him from a pound in Ecuador), he had medical troubles which made him very sensitive to diseases and such. He is fine now, but for about half a month or so, we couldn't walk him or pretty much take him outside at all. This led to him not being socialized ideally with other dogs or other people besides my family. We've started walking him, but there's a problem. During walks, he barks at any other person he sees, once they're about, 50 or so feet away from us. He loses all consideration for my commands and just barks wildly without mercy until we're far enough from the people, or dog, he's barking at. Aside from this, he's very well behaved. I've trained him to do about 10 commands (sit, stand up, jump, roll over, etc.) and I'm certain he thinks of me as a dominant figure. I'm the only one who walks him, so I know he trusts me. I've tried smacking when he barks and rewarding when he doesn't, but that hasn't worked. The same applies to when we have guests over. Other than this, he's been just fine. We play fetch and wrestle everyday and what-have-you, but the barking problem is huge. But because of this, I haven't been able to bathroom train him properly. What methods have any of you guys found to be effective to suppress bad barking behavior? Many thanks to anyone who gives a suggestion.

dog barks at anyone around him or in front of us. I'm the only one who walks him, and need to know how to stop him from barks when we're far enough away.

My dog barks wildly at people and other dogs when we walk him and I don't know how to deal with it. EDIT: Thanks to everyone who has offered their advice. I plan on training him from the ground up and will hopefully be around for a long time to come.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a year old French toy poodle. Great dog, full of energy, and very well behaved. I only have one gripe with this dog. When he was younger (we adopted him from a pound in Ecuador), he had medical troubles which made him very sensitive to diseases and such. He is fine now, but for about half a month or so, we couldn't walk him or pretty much take him outside at all. This led to him not being socialized ideally with other dogs or other people besides my family. We've started walking him, but there's a problem. During walks, he barks at any other person he sees, once they're about, 50 or so feet away from us. He loses all consideration for my commands and just barks wildly without mercy until we're far enough from the people, or dog, he's barking at. Aside from this, he's very well behaved. I've trained him to do about 10 commands (sit, stand up, jump, roll over, etc.) and I'm certain he thinks of me as a dominant figure. I'm the only one who walks him, so I know he trusts me. I've tried smacking when he barks and rewarding when he doesn't, but that hasn't worked. The same applies to when we have guests over. Other than this, he's been just fine. We play fetch and wrestle everyday and what-have-you, but the barking problem is huge. But because of this, I haven't been able to bathroom train him properly. What methods have any of you guys found to be effective to suppress bad barking behavior? Many thanks to anyone who gives a suggestion. TL;DR:

dog barks at anyone around him or in front of us. I'm the only one who walks him, and need to know how to stop him from barks when we're far enough away.<|endoftext|>

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My dog barks wildly at people and other dogs when we walk him and I don't know how to deal with it. EDIT: Thanks to everyone who has offered their advice. I plan on training him from the ground up and will hopefully be around for a long time to come.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a year old French toy poodle. Great dog, full of energy, and very well behaved. I only have one gripe with this dog. When he was younger (we adopted him from a pound in Ecuador), he had medical troubles which made him very sensitive to diseases and such. He is fine now, but for about half a month or so, we couldn't walk him or pretty much take him outside at all. This led to him not being socialized ideally with other dogs or other people besides my family. We've started walking him, but there's a problem. During walks, he barks at any other person he sees, once they're about, 50 or so feet away from us. He loses all consideration for my commands and just barks wildly without mercy until we're far enough from the people, or dog, he's barking at. Aside from this, he's very well behaved. I've trained him to do about 10 commands (sit, stand up, jump, roll over, etc.) and I'm certain he thinks of me as a dominant figure. I'm the only one who walks him, so I know he trusts me. I've tried smacking when he barks and rewarding when he doesn't, but that hasn't worked. The same applies to when we have guests over. Other than this, he's been just fine. We play fetch and wrestle everyday and what-have-you, but the barking problem is huge. But because of this, I haven't been able to bathroom train him properly. What methods have any of you guys found to be effective to suppress bad barking behavior? Many thanks to anyone who gives a suggestion. TL;DR: dog barks at anyone around him or in front of us. I'm the only one who walks him, and need to know how to stop him from barks when we're far enough away.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a year old French toy poodle. Great dog, full of energy, and very well behaved. I only have one gripe with this dog. When he was younger (we adopted him from a pound in Ecuador), he had medical troubles which made him very sensitive to diseases and such. He is fine now, but for about half a month or so, we couldn't walk him or pretty much take him outside at all. This led to him not being socialized ideally with other dogs or other people besides my family. We've started walking him, but there's a problem. During walks, he barks at any other person he sees, once they're about, 50 or so feet away from us. He loses all consideration for my commands and just barks wildly without mercy until we're far enough from the people, or dog, he's barking at. Aside from this, he's very well behaved. I've trained him to do about 10 commands (sit, stand up, jump, roll over, etc.) and I'm certain he thinks of me as a dominant figure. I'm the only one who walks him, so I know he trusts me. I've tried smacking when he barks and rewarding when he doesn't, but that hasn't worked. The same applies to when we have guests over. Other than this, he's been just fine. We play fetch and wrestle everyday and what-have-you, but the barking problem is huge. But because of this, I haven't been able to bathroom train him properly. What methods have any of you guys found to be effective to suppress bad barking behavior? Many thanks to anyone who gives a suggestion. TL;DR: My dog barks wildly at people and other dogs when we walk him and I don't know how to deal with it. EDIT: Thanks to everyone who has offered their advice. I plan on training him from the ground up and will hopefully be around for a long time to come.<|endoftext|>

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But he smokes too? We've been on and off for 6 years. On again for over a year now and it's pretty darn good. However, he hates that I smoke. I never gave it much thought in the past and continued smoking about a pack a day. However, the last year we've been together, I've begun really giving quitting some effort. He gives me hell about it. At first I really took it to heart and I quit last summer. Then began smoking again slowly after over a month. He wasn't so bad after that quit attempt other than an occasional comment. Then after Christmas it really got obnoxious with comments constantly. Recently it got really overwhelming with things like," One of the number one reasons relationships fail is when one partner smokes and the other doesn't." I don't believe that, but fine. So I started giving some serious effort to quit again which ended up in some meltdowns from me. A lot more comments about how lots of people quit smoking and don't make a big deal out of it. I make his life heinous when I'm quitting smoking. I felt giant pressure on me constantly. So I made it through 3 weeks and it was not nearly as easy as last time. I caved. (not that last time was by any means easy) It's no excuse but one of MY BIGGEST issues is that he smokes. Not a lot but a few a day and chain smoking sessions when drinking throughout the month. He smoked in front of me when I was quitting and trying to stay strong through hanging out with all of his smoker friends. I have tried to talk to him about this and how I feel about it. It does not work. I understand he doesn't want to smell it on me and is concerned about my health, etc, but this is just a hard situation to be in. I want to quit, but it's also very difficult to be around those smoking situations in the early days. (That he wants me there for so badly) For some reason it also just really bothers me when he's smoking in front of me after all the bitching about my bad habit.

My boyfriend hates that I smoke. I quit once over the last year but he smokes often. He's really pissed. He doesn't want me around those smoking situations. I want to quit but it's really difficult to be around them. I don't understand why.

my boyfriend may not want me to be around smoke but it makes me uncomfortable.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: But he smokes too? We've been on and off for 6 years. On again for over a year now and it's pretty darn good. However, he hates that I smoke. I never gave it much thought in the past and continued smoking about a pack a day. However, the last year we've been together, I've begun really giving quitting some effort. He gives me hell about it. At first I really took it to heart and I quit last summer. Then began smoking again slowly after over a month. He wasn't so bad after that quit attempt other than an occasional comment. Then after Christmas it really got obnoxious with comments constantly. Recently it got really overwhelming with things like," One of the number one reasons relationships fail is when one partner smokes and the other doesn't." I don't believe that, but fine. So I started giving some serious effort to quit again which ended up in some meltdowns from me. A lot more comments about how lots of people quit smoking and don't make a big deal out of it. I make his life heinous when I'm quitting smoking. I felt giant pressure on me constantly. So I made it through 3 weeks and it was not nearly as easy as last time. I caved. (not that last time was by any means easy) It's no excuse but one of MY BIGGEST issues is that he smokes. Not a lot but a few a day and chain smoking sessions when drinking throughout the month. He smoked in front of me when I was quitting and trying to stay strong through hanging out with all of his smoker friends. I have tried to talk to him about this and how I feel about it. It does not work. I understand he doesn't want to smell it on me and is concerned about my health, etc, but this is just a hard situation to be in. I want to quit, but it's also very difficult to be around those smoking situations in the early days. (That he wants me there for so badly) For some reason it also just really bothers me when he's smoking in front of me after all the bitching about my bad habit. TL;DR:

My boyfriend hates that I smoke. I quit once over the last year but he smokes often. He's really pissed. He doesn't want me around those smoking situations. I want to quit but it's really difficult to be around them. I don't understand why.<|endoftext|>

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my boyfriend may not want me to be around smoke but it makes me uncomfortable.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: But he smokes too? We've been on and off for 6 years. On again for over a year now and it's pretty darn good. However, he hates that I smoke. I never gave it much thought in the past and continued smoking about a pack a day. However, the last year we've been together, I've begun really giving quitting some effort. He gives me hell about it. At first I really took it to heart and I quit last summer. Then began smoking again slowly after over a month. He wasn't so bad after that quit attempt other than an occasional comment. Then after Christmas it really got obnoxious with comments constantly. Recently it got really overwhelming with things like," One of the number one reasons relationships fail is when one partner smokes and the other doesn't." I don't believe that, but fine. So I started giving some serious effort to quit again which ended up in some meltdowns from me. A lot more comments about how lots of people quit smoking and don't make a big deal out of it. I make his life heinous when I'm quitting smoking. I felt giant pressure on me constantly. So I made it through 3 weeks and it was not nearly as easy as last time. I caved. (not that last time was by any means easy) It's no excuse but one of MY BIGGEST issues is that he smokes. Not a lot but a few a day and chain smoking sessions when drinking throughout the month. He smoked in front of me when I was quitting and trying to stay strong through hanging out with all of his smoker friends. I have tried to talk to him about this and how I feel about it. It does not work. I understand he doesn't want to smell it on me and is concerned about my health, etc, but this is just a hard situation to be in. I want to quit, but it's also very difficult to be around those smoking situations in the early days. (That he wants me there for so badly) For some reason it also just really bothers me when he's smoking in front of me after all the bitching about my bad habit. TL;DR: My boyfriend hates that I smoke. I quit once over the last year but he smokes often. He's really pissed. He doesn't want me around those smoking situations. I want to quit but it's really difficult to be around them. I don't understand why.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: But he smokes too? We've been on and off for 6 years. On again for over a year now and it's pretty darn good. However, he hates that I smoke. I never gave it much thought in the past and continued smoking about a pack a day. However, the last year we've been together, I've begun really giving quitting some effort. He gives me hell about it. At first I really took it to heart and I quit last summer. Then began smoking again slowly after over a month. He wasn't so bad after that quit attempt other than an occasional comment. Then after Christmas it really got obnoxious with comments constantly. Recently it got really overwhelming with things like," One of the number one reasons relationships fail is when one partner smokes and the other doesn't." I don't believe that, but fine. So I started giving some serious effort to quit again which ended up in some meltdowns from me. A lot more comments about how lots of people quit smoking and don't make a big deal out of it. I make his life heinous when I'm quitting smoking. I felt giant pressure on me constantly. So I made it through 3 weeks and it was not nearly as easy as last time. I caved. (not that last time was by any means easy) It's no excuse but one of MY BIGGEST issues is that he smokes. Not a lot but a few a day and chain smoking sessions when drinking throughout the month. He smoked in front of me when I was quitting and trying to stay strong through hanging out with all of his smoker friends. I have tried to talk to him about this and how I feel about it. It does not work. I understand he doesn't want to smell it on me and is concerned about my health, etc, but this is just a hard situation to be in. I want to quit, but it's also very difficult to be around those smoking situations in the early days. (That he wants me there for so badly) For some reason it also just really bothers me when he's smoking in front of me after all the bitching about my bad habit. TL;DR: my boyfriend may not want me to be around smoke but it makes me uncomfortable.<|endoftext|>

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Hey guys. I've been a lurker on reddit and I've seen some good advice on this subreddit so I thought I'd give it a try. Anyways. At the beginning of this year (HS) I met this girl and we got along really well. We both sort of thought we had put each other in the friend zone, since we became so close so suddenly. We ended up bringing that fact up during a random conversation and we both confessed we had feelings for each other. The most amazing relationship I've ever had bloomed out of this, lasting for about half a year. Now the problem with this was that neither of our parents really approved of the other person. We decided to ignore that and continued talking, without them knowing. As all relationships do, it began to become more physical, and basically, her mom stumbled across our NSFW texts and freaked out, threatening to tell my mom if I continued to talk to her. Now to most people, this wouldn't be too big of a threat, but my mom had been telling me for months to not date at the time and she threatened some things. (Before everyone starts hating on my mom, in hindsight, she was probably right about the timing thing) Long story short, we decided to break up and just be friends, as we felt that might be less risky. It's important to note that I've never cared this much about a girl before and I would do anything for her. Now her comes the fuck up. A month ago (2-3 months after the relationship had ended), I started to notice this other girl and my friends started egging me on to talk to her. Now, through the grapevine, the girl that I care about found out and now, she refuses to talk to me, telling me to "leave [her] alone". She's super fragile and has been depressed before and I really want to help her somehow, but I just don't know what else to do. I've told her how I feel about her and how much she means to me, but she's still ignoring me... Reddit, any help you have would be greatly appreciated.

A fantastic 6 month relationship ended 3 months ago, due to extenuating circumstances. I began noticing another girl; girl that I had relationship won't talk to me anymore and I still care about her a lot.

I really like a girl who was very close to me for about a year, but she had feelings for another girl that found out about our relationship (or so she claimed) and is now refusing to talk to me.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey guys. I've been a lurker on reddit and I've seen some good advice on this subreddit so I thought I'd give it a try. Anyways. At the beginning of this year (HS) I met this girl and we got along really well. We both sort of thought we had put each other in the friend zone, since we became so close so suddenly. We ended up bringing that fact up during a random conversation and we both confessed we had feelings for each other. The most amazing relationship I've ever had bloomed out of this, lasting for about half a year. Now the problem with this was that neither of our parents really approved of the other person. We decided to ignore that and continued talking, without them knowing. As all relationships do, it began to become more physical, and basically, her mom stumbled across our NSFW texts and freaked out, threatening to tell my mom if I continued to talk to her. Now to most people, this wouldn't be too big of a threat, but my mom had been telling me for months to not date at the time and she threatened some things. (Before everyone starts hating on my mom, in hindsight, she was probably right about the timing thing) Long story short, we decided to break up and just be friends, as we felt that might be less risky. It's important to note that I've never cared this much about a girl before and I would do anything for her. Now her comes the fuck up. A month ago (2-3 months after the relationship had ended), I started to notice this other girl and my friends started egging me on to talk to her. Now, through the grapevine, the girl that I care about found out and now, she refuses to talk to me, telling me to "leave [her] alone". She's super fragile and has been depressed before and I really want to help her somehow, but I just don't know what else to do. I've told her how I feel about her and how much she means to me, but she's still ignoring me... Reddit, any help you have would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR:

A fantastic 6 month relationship ended 3 months ago, due to extenuating circumstances. I began noticing another girl; girl that I had relationship won't talk to me anymore and I still care about her a lot.<|endoftext|>

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I really like a girl who was very close to me for about a year, but she had feelings for another girl that found out about our relationship (or so she claimed) and is now refusing to talk to me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey guys. I've been a lurker on reddit and I've seen some good advice on this subreddit so I thought I'd give it a try. Anyways. At the beginning of this year (HS) I met this girl and we got along really well. We both sort of thought we had put each other in the friend zone, since we became so close so suddenly. We ended up bringing that fact up during a random conversation and we both confessed we had feelings for each other. The most amazing relationship I've ever had bloomed out of this, lasting for about half a year. Now the problem with this was that neither of our parents really approved of the other person. We decided to ignore that and continued talking, without them knowing. As all relationships do, it began to become more physical, and basically, her mom stumbled across our NSFW texts and freaked out, threatening to tell my mom if I continued to talk to her. Now to most people, this wouldn't be too big of a threat, but my mom had been telling me for months to not date at the time and she threatened some things. (Before everyone starts hating on my mom, in hindsight, she was probably right about the timing thing) Long story short, we decided to break up and just be friends, as we felt that might be less risky. It's important to note that I've never cared this much about a girl before and I would do anything for her. Now her comes the fuck up. A month ago (2-3 months after the relationship had ended), I started to notice this other girl and my friends started egging me on to talk to her. Now, through the grapevine, the girl that I care about found out and now, she refuses to talk to me, telling me to "leave [her] alone". She's super fragile and has been depressed before and I really want to help her somehow, but I just don't know what else to do. I've told her how I feel about her and how much she means to me, but she's still ignoring me... Reddit, any help you have would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: A fantastic 6 month relationship ended 3 months ago, due to extenuating circumstances. I began noticing another girl; girl that I had relationship won't talk to me anymore and I still care about her a lot.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey guys. I've been a lurker on reddit and I've seen some good advice on this subreddit so I thought I'd give it a try. Anyways. At the beginning of this year (HS) I met this girl and we got along really well. We both sort of thought we had put each other in the friend zone, since we became so close so suddenly. We ended up bringing that fact up during a random conversation and we both confessed we had feelings for each other. The most amazing relationship I've ever had bloomed out of this, lasting for about half a year. Now the problem with this was that neither of our parents really approved of the other person. We decided to ignore that and continued talking, without them knowing. As all relationships do, it began to become more physical, and basically, her mom stumbled across our NSFW texts and freaked out, threatening to tell my mom if I continued to talk to her. Now to most people, this wouldn't be too big of a threat, but my mom had been telling me for months to not date at the time and she threatened some things. (Before everyone starts hating on my mom, in hindsight, she was probably right about the timing thing) Long story short, we decided to break up and just be friends, as we felt that might be less risky. It's important to note that I've never cared this much about a girl before and I would do anything for her. Now her comes the fuck up. A month ago (2-3 months after the relationship had ended), I started to notice this other girl and my friends started egging me on to talk to her. Now, through the grapevine, the girl that I care about found out and now, she refuses to talk to me, telling me to "leave [her] alone". She's super fragile and has been depressed before and I really want to help her somehow, but I just don't know what else to do. I've told her how I feel about her and how much she means to me, but she's still ignoring me... Reddit, any help you have would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: I really like a girl who was very close to me for about a year, but she had feelings for another girl that found out about our relationship (or so she claimed) and is now refusing to talk to me.<|endoftext|>

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We talk every so often but I wouldn't really say it's flirting (we flirt occasionally). And every party she goes to she always asks if I'm coming and is always asking about me to my other friend's. What's confusing is that she has had the same boyfriend on/off for 4 years. A few years back her friend's told me she considered "cheating" on him with me but she isn't that kind of girl. Normally I'd just let this situation play out but I've always thought of this girl as "the one." Just looking for some other input outside of my friends' constant responses of "she wants to bang." First Reddit post so sorry for any abnormalities! :)

20M wonders if a 20F (who is already in a relationship) has feelings for him

I'm confused about a friend's feelings towards me. What is she thinking?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We talk every so often but I wouldn't really say it's flirting (we flirt occasionally). And every party she goes to she always asks if I'm coming and is always asking about me to my other friend's. What's confusing is that she has had the same boyfriend on/off for 4 years. A few years back her friend's told me she considered "cheating" on him with me but she isn't that kind of girl. Normally I'd just let this situation play out but I've always thought of this girl as "the one." Just looking for some other input outside of my friends' constant responses of "she wants to bang." First Reddit post so sorry for any abnormalities! :) TL;DR:

20M wonders if a 20F (who is already in a relationship) has feelings for him<|endoftext|>

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I'm confused about a friend's feelings towards me. What is she thinking?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We talk every so often but I wouldn't really say it's flirting (we flirt occasionally). And every party she goes to she always asks if I'm coming and is always asking about me to my other friend's. What's confusing is that she has had the same boyfriend on/off for 4 years. A few years back her friend's told me she considered "cheating" on him with me but she isn't that kind of girl. Normally I'd just let this situation play out but I've always thought of this girl as "the one." Just looking for some other input outside of my friends' constant responses of "she wants to bang." First Reddit post so sorry for any abnormalities! :) TL;DR: 20M wonders if a 20F (who is already in a relationship) has feelings for him<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We talk every so often but I wouldn't really say it's flirting (we flirt occasionally). And every party she goes to she always asks if I'm coming and is always asking about me to my other friend's. What's confusing is that she has had the same boyfriend on/off for 4 years. A few years back her friend's told me she considered "cheating" on him with me but she isn't that kind of girl. Normally I'd just let this situation play out but I've always thought of this girl as "the one." Just looking for some other input outside of my friends' constant responses of "she wants to bang." First Reddit post so sorry for any abnormalities! :) TL;DR: I'm confused about a friend's feelings towards me. What is she thinking?<|endoftext|>

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i have been dating a girl since i was 16 and we broke up briefly for each of us going to college (she is one year younger) and in that time neither of us did anything sexual with another person. Anyway she is transferring and the topic of if we stay are to stay together came up. She asked me if i would be her friend and i told her honestly i cant be just her friend. so to this she said then we will stay together and that it felt like were were only friends now. (we are hours away now and only see each other ever few weeks.) additionally she is moving no further then before what should i do am i panicking for no reason is it just because she was my first serious girlfriend any advice is good advise

girlfriend referred to us as already being pretty much just friends and changed her decided she defiantly doesn't want to break up when i said it would most likely be the end of our friendship

girlfriend is acting like are only friends, tells me to be her friend for her sake

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: i have been dating a girl since i was 16 and we broke up briefly for each of us going to college (she is one year younger) and in that time neither of us did anything sexual with another person. Anyway she is transferring and the topic of if we stay are to stay together came up. She asked me if i would be her friend and i told her honestly i cant be just her friend. so to this she said then we will stay together and that it felt like were were only friends now. (we are hours away now and only see each other ever few weeks.) additionally she is moving no further then before what should i do am i panicking for no reason is it just because she was my first serious girlfriend any advice is good advise TL;DR:

girlfriend referred to us as already being pretty much just friends and changed her decided she defiantly doesn't want to break up when i said it would most likely be the end of our friendship<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: i have been dating a girl since i was 16 and we broke up briefly for each of us going to college (she is one year younger) and in that time neither of us did anything sexual with another person. Anyway she is transferring and the topic of if we stay are to stay together came up. She asked me if i would be her friend and i told her honestly i cant be just her friend. so to this she said then we will stay together and that it felt like were were only friends now. (we are hours away now and only see each other ever few weeks.) additionally she is moving no further then before what should i do am i panicking for no reason is it just because she was my first serious girlfriend any advice is good advise TL;DR: girlfriend referred to us as already being pretty much just friends and changed her decided she defiantly doesn't want to break up when i said it would most likely be the end of our friendship<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: i have been dating a girl since i was 16 and we broke up briefly for each of us going to college (she is one year younger) and in that time neither of us did anything sexual with another person. Anyway she is transferring and the topic of if we stay are to stay together came up. She asked me if i would be her friend and i told her honestly i cant be just her friend. so to this she said then we will stay together and that it felt like were were only friends now. (we are hours away now and only see each other ever few weeks.) additionally she is moving no further then before what should i do am i panicking for no reason is it just because she was my first serious girlfriend any advice is good advise TL;DR: girlfriend is acting like are only friends, tells me to be her friend for her sake<|endoftext|>

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Hey reddit, I just recently ruined a close relationship with 2 close friends and Im very lost in what to do. The girl and me had been friends for a couple months, I met her as she broke up with my other friend (A guy) and we became very close. We told each other everything and we always were strictly friendzone because we lived 5 hours away and neither of us ever tried to make it work. Fast forward to this past few days I was in her town for a sporting event and we spent the entire weekend together, and surely enough that magic moment happened and we kissed and eventually a bit further. My other friend (her ex) was also in town for the event and he said it didn't matter if I hung with her but after my hookup with her he found out through a friend and now he hates me for what happened, and she hates me because I promised it was between me and her but I had to tell him because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people.

I had a hookup with a girl who I had a close friendship with, then I promised that it was between me and her but I had to tell my friend because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people and now my friend hates

destroyed a close relationship with girl who was very close to both of us, find out what happened later and friend hates me because of it, what do I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey reddit, I just recently ruined a close relationship with 2 close friends and Im very lost in what to do. The girl and me had been friends for a couple months, I met her as she broke up with my other friend (A guy) and we became very close. We told each other everything and we always were strictly friendzone because we lived 5 hours away and neither of us ever tried to make it work. Fast forward to this past few days I was in her town for a sporting event and we spent the entire weekend together, and surely enough that magic moment happened and we kissed and eventually a bit further. My other friend (her ex) was also in town for the event and he said it didn't matter if I hung with her but after my hookup with her he found out through a friend and now he hates me for what happened, and she hates me because I promised it was between me and her but I had to tell him because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people. TL;DR:

I had a hookup with a girl who I had a close friendship with, then I promised that it was between me and her but I had to tell my friend because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people and now my friend hates<|endoftext|>

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destroyed a close relationship with girl who was very close to both of us, find out what happened later and friend hates me because of it, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey reddit, I just recently ruined a close relationship with 2 close friends and Im very lost in what to do. The girl and me had been friends for a couple months, I met her as she broke up with my other friend (A guy) and we became very close. We told each other everything and we always were strictly friendzone because we lived 5 hours away and neither of us ever tried to make it work. Fast forward to this past few days I was in her town for a sporting event and we spent the entire weekend together, and surely enough that magic moment happened and we kissed and eventually a bit further. My other friend (her ex) was also in town for the event and he said it didn't matter if I hung with her but after my hookup with her he found out through a friend and now he hates me for what happened, and she hates me because I promised it was between me and her but I had to tell him because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people. TL;DR: I had a hookup with a girl who I had a close friendship with, then I promised that it was between me and her but I had to tell my friend because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people and now my friend hates<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey reddit, I just recently ruined a close relationship with 2 close friends and Im very lost in what to do. The girl and me had been friends for a couple months, I met her as she broke up with my other friend (A guy) and we became very close. We told each other everything and we always were strictly friendzone because we lived 5 hours away and neither of us ever tried to make it work. Fast forward to this past few days I was in her town for a sporting event and we spent the entire weekend together, and surely enough that magic moment happened and we kissed and eventually a bit further. My other friend (her ex) was also in town for the event and he said it didn't matter if I hung with her but after my hookup with her he found out through a friend and now he hates me for what happened, and she hates me because I promised it was between me and her but I had to tell him because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people. TL;DR: destroyed a close relationship with girl who was very close to both of us, find out what happened later and friend hates me because of it, what do I do?<|endoftext|>

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It's only been a year and it feels like a month. We're still getting to know each other but have spent almost every day together upon meeting until the last couple months due to exams etc. Overall, our relationship is great. It dawned on me that it's been a year though and he sighed and said its barely anything and didn't think it wasnt a big deal but if we can go out to dinner if that'll make me happy. Wtf? he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary. Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt.

Boyfriend says our anniversary isn't significant, doesn't do anything romantic but I'm the only female in his life apart from his mother and cousins. What does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given?

boyfriend hasn't cared for our anniversary even though he knows we love each other and is the only female in his family apart from his mom and cousins. What does this mean?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It's only been a year and it feels like a month. We're still getting to know each other but have spent almost every day together upon meeting until the last couple months due to exams etc. Overall, our relationship is great. It dawned on me that it's been a year though and he sighed and said its barely anything and didn't think it wasnt a big deal but if we can go out to dinner if that'll make me happy. Wtf? he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary. Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt. TL;DR:

Boyfriend says our anniversary isn't significant, doesn't do anything romantic but I'm the only female in his life apart from his mother and cousins. What does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given?<|endoftext|>

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boyfriend hasn't cared for our anniversary even though he knows we love each other and is the only female in his family apart from his mom and cousins. What does this mean?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It's only been a year and it feels like a month. We're still getting to know each other but have spent almost every day together upon meeting until the last couple months due to exams etc. Overall, our relationship is great. It dawned on me that it's been a year though and he sighed and said its barely anything and didn't think it wasnt a big deal but if we can go out to dinner if that'll make me happy. Wtf? he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary. Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt. TL;DR: Boyfriend says our anniversary isn't significant, doesn't do anything romantic but I'm the only female in his life apart from his mother and cousins. What does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It's only been a year and it feels like a month. We're still getting to know each other but have spent almost every day together upon meeting until the last couple months due to exams etc. Overall, our relationship is great. It dawned on me that it's been a year though and he sighed and said its barely anything and didn't think it wasnt a big deal but if we can go out to dinner if that'll make me happy. Wtf? he always implies eventual marriage, says things like "in 10 years.." we haven't said I love yous yet for whatever reason, because he's terrible at communicating and doesn't do anything romantic anyways, but I'm virtually the only female in his life apart from his mom and cousins. I just don't get why he wouldn't care about our anniversary. Anyways what does this mean? Long term potential or lack of fucks given? I feel kind of hurt. TL;DR: boyfriend hasn't cared for our anniversary even though he knows we love each other and is the only female in his family apart from his mom and cousins. What does this mean?<|endoftext|>

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My fiance (21M) and I (20F) have been engaged for over a year now. We're both very young and in college, so we're not really looking to get married any time soon, but we're very sure about each other. Originally, we had planned to get the ring and do all the wedding planning after college because we'd be able to afford much better things then. However, lately my fiance has been itching to get a ring on my finger. We just started shopping for rings and I'm very lost with all this. We think we want a tanzanite ring (rather than primarily diamond) because the stone has a symbolic meaning to us, and I'm not comfortable with the diamond industry. Apart from having an idea of what looks pretty to us, I have no idea what to consider when buying a ring. We went to a couple jewelers and we found a ring we really like. It has a indigo colored oval tanzanite set between baguette and round diamond accents on a white gold band. At $3k USD, it doesn't seem particularly pricey for an engagement ring (I think?). I think if we wait to buy a ring until after getting settled post-graduation, we'd probably buy a more expensive one. (Is it a bad thing to buy a cheaper engagement ring?) However, we like this ring and we can afford to get it now and he's considering buying it now. Is it a good idea to go ahead and buy it, or should we shop around in case there's something better? Are tanzanite and white gold durable enough for an active lifestyle? What are some things that we should consider when ring shopping? (I know about the 5 Cs of diamond shopping, but does that even apply here?) Any advice would be appreciated.

Fiance and I are cluelessly shopping for non-diamond engagement ring, unsure whether we should buy it now or later. Help please!

Fiance and I are cluelessly shopping for non-diamond engagement ring. Want to buy it soon but unsure of its worthiness given time constraints. Help?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My fiance (21M) and I (20F) have been engaged for over a year now. We're both very young and in college, so we're not really looking to get married any time soon, but we're very sure about each other. Originally, we had planned to get the ring and do all the wedding planning after college because we'd be able to afford much better things then. However, lately my fiance has been itching to get a ring on my finger. We just started shopping for rings and I'm very lost with all this. We think we want a tanzanite ring (rather than primarily diamond) because the stone has a symbolic meaning to us, and I'm not comfortable with the diamond industry. Apart from having an idea of what looks pretty to us, I have no idea what to consider when buying a ring. We went to a couple jewelers and we found a ring we really like. It has a indigo colored oval tanzanite set between baguette and round diamond accents on a white gold band. At $3k USD, it doesn't seem particularly pricey for an engagement ring (I think?). I think if we wait to buy a ring until after getting settled post-graduation, we'd probably buy a more expensive one. (Is it a bad thing to buy a cheaper engagement ring?) However, we like this ring and we can afford to get it now and he's considering buying it now. Is it a good idea to go ahead and buy it, or should we shop around in case there's something better? Are tanzanite and white gold durable enough for an active lifestyle? What are some things that we should consider when ring shopping? (I know about the 5 Cs of diamond shopping, but does that even apply here?) Any advice would be appreciated. TL;DR:

Fiance and I are cluelessly shopping for non-diamond engagement ring, unsure whether we should buy it now or later. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My fiance (21M) and I (20F) have been engaged for over a year now. We're both very young and in college, so we're not really looking to get married any time soon, but we're very sure about each other. Originally, we had planned to get the ring and do all the wedding planning after college because we'd be able to afford much better things then. However, lately my fiance has been itching to get a ring on my finger. We just started shopping for rings and I'm very lost with all this. We think we want a tanzanite ring (rather than primarily diamond) because the stone has a symbolic meaning to us, and I'm not comfortable with the diamond industry. Apart from having an idea of what looks pretty to us, I have no idea what to consider when buying a ring. We went to a couple jewelers and we found a ring we really like. It has a indigo colored oval tanzanite set between baguette and round diamond accents on a white gold band. At $3k USD, it doesn't seem particularly pricey for an engagement ring (I think?). I think if we wait to buy a ring until after getting settled post-graduation, we'd probably buy a more expensive one. (Is it a bad thing to buy a cheaper engagement ring?) However, we like this ring and we can afford to get it now and he's considering buying it now. Is it a good idea to go ahead and buy it, or should we shop around in case there's something better? Are tanzanite and white gold durable enough for an active lifestyle? What are some things that we should consider when ring shopping? (I know about the 5 Cs of diamond shopping, but does that even apply here?) Any advice would be appreciated. TL;DR: Fiance and I are cluelessly shopping for non-diamond engagement ring, unsure whether we should buy it now or later. Help please!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My fiance (21M) and I (20F) have been engaged for over a year now. We're both very young and in college, so we're not really looking to get married any time soon, but we're very sure about each other. Originally, we had planned to get the ring and do all the wedding planning after college because we'd be able to afford much better things then. However, lately my fiance has been itching to get a ring on my finger. We just started shopping for rings and I'm very lost with all this. We think we want a tanzanite ring (rather than primarily diamond) because the stone has a symbolic meaning to us, and I'm not comfortable with the diamond industry. Apart from having an idea of what looks pretty to us, I have no idea what to consider when buying a ring. We went to a couple jewelers and we found a ring we really like. It has a indigo colored oval tanzanite set between baguette and round diamond accents on a white gold band. At $3k USD, it doesn't seem particularly pricey for an engagement ring (I think?). I think if we wait to buy a ring until after getting settled post-graduation, we'd probably buy a more expensive one. (Is it a bad thing to buy a cheaper engagement ring?) However, we like this ring and we can afford to get it now and he's considering buying it now. Is it a good idea to go ahead and buy it, or should we shop around in case there's something better? Are tanzanite and white gold durable enough for an active lifestyle? What are some things that we should consider when ring shopping? (I know about the 5 Cs of diamond shopping, but does that even apply here?) Any advice would be appreciated. TL;DR: Fiance and I are cluelessly shopping for non-diamond engagement ring. Want to buy it soon but unsure of its worthiness given time constraints. Help?<|endoftext|>

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So I'm a 22 year old virgin. Seriously, I think I'm pretty much the oldest virgin I know. I've had chances before to lose my virginity, but a rather conservative upbringing has held me back, thinking that it's more important to find the 'right person'. A recent discovery that my best friend had lost hers has pushed me over the edge. Now, it's 4 am in the morning, and all I can think about is how pathetic it is that I am the only virgin amongst all my friends. I am currently dating a really great guy. We've been seeing each other for an entire semester and unlike previous guys I've been with, he never pushes for anything on the intimate stuff. Despite appearances, he's a lot more sensitive and thoughtful than I originally expected, which is great, except we are going SUPER slow in the bedroom. Took him a month to take my bra off, and I initiate most of the 'moving forward', which is weird because he's had more relationships than I did and was very much sexually active with his latest ex. So I guess the most logical explanation is that he just wants to make sure that I am emotionally ready since I am the virgin. So yea, I did make an attempt. I am rather shy at it, and this took a lot of courage to start. We were both completely naked, and I whisper to him "do you have a condom?" His response "Gave my last one away to my friend weeks ago." Which is fine, except that was a few days ago and I still don't see any sign of a condom anywhere. So guys, what do I do? I don't wanna be too forward and get a condom myself or anything because that might make the whole 'not want to be a virgin' thing too obvious, and I also don't want to appear to be too desperate (even though I am FRICKING desperate). Is there a sly way I can talk to him about this without dumping the whole desperate thing in front of him? Ugh, any advice would be very much appreciated!!

My boyfriend doesn't seem to know what he's doing when it comes to sex... How do I tell him?

I'm a 22 year old virgin who is desperate to lose it. Not sure how to tell the guy I'm seeing that I would like it to be known that I'm not liking the sex.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm a 22 year old virgin. Seriously, I think I'm pretty much the oldest virgin I know. I've had chances before to lose my virginity, but a rather conservative upbringing has held me back, thinking that it's more important to find the 'right person'. A recent discovery that my best friend had lost hers has pushed me over the edge. Now, it's 4 am in the morning, and all I can think about is how pathetic it is that I am the only virgin amongst all my friends. I am currently dating a really great guy. We've been seeing each other for an entire semester and unlike previous guys I've been with, he never pushes for anything on the intimate stuff. Despite appearances, he's a lot more sensitive and thoughtful than I originally expected, which is great, except we are going SUPER slow in the bedroom. Took him a month to take my bra off, and I initiate most of the'moving forward', which is weird because he's had more relationships than I did and was very much sexually active with his latest ex. So I guess the most logical explanation is that he just wants to make sure that I am emotionally ready since I am the virgin. So yea, I did make an attempt. I am rather shy at it, and this took a lot of courage to start. We were both completely naked, and I whisper to him "do you have a condom?" His response "Gave my last one away to my friend weeks ago." Which is fine, except that was a few days ago and I still don't see any sign of a condom anywhere. So guys, what do I do? I don't wanna be too forward and get a condom myself or anything because that might make the whole 'not want to be a virgin' thing too obvious, and I also don't want to appear to be too desperate (even though I am FRICKING desperate). Is there a sly way I can talk to him about this without dumping the whole desperate thing in front of him? Ugh, any advice would be very much appreciated!! TL;DR:

My boyfriend doesn't seem to know what he's doing when it comes to sex... How do I tell him?<|endoftext|>

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I'm a 22 year old virgin who is desperate to lose it. Not sure how to tell the guy I'm seeing that I would like it to be known that I'm not liking the sex.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm a 22 year old virgin. Seriously, I think I'm pretty much the oldest virgin I know. I've had chances before to lose my virginity, but a rather conservative upbringing has held me back, thinking that it's more important to find the 'right person'. A recent discovery that my best friend had lost hers has pushed me over the edge. Now, it's 4 am in the morning, and all I can think about is how pathetic it is that I am the only virgin amongst all my friends. I am currently dating a really great guy. We've been seeing each other for an entire semester and unlike previous guys I've been with, he never pushes for anything on the intimate stuff. Despite appearances, he's a lot more sensitive and thoughtful than I originally expected, which is great, except we are going SUPER slow in the bedroom. Took him a month to take my bra off, and I initiate most of the'moving forward', which is weird because he's had more relationships than I did and was very much sexually active with his latest ex. So I guess the most logical explanation is that he just wants to make sure that I am emotionally ready since I am the virgin. So yea, I did make an attempt. I am rather shy at it, and this took a lot of courage to start. We were both completely naked, and I whisper to him "do you have a condom?" His response "Gave my last one away to my friend weeks ago." Which is fine, except that was a few days ago and I still don't see any sign of a condom anywhere. So guys, what do I do? I don't wanna be too forward and get a condom myself or anything because that might make the whole 'not want to be a virgin' thing too obvious, and I also don't want to appear to be too desperate (even though I am FRICKING desperate). Is there a sly way I can talk to him about this without dumping the whole desperate thing in front of him? Ugh, any advice would be very much appreciated!! TL;DR: My boyfriend doesn't seem to know what he's doing when it comes to sex... How do I tell him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm a 22 year old virgin. Seriously, I think I'm pretty much the oldest virgin I know. I've had chances before to lose my virginity, but a rather conservative upbringing has held me back, thinking that it's more important to find the 'right person'. A recent discovery that my best friend had lost hers has pushed me over the edge. Now, it's 4 am in the morning, and all I can think about is how pathetic it is that I am the only virgin amongst all my friends. I am currently dating a really great guy. We've been seeing each other for an entire semester and unlike previous guys I've been with, he never pushes for anything on the intimate stuff. Despite appearances, he's a lot more sensitive and thoughtful than I originally expected, which is great, except we are going SUPER slow in the bedroom. Took him a month to take my bra off, and I initiate most of the'moving forward', which is weird because he's had more relationships than I did and was very much sexually active with his latest ex. So I guess the most logical explanation is that he just wants to make sure that I am emotionally ready since I am the virgin. So yea, I did make an attempt. I am rather shy at it, and this took a lot of courage to start. We were both completely naked, and I whisper to him "do you have a condom?" His response "Gave my last one away to my friend weeks ago." Which is fine, except that was a few days ago and I still don't see any sign of a condom anywhere. So guys, what do I do? I don't wanna be too forward and get a condom myself or anything because that might make the whole 'not want to be a virgin' thing too obvious, and I also don't want to appear to be too desperate (even though I am FRICKING desperate). Is there a sly way I can talk to him about this without dumping the whole desperate thing in front of him? Ugh, any advice would be very much appreciated!! TL;DR: I'm a 22 year old virgin who is desperate to lose it. Not sure how to tell the guy I'm seeing that I would like it to be known that I'm not liking the sex.<|endoftext|>

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Two nights ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of several years after a year of living together. We separated after I realized and forced him to admit that he was just not into me and was being passive and shitty about it. I did the crying for a day thing, and today I felt tired but at peace. Now that night's closing in, I'm starting to wonder if I did the right thing. I know I did, and I can't count the ways in which he made me feel shitty or unwanted, or why this relationship just wasn't going to work. But now, I'm starting to question if I was stupid, if I caused this, what I did that made him uninterested, what I could've done right. My friends say these are normal questions and are part of the grieving process. So my question is, how do you get past this phase sanely and while maintaining NC? I don't want to email him, or call him, or text him, but I'm seeing how easy it might be because I feel so self-conscious over my decision.

I broke up with my boyfriend. Now I'm terrified of closure and am worried I did the wrong thing. How do I get through this?

Broke up with my long-term boyfriend, way too self-conscious to go into the details of my breakup. Need advice on how to get over this and being NC.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Two nights ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of several years after a year of living together. We separated after I realized and forced him to admit that he was just not into me and was being passive and shitty about it. I did the crying for a day thing, and today I felt tired but at peace. Now that night's closing in, I'm starting to wonder if I did the right thing. I know I did, and I can't count the ways in which he made me feel shitty or unwanted, or why this relationship just wasn't going to work. But now, I'm starting to question if I was stupid, if I caused this, what I did that made him uninterested, what I could've done right. My friends say these are normal questions and are part of the grieving process. So my question is, how do you get past this phase sanely and while maintaining NC? I don't want to email him, or call him, or text him, but I'm seeing how easy it might be because I feel so self-conscious over my decision. TL;DR:

I broke up with my boyfriend. Now I'm terrified of closure and am worried I did the wrong thing. How do I get through this?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Two nights ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of several years after a year of living together. We separated after I realized and forced him to admit that he was just not into me and was being passive and shitty about it. I did the crying for a day thing, and today I felt tired but at peace. Now that night's closing in, I'm starting to wonder if I did the right thing. I know I did, and I can't count the ways in which he made me feel shitty or unwanted, or why this relationship just wasn't going to work. But now, I'm starting to question if I was stupid, if I caused this, what I did that made him uninterested, what I could've done right. My friends say these are normal questions and are part of the grieving process. So my question is, how do you get past this phase sanely and while maintaining NC? I don't want to email him, or call him, or text him, but I'm seeing how easy it might be because I feel so self-conscious over my decision. TL;DR: I broke up with my boyfriend. Now I'm terrified of closure and am worried I did the wrong thing. How do I get through this?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Two nights ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of several years after a year of living together. We separated after I realized and forced him to admit that he was just not into me and was being passive and shitty about it. I did the crying for a day thing, and today I felt tired but at peace. Now that night's closing in, I'm starting to wonder if I did the right thing. I know I did, and I can't count the ways in which he made me feel shitty or unwanted, or why this relationship just wasn't going to work. But now, I'm starting to question if I was stupid, if I caused this, what I did that made him uninterested, what I could've done right. My friends say these are normal questions and are part of the grieving process. So my question is, how do you get past this phase sanely and while maintaining NC? I don't want to email him, or call him, or text him, but I'm seeing how easy it might be because I feel so self-conscious over my decision. TL;DR: Broke up with my long-term boyfriend, way too self-conscious to go into the details of my breakup. Need advice on how to get over this and being NC.<|endoftext|>

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Bear with me, this is a little long. Ok! So I'm [23F]new to Reddit but my boyfriend [26M] has been on here for years. I was looking through his overview to find little things to possibly poke fun at him for (like silly replies, truly innocent stuff) when I saw something be posted with the title "I [25M] saw the girl [25F] who I had a crush on in highschool yesterday" now I'm shaking at this point, and I click it. The original post is gone along with a comment of his but the replies are along the lines of "text her and ask her out, what's the worst that could happen" to which he responded "texting away as we speak I appreciate the response!" Other people are saying "let us know what happens OP!" It said it was from 1 year ago (we have been officially dating for around a year and a half with at least 9 months before that where he was kind of dicking me around and playing head games with me). So I ask him what the fuck is this post? Right off the batC he says "nothing happened" and tried to say I was being crazy for being in his Reddit. I start to cry and then he says we (me and him) weren't together (wrong), then it was we(him and her) were just texting saying hey, I don't remember where I even saw her, I don't remember, I don't remember. Ok now as you can imagine I'm livid. After all that, he changes his story and says he made the ENTIRE post up because he felt like he needed to post something and was bored. Said he lied about the initial lies because saying he made it up sounded dumb and desperate. If you were me, WTF would you do/what do you believe?

My boyfriend made up a post on Reddit about me, told me it was from 2 years ago, now he claims he was just bored. What do you believe?

Reddit said I had a crush on him, he lied about it and lied about it, for a year and a half, then said we were texting talking about it but he didn't remember where he saw her.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Bear with me, this is a little long. Ok! So I'm [23F]new to Reddit but my boyfriend [26M] has been on here for years. I was looking through his overview to find little things to possibly poke fun at him for (like silly replies, truly innocent stuff) when I saw something be posted with the title "I [25M] saw the girl [25F] who I had a crush on in highschool yesterday" now I'm shaking at this point, and I click it. The original post is gone along with a comment of his but the replies are along the lines of "text her and ask her out, what's the worst that could happen" to which he responded "texting away as we speak I appreciate the response!" Other people are saying "let us know what happens OP!" It said it was from 1 year ago (we have been officially dating for around a year and a half with at least 9 months before that where he was kind of dicking me around and playing head games with me). So I ask him what the fuck is this post? Right off the batC he says "nothing happened" and tried to say I was being crazy for being in his Reddit. I start to cry and then he says we (me and him) weren't together (wrong), then it was we(him and her) were just texting saying hey, I don't remember where I even saw her, I don't remember, I don't remember. Ok now as you can imagine I'm livid. After all that, he changes his story and says he made the ENTIRE post up because he felt like he needed to post something and was bored. Said he lied about the initial lies because saying he made it up sounded dumb and desperate. If you were me, WTF would you do/what do you believe? TL;DR:

My boyfriend made up a post on Reddit about me, told me it was from 2 years ago, now he claims he was just bored. What do you believe?<|endoftext|>

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Reddit said I had a crush on him, he lied about it and lied about it, for a year and a half, then said we were texting talking about it but he didn't remember where he saw her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Bear with me, this is a little long. Ok! So I'm [23F]new to Reddit but my boyfriend [26M] has been on here for years. I was looking through his overview to find little things to possibly poke fun at him for (like silly replies, truly innocent stuff) when I saw something be posted with the title "I [25M] saw the girl [25F] who I had a crush on in highschool yesterday" now I'm shaking at this point, and I click it. The original post is gone along with a comment of his but the replies are along the lines of "text her and ask her out, what's the worst that could happen" to which he responded "texting away as we speak I appreciate the response!" Other people are saying "let us know what happens OP!" It said it was from 1 year ago (we have been officially dating for around a year and a half with at least 9 months before that where he was kind of dicking me around and playing head games with me). So I ask him what the fuck is this post? Right off the batC he says "nothing happened" and tried to say I was being crazy for being in his Reddit. I start to cry and then he says we (me and him) weren't together (wrong), then it was we(him and her) were just texting saying hey, I don't remember where I even saw her, I don't remember, I don't remember. Ok now as you can imagine I'm livid. After all that, he changes his story and says he made the ENTIRE post up because he felt like he needed to post something and was bored. Said he lied about the initial lies because saying he made it up sounded dumb and desperate. If you were me, WTF would you do/what do you believe? TL;DR: My boyfriend made up a post on Reddit about me, told me it was from 2 years ago, now he claims he was just bored. What do you believe?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Bear with me, this is a little long. Ok! So I'm [23F]new to Reddit but my boyfriend [26M] has been on here for years. I was looking through his overview to find little things to possibly poke fun at him for (like silly replies, truly innocent stuff) when I saw something be posted with the title "I [25M] saw the girl [25F] who I had a crush on in highschool yesterday" now I'm shaking at this point, and I click it. The original post is gone along with a comment of his but the replies are along the lines of "text her and ask her out, what's the worst that could happen" to which he responded "texting away as we speak I appreciate the response!" Other people are saying "let us know what happens OP!" It said it was from 1 year ago (we have been officially dating for around a year and a half with at least 9 months before that where he was kind of dicking me around and playing head games with me). So I ask him what the fuck is this post? Right off the batC he says "nothing happened" and tried to say I was being crazy for being in his Reddit. I start to cry and then he says we (me and him) weren't together (wrong), then it was we(him and her) were just texting saying hey, I don't remember where I even saw her, I don't remember, I don't remember. Ok now as you can imagine I'm livid. After all that, he changes his story and says he made the ENTIRE post up because he felt like he needed to post something and was bored. Said he lied about the initial lies because saying he made it up sounded dumb and desperate. If you were me, WTF would you do/what do you believe? TL;DR: Reddit said I had a crush on him, he lied about it and lied about it, for a year and a half, then said we were texting talking about it but he didn't remember where he saw her.<|endoftext|>

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Over the past 5 years I have noticed that my older sister has started changing- for the worse (in my opinion). Every family function is about her. If the conversation does not involve her or her accomplishments she seems to tune us out and plays with her phone. She never asks questions or seems interested in the things me and my younger sister do. Recently, the addition of her new boyfriend has been making it harder on our relationship as she seems to put him far before her family. An example would be that I came home to visit, the first time in 4 months, but instead of being able to hang out with me she had to go to her boyfriends cousins birthday party.. Perhaps she doesn't make time for my sister and I because this is her first boyfriend, but I am sure she would act the same if she wasn't dating him. Also she does things to attract attention to herself. During our trip over the holidays, she left family brunch to call her boyfriend and came back in the room to finish her conversation so people would be forced to ask about him, even though he had already been brought up in conversations before then. This seemed very rude and I felt slightly embarrassed for her as this seemed like such a desperate act for attention. Also, she treats me and my sister like her daughters. This becomes very embarrassing for us when we're at family functions because it's degrading and disrespectful, I am 23 not a child. I am not one to cut ties with someone so I find myself struggling to keep our relationship going. I'll text her every once in a while, but she only answers when it's regarding something of interest to her. When I come home, I ask questions about her life because I am genuinely interested but also polite. Maybe my life is boring compared to hers but it would be nice to feel like she cared. I want to explain this to her but am not sure how. I don't want us to become estranged or resent each other. How can I approach her about this issue? Sorry if I rambled or didn't include enough specific examples, I can answer questions if you have any!

Older sister has been becoming more and more distant. She puts me and my sister in the corner, invites her boyfriend to family functions, and treats me and my sister like her daughters. I feel like she doesn't care about us anymore. How can I tell her this without making her feel she has to choose between me and her boyfriend?

Sister is becoming more distant and I am having trouble keeping our relationship strong.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Over the past 5 years I have noticed that my older sister has started changing- for the worse (in my opinion). Every family function is about her. If the conversation does not involve her or her accomplishments she seems to tune us out and plays with her phone. She never asks questions or seems interested in the things me and my younger sister do. Recently, the addition of her new boyfriend has been making it harder on our relationship as she seems to put him far before her family. An example would be that I came home to visit, the first time in 4 months, but instead of being able to hang out with me she had to go to her boyfriends cousins birthday party.. Perhaps she doesn't make time for my sister and I because this is her first boyfriend, but I am sure she would act the same if she wasn't dating him. Also she does things to attract attention to herself. During our trip over the holidays, she left family brunch to call her boyfriend and came back in the room to finish her conversation so people would be forced to ask about him, even though he had already been brought up in conversations before then. This seemed very rude and I felt slightly embarrassed for her as this seemed like such a desperate act for attention. Also, she treats me and my sister like her daughters. This becomes very embarrassing for us when we're at family functions because it's degrading and disrespectful, I am 23 not a child. I am not one to cut ties with someone so I find myself struggling to keep our relationship going. I'll text her every once in a while, but she only answers when it's regarding something of interest to her. When I come home, I ask questions about her life because I am genuinely interested but also polite. Maybe my life is boring compared to hers but it would be nice to feel like she cared. I want to explain this to her but am not sure how. I don't want us to become estranged or resent each other. How can I approach her about this issue? Sorry if I rambled or didn't include enough specific examples, I can answer questions if you have any! TL;DR:

Older sister has been becoming more and more distant. She puts me and my sister in the corner, invites her boyfriend to family functions, and treats me and my sister like her daughters. I feel like she doesn't care about us anymore. How can I tell her this without making her feel she has to choose between me and her boyfriend?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Over the past 5 years I have noticed that my older sister has started changing- for the worse (in my opinion). Every family function is about her. If the conversation does not involve her or her accomplishments she seems to tune us out and plays with her phone. She never asks questions or seems interested in the things me and my younger sister do. Recently, the addition of her new boyfriend has been making it harder on our relationship as she seems to put him far before her family. An example would be that I came home to visit, the first time in 4 months, but instead of being able to hang out with me she had to go to her boyfriends cousins birthday party.. Perhaps she doesn't make time for my sister and I because this is her first boyfriend, but I am sure she would act the same if she wasn't dating him. Also she does things to attract attention to herself. During our trip over the holidays, she left family brunch to call her boyfriend and came back in the room to finish her conversation so people would be forced to ask about him, even though he had already been brought up in conversations before then. This seemed very rude and I felt slightly embarrassed for her as this seemed like such a desperate act for attention. Also, she treats me and my sister like her daughters. This becomes very embarrassing for us when we're at family functions because it's degrading and disrespectful, I am 23 not a child. I am not one to cut ties with someone so I find myself struggling to keep our relationship going. I'll text her every once in a while, but she only answers when it's regarding something of interest to her. When I come home, I ask questions about her life because I am genuinely interested but also polite. Maybe my life is boring compared to hers but it would be nice to feel like she cared. I want to explain this to her but am not sure how. I don't want us to become estranged or resent each other. How can I approach her about this issue? Sorry if I rambled or didn't include enough specific examples, I can answer questions if you have any! TL;DR: Older sister has been becoming more and more distant. She puts me and my sister in the corner, invites her boyfriend to family functions, and treats me and my sister like her daughters. I feel like she doesn't care about us anymore. How can I tell her this without making her feel she has to choose between me and her boyfriend?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Over the past 5 years I have noticed that my older sister has started changing- for the worse (in my opinion). Every family function is about her. If the conversation does not involve her or her accomplishments she seems to tune us out and plays with her phone. She never asks questions or seems interested in the things me and my younger sister do. Recently, the addition of her new boyfriend has been making it harder on our relationship as she seems to put him far before her family. An example would be that I came home to visit, the first time in 4 months, but instead of being able to hang out with me she had to go to her boyfriends cousins birthday party.. Perhaps she doesn't make time for my sister and I because this is her first boyfriend, but I am sure she would act the same if she wasn't dating him. Also she does things to attract attention to herself. During our trip over the holidays, she left family brunch to call her boyfriend and came back in the room to finish her conversation so people would be forced to ask about him, even though he had already been brought up in conversations before then. This seemed very rude and I felt slightly embarrassed for her as this seemed like such a desperate act for attention. Also, she treats me and my sister like her daughters. This becomes very embarrassing for us when we're at family functions because it's degrading and disrespectful, I am 23 not a child. I am not one to cut ties with someone so I find myself struggling to keep our relationship going. I'll text her every once in a while, but she only answers when it's regarding something of interest to her. When I come home, I ask questions about her life because I am genuinely interested but also polite. Maybe my life is boring compared to hers but it would be nice to feel like she cared. I want to explain this to her but am not sure how. I don't want us to become estranged or resent each other. How can I approach her about this issue? Sorry if I rambled or didn't include enough specific examples, I can answer questions if you have any! TL;DR: Sister is becoming more distant and I am having trouble keeping our relationship strong.<|endoftext|>

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A little background.. I am 24, a sophomore at Georgia Gwinnett College. I currently work at Home Depot. I am ready to leave Home Depot, but I have been looking for jobs online without much luck. I had my resume revised by the career center at my college and they said it was impressive, especially for the time and what I have done in the past (which are various jobs with my 6+ years at Home Depot). I understand that the job market is pretty tough right now, so I am sticking through as long as I can. But today I realized that Home Depot is NOT the place for me anymore and I am ready to try something new, that is not retail. Side tracked here: I were these stupid badges that say I speak Spanish, Portuguese and French on my apron at work. A lady was asking me how I know how to speak all those langauges, and then she tested me (She was from Haiti, and we have a full blown converstation in French.) and asked me "Why, someone like me that knows multiple languages, is stuck working at Home Depot?" That's where I started to wonder that I can use my skill at something a little less "retaily" and something with better pay. Back to my story.. I know that I am going to do great things in my life considering that I am going to school maintaining at 3.81 GPA in International Business **and** Finance. I want to prove that I can do it, and that I will be succesful in life, and I cannot do that at Home Depot. So AskReddit, what options do I have so that I can take my career to the next level where I know I can be at? and just in case...

I am 24, a sophomore at Georgia Gwinnett College, and I do not have a single job offer. What can I do to improve my chances of getting a decent job in my field?

I have been working at Home Depot for the past four months and haven't received a single job offer for my current job. What can I do to improve my chances?

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I am 24, a sophomore at Georgia Gwinnett College, and I do not have a single job offer. What can I do to improve my chances of getting a decent job in my field?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A little background.. I am 24, a sophomore at Georgia Gwinnett College. I currently work at Home Depot. I am ready to leave Home Depot, but I have been looking for jobs online without much luck. I had my resume revised by the career center at my college and they said it was impressive, especially for the time and what I have done in the past (which are various jobs with my 6+ years at Home Depot). I understand that the job market is pretty tough right now, so I am sticking through as long as I can. But today I realized that Home Depot is NOT the place for me anymore and I am ready to try something new, that is not retail. Side tracked here: I were these stupid badges that say I speak Spanish, Portuguese and French on my apron at work. A lady was asking me how I know how to speak all those langauges, and then she tested me (She was from Haiti, and we have a full blown converstation in French.) and asked me "Why, someone like me that knows multiple languages, is stuck working at Home Depot?" That's where I started to wonder that I can use my skill at something a little less "retaily" and something with better pay. Back to my story.. I know that I am going to do great things in my life considering that I am going to school maintaining at 3.81 GPA in International Business **and** Finance. I want to prove that I can do it, and that I will be succesful in life, and I cannot do that at Home Depot. So AskReddit, what options do I have so that I can take my career to the next level where I know I can be at? and just in case... TL;DR: I have been working at Home Depot for the past four months and haven't received a single job offer for my current job. What can I do to improve my chances?<|endoftext|>

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Been with my gf of 11 months, I love her and things are going well, but she has her fair share of idiosyncrasies that often get on my nerves but are nevertheless tolerable. I have not really thought about if I want to take things very long term or not and am undecided on that topic. Her devotion and loyalty to me is unquestionable. I recently met somebody that, for the first time in my current relationship, has me completely infatuated and second thinking whether or not I want to stay with my current gf. Should I dismiss any lingering thoughts about this new girl and maintain my loyalty to my gf? Should I hit the 1 Year mark but get to know this new girl gradually without crossing any lines? Should I break up before the 1 year mark so she may cut her losses and I don't waste each other's time? I feel that hitting the 1 year mark will get her hopes up about taking things really long term, but I am unsure as to how I will be feeling about this new girl if I continue to get to know her over the next month.

Have been in a relationship for 11 months, love her and am unsure as to whether or not to continue for another year, should I break up before the 1 year mark or distance myself from her?

Should I stick it out with gf until the 1 year mark or continue to feel for her but risk it all being over before or after that deadline?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Been with my gf of 11 months, I love her and things are going well, but she has her fair share of idiosyncrasies that often get on my nerves but are nevertheless tolerable. I have not really thought about if I want to take things very long term or not and am undecided on that topic. Her devotion and loyalty to me is unquestionable. I recently met somebody that, for the first time in my current relationship, has me completely infatuated and second thinking whether or not I want to stay with my current gf. Should I dismiss any lingering thoughts about this new girl and maintain my loyalty to my gf? Should I hit the 1 Year mark but get to know this new girl gradually without crossing any lines? Should I break up before the 1 year mark so she may cut her losses and I don't waste each other's time? I feel that hitting the 1 year mark will get her hopes up about taking things really long term, but I am unsure as to how I will be feeling about this new girl if I continue to get to know her over the next month. TL;DR:

Have been in a relationship for 11 months, love her and am unsure as to whether or not to continue for another year, should I break up before the 1 year mark or distance myself from her?<|endoftext|>

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Should I stick it out with gf until the 1 year mark or continue to feel for her but risk it all being over before or after that deadline?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Been with my gf of 11 months, I love her and things are going well, but she has her fair share of idiosyncrasies that often get on my nerves but are nevertheless tolerable. I have not really thought about if I want to take things very long term or not and am undecided on that topic. Her devotion and loyalty to me is unquestionable. I recently met somebody that, for the first time in my current relationship, has me completely infatuated and second thinking whether or not I want to stay with my current gf. Should I dismiss any lingering thoughts about this new girl and maintain my loyalty to my gf? Should I hit the 1 Year mark but get to know this new girl gradually without crossing any lines? Should I break up before the 1 year mark so she may cut her losses and I don't waste each other's time? I feel that hitting the 1 year mark will get her hopes up about taking things really long term, but I am unsure as to how I will be feeling about this new girl if I continue to get to know her over the next month. TL;DR: Have been in a relationship for 11 months, love her and am unsure as to whether or not to continue for another year, should I break up before the 1 year mark or distance myself from her?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Been with my gf of 11 months, I love her and things are going well, but she has her fair share of idiosyncrasies that often get on my nerves but are nevertheless tolerable. I have not really thought about if I want to take things very long term or not and am undecided on that topic. Her devotion and loyalty to me is unquestionable. I recently met somebody that, for the first time in my current relationship, has me completely infatuated and second thinking whether or not I want to stay with my current gf. Should I dismiss any lingering thoughts about this new girl and maintain my loyalty to my gf? Should I hit the 1 Year mark but get to know this new girl gradually without crossing any lines? Should I break up before the 1 year mark so she may cut her losses and I don't waste each other's time? I feel that hitting the 1 year mark will get her hopes up about taking things really long term, but I am unsure as to how I will be feeling about this new girl if I continue to get to know her over the next month. TL;DR: Should I stick it out with gf until the 1 year mark or continue to feel for her but risk it all being over before or after that deadline?<|endoftext|>

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Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. >Early 2014 >Started dating a pretty girl, she was my first gf and I was her first bf >We were happy and uncertain about showing up our relationship >She loved me so much >I met a girl(F17), she seduces me a bit >Gf started pressing me because I was being so much a Beta >I got really confused so I broke up >Started dating the 17 years old girl >We had good times but I didn't love her >She loved me hard too (Girls these days...) >I noticed I actually still loved my ex >Current gf started being annoying >Broked up with her >Now I'm alone thinking about my ex-ex >I've been a idiot with her What could I do to get her back? CAN'T TAKE HER OFF MY HEAD

I broke up with her because of another girl, now I broke up with this other girl because I noticed that I love my ex. What should I do?

I broke up with my gf and I want her back, what should I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. >Early 2014 >Started dating a pretty girl, she was my first gf and I was her first bf >We were happy and uncertain about showing up our relationship >She loved me so much >I met a girl(F17), she seduces me a bit >Gf started pressing me because I was being so much a Beta >I got really confused so I broke up >Started dating the 17 years old girl >We had good times but I didn't love her >She loved me hard too (Girls these days...) >I noticed I actually still loved my ex >Current gf started being annoying >Broked up with her >Now I'm alone thinking about my ex-ex >I've been a idiot with her What could I do to get her back? CAN'T TAKE HER OFF MY HEAD TL;DR:

I broke up with her because of another girl, now I broke up with this other girl because I noticed that I love my ex. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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I broke up with my gf and I want her back, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. >Early 2014 >Started dating a pretty girl, she was my first gf and I was her first bf >We were happy and uncertain about showing up our relationship >She loved me so much >I met a girl(F17), she seduces me a bit >Gf started pressing me because I was being so much a Beta >I got really confused so I broke up >Started dating the 17 years old girl >We had good times but I didn't love her >She loved me hard too (Girls these days...) >I noticed I actually still loved my ex >Current gf started being annoying >Broked up with her >Now I'm alone thinking about my ex-ex >I've been a idiot with her What could I do to get her back? CAN'T TAKE HER OFF MY HEAD TL;DR: I broke up with her because of another girl, now I broke up with this other girl because I noticed that I love my ex. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. >Early 2014 >Started dating a pretty girl, she was my first gf and I was her first bf >We were happy and uncertain about showing up our relationship >She loved me so much >I met a girl(F17), she seduces me a bit >Gf started pressing me because I was being so much a Beta >I got really confused so I broke up >Started dating the 17 years old girl >We had good times but I didn't love her >She loved me hard too (Girls these days...) >I noticed I actually still loved my ex >Current gf started being annoying >Broked up with her >Now I'm alone thinking about my ex-ex >I've been a idiot with her What could I do to get her back? CAN'T TAKE HER OFF MY HEAD TL;DR: I broke up with my gf and I want her back, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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My bf of 3 months suffers from premature ejaculation where he cums after 1 minute of penetration. I have gotten really sexually frustrated over the few months. Two days ago we had sex where he lasted less than a minute and I got really upset and said "you came already??" and basically started questioning why he can't just train himself to hold out longer. He quickly became really reserved and told me he isn't in the mood. He then told me that he's busy and wants me to leave. I got even more pissed that he wanted to kick me out after sex so I stormed out. And right after that he blocked me on Facebook and my phone number. I am feeling absolutely disgusted with myself. I definitely hurt him and I feel like a horrible person... I think I got mad in the moment. I want to get back together but not sure if I should even reach out to him or play the waiting game. I still have this Twitter account to contact him.

My bf of 3 months suffers from premature ejaculation. I got mad at him for it and he blocked me on all social media. I feel like a horrible person.

I told my bf he came too soon in the bedroom, he blocked me, and I feel like a horrible person.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My bf of 3 months suffers from premature ejaculation where he cums after 1 minute of penetration. I have gotten really sexually frustrated over the few months. Two days ago we had sex where he lasted less than a minute and I got really upset and said "you came already??" and basically started questioning why he can't just train himself to hold out longer. He quickly became really reserved and told me he isn't in the mood. He then told me that he's busy and wants me to leave. I got even more pissed that he wanted to kick me out after sex so I stormed out. And right after that he blocked me on Facebook and my phone number. I am feeling absolutely disgusted with myself. I definitely hurt him and I feel like a horrible person... I think I got mad in the moment. I want to get back together but not sure if I should even reach out to him or play the waiting game. I still have this Twitter account to contact him. TL;DR:

My bf of 3 months suffers from premature ejaculation. I got mad at him for it and he blocked me on all social media. I feel like a horrible person.<|endoftext|>

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I told my bf he came too soon in the bedroom, he blocked me, and I feel like a horrible person.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My bf of 3 months suffers from premature ejaculation where he cums after 1 minute of penetration. I have gotten really sexually frustrated over the few months. Two days ago we had sex where he lasted less than a minute and I got really upset and said "you came already??" and basically started questioning why he can't just train himself to hold out longer. He quickly became really reserved and told me he isn't in the mood. He then told me that he's busy and wants me to leave. I got even more pissed that he wanted to kick me out after sex so I stormed out. And right after that he blocked me on Facebook and my phone number. I am feeling absolutely disgusted with myself. I definitely hurt him and I feel like a horrible person... I think I got mad in the moment. I want to get back together but not sure if I should even reach out to him or play the waiting game. I still have this Twitter account to contact him. TL;DR: My bf of 3 months suffers from premature ejaculation. I got mad at him for it and he blocked me on all social media. I feel like a horrible person.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My bf of 3 months suffers from premature ejaculation where he cums after 1 minute of penetration. I have gotten really sexually frustrated over the few months. Two days ago we had sex where he lasted less than a minute and I got really upset and said "you came already??" and basically started questioning why he can't just train himself to hold out longer. He quickly became really reserved and told me he isn't in the mood. He then told me that he's busy and wants me to leave. I got even more pissed that he wanted to kick me out after sex so I stormed out. And right after that he blocked me on Facebook and my phone number. I am feeling absolutely disgusted with myself. I definitely hurt him and I feel like a horrible person... I think I got mad in the moment. I want to get back together but not sure if I should even reach out to him or play the waiting game. I still have this Twitter account to contact him. TL;DR: I told my bf he came too soon in the bedroom, he blocked me, and I feel like a horrible person.<|endoftext|>

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My friend's mum is about to lose a long battle with cancer. It's been a long road and my friend is obviously devastated, but she's putting on a brave face, and at this point I think she's ready for it to be over. Before she knew the timing of her mum's death, she booked to go on a holiday with us all, (we're leaving on Friday for a week), so it's not unlikely that it will happen whilst we are away. She's talked to her dad about it and because of the condition her mum is in, she'd rather be on holiday with us having fun than sitting at home waiting for the inevitable. We'll be staying near an airport that has return flights back every hour so she can be home within six hours if the worst does happen. So we're prepared to help her with the practical things, we know how to get her to the airport and we've all been keeping an eye on flights and costs, but I'd like advice regarding the more emotional aspects. How can I emotionally support her during this time? She'll be with her boyfriend who is awesome, but he's been supporting her through this whole ordeal and I think it's taken more of a toll on him than he is letting on. All and any advice would be much appreciated, I've never experienced this before and I'd like to avoid mucking it up!

Friend's mum is going to die soon, will need emotional support, all advice welcome!

My friend's mum is about to die, and I haven't a clue what to say or how to act around her.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend's mum is about to lose a long battle with cancer. It's been a long road and my friend is obviously devastated, but she's putting on a brave face, and at this point I think she's ready for it to be over. Before she knew the timing of her mum's death, she booked to go on a holiday with us all, (we're leaving on Friday for a week), so it's not unlikely that it will happen whilst we are away. She's talked to her dad about it and because of the condition her mum is in, she'd rather be on holiday with us having fun than sitting at home waiting for the inevitable. We'll be staying near an airport that has return flights back every hour so she can be home within six hours if the worst does happen. So we're prepared to help her with the practical things, we know how to get her to the airport and we've all been keeping an eye on flights and costs, but I'd like advice regarding the more emotional aspects. How can I emotionally support her during this time? She'll be with her boyfriend who is awesome, but he's been supporting her through this whole ordeal and I think it's taken more of a toll on him than he is letting on. All and any advice would be much appreciated, I've never experienced this before and I'd like to avoid mucking it up! TL;DR:

Friend's mum is going to die soon, will need emotional support, all advice welcome!<|endoftext|>

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My friend's mum is about to die, and I haven't a clue what to say or how to act around her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend's mum is about to lose a long battle with cancer. It's been a long road and my friend is obviously devastated, but she's putting on a brave face, and at this point I think she's ready for it to be over. Before she knew the timing of her mum's death, she booked to go on a holiday with us all, (we're leaving on Friday for a week), so it's not unlikely that it will happen whilst we are away. She's talked to her dad about it and because of the condition her mum is in, she'd rather be on holiday with us having fun than sitting at home waiting for the inevitable. We'll be staying near an airport that has return flights back every hour so she can be home within six hours if the worst does happen. So we're prepared to help her with the practical things, we know how to get her to the airport and we've all been keeping an eye on flights and costs, but I'd like advice regarding the more emotional aspects. How can I emotionally support her during this time? She'll be with her boyfriend who is awesome, but he's been supporting her through this whole ordeal and I think it's taken more of a toll on him than he is letting on. All and any advice would be much appreciated, I've never experienced this before and I'd like to avoid mucking it up! TL;DR: Friend's mum is going to die soon, will need emotional support, all advice welcome!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My friend's mum is about to lose a long battle with cancer. It's been a long road and my friend is obviously devastated, but she's putting on a brave face, and at this point I think she's ready for it to be over. Before she knew the timing of her mum's death, she booked to go on a holiday with us all, (we're leaving on Friday for a week), so it's not unlikely that it will happen whilst we are away. She's talked to her dad about it and because of the condition her mum is in, she'd rather be on holiday with us having fun than sitting at home waiting for the inevitable. We'll be staying near an airport that has return flights back every hour so she can be home within six hours if the worst does happen. So we're prepared to help her with the practical things, we know how to get her to the airport and we've all been keeping an eye on flights and costs, but I'd like advice regarding the more emotional aspects. How can I emotionally support her during this time? She'll be with her boyfriend who is awesome, but he's been supporting her through this whole ordeal and I think it's taken more of a toll on him than he is letting on. All and any advice would be much appreciated, I've never experienced this before and I'd like to avoid mucking it up! TL;DR: My friend's mum is about to die, and I haven't a clue what to say or how to act around her.<|endoftext|>

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I'm at lost of what to do and I truly, truly need advice or just to vent. My GF and I have been dating for 8 years, ever since High School. She was my first, but she's dated other guys before me. We even went to the same university together. We both loved each other very much, or at least I loved her very much and still do. I've been struggling with depression and anxiety for a past few months, and my GF was the only thing that provided me with some happiness in this cold, dark, joyless world... Because of that I've been demanding more attention from her and I was being clingy. We've had rough patches in the past, but we always worked it out and I always believed that our relationship was stronger than ever. Today, we were having a talk about my issues, and I asked her to be completely honest on how she feels. She told me for a while now, she's been wondering what it's like to date other guys, but she's been trying her best to keep that thought away because of how guilty she feels. She said I'm such a great boyfriend to her, and I treat her really well, and she's worried that she'll never be with someone like me. She says she's afraid she'll regret it. I was shocked and a bit hurt. But I didn't hold it against her. I'm sure many people in healthy and strong relationships at one point wondered about what it's like to date other people. But as the conversation went on, she reached the conclusion that she **wanted** to date other people. She wanted to experience what it's like to be with other guys, and she emphasized that it was not for sexual reasons. This was like a knife that cut deep into my heart. She told me to give her 2 weeks to think it through with **NO CONTACT** because she wants to make sure what she was thinking was correct, but the anxiety is already killing me. What should I do? Where did I go wrong?

My GF wants to date other people. I'm hurt and confused, and I'm not sure what to do. I'm looking for advice on how to deal with this.

My GF wanted to date other guys for a while, and today she told me that she wants to date other guys. I'm crushed. She doesn't know how to take care of me and I'm wondering how to move forward.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm at lost of what to do and I truly, truly need advice or just to vent. My GF and I have been dating for 8 years, ever since High School. She was my first, but she's dated other guys before me. We even went to the same university together. We both loved each other very much, or at least I loved her very much and still do. I've been struggling with depression and anxiety for a past few months, and my GF was the only thing that provided me with some happiness in this cold, dark, joyless world... Because of that I've been demanding more attention from her and I was being clingy. We've had rough patches in the past, but we always worked it out and I always believed that our relationship was stronger than ever. Today, we were having a talk about my issues, and I asked her to be completely honest on how she feels. She told me for a while now, she's been wondering what it's like to date other guys, but she's been trying her best to keep that thought away because of how guilty she feels. She said I'm such a great boyfriend to her, and I treat her really well, and she's worried that she'll never be with someone like me. She says she's afraid she'll regret it. I was shocked and a bit hurt. But I didn't hold it against her. I'm sure many people in healthy and strong relationships at one point wondered about what it's like to date other people. But as the conversation went on, she reached the conclusion that she **wanted** to date other people. She wanted to experience what it's like to be with other guys, and she emphasized that it was not for sexual reasons. This was like a knife that cut deep into my heart. She told me to give her 2 weeks to think it through with **NO CONTACT** because she wants to make sure what she was thinking was correct, but the anxiety is already killing me. What should I do? Where did I go wrong? TL;DR:

My GF wants to date other people. I'm hurt and confused, and I'm not sure what to do. I'm looking for advice on how to deal with this.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm at lost of what to do and I truly, truly need advice or just to vent. My GF and I have been dating for 8 years, ever since High School. She was my first, but she's dated other guys before me. We even went to the same university together. We both loved each other very much, or at least I loved her very much and still do. I've been struggling with depression and anxiety for a past few months, and my GF was the only thing that provided me with some happiness in this cold, dark, joyless world... Because of that I've been demanding more attention from her and I was being clingy. We've had rough patches in the past, but we always worked it out and I always believed that our relationship was stronger than ever. Today, we were having a talk about my issues, and I asked her to be completely honest on how she feels. She told me for a while now, she's been wondering what it's like to date other guys, but she's been trying her best to keep that thought away because of how guilty she feels. She said I'm such a great boyfriend to her, and I treat her really well, and she's worried that she'll never be with someone like me. She says she's afraid she'll regret it. I was shocked and a bit hurt. But I didn't hold it against her. I'm sure many people in healthy and strong relationships at one point wondered about what it's like to date other people. But as the conversation went on, she reached the conclusion that she **wanted** to date other people. She wanted to experience what it's like to be with other guys, and she emphasized that it was not for sexual reasons. This was like a knife that cut deep into my heart. She told me to give her 2 weeks to think it through with **NO CONTACT** because she wants to make sure what she was thinking was correct, but the anxiety is already killing me. What should I do? Where did I go wrong? TL;DR: My GF wants to date other people. I'm hurt and confused, and I'm not sure what to do. I'm looking for advice on how to deal with this.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm at lost of what to do and I truly, truly need advice or just to vent. My GF and I have been dating for 8 years, ever since High School. She was my first, but she's dated other guys before me. We even went to the same university together. We both loved each other very much, or at least I loved her very much and still do. I've been struggling with depression and anxiety for a past few months, and my GF was the only thing that provided me with some happiness in this cold, dark, joyless world... Because of that I've been demanding more attention from her and I was being clingy. We've had rough patches in the past, but we always worked it out and I always believed that our relationship was stronger than ever. Today, we were having a talk about my issues, and I asked her to be completely honest on how she feels. She told me for a while now, she's been wondering what it's like to date other guys, but she's been trying her best to keep that thought away because of how guilty she feels. She said I'm such a great boyfriend to her, and I treat her really well, and she's worried that she'll never be with someone like me. She says she's afraid she'll regret it. I was shocked and a bit hurt. But I didn't hold it against her. I'm sure many people in healthy and strong relationships at one point wondered about what it's like to date other people. But as the conversation went on, she reached the conclusion that she **wanted** to date other people. She wanted to experience what it's like to be with other guys, and she emphasized that it was not for sexual reasons. This was like a knife that cut deep into my heart. She told me to give her 2 weeks to think it through with **NO CONTACT** because she wants to make sure what she was thinking was correct, but the anxiety is already killing me. What should I do? Where did I go wrong? TL;DR: My GF wanted to date other guys for a while, and today she told me that she wants to date other guys. I'm crushed. She doesn't know how to take care of me and I'm wondering how to move forward.<|endoftext|>

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I have a friend for a long time, I am talking 15+ years. We talk on and off and everytime we actually see each other we enjoy each others company. I am trying to decipher if it's a right time to try and ask if she is interested in being more than just a longtime friend. I am by no means friend-zoned as we are not really around each other all that often, and I don't know every aspect of her life, our families were close so we sort of "grew up" in each others company until we moved away from same neighborhoods. I saw her and talked to her the other day and we have been texting on and off for a few weeks. It started with me asking her for a fake favor just so I could talk to her. Fast forward to tonight and she was watching some childhood videos with he family and I happened to be in one of them from a festival a long time ago, she snap chatted me a still of the image and we started texting back and forth. Now I don't want to come off clingy, but I don't want her to think I am uninterested. Our texts have been several lines each back and forth for like 30 minutes. So I wanted to let her feel like she can go enjoy the time with her family and that it was a nice chat. I texted "okay ill stop distracting you from the spectacle that is our childhood stage acts, lol. enjoy!!" She replied with some stuff and ended with "The tv is completely taken down at the moment haha but thank you" I don't know a proper response, if any. What to do in a situation like this? Do I text continue to text her or wait a couple days to start a conversation about something else?

I texted her and she texted back but I do not know how to reply when she says "but thank you"

Met a lifelong friend, seems interested in us. Tried to text her back, "thanks for spending time with your family" and she seems annoyed with my response. Don't know how to best respond.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a friend for a long time, I am talking 15+ years. We talk on and off and everytime we actually see each other we enjoy each others company. I am trying to decipher if it's a right time to try and ask if she is interested in being more than just a longtime friend. I am by no means friend-zoned as we are not really around each other all that often, and I don't know every aspect of her life, our families were close so we sort of "grew up" in each others company until we moved away from same neighborhoods. I saw her and talked to her the other day and we have been texting on and off for a few weeks. It started with me asking her for a fake favor just so I could talk to her. Fast forward to tonight and she was watching some childhood videos with he family and I happened to be in one of them from a festival a long time ago, she snap chatted me a still of the image and we started texting back and forth. Now I don't want to come off clingy, but I don't want her to think I am uninterested. Our texts have been several lines each back and forth for like 30 minutes. So I wanted to let her feel like she can go enjoy the time with her family and that it was a nice chat. I texted "okay ill stop distracting you from the spectacle that is our childhood stage acts, lol. enjoy!!" She replied with some stuff and ended with "The tv is completely taken down at the moment haha but thank you" I don't know a proper response, if any. What to do in a situation like this? Do I text continue to text her or wait a couple days to start a conversation about something else? TL;DR:

I texted her and she texted back but I do not know how to reply when she says "but thank you"<|endoftext|>

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Met a lifelong friend, seems interested in us. Tried to text her back, "thanks for spending time with your family" and she seems annoyed with my response. Don't know how to best respond.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a friend for a long time, I am talking 15+ years. We talk on and off and everytime we actually see each other we enjoy each others company. I am trying to decipher if it's a right time to try and ask if she is interested in being more than just a longtime friend. I am by no means friend-zoned as we are not really around each other all that often, and I don't know every aspect of her life, our families were close so we sort of "grew up" in each others company until we moved away from same neighborhoods. I saw her and talked to her the other day and we have been texting on and off for a few weeks. It started with me asking her for a fake favor just so I could talk to her. Fast forward to tonight and she was watching some childhood videos with he family and I happened to be in one of them from a festival a long time ago, she snap chatted me a still of the image and we started texting back and forth. Now I don't want to come off clingy, but I don't want her to think I am uninterested. Our texts have been several lines each back and forth for like 30 minutes. So I wanted to let her feel like she can go enjoy the time with her family and that it was a nice chat. I texted "okay ill stop distracting you from the spectacle that is our childhood stage acts, lol. enjoy!!" She replied with some stuff and ended with "The tv is completely taken down at the moment haha but thank you" I don't know a proper response, if any. What to do in a situation like this? Do I text continue to text her or wait a couple days to start a conversation about something else? TL;DR: I texted her and she texted back but I do not know how to reply when she says "but thank you"<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a friend for a long time, I am talking 15+ years. We talk on and off and everytime we actually see each other we enjoy each others company. I am trying to decipher if it's a right time to try and ask if she is interested in being more than just a longtime friend. I am by no means friend-zoned as we are not really around each other all that often, and I don't know every aspect of her life, our families were close so we sort of "grew up" in each others company until we moved away from same neighborhoods. I saw her and talked to her the other day and we have been texting on and off for a few weeks. It started with me asking her for a fake favor just so I could talk to her. Fast forward to tonight and she was watching some childhood videos with he family and I happened to be in one of them from a festival a long time ago, she snap chatted me a still of the image and we started texting back and forth. Now I don't want to come off clingy, but I don't want her to think I am uninterested. Our texts have been several lines each back and forth for like 30 minutes. So I wanted to let her feel like she can go enjoy the time with her family and that it was a nice chat. I texted "okay ill stop distracting you from the spectacle that is our childhood stage acts, lol. enjoy!!" She replied with some stuff and ended with "The tv is completely taken down at the moment haha but thank you" I don't know a proper response, if any. What to do in a situation like this? Do I text continue to text her or wait a couple days to start a conversation about something else? TL;DR: Met a lifelong friend, seems interested in us. Tried to text her back, "thanks for spending time with your family" and she seems annoyed with my response. Don't know how to best respond.<|endoftext|>

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She'd been reading a lot of Dan Savage, saying that she thinks that non-monogomy is the way to go. He says that throughout all of history, men have commonly had affairs while women generally didn't. Now, it's not acceptable for either gender to have affairs. Dan Savage argues that rather that it being acceptable for neither gender to have affairs, it should instead be acceptable for both genders to have affairs. Now, I guess I'm not really here to argue about the efficacy of monogamy and non-monogamy. I'm just telling you what she told me. I guess I'm just having a tough time because I feel like our relationship wasn't enough for her not to turn to non-monogamy, you know? I thought our relationship was going great, and every sign seemed to indicate that she thought the same. Then, the other day, she just told me that it wasn't working out and said that she wanted to have a non-monogamous relationship, and that she knew that I'd be against the idea. She was right, I am. I could never stand the thought of sharing her with anyone else. It's driving me insane. I can't stop picturing any of it. How long did she think, "Man, I'd love to fuck that guy, but I'm with this one."? I feel like I must not have been enough for her in some way. I thought we were compatable along the whole spectrum. We had so much fun. I had so many more plans for us. It just all came... out of nowhere. I know she'd been thinking about it, but I had no idea it was something she actually wanted to practice. I thought that she just found it interesting. I can't help but think that it's greedy, it's selfish. Is it? Am I rationalizing thing? I'm sorry. I'm rambling. I'm goddamn alone.

girlfriend told me she wanted to have a non-monogamous relationship, and that she knew that I'd be against it. I'm having a hard time with it. Wat do?

Girlfriend left me because she wanted to have a non-monogamous relationship with me. I'm not happy with it.

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girlfriend told me she wanted to have a non-monogamous relationship, and that she knew that I'd be against it. I'm having a hard time with it. Wat do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: She'd been reading a lot of Dan Savage, saying that she thinks that non-monogomy is the way to go. He says that throughout all of history, men have commonly had affairs while women generally didn't. Now, it's not acceptable for either gender to have affairs. Dan Savage argues that rather that it being acceptable for neither gender to have affairs, it should instead be acceptable for both genders to have affairs. Now, I guess I'm not really here to argue about the efficacy of monogamy and non-monogamy. I'm just telling you what she told me. I guess I'm just having a tough time because I feel like our relationship wasn't enough for her not to turn to non-monogamy, you know? I thought our relationship was going great, and every sign seemed to indicate that she thought the same. Then, the other day, she just told me that it wasn't working out and said that she wanted to have a non-monogamous relationship, and that she knew that I'd be against the idea. She was right, I am. I could never stand the thought of sharing her with anyone else. It's driving me insane. I can't stop picturing any of it. How long did she think, "Man, I'd love to fuck that guy, but I'm with this one."? I feel like I must not have been enough for her in some way. I thought we were compatable along the whole spectrum. We had so much fun. I had so many more plans for us. It just all came... out of nowhere. I know she'd been thinking about it, but I had no idea it was something she actually wanted to practice. I thought that she just found it interesting. I can't help but think that it's greedy, it's selfish. Is it? Am I rationalizing thing? I'm sorry. I'm rambling. I'm goddamn alone. TL;DR: Girlfriend left me because she wanted to have a non-monogamous relationship with me. I'm not happy with it.<|endoftext|>

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I loved my ex-boyfriend very much. It was intense from the get go. He was very romantic. It was everything I wanted in a relationship. We had talked about getting married after about 5 months. I continued on that path mentally, and thought he was in the same place. Another 6 months passed with no proposal, so I asked him what was going on. He said he wanted more time. I really tried to respect that, but I became very stressed out and it was hard to put my growing concerns aside and enjoy what I had. Eventually, I brought it up to him again and voiced that I felt like I was the only one that still cared about moving things forward. He agreed. He was at my house and had conveniently brought over all my stuff. If I hadn't brought it up that night, I guess he would have. I was heartbroken. He just told me that he didn't love me the way he wanted to love a wife. Since the breakup I've seen him on 4 occasions. Twice to get some stuff back that had been left behind and twice because of a mutual hobby. It's hard, but I try to be friendly yet keep my distance. Currently, I'm in a new relationship and having a really hard time opening up to my new boyfriend. I have a lot of lingering questions about my past relationship. And I'm not quite over my ex. I want to ask my ex when it started ending for him. If he ever misses me or what we had. I heard some rumors after we broke up about other women who wound up in the same situation as me (because I've gathered that he has commitment issues), and I want to know more about that. I also want to know where I went wrong, if anywhere, so I can avoid this problem in the future. Is it a bad idea to reach out to him? I suspect it might, but I really want to, and I've been wanting to for a couple months now. I feel like there are things to hear from him before I can finally put it to rest. Maybe what I really want to hear is confirmation that it's well and truly over and never coming back...

Broke up with ex 5 months ago. Want to contact him to find out where the relationship went wrong (confirmation/rekindling). Not sure if it's a good idea. Wondering if reaching out would be the right move

Recently broke up with ex-boyfriend. Wondering if contacting him would be the right thing to do? also wondering where I went wrong with my past relationship. Would contacting him be the right thing to do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I loved my ex-boyfriend very much. It was intense from the get go. He was very romantic. It was everything I wanted in a relationship. We had talked about getting married after about 5 months. I continued on that path mentally, and thought he was in the same place. Another 6 months passed with no proposal, so I asked him what was going on. He said he wanted more time. I really tried to respect that, but I became very stressed out and it was hard to put my growing concerns aside and enjoy what I had. Eventually, I brought it up to him again and voiced that I felt like I was the only one that still cared about moving things forward. He agreed. He was at my house and had conveniently brought over all my stuff. If I hadn't brought it up that night, I guess he would have. I was heartbroken. He just told me that he didn't love me the way he wanted to love a wife. Since the breakup I've seen him on 4 occasions. Twice to get some stuff back that had been left behind and twice because of a mutual hobby. It's hard, but I try to be friendly yet keep my distance. Currently, I'm in a new relationship and having a really hard time opening up to my new boyfriend. I have a lot of lingering questions about my past relationship. And I'm not quite over my ex. I want to ask my ex when it started ending for him. If he ever misses me or what we had. I heard some rumors after we broke up about other women who wound up in the same situation as me (because I've gathered that he has commitment issues), and I want to know more about that. I also want to know where I went wrong, if anywhere, so I can avoid this problem in the future. Is it a bad idea to reach out to him? I suspect it might, but I really want to, and I've been wanting to for a couple months now. I feel like there are things to hear from him before I can finally put it to rest. Maybe what I really want to hear is confirmation that it's well and truly over and never coming back... TL;DR:

Broke up with ex 5 months ago. Want to contact him to find out where the relationship went wrong (confirmation/rekindling). Not sure if it's a good idea. Wondering if reaching out would be the right move<|endoftext|>

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Recently broke up with ex-boyfriend. Wondering if contacting him would be the right thing to do? also wondering where I went wrong with my past relationship. Would contacting him be the right thing to do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I loved my ex-boyfriend very much. It was intense from the get go. He was very romantic. It was everything I wanted in a relationship. We had talked about getting married after about 5 months. I continued on that path mentally, and thought he was in the same place. Another 6 months passed with no proposal, so I asked him what was going on. He said he wanted more time. I really tried to respect that, but I became very stressed out and it was hard to put my growing concerns aside and enjoy what I had. Eventually, I brought it up to him again and voiced that I felt like I was the only one that still cared about moving things forward. He agreed. He was at my house and had conveniently brought over all my stuff. If I hadn't brought it up that night, I guess he would have. I was heartbroken. He just told me that he didn't love me the way he wanted to love a wife. Since the breakup I've seen him on 4 occasions. Twice to get some stuff back that had been left behind and twice because of a mutual hobby. It's hard, but I try to be friendly yet keep my distance. Currently, I'm in a new relationship and having a really hard time opening up to my new boyfriend. I have a lot of lingering questions about my past relationship. And I'm not quite over my ex. I want to ask my ex when it started ending for him. If he ever misses me or what we had. I heard some rumors after we broke up about other women who wound up in the same situation as me (because I've gathered that he has commitment issues), and I want to know more about that. I also want to know where I went wrong, if anywhere, so I can avoid this problem in the future. Is it a bad idea to reach out to him? I suspect it might, but I really want to, and I've been wanting to for a couple months now. I feel like there are things to hear from him before I can finally put it to rest. Maybe what I really want to hear is confirmation that it's well and truly over and never coming back... TL;DR: Broke up with ex 5 months ago. Want to contact him to find out where the relationship went wrong (confirmation/rekindling). Not sure if it's a good idea. Wondering if reaching out would be the right move<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I loved my ex-boyfriend very much. It was intense from the get go. He was very romantic. It was everything I wanted in a relationship. We had talked about getting married after about 5 months. I continued on that path mentally, and thought he was in the same place. Another 6 months passed with no proposal, so I asked him what was going on. He said he wanted more time. I really tried to respect that, but I became very stressed out and it was hard to put my growing concerns aside and enjoy what I had. Eventually, I brought it up to him again and voiced that I felt like I was the only one that still cared about moving things forward. He agreed. He was at my house and had conveniently brought over all my stuff. If I hadn't brought it up that night, I guess he would have. I was heartbroken. He just told me that he didn't love me the way he wanted to love a wife. Since the breakup I've seen him on 4 occasions. Twice to get some stuff back that had been left behind and twice because of a mutual hobby. It's hard, but I try to be friendly yet keep my distance. Currently, I'm in a new relationship and having a really hard time opening up to my new boyfriend. I have a lot of lingering questions about my past relationship. And I'm not quite over my ex. I want to ask my ex when it started ending for him. If he ever misses me or what we had. I heard some rumors after we broke up about other women who wound up in the same situation as me (because I've gathered that he has commitment issues), and I want to know more about that. I also want to know where I went wrong, if anywhere, so I can avoid this problem in the future. Is it a bad idea to reach out to him? I suspect it might, but I really want to, and I've been wanting to for a couple months now. I feel like there are things to hear from him before I can finally put it to rest. Maybe what I really want to hear is confirmation that it's well and truly over and never coming back... TL;DR: Recently broke up with ex-boyfriend. Wondering if contacting him would be the right thing to do? also wondering where I went wrong with my past relationship. Would contacting him be the right thing to do?<|endoftext|>

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Hi, everyone. I was hoping reddit might be able to help me on this one. I know it's a long shot, but I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me that I can compile into one larger video to ask my girlfriend to prom. I'm really hoping that some redditors out there might have connections. The four I'm really looking at are: Zach Braff, Weird Al, Chad Kroeger, Morgan Freeman, and Neil Tyson. I've got a bit of time to work on this, so there's no pressure on time. Even if anyone has an email address of any good celebrities (or bad ones!) or a phone number to call, that's great!

I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me to ask my girlfriend to prom.

Looking for celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me as a 'promposal' to get my girlfriend to prom.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, everyone. I was hoping reddit might be able to help me on this one. I know it's a long shot, but I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me that I can compile into one larger video to ask my girlfriend to prom. I'm really hoping that some redditors out there might have connections. The four I'm really looking at are: Zach Braff, Weird Al, Chad Kroeger, Morgan Freeman, and Neil Tyson. I've got a bit of time to work on this, so there's no pressure on time. Even if anyone has an email address of any good celebrities (or bad ones!) or a phone number to call, that's great! TL;DR:

I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me to ask my girlfriend to prom.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, everyone. I was hoping reddit might be able to help me on this one. I know it's a long shot, but I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me that I can compile into one larger video to ask my girlfriend to prom. I'm really hoping that some redditors out there might have connections. The four I'm really looking at are: Zach Braff, Weird Al, Chad Kroeger, Morgan Freeman, and Neil Tyson. I've got a bit of time to work on this, so there's no pressure on time. Even if anyone has an email address of any good celebrities (or bad ones!) or a phone number to call, that's great! TL;DR: I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me to ask my girlfriend to prom.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, everyone. I was hoping reddit might be able to help me on this one. I know it's a long shot, but I'm looking to get a few celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me that I can compile into one larger video to ask my girlfriend to prom. I'm really hoping that some redditors out there might have connections. The four I'm really looking at are: Zach Braff, Weird Al, Chad Kroeger, Morgan Freeman, and Neil Tyson. I've got a bit of time to work on this, so there's no pressure on time. Even if anyone has an email address of any good celebrities (or bad ones!) or a phone number to call, that's great! TL;DR: Looking for celebrities to record a short video clip to send to me as a 'promposal' to get my girlfriend to prom.<|endoftext|>

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One that comes to mind often was when I went travelling through Central America with a friend for a month. I always pack ultra-light for these trips, but on this trip I decided to add a size 3 football and a tiny pump to my backpack so I could deflate it when not using it for ease of carrying around. While in Tikal National Park in Guatemala, my friend and I were kicking the ball to each other on the field where we camped when a school bus showed up, with kids who must have been 12-14 yrs old. A couple of the boys were watching us pass the ball to each other, I recognized that 'I wanna play' look on their faces so I kicked the ball over to them so they could join in. Soon more and more of the kids came over and joined in. After a few minutes we had about 20 kids kicking the ball around so naturally we got a full game going. We played for 10-15 minutes, my friend and I barefoot, unshaven travelers our knowledge of Spanish limited to knowing how to order beer and about about 20 Guatemalan school children in their school uniforms running around this field in the jungle surrounded by monkeys and pyramids playing the beautiful game. I still have that ball, but unfortunately it is now a chew toy for my dog. This is one of now many occasions where I have witnessed first hand how football can break down the language barrier and bring people from all walks of life together.

Played a random football match in Tikal National Park with school children surrounded by jungle and monkeys

I kicked a ball around with a friend and a group of school kids in Guatemala and it was entirely out of the blue.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: One that comes to mind often was when I went travelling through Central America with a friend for a month. I always pack ultra-light for these trips, but on this trip I decided to add a size 3 football and a tiny pump to my backpack so I could deflate it when not using it for ease of carrying around. While in Tikal National Park in Guatemala, my friend and I were kicking the ball to each other on the field where we camped when a school bus showed up, with kids who must have been 12-14 yrs old. A couple of the boys were watching us pass the ball to each other, I recognized that 'I wanna play' look on their faces so I kicked the ball over to them so they could join in. Soon more and more of the kids came over and joined in. After a few minutes we had about 20 kids kicking the ball around so naturally we got a full game going. We played for 10-15 minutes, my friend and I barefoot, unshaven travelers our knowledge of Spanish limited to knowing how to order beer and about about 20 Guatemalan school children in their school uniforms running around this field in the jungle surrounded by monkeys and pyramids playing the beautiful game. I still have that ball, but unfortunately it is now a chew toy for my dog. This is one of now many occasions where I have witnessed first hand how football can break down the language barrier and bring people from all walks of life together. TL;DR:

Played a random football match in Tikal National Park with school children surrounded by jungle and monkeys<|endoftext|>

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I kicked a ball around with a friend and a group of school kids in Guatemala and it was entirely out of the blue.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: One that comes to mind often was when I went travelling through Central America with a friend for a month. I always pack ultra-light for these trips, but on this trip I decided to add a size 3 football and a tiny pump to my backpack so I could deflate it when not using it for ease of carrying around. While in Tikal National Park in Guatemala, my friend and I were kicking the ball to each other on the field where we camped when a school bus showed up, with kids who must have been 12-14 yrs old. A couple of the boys were watching us pass the ball to each other, I recognized that 'I wanna play' look on their faces so I kicked the ball over to them so they could join in. Soon more and more of the kids came over and joined in. After a few minutes we had about 20 kids kicking the ball around so naturally we got a full game going. We played for 10-15 minutes, my friend and I barefoot, unshaven travelers our knowledge of Spanish limited to knowing how to order beer and about about 20 Guatemalan school children in their school uniforms running around this field in the jungle surrounded by monkeys and pyramids playing the beautiful game. I still have that ball, but unfortunately it is now a chew toy for my dog. This is one of now many occasions where I have witnessed first hand how football can break down the language barrier and bring people from all walks of life together. TL;DR: Played a random football match in Tikal National Park with school children surrounded by jungle and monkeys<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: One that comes to mind often was when I went travelling through Central America with a friend for a month. I always pack ultra-light for these trips, but on this trip I decided to add a size 3 football and a tiny pump to my backpack so I could deflate it when not using it for ease of carrying around. While in Tikal National Park in Guatemala, my friend and I were kicking the ball to each other on the field where we camped when a school bus showed up, with kids who must have been 12-14 yrs old. A couple of the boys were watching us pass the ball to each other, I recognized that 'I wanna play' look on their faces so I kicked the ball over to them so they could join in. Soon more and more of the kids came over and joined in. After a few minutes we had about 20 kids kicking the ball around so naturally we got a full game going. We played for 10-15 minutes, my friend and I barefoot, unshaven travelers our knowledge of Spanish limited to knowing how to order beer and about about 20 Guatemalan school children in their school uniforms running around this field in the jungle surrounded by monkeys and pyramids playing the beautiful game. I still have that ball, but unfortunately it is now a chew toy for my dog. This is one of now many occasions where I have witnessed first hand how football can break down the language barrier and bring people from all walks of life together. TL;DR: I kicked a ball around with a friend and a group of school kids in Guatemala and it was entirely out of the blue.<|endoftext|>

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I'm in the middle of medical training. I suffer from a history of depression and anxiety (no meds, no therapy) and am a type A personality to the extreme. | Right now we've got a minor reprieve for the holidays, but I begin again soon. A few months into it I managed to get overwhelmed by all my work and had four really bad crying spells. I mean like, full on ugly cry, hyperventilating, inconsolable, choking level crying. It was pretty much an "I'm completely overwhelmed and can't escape this situation" triggered reaction. I also did not feel supported by my immediate supervisor, which I'm sure contributed (I know, I need to grow a thicker skin). I then switched medical settings (natural progression of the teaching, not forced) and had no issues in this new setting, but my embarrassment over the situation before is lingering. | I'll soon be in a new setting surrounded by people who know about and/or witnessed my previous spells (some of who act quite juvenile and may comment on it). I am mortified and ruminating on the shame of being seen as weak and unprofessional and unstable. If I had my way I'd simply drop all contact and never see them again, but obviously this is not feasible. I have my to finish this to ever get to the career I want. | Any words of wisdom or techniques or solutions to quash some of these feelings? They're eating at me quite badly the closer the new period gets.

I get overwhelmed at work, and I can't escape. I'm anxious and embarrassed to be seen as weak/unstable. How to quash some of the feelings?

I'm an anxious, depressed, type A person who's about to teach medical students and has a feeling of being out of control. How do I get over this?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm in the middle of medical training. I suffer from a history of depression and anxiety (no meds, no therapy) and am a type A personality to the extreme. | Right now we've got a minor reprieve for the holidays, but I begin again soon. A few months into it I managed to get overwhelmed by all my work and had four really bad crying spells. I mean like, full on ugly cry, hyperventilating, inconsolable, choking level crying. It was pretty much an "I'm completely overwhelmed and can't escape this situation" triggered reaction. I also did not feel supported by my immediate supervisor, which I'm sure contributed (I know, I need to grow a thicker skin). I then switched medical settings (natural progression of the teaching, not forced) and had no issues in this new setting, but my embarrassment over the situation before is lingering. | I'll soon be in a new setting surrounded by people who know about and/or witnessed my previous spells (some of who act quite juvenile and may comment on it). I am mortified and ruminating on the shame of being seen as weak and unprofessional and unstable. If I had my way I'd simply drop all contact and never see them again, but obviously this is not feasible. I have my to finish this to ever get to the career I want. | Any words of wisdom or techniques or solutions to quash some of these feelings? They're eating at me quite badly the closer the new period gets. TL;DR:

I get overwhelmed at work, and I can't escape. I'm anxious and embarrassed to be seen as weak/unstable. How to quash some of the feelings?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm in the middle of medical training. I suffer from a history of depression and anxiety (no meds, no therapy) and am a type A personality to the extreme. | Right now we've got a minor reprieve for the holidays, but I begin again soon. A few months into it I managed to get overwhelmed by all my work and had four really bad crying spells. I mean like, full on ugly cry, hyperventilating, inconsolable, choking level crying. It was pretty much an "I'm completely overwhelmed and can't escape this situation" triggered reaction. I also did not feel supported by my immediate supervisor, which I'm sure contributed (I know, I need to grow a thicker skin). I then switched medical settings (natural progression of the teaching, not forced) and had no issues in this new setting, but my embarrassment over the situation before is lingering. | I'll soon be in a new setting surrounded by people who know about and/or witnessed my previous spells (some of who act quite juvenile and may comment on it). I am mortified and ruminating on the shame of being seen as weak and unprofessional and unstable. If I had my way I'd simply drop all contact and never see them again, but obviously this is not feasible. I have my to finish this to ever get to the career I want. | Any words of wisdom or techniques or solutions to quash some of these feelings? They're eating at me quite badly the closer the new period gets. TL;DR: I get overwhelmed at work, and I can't escape. I'm anxious and embarrassed to be seen as weak/unstable. How to quash some of the feelings?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm in the middle of medical training. I suffer from a history of depression and anxiety (no meds, no therapy) and am a type A personality to the extreme. | Right now we've got a minor reprieve for the holidays, but I begin again soon. A few months into it I managed to get overwhelmed by all my work and had four really bad crying spells. I mean like, full on ugly cry, hyperventilating, inconsolable, choking level crying. It was pretty much an "I'm completely overwhelmed and can't escape this situation" triggered reaction. I also did not feel supported by my immediate supervisor, which I'm sure contributed (I know, I need to grow a thicker skin). I then switched medical settings (natural progression of the teaching, not forced) and had no issues in this new setting, but my embarrassment over the situation before is lingering. | I'll soon be in a new setting surrounded by people who know about and/or witnessed my previous spells (some of who act quite juvenile and may comment on it). I am mortified and ruminating on the shame of being seen as weak and unprofessional and unstable. If I had my way I'd simply drop all contact and never see them again, but obviously this is not feasible. I have my to finish this to ever get to the career I want. | Any words of wisdom or techniques or solutions to quash some of these feelings? They're eating at me quite badly the closer the new period gets. TL;DR: I'm an anxious, depressed, type A person who's about to teach medical students and has a feeling of being out of control. How do I get over this?<|endoftext|>

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Hi Reddit, This is my first post on reddit ever, so please excuse me if I'm not doing this correctly. I met a very nice girl on plenty of fish about 4 months ago. We get a long great and we have both developed feelings for each other. We spend everyday with each other and were both very happy and content with the way things are going. I haven't been in many relationships before and my last one was a long distance relationship which lasted about 6 years so the dynamics of seeing someone on a consistent basis is very new to me. During the first month of my new relationship we abstained from actual sex, we did however mess around and fore play with in the first 2 weeks of being together. After about a month into this relationship we started to have actual sex on a consistent and regular basis, (4-5 times a week). This has been the same up until about 2 weeks ago. I noticed she seems to not want it as much now, isn't as intimate with me and doesn't seem as interested. I asked her about this and she says she wants sex less for the build up for when we do have it. She assures me this is the only reason why we are having sex less, however she has a high sex drive, but wants to abstain. So I'm left a little confused, she has a high sex drive, we had a lot of good sex in the beginning however that has dropped off and now she wants to wait 2-3 days per "session" per say. The whole scenario is making me slightly insecure because it happened all of a sudden, or seemed too. What I'm trying to ask is - is this a normal thing for a relationship with the information I posted above? I'm posting due to my lack of experience with regular, consistent relationships in terms of sex. Is it normal for the amount of sex you have to slow down a few months in?

With gf for 4 months, had lots of sex at the start of our relationship. Now she wants it less, says because the build up makes it more passionate.

Girlfriend has a high sex drive, wants to abstain from sex for build up to sex. Is this normal for a "normal" relationship or is it a sign she wants sex more?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, This is my first post on reddit ever, so please excuse me if I'm not doing this correctly. I met a very nice girl on plenty of fish about 4 months ago. We get a long great and we have both developed feelings for each other. We spend everyday with each other and were both very happy and content with the way things are going. I haven't been in many relationships before and my last one was a long distance relationship which lasted about 6 years so the dynamics of seeing someone on a consistent basis is very new to me. During the first month of my new relationship we abstained from actual sex, we did however mess around and fore play with in the first 2 weeks of being together. After about a month into this relationship we started to have actual sex on a consistent and regular basis, (4-5 times a week). This has been the same up until about 2 weeks ago. I noticed she seems to not want it as much now, isn't as intimate with me and doesn't seem as interested. I asked her about this and she says she wants sex less for the build up for when we do have it. She assures me this is the only reason why we are having sex less, however she has a high sex drive, but wants to abstain. So I'm left a little confused, she has a high sex drive, we had a lot of good sex in the beginning however that has dropped off and now she wants to wait 2-3 days per "session" per say. The whole scenario is making me slightly insecure because it happened all of a sudden, or seemed too. What I'm trying to ask is - is this a normal thing for a relationship with the information I posted above? I'm posting due to my lack of experience with regular, consistent relationships in terms of sex. Is it normal for the amount of sex you have to slow down a few months in? TL;DR:

With gf for 4 months, had lots of sex at the start of our relationship. Now she wants it less, says because the build up makes it more passionate.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, This is my first post on reddit ever, so please excuse me if I'm not doing this correctly. I met a very nice girl on plenty of fish about 4 months ago. We get a long great and we have both developed feelings for each other. We spend everyday with each other and were both very happy and content with the way things are going. I haven't been in many relationships before and my last one was a long distance relationship which lasted about 6 years so the dynamics of seeing someone on a consistent basis is very new to me. During the first month of my new relationship we abstained from actual sex, we did however mess around and fore play with in the first 2 weeks of being together. After about a month into this relationship we started to have actual sex on a consistent and regular basis, (4-5 times a week). This has been the same up until about 2 weeks ago. I noticed she seems to not want it as much now, isn't as intimate with me and doesn't seem as interested. I asked her about this and she says she wants sex less for the build up for when we do have it. She assures me this is the only reason why we are having sex less, however she has a high sex drive, but wants to abstain. So I'm left a little confused, she has a high sex drive, we had a lot of good sex in the beginning however that has dropped off and now she wants to wait 2-3 days per "session" per say. The whole scenario is making me slightly insecure because it happened all of a sudden, or seemed too. What I'm trying to ask is - is this a normal thing for a relationship with the information I posted above? I'm posting due to my lack of experience with regular, consistent relationships in terms of sex. Is it normal for the amount of sex you have to slow down a few months in? TL;DR: With gf for 4 months, had lots of sex at the start of our relationship. Now she wants it less, says because the build up makes it more passionate.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, This is my first post on reddit ever, so please excuse me if I'm not doing this correctly. I met a very nice girl on plenty of fish about 4 months ago. We get a long great and we have both developed feelings for each other. We spend everyday with each other and were both very happy and content with the way things are going. I haven't been in many relationships before and my last one was a long distance relationship which lasted about 6 years so the dynamics of seeing someone on a consistent basis is very new to me. During the first month of my new relationship we abstained from actual sex, we did however mess around and fore play with in the first 2 weeks of being together. After about a month into this relationship we started to have actual sex on a consistent and regular basis, (4-5 times a week). This has been the same up until about 2 weeks ago. I noticed she seems to not want it as much now, isn't as intimate with me and doesn't seem as interested. I asked her about this and she says she wants sex less for the build up for when we do have it. She assures me this is the only reason why we are having sex less, however she has a high sex drive, but wants to abstain. So I'm left a little confused, she has a high sex drive, we had a lot of good sex in the beginning however that has dropped off and now she wants to wait 2-3 days per "session" per say. The whole scenario is making me slightly insecure because it happened all of a sudden, or seemed too. What I'm trying to ask is - is this a normal thing for a relationship with the information I posted above? I'm posting due to my lack of experience with regular, consistent relationships in terms of sex. Is it normal for the amount of sex you have to slow down a few months in? TL;DR: Girlfriend has a high sex drive, wants to abstain from sex for build up to sex. Is this normal for a "normal" relationship or is it a sign she wants sex more?<|endoftext|>

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Let's see if I can explain myself concisely here. I already have a masters in Aerospace Engineering. All the jobs, though, are either doing fascinating usually-to-always **classified** work (I loathe being in that type of environment) or uninteresting paper-pushing jobs. In my opinion I overspecialized and leaped before I looked. Also, I find that I have nothing in common with my coworkers. I LOVE to code, I love problem solving, I love learning. Most of them look at me like I'm a lunatic by stating that my work is more than a means of income-generation to me. * I can already program at a non-software developer level in C++ and MATLAB, and I'm currently learning Java. * I want the flexibility of being able to choose to live in more than the three (or n-number) major areas of the country that employ my current specialty. I believe working in software development could afford me that luxury. Is this an accurate assumption? * I have always, always wanted to learn more about software. I am rather proficient in mathematics, and I feel I would be able to employ actual problem solving in my worklife if I chose this profession as opposed to my own. How is the day-to-day of doing this type of work? I'd love to know anything and everything about doing the actual 9-5 work of a software engineer. What is it like? What kind of personality characteristics are common to the field? Also, I APOLOGIZE in advance for making ridiculous blanketing statements about a field I know nothing about. I recognize my ignorance, and am only going on what I observed of the other students while in engineering school.

Have a masters in Aerospace Engineering; wish to pursue software development career; overspecialized; want more than typical 9-5 job; want to know what it's like/what's common amongst software development professionals.

Have masters in aerospace engineering, want to be able to choose among more than 3 major areas of employment (coding/problem solving/other). What exactly is software engineering and how does it work?

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Have a masters in Aerospace Engineering; wish to pursue software development career; overspecialized; want more than typical 9-5 job; want to know what it's like/what's common amongst software development professionals.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let's see if I can explain myself concisely here. I already have a masters in Aerospace Engineering. All the jobs, though, are either doing fascinating usually-to-always **classified** work (I loathe being in that type of environment) or uninteresting paper-pushing jobs. In my opinion I overspecialized and leaped before I looked. Also, I find that I have nothing in common with my coworkers. I LOVE to code, I love problem solving, I love learning. Most of them look at me like I'm a lunatic by stating that my work is more than a means of income-generation to me. * I can already program at a non-software developer level in C++ and MATLAB, and I'm currently learning Java. * I want the flexibility of being able to choose to live in more than the three (or n-number) major areas of the country that employ my current specialty. I believe working in software development could afford me that luxury. Is this an accurate assumption? * I have always, always wanted to learn more about software. I am rather proficient in mathematics, and I feel I would be able to employ actual problem solving in my worklife if I chose this profession as opposed to my own. How is the day-to-day of doing this type of work? I'd love to know anything and everything about doing the actual 9-5 work of a software engineer. What is it like? What kind of personality characteristics are common to the field? Also, I APOLOGIZE in advance for making ridiculous blanketing statements about a field I know nothing about. I recognize my ignorance, and am only going on what I observed of the other students while in engineering school. TL;DR: Have a masters in Aerospace Engineering; wish to pursue software development career; overspecialized; want more than typical 9-5 job; want to know what it's like/what's common amongst software development professionals.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let's see if I can explain myself concisely here. I already have a masters in Aerospace Engineering. All the jobs, though, are either doing fascinating usually-to-always **classified** work (I loathe being in that type of environment) or uninteresting paper-pushing jobs. In my opinion I overspecialized and leaped before I looked. Also, I find that I have nothing in common with my coworkers. I LOVE to code, I love problem solving, I love learning. Most of them look at me like I'm a lunatic by stating that my work is more than a means of income-generation to me. * I can already program at a non-software developer level in C++ and MATLAB, and I'm currently learning Java. * I want the flexibility of being able to choose to live in more than the three (or n-number) major areas of the country that employ my current specialty. I believe working in software development could afford me that luxury. Is this an accurate assumption? * I have always, always wanted to learn more about software. I am rather proficient in mathematics, and I feel I would be able to employ actual problem solving in my worklife if I chose this profession as opposed to my own. How is the day-to-day of doing this type of work? I'd love to know anything and everything about doing the actual 9-5 work of a software engineer. What is it like? What kind of personality characteristics are common to the field? Also, I APOLOGIZE in advance for making ridiculous blanketing statements about a field I know nothing about. I recognize my ignorance, and am only going on what I observed of the other students while in engineering school. TL;DR: Have masters in aerospace engineering, want to be able to choose among more than 3 major areas of employment (coding/problem solving/other). What exactly is software engineering and how does it work?<|endoftext|>

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Adult male here, who has uncovered some tough memories in therapy recently. I'll get straight to it. When my father and now stepmother were getting ready to marry, he asked her to convert to Judaism. She ended up asking him to also have my sister and I go through the conversion process as well despite us both being born Jewish. The conversion process includes stripping naked in front of a Rabbi and dipping yourself under water in a special pool and then as a male having your penis pricked with a needle to draw blood. I protested as much as my 7 year old self could but I was forced to participate. Again, I didn't need to do this as I was born Jewish. She wanted us to go through it with her to "make her feel more comfortable." Anyways it was really traumatic as a child to have to do these things especially just so my to-be stepmom could be more "comfortable." Thanks for reading, and like I said I'm not sure if this counts as abuse because it involved professionals in a professional setting.

To-be stepmom forced me as a young boy to undergo an unnecessary traumatic religious conversion process so she could feel more comfortable.

Stepmom forced me and sister through conversion process as well as circumcision with needles and water. Was this abuse?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Adult male here, who has uncovered some tough memories in therapy recently. I'll get straight to it. When my father and now stepmother were getting ready to marry, he asked her to convert to Judaism. She ended up asking him to also have my sister and I go through the conversion process as well despite us both being born Jewish. The conversion process includes stripping naked in front of a Rabbi and dipping yourself under water in a special pool and then as a male having your penis pricked with a needle to draw blood. I protested as much as my 7 year old self could but I was forced to participate. Again, I didn't need to do this as I was born Jewish. She wanted us to go through it with her to "make her feel more comfortable." Anyways it was really traumatic as a child to have to do these things especially just so my to-be stepmom could be more "comfortable." Thanks for reading, and like I said I'm not sure if this counts as abuse because it involved professionals in a professional setting. TL;DR:

To-be stepmom forced me as a young boy to undergo an unnecessary traumatic religious conversion process so she could feel more comfortable.<|endoftext|>

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Stepmom forced me and sister through conversion process as well as circumcision with needles and water. Was this abuse?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Adult male here, who has uncovered some tough memories in therapy recently. I'll get straight to it. When my father and now stepmother were getting ready to marry, he asked her to convert to Judaism. She ended up asking him to also have my sister and I go through the conversion process as well despite us both being born Jewish. The conversion process includes stripping naked in front of a Rabbi and dipping yourself under water in a special pool and then as a male having your penis pricked with a needle to draw blood. I protested as much as my 7 year old self could but I was forced to participate. Again, I didn't need to do this as I was born Jewish. She wanted us to go through it with her to "make her feel more comfortable." Anyways it was really traumatic as a child to have to do these things especially just so my to-be stepmom could be more "comfortable." Thanks for reading, and like I said I'm not sure if this counts as abuse because it involved professionals in a professional setting. TL;DR: To-be stepmom forced me as a young boy to undergo an unnecessary traumatic religious conversion process so she could feel more comfortable.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Adult male here, who has uncovered some tough memories in therapy recently. I'll get straight to it. When my father and now stepmother were getting ready to marry, he asked her to convert to Judaism. She ended up asking him to also have my sister and I go through the conversion process as well despite us both being born Jewish. The conversion process includes stripping naked in front of a Rabbi and dipping yourself under water in a special pool and then as a male having your penis pricked with a needle to draw blood. I protested as much as my 7 year old self could but I was forced to participate. Again, I didn't need to do this as I was born Jewish. She wanted us to go through it with her to "make her feel more comfortable." Anyways it was really traumatic as a child to have to do these things especially just so my to-be stepmom could be more "comfortable." Thanks for reading, and like I said I'm not sure if this counts as abuse because it involved professionals in a professional setting. TL;DR: Stepmom forced me and sister through conversion process as well as circumcision with needles and water. Was this abuse?<|endoftext|>

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Okay. Here's the story. I went into Wells Fargo on my lunch hour to get a certified check made out to the person I'm buying a car from. Everything was going well until the teller noticed that my Driver's License has expired by two months. A supervisor was summoned and based on the fact that my State issued I.D. has expired, they refused to make out the check. As hard as I try to admit that they are within their bounds to deny me my request, I keep going back in my mind and calling Bull Shit. Why should they be the enforcer of a State issued I.D. being expired? I'm still the same person that deposited the funds into an account that they are maintaining for me regardless of the status of my State issued I.D. Also, it might seem extreme but, should I take legal action? What if for some reason, I absolutely needed those funds right then and there but couldn't have access to it because of some technicality? It is my money after all, isn't it?

Wells Fargo refused to do what I told them to do with my money.

Wells Fargo is refusing to give me my money back, why should I take legal action?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay. Here's the story. I went into Wells Fargo on my lunch hour to get a certified check made out to the person I'm buying a car from. Everything was going well until the teller noticed that my Driver's License has expired by two months. A supervisor was summoned and based on the fact that my State issued I.D. has expired, they refused to make out the check. As hard as I try to admit that they are within their bounds to deny me my request, I keep going back in my mind and calling Bull Shit. Why should they be the enforcer of a State issued I.D. being expired? I'm still the same person that deposited the funds into an account that they are maintaining for me regardless of the status of my State issued I.D. Also, it might seem extreme but, should I take legal action? What if for some reason, I absolutely needed those funds right then and there but couldn't have access to it because of some technicality? It is my money after all, isn't it? TL;DR:

Wells Fargo refused to do what I told them to do with my money.<|endoftext|>

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Wells Fargo is refusing to give me my money back, why should I take legal action?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay. Here's the story. I went into Wells Fargo on my lunch hour to get a certified check made out to the person I'm buying a car from. Everything was going well until the teller noticed that my Driver's License has expired by two months. A supervisor was summoned and based on the fact that my State issued I.D. has expired, they refused to make out the check. As hard as I try to admit that they are within their bounds to deny me my request, I keep going back in my mind and calling Bull Shit. Why should they be the enforcer of a State issued I.D. being expired? I'm still the same person that deposited the funds into an account that they are maintaining for me regardless of the status of my State issued I.D. Also, it might seem extreme but, should I take legal action? What if for some reason, I absolutely needed those funds right then and there but couldn't have access to it because of some technicality? It is my money after all, isn't it? TL;DR: Wells Fargo refused to do what I told them to do with my money.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay. Here's the story. I went into Wells Fargo on my lunch hour to get a certified check made out to the person I'm buying a car from. Everything was going well until the teller noticed that my Driver's License has expired by two months. A supervisor was summoned and based on the fact that my State issued I.D. has expired, they refused to make out the check. As hard as I try to admit that they are within their bounds to deny me my request, I keep going back in my mind and calling Bull Shit. Why should they be the enforcer of a State issued I.D. being expired? I'm still the same person that deposited the funds into an account that they are maintaining for me regardless of the status of my State issued I.D. Also, it might seem extreme but, should I take legal action? What if for some reason, I absolutely needed those funds right then and there but couldn't have access to it because of some technicality? It is my money after all, isn't it? TL;DR: Wells Fargo is refusing to give me my money back, why should I take legal action?<|endoftext|>

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So we've known each other for 2 years, ever since she started working at the restaurant I do. We've got along great and started talking right away even though we're pretty awkward people. She's had a boyfriend for a about 2 years, but they broke up 3 months ago. They have to live together until the end of their lease in a month, and she complains to me a lot about her ex. But i've been noticing things are a lot different between us now. She offers to help with more things at work and offers to grab me a water bottle and small things like that. There was one particular time we were talking, and she had to step away to help some customers, and she came back and continued the conversation with me but she was standing a lot closer the second time. We also text a lot more and communicate a lot more outside work now. Also, the week she and her boyfriend broke up she asked me to go to a show with her that was a month later but had to cancel because her family made some plans around that time. Anyways fast forward to today, I offered to help her move a couch from her current place to her new place and she took me up on that today except her ex is gonna be there while we move the couch. So on the way there she tells me her and her ex just had another huge fight, and when I got there it was clear she had been crying and she just looks upset. We start talking and she starts smiling as we walk up the stairs and as she walks in and we start moving the couch she laughs (maybe from awkwardness?) After the couch was done, she asked if I brought my coupons that our boss had given to us that were to a very expensive restaurant, but I said no because I already used mine. This was clearly a way for her to ask me to hang out with her, but what I want to know is if she was doing it to be friendly or did she want to think of it as a date?

I wanna know if she's interested in a relationship at the moment

My coworker and I had a fight and she asked me to hang out with her, but I'm not sure if she was doing it to be friendly or to think of it as a date.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we've known each other for 2 years, ever since she started working at the restaurant I do. We've got along great and started talking right away even though we're pretty awkward people. She's had a boyfriend for a about 2 years, but they broke up 3 months ago. They have to live together until the end of their lease in a month, and she complains to me a lot about her ex. But i've been noticing things are a lot different between us now. She offers to help with more things at work and offers to grab me a water bottle and small things like that. There was one particular time we were talking, and she had to step away to help some customers, and she came back and continued the conversation with me but she was standing a lot closer the second time. We also text a lot more and communicate a lot more outside work now. Also, the week she and her boyfriend broke up she asked me to go to a show with her that was a month later but had to cancel because her family made some plans around that time. Anyways fast forward to today, I offered to help her move a couch from her current place to her new place and she took me up on that today except her ex is gonna be there while we move the couch. So on the way there she tells me her and her ex just had another huge fight, and when I got there it was clear she had been crying and she just looks upset. We start talking and she starts smiling as we walk up the stairs and as she walks in and we start moving the couch she laughs (maybe from awkwardness?) After the couch was done, she asked if I brought my coupons that our boss had given to us that were to a very expensive restaurant, but I said no because I already used mine. This was clearly a way for her to ask me to hang out with her, but what I want to know is if she was doing it to be friendly or did she want to think of it as a date? TL;DR:

I wanna know if she's interested in a relationship at the moment<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we've known each other for 2 years, ever since she started working at the restaurant I do. We've got along great and started talking right away even though we're pretty awkward people. She's had a boyfriend for a about 2 years, but they broke up 3 months ago. They have to live together until the end of their lease in a month, and she complains to me a lot about her ex. But i've been noticing things are a lot different between us now. She offers to help with more things at work and offers to grab me a water bottle and small things like that. There was one particular time we were talking, and she had to step away to help some customers, and she came back and continued the conversation with me but she was standing a lot closer the second time. We also text a lot more and communicate a lot more outside work now. Also, the week she and her boyfriend broke up she asked me to go to a show with her that was a month later but had to cancel because her family made some plans around that time. Anyways fast forward to today, I offered to help her move a couch from her current place to her new place and she took me up on that today except her ex is gonna be there while we move the couch. So on the way there she tells me her and her ex just had another huge fight, and when I got there it was clear she had been crying and she just looks upset. We start talking and she starts smiling as we walk up the stairs and as she walks in and we start moving the couch she laughs (maybe from awkwardness?) After the couch was done, she asked if I brought my coupons that our boss had given to us that were to a very expensive restaurant, but I said no because I already used mine. This was clearly a way for her to ask me to hang out with her, but what I want to know is if she was doing it to be friendly or did she want to think of it as a date? TL;DR: My coworker and I had a fight and she asked me to hang out with her, but I'm not sure if she was doing it to be friendly or to think of it as a date.<|endoftext|>

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I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!!

My receptionist cheated with my bf. I want her fired. Is that ethical? It shows distrust and lack of respect for the workplace on her part and I no longer trust her, nor do I have a receptionist that I can function fully with, yet my overhead pays her wage.

Have an affair at work. Friend and receptionist are guilty of lying and covering it up, I feel uncomfortable with her being there. Is it fair to ask for her to be removed?

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My receptionist cheated with my bf. I want her fired. Is that ethical? It shows distrust and lack of respect for the workplace on her part and I no longer trust her, nor do I have a receptionist that I can function fully with, yet my overhead pays her wage.<|endoftext|>

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Have an affair at work. Friend and receptionist are guilty of lying and covering it up, I feel uncomfortable with her being there. Is it fair to ask for her to be removed?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!! TL;DR: My receptionist cheated with my bf. I want her fired. Is that ethical? It shows distrust and lack of respect for the workplace on her part and I no longer trust her, nor do I have a receptionist that I can function fully with, yet my overhead pays her wage.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!! TL;DR: Have an affair at work. Friend and receptionist are guilty of lying and covering it up, I feel uncomfortable with her being there. Is it fair to ask for her to be removed?<|endoftext|>

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Relatives occasionally ask and bug me about it, and I thought maybe I should start, but then I think about it and come to a conclusion that I don't want to. I see no benefit. I think I might be too used to not caring what anybody thinks. I do whatever I want, whenever I want. I have a high end PC with a big flat screen TV that I can play whenever I want, as long as I want. I have a better car than men with families (I feel quite bad for them, also a reason why I don't want that stuff, they all look miserable). I live with my mom, just give her some money every month, so it's much cheaper than renting or taking a loan to buy a place. I can save 60% of my income. Life just feels so good. I can go to gym and use whatever "supps" I want. I can drive wherever I want. I actually am thinking of changing my car to a 4x4 and getting into some archaeological hobby. When I save more money, a safety net, I want to start my own business of some kind. I don't want to date anyone, don't want to go to clubs, bars etc. It's just a dumb waste of money imo. If I sometimes get sexually aroused I just watch some porno and temptation is gone in 3 minutes and I can do something totally different. I still like girls though - but just how they look. The same as I like nice cars.

I am rich. I don't want to date people, but I still like them. I just don't like it. I think I just want to be left alone.

I'm a 21 year old male who doesn't want to date, I don't have any sexual or relationship experience. Everyone else seems to like it, so I don't know why I don't like it.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Relatives occasionally ask and bug me about it, and I thought maybe I should start, but then I think about it and come to a conclusion that I don't want to. I see no benefit. I think I might be too used to not caring what anybody thinks. I do whatever I want, whenever I want. I have a high end PC with a big flat screen TV that I can play whenever I want, as long as I want. I have a better car than men with families (I feel quite bad for them, also a reason why I don't want that stuff, they all look miserable). I live with my mom, just give her some money every month, so it's much cheaper than renting or taking a loan to buy a place. I can save 60% of my income. Life just feels so good. I can go to gym and use whatever "supps" I want. I can drive wherever I want. I actually am thinking of changing my car to a 4x4 and getting into some archaeological hobby. When I save more money, a safety net, I want to start my own business of some kind. I don't want to date anyone, don't want to go to clubs, bars etc. It's just a dumb waste of money imo. If I sometimes get sexually aroused I just watch some porno and temptation is gone in 3 minutes and I can do something totally different. I still like girls though - but just how they look. The same as I like nice cars. TL;DR:

I am rich. I don't want to date people, but I still like them. I just don't like it. I think I just want to be left alone.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a 21 year old male who doesn't want to date, I don't have any sexual or relationship experience. Everyone else seems to like it, so I don't know why I don't like it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Relatives occasionally ask and bug me about it, and I thought maybe I should start, but then I think about it and come to a conclusion that I don't want to. I see no benefit. I think I might be too used to not caring what anybody thinks. I do whatever I want, whenever I want. I have a high end PC with a big flat screen TV that I can play whenever I want, as long as I want. I have a better car than men with families (I feel quite bad for them, also a reason why I don't want that stuff, they all look miserable). I live with my mom, just give her some money every month, so it's much cheaper than renting or taking a loan to buy a place. I can save 60% of my income. Life just feels so good. I can go to gym and use whatever "supps" I want. I can drive wherever I want. I actually am thinking of changing my car to a 4x4 and getting into some archaeological hobby. When I save more money, a safety net, I want to start my own business of some kind. I don't want to date anyone, don't want to go to clubs, bars etc. It's just a dumb waste of money imo. If I sometimes get sexually aroused I just watch some porno and temptation is gone in 3 minutes and I can do something totally different. I still like girls though - but just how they look. The same as I like nice cars. TL;DR: I am rich. I don't want to date people, but I still like them. I just don't like it. I think I just want to be left alone.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Relatives occasionally ask and bug me about it, and I thought maybe I should start, but then I think about it and come to a conclusion that I don't want to. I see no benefit. I think I might be too used to not caring what anybody thinks. I do whatever I want, whenever I want. I have a high end PC with a big flat screen TV that I can play whenever I want, as long as I want. I have a better car than men with families (I feel quite bad for them, also a reason why I don't want that stuff, they all look miserable). I live with my mom, just give her some money every month, so it's much cheaper than renting or taking a loan to buy a place. I can save 60% of my income. Life just feels so good. I can go to gym and use whatever "supps" I want. I can drive wherever I want. I actually am thinking of changing my car to a 4x4 and getting into some archaeological hobby. When I save more money, a safety net, I want to start my own business of some kind. I don't want to date anyone, don't want to go to clubs, bars etc. It's just a dumb waste of money imo. If I sometimes get sexually aroused I just watch some porno and temptation is gone in 3 minutes and I can do something totally different. I still like girls though - but just how they look. The same as I like nice cars. TL;DR: I'm a 21 year old male who doesn't want to date, I don't have any sexual or relationship experience. Everyone else seems to like it, so I don't know why I don't like it.<|endoftext|>

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So, I've had a crush on this guy I met in high school for three years. He always flirts with me and goes out of his to catch up with me but has never asked me out. Because of that I have dated other guys and I just broke up with my ex a couple of days ago because I realized that I still have really strong feelings for this other guy. I hung out with this other guy today and I was going to tell him how I really feel but chickened out. I'm afraid telling him how I feel will scare him away. Should I tell him how I feel?

Broke up with bf for another guy, don't know if I should share my feelings with the other guy.

I'm not sure if I should tell this guy I like him and he's not sure if he likes me back.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, I've had a crush on this guy I met in high school for three years. He always flirts with me and goes out of his to catch up with me but has never asked me out. Because of that I have dated other guys and I just broke up with my ex a couple of days ago because I realized that I still have really strong feelings for this other guy. I hung out with this other guy today and I was going to tell him how I really feel but chickened out. I'm afraid telling him how I feel will scare him away. Should I tell him how I feel? TL;DR:

Broke up with bf for another guy, don't know if I should share my feelings with the other guy.<|endoftext|>

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I'm not sure if I should tell this guy I like him and he's not sure if he likes me back.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, I've had a crush on this guy I met in high school for three years. He always flirts with me and goes out of his to catch up with me but has never asked me out. Because of that I have dated other guys and I just broke up with my ex a couple of days ago because I realized that I still have really strong feelings for this other guy. I hung out with this other guy today and I was going to tell him how I really feel but chickened out. I'm afraid telling him how I feel will scare him away. Should I tell him how I feel? TL;DR: Broke up with bf for another guy, don't know if I should share my feelings with the other guy.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, I've had a crush on this guy I met in high school for three years. He always flirts with me and goes out of his to catch up with me but has never asked me out. Because of that I have dated other guys and I just broke up with my ex a couple of days ago because I realized that I still have really strong feelings for this other guy. I hung out with this other guy today and I was going to tell him how I really feel but chickened out. I'm afraid telling him how I feel will scare him away. Should I tell him how I feel? TL;DR: I'm not sure if I should tell this guy I like him and he's not sure if he likes me back.<|endoftext|>

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Hi guys, Me (almost 20) and my GF (20) have been together for almost 1 year. She currently does an au pair job in england (we live in germany) and we only see each other during her holidays (about 3-4months between). Last time we skyped she asked me : why dont you just have sex with the next girl u find. (Not in an ironic way, she was dead serious) She wants me to have "fun", i have a fairly high sex drive.. I told her that I wont, and i cant betray her and she got somewhat upset and sad.. like wtf? Does anybody have an idea? I know that she isnt jealous at any time and she really trusts me Is she asking to betray me just to dump me afterwards or do you think she really jusr wants me to have fun since she cant be with me? I hope you can give me some tips..

GF wants me to have sexual fun with others. I wont. She gets upset/sad. Need help?

gf wants me to have fun with other girls, I dont want to, she got upset, she wants me to betray her.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi guys, Me (almost 20) and my GF (20) have been together for almost 1 year. She currently does an au pair job in england (we live in germany) and we only see each other during her holidays (about 3-4months between). Last time we skyped she asked me : why dont you just have sex with the next girl u find. (Not in an ironic way, she was dead serious) She wants me to have "fun", i have a fairly high sex drive.. I told her that I wont, and i cant betray her and she got somewhat upset and sad.. like wtf? Does anybody have an idea? I know that she isnt jealous at any time and she really trusts me Is she asking to betray me just to dump me afterwards or do you think she really jusr wants me to have fun since she cant be with me? I hope you can give me some tips.. TL;DR:

GF wants me to have sexual fun with others. I wont. She gets upset/sad. Need help?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi guys, Me (almost 20) and my GF (20) have been together for almost 1 year. She currently does an au pair job in england (we live in germany) and we only see each other during her holidays (about 3-4months between). Last time we skyped she asked me : why dont you just have sex with the next girl u find. (Not in an ironic way, she was dead serious) She wants me to have "fun", i have a fairly high sex drive.. I told her that I wont, and i cant betray her and she got somewhat upset and sad.. like wtf? Does anybody have an idea? I know that she isnt jealous at any time and she really trusts me Is she asking to betray me just to dump me afterwards or do you think she really jusr wants me to have fun since she cant be with me? I hope you can give me some tips.. TL;DR: GF wants me to have sexual fun with others. I wont. She gets upset/sad. Need help?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi guys, Me (almost 20) and my GF (20) have been together for almost 1 year. She currently does an au pair job in england (we live in germany) and we only see each other during her holidays (about 3-4months between). Last time we skyped she asked me : why dont you just have sex with the next girl u find. (Not in an ironic way, she was dead serious) She wants me to have "fun", i have a fairly high sex drive.. I told her that I wont, and i cant betray her and she got somewhat upset and sad.. like wtf? Does anybody have an idea? I know that she isnt jealous at any time and she really trusts me Is she asking to betray me just to dump me afterwards or do you think she really jusr wants me to have fun since she cant be with me? I hope you can give me some tips.. TL;DR: gf wants me to have fun with other girls, I dont want to, she got upset, she wants me to betray her.<|endoftext|>

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We've been together for almost three years, and right now we are backpacking around Europe and Asia for an indefinite amount of time. My girlfriend is bisexual, and I am heterosexual. Today we met another female traveler and chatted for an hour, and after that my gf said she was beautiful and that she "wanted to kiss her". She makes these comments a lot about female celebrities, and since this traveler is long gone from this city, my gf didn't actually mean she wanted to kiss *that* woman. I want to give her carte blanche to explore that side of her sexuality that she didn't get a chance to experiment with before we got together. Recently we haven't been having a lot of sex or intimacy at all due to the traveling. I am high libido and she is low libido and it has been like this pretty much for the last three years. We are the first people we ever had sex with, and now I am proposing to open the relationship up into polygamous territory to see where it takes us both development-wise. We used to talk early on in our relationship about our "threesome list", of girls from our college we would want to involve in a threesome with us. We are traveling for a long while and these potential partners would be people who come and go as we move from city to city. I would never ever cheat on my girlfriend, and I also do not want to lose her as I care very much for her. Has anyone here had experience opening up their relationship little by little, and what kind of advice can you offer me? Thank you.

I want to propose to my girlfriend to open up the relationship a little so that we can explore polygamy, as we are the only people we've been with. How can I broach the possibility with her? We are traveling for a long while and these potential partners would be people who come and go as we move from

My gf mentioned she wanted to kiss another woman, and I want to open the relationship a bit to explore her sexuality. Thanks!

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together for almost three years, and right now we are backpacking around Europe and Asia for an indefinite amount of time. My girlfriend is bisexual, and I am heterosexual. Today we met another female traveler and chatted for an hour, and after that my gf said she was beautiful and that she "wanted to kiss her". She makes these comments a lot about female celebrities, and since this traveler is long gone from this city, my gf didn't actually mean she wanted to kiss *that* woman. I want to give her carte blanche to explore that side of her sexuality that she didn't get a chance to experiment with before we got together. Recently we haven't been having a lot of sex or intimacy at all due to the traveling. I am high libido and she is low libido and it has been like this pretty much for the last three years. We are the first people we ever had sex with, and now I am proposing to open the relationship up into polygamous territory to see where it takes us both development-wise. We used to talk early on in our relationship about our "threesome list", of girls from our college we would want to involve in a threesome with us. We are traveling for a long while and these potential partners would be people who come and go as we move from city to city. I would never ever cheat on my girlfriend, and I also do not want to lose her as I care very much for her. Has anyone here had experience opening up their relationship little by little, and what kind of advice can you offer me? Thank you. TL;DR:

I want to propose to my girlfriend to open up the relationship a little so that we can explore polygamy, as we are the only people we've been with. How can I broach the possibility with her? We are traveling for a long while and these potential partners would be people who come and go as we move from<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together for almost three years, and right now we are backpacking around Europe and Asia for an indefinite amount of time. My girlfriend is bisexual, and I am heterosexual. Today we met another female traveler and chatted for an hour, and after that my gf said she was beautiful and that she "wanted to kiss her". She makes these comments a lot about female celebrities, and since this traveler is long gone from this city, my gf didn't actually mean she wanted to kiss *that* woman. I want to give her carte blanche to explore that side of her sexuality that she didn't get a chance to experiment with before we got together. Recently we haven't been having a lot of sex or intimacy at all due to the traveling. I am high libido and she is low libido and it has been like this pretty much for the last three years. We are the first people we ever had sex with, and now I am proposing to open the relationship up into polygamous territory to see where it takes us both development-wise. We used to talk early on in our relationship about our "threesome list", of girls from our college we would want to involve in a threesome with us. We are traveling for a long while and these potential partners would be people who come and go as we move from city to city. I would never ever cheat on my girlfriend, and I also do not want to lose her as I care very much for her. Has anyone here had experience opening up their relationship little by little, and what kind of advice can you offer me? Thank you. TL;DR: I want to propose to my girlfriend to open up the relationship a little so that we can explore polygamy, as we are the only people we've been with. How can I broach the possibility with her? We are traveling for a long while and these potential partners would be people who come and go as we move from<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together for almost three years, and right now we are backpacking around Europe and Asia for an indefinite amount of time. My girlfriend is bisexual, and I am heterosexual. Today we met another female traveler and chatted for an hour, and after that my gf said she was beautiful and that she "wanted to kiss her". She makes these comments a lot about female celebrities, and since this traveler is long gone from this city, my gf didn't actually mean she wanted to kiss *that* woman. I want to give her carte blanche to explore that side of her sexuality that she didn't get a chance to experiment with before we got together. Recently we haven't been having a lot of sex or intimacy at all due to the traveling. I am high libido and she is low libido and it has been like this pretty much for the last three years. We are the first people we ever had sex with, and now I am proposing to open the relationship up into polygamous territory to see where it takes us both development-wise. We used to talk early on in our relationship about our "threesome list", of girls from our college we would want to involve in a threesome with us. We are traveling for a long while and these potential partners would be people who come and go as we move from city to city. I would never ever cheat on my girlfriend, and I also do not want to lose her as I care very much for her. Has anyone here had experience opening up their relationship little by little, and what kind of advice can you offer me? Thank you. TL;DR: My gf mentioned she wanted to kiss another woman, and I want to open the relationship a bit to explore her sexuality. Thanks!<|endoftext|>

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So we just moved away to college, 3000 miles from home and are in the vicinity of NYC. I have an on campus job and make around $200 a month, he does not have a job. We've been together for a little over 3 years now, and we've been through things like this before, bu this time is different. It has been ages since we did anything noce together that he planned. He did prom with me, but only because I told him that I wanted him to plan it, and I didn't want to have any part of it. I left organizing our annaversary (oct 1) to him, but he flaked and I took over about a week before it happened. I have explicitly told him that I want him to do nice things with me, like buy underwear for me, and make me/take me to nice things, but he doesn't do anything, even when I offer to foot the bill. I just miss the cute romantic things we used to do together and he used to do for me. I don't think its a bad sign for our relationship, but I do want to help him get to the right conclusion if I can. I just want to make sure I'm doing everything I can. Is it because he just doesn't want to? or because he can't plan (I'm usually the planner). I will do anything to help him.

My BF doesn't do sweet things for me anymore. Is it because he doesn't want to spend money? how can I get him to?

I (F18) want my boyfriend (M18) to plan romantic things for me but he won't, is it because he doesn't want to spend money? how can I get him to?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we just moved away to college, 3000 miles from home and are in the vicinity of NYC. I have an on campus job and make around $200 a month, he does not have a job. We've been together for a little over 3 years now, and we've been through things like this before, bu this time is different. It has been ages since we did anything noce together that he planned. He did prom with me, but only because I told him that I wanted him to plan it, and I didn't want to have any part of it. I left organizing our annaversary (oct 1) to him, but he flaked and I took over about a week before it happened. I have explicitly told him that I want him to do nice things with me, like buy underwear for me, and make me/take me to nice things, but he doesn't do anything, even when I offer to foot the bill. I just miss the cute romantic things we used to do together and he used to do for me. I don't think its a bad sign for our relationship, but I do want to help him get to the right conclusion if I can. I just want to make sure I'm doing everything I can. Is it because he just doesn't want to? or because he can't plan (I'm usually the planner). I will do anything to help him. TL;DR:

My BF doesn't do sweet things for me anymore. Is it because he doesn't want to spend money? how can I get him to?<|endoftext|>

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I (F18) want my boyfriend (M18) to plan romantic things for me but he won't, is it because he doesn't want to spend money? how can I get him to?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we just moved away to college, 3000 miles from home and are in the vicinity of NYC. I have an on campus job and make around $200 a month, he does not have a job. We've been together for a little over 3 years now, and we've been through things like this before, bu this time is different. It has been ages since we did anything noce together that he planned. He did prom with me, but only because I told him that I wanted him to plan it, and I didn't want to have any part of it. I left organizing our annaversary (oct 1) to him, but he flaked and I took over about a week before it happened. I have explicitly told him that I want him to do nice things with me, like buy underwear for me, and make me/take me to nice things, but he doesn't do anything, even when I offer to foot the bill. I just miss the cute romantic things we used to do together and he used to do for me. I don't think its a bad sign for our relationship, but I do want to help him get to the right conclusion if I can. I just want to make sure I'm doing everything I can. Is it because he just doesn't want to? or because he can't plan (I'm usually the planner). I will do anything to help him. TL;DR: My BF doesn't do sweet things for me anymore. Is it because he doesn't want to spend money? how can I get him to?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we just moved away to college, 3000 miles from home and are in the vicinity of NYC. I have an on campus job and make around $200 a month, he does not have a job. We've been together for a little over 3 years now, and we've been through things like this before, bu this time is different. It has been ages since we did anything noce together that he planned. He did prom with me, but only because I told him that I wanted him to plan it, and I didn't want to have any part of it. I left organizing our annaversary (oct 1) to him, but he flaked and I took over about a week before it happened. I have explicitly told him that I want him to do nice things with me, like buy underwear for me, and make me/take me to nice things, but he doesn't do anything, even when I offer to foot the bill. I just miss the cute romantic things we used to do together and he used to do for me. I don't think its a bad sign for our relationship, but I do want to help him get to the right conclusion if I can. I just want to make sure I'm doing everything I can. Is it because he just doesn't want to? or because he can't plan (I'm usually the planner). I will do anything to help him. TL;DR: I (F18) want my boyfriend (M18) to plan romantic things for me but he won't, is it because he doesn't want to spend money? how can I get him to?<|endoftext|>

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Let me fill you guys in here. I'm 19 and have been super interested in this guy for roughly two years. When we met, I was stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship that I couldn't get out of. He was there for me through it all. We joked about a relationship before, but once we were both single it got pretty serious. We'd flirt all the time. In November, we got into a huge fight and said some pretty nasty things to each other. I had a guy I liked down for Thanksgiving and my friend called my mom crying, saying how much he wanted to be with me and how much he loved me. I decided to give him another chance. We've never been "together" like in a relationship, but he always holds my hand and we hang out pretty much every day. He told me he loves me. Last week, I asked him if we were ever going to be together. He said yes, but he wants to see how things go before we make it official. How can I win him over? This sounds so cliche, but he's all I've ever wanted.

I'm head over heels for this guy, but he wants to see how things go before we make it official. How do I win him over so I can finally be with him?

I'm in love with this guy, he's basically head over heels for me and I can't tell if he's just being nice or whether he actually wants to be with me. How do I win him over?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let me fill you guys in here. I'm 19 and have been super interested in this guy for roughly two years. When we met, I was stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship that I couldn't get out of. He was there for me through it all. We joked about a relationship before, but once we were both single it got pretty serious. We'd flirt all the time. In November, we got into a huge fight and said some pretty nasty things to each other. I had a guy I liked down for Thanksgiving and my friend called my mom crying, saying how much he wanted to be with me and how much he loved me. I decided to give him another chance. We've never been "together" like in a relationship, but he always holds my hand and we hang out pretty much every day. He told me he loves me. Last week, I asked him if we were ever going to be together. He said yes, but he wants to see how things go before we make it official. How can I win him over? This sounds so cliche, but he's all I've ever wanted. TL;DR:

I'm head over heels for this guy, but he wants to see how things go before we make it official. How do I win him over so I can finally be with him?<|endoftext|>

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I'm in love with this guy, he's basically head over heels for me and I can't tell if he's just being nice or whether he actually wants to be with me. How do I win him over?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let me fill you guys in here. I'm 19 and have been super interested in this guy for roughly two years. When we met, I was stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship that I couldn't get out of. He was there for me through it all. We joked about a relationship before, but once we were both single it got pretty serious. We'd flirt all the time. In November, we got into a huge fight and said some pretty nasty things to each other. I had a guy I liked down for Thanksgiving and my friend called my mom crying, saying how much he wanted to be with me and how much he loved me. I decided to give him another chance. We've never been "together" like in a relationship, but he always holds my hand and we hang out pretty much every day. He told me he loves me. Last week, I asked him if we were ever going to be together. He said yes, but he wants to see how things go before we make it official. How can I win him over? This sounds so cliche, but he's all I've ever wanted. TL;DR: I'm head over heels for this guy, but he wants to see how things go before we make it official. How do I win him over so I can finally be with him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let me fill you guys in here. I'm 19 and have been super interested in this guy for roughly two years. When we met, I was stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship that I couldn't get out of. He was there for me through it all. We joked about a relationship before, but once we were both single it got pretty serious. We'd flirt all the time. In November, we got into a huge fight and said some pretty nasty things to each other. I had a guy I liked down for Thanksgiving and my friend called my mom crying, saying how much he wanted to be with me and how much he loved me. I decided to give him another chance. We've never been "together" like in a relationship, but he always holds my hand and we hang out pretty much every day. He told me he loves me. Last week, I asked him if we were ever going to be together. He said yes, but he wants to see how things go before we make it official. How can I win him over? This sounds so cliche, but he's all I've ever wanted. TL;DR: I'm in love with this guy, he's basically head over heels for me and I can't tell if he's just being nice or whether he actually wants to be with me. How do I win him over?<|endoftext|>

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So I feel like this whole thing is a little bit complicated. Or maybe it's not, hell if I know, that's why I'm here. but anyways, here's the situation: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months as of yesterday (3/17) and relationship has been a little bumpy. Or maybe very bumpy. So I'm still very good friends with my ex. He and I parted on really good terms, his family loved me, we saw no reason we couldn't be friends, even though our relationship didn't work out. Well my current bf never really understood my friendship with my ex as he has never maintained any sort of contact with his previous relationships. But anyways, the part where things get complicated is that we have a lot of trust issues (he with me, I trust him 110%) but those are all my fault. I've lied to him several times (each time pertaining to situations with my ex i.e. I told him I'd say one thing but said another) because I didn't want him to get angry with me for talking with my ex. But the point I'm trying to make is that there isn't a whole lot of trust right now and that's a big problem that I am working towards fixing. Now comes the next problem, his parents have invited me along on a very nice and rather pricey vacation right after the school year ends and after that, he begins clinical rotations for the next year (pharmacy school) while I will most likely be abroad for an internship. So the part that's making me feel trapped is that, I'm not sure that we are even going to last the summer because I don't know if he and I will be able to handle the distance + the trust issues but it would just look like I used him for the vacation if I broke up with him (by the way, the vacation has already been booked and everything and there's no way to do anything about that) Any advice??

Bf and I have trust issues, his family is taking me on vacation but I don't know if we can handle the distance + the trust issues and I feel like I'm doomed.

My boyfriend and I have a lot of trust issues and I don't know if we'll last the summer (also, I'm going to be abroad for an internship)

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I feel like this whole thing is a little bit complicated. Or maybe it's not, hell if I know, that's why I'm here. but anyways, here's the situation: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months as of yesterday (3/17) and relationship has been a little bumpy. Or maybe very bumpy. So I'm still very good friends with my ex. He and I parted on really good terms, his family loved me, we saw no reason we couldn't be friends, even though our relationship didn't work out. Well my current bf never really understood my friendship with my ex as he has never maintained any sort of contact with his previous relationships. But anyways, the part where things get complicated is that we have a lot of trust issues (he with me, I trust him 110%) but those are all my fault. I've lied to him several times (each time pertaining to situations with my ex i.e. I told him I'd say one thing but said another) because I didn't want him to get angry with me for talking with my ex. But the point I'm trying to make is that there isn't a whole lot of trust right now and that's a big problem that I am working towards fixing. Now comes the next problem, his parents have invited me along on a very nice and rather pricey vacation right after the school year ends and after that, he begins clinical rotations for the next year (pharmacy school) while I will most likely be abroad for an internship. So the part that's making me feel trapped is that, I'm not sure that we are even going to last the summer because I don't know if he and I will be able to handle the distance + the trust issues but it would just look like I used him for the vacation if I broke up with him (by the way, the vacation has already been booked and everything and there's no way to do anything about that) Any advice?? TL;DR:

Bf and I have trust issues, his family is taking me on vacation but I don't know if we can handle the distance + the trust issues and I feel like I'm doomed.<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend and I have a lot of trust issues and I don't know if we'll last the summer (also, I'm going to be abroad for an internship)<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I feel like this whole thing is a little bit complicated. Or maybe it's not, hell if I know, that's why I'm here. but anyways, here's the situation: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months as of yesterday (3/17) and relationship has been a little bumpy. Or maybe very bumpy. So I'm still very good friends with my ex. He and I parted on really good terms, his family loved me, we saw no reason we couldn't be friends, even though our relationship didn't work out. Well my current bf never really understood my friendship with my ex as he has never maintained any sort of contact with his previous relationships. But anyways, the part where things get complicated is that we have a lot of trust issues (he with me, I trust him 110%) but those are all my fault. I've lied to him several times (each time pertaining to situations with my ex i.e. I told him I'd say one thing but said another) because I didn't want him to get angry with me for talking with my ex. But the point I'm trying to make is that there isn't a whole lot of trust right now and that's a big problem that I am working towards fixing. Now comes the next problem, his parents have invited me along on a very nice and rather pricey vacation right after the school year ends and after that, he begins clinical rotations for the next year (pharmacy school) while I will most likely be abroad for an internship. So the part that's making me feel trapped is that, I'm not sure that we are even going to last the summer because I don't know if he and I will be able to handle the distance + the trust issues but it would just look like I used him for the vacation if I broke up with him (by the way, the vacation has already been booked and everything and there's no way to do anything about that) Any advice?? TL;DR: Bf and I have trust issues, his family is taking me on vacation but I don't know if we can handle the distance + the trust issues and I feel like I'm doomed.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I feel like this whole thing is a little bit complicated. Or maybe it's not, hell if I know, that's why I'm here. but anyways, here's the situation: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months as of yesterday (3/17) and relationship has been a little bumpy. Or maybe very bumpy. So I'm still very good friends with my ex. He and I parted on really good terms, his family loved me, we saw no reason we couldn't be friends, even though our relationship didn't work out. Well my current bf never really understood my friendship with my ex as he has never maintained any sort of contact with his previous relationships. But anyways, the part where things get complicated is that we have a lot of trust issues (he with me, I trust him 110%) but those are all my fault. I've lied to him several times (each time pertaining to situations with my ex i.e. I told him I'd say one thing but said another) because I didn't want him to get angry with me for talking with my ex. But the point I'm trying to make is that there isn't a whole lot of trust right now and that's a big problem that I am working towards fixing. Now comes the next problem, his parents have invited me along on a very nice and rather pricey vacation right after the school year ends and after that, he begins clinical rotations for the next year (pharmacy school) while I will most likely be abroad for an internship. So the part that's making me feel trapped is that, I'm not sure that we are even going to last the summer because I don't know if he and I will be able to handle the distance + the trust issues but it would just look like I used him for the vacation if I broke up with him (by the way, the vacation has already been booked and everything and there's no way to do anything about that) Any advice?? TL;DR: My boyfriend and I have a lot of trust issues and I don't know if we'll last the summer (also, I'm going to be abroad for an internship)<|endoftext|>

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I've been married to my wife for about 5 years now. While I can say that I love her very much, I'm not happy with her. She doesn't help around the house, we don't have sex as often as I'd like, she's very needy, and very full of herself. For the five years we've been married and the two we dated prior to getting married, I've felt like I always have to put up an act. We usually get into arguments whenever I'm drunk or high because I let myself go and the real me pops out (spontaneous, erratic, horndog, just all around fun loving). I'll do stuff like rock out by changing lyrics to songs in Rock Band and making them raunchier or dance like a fool in the streets or something silly with our friends and she'll start a scene because "that's not how an adult should act" or "its very disrespectful" to her. It hurts to think about leaving her because aside from everything I've stated, she's a good person. She's smart, cute, strong, and very sociable. She's also my voice of reason; sometimes my ideas are a bit overboard. She's really put up with a lot with me. Now here's the really hard part about it all. She's got lupus...pretty bad too. We spend a lot on medical care and services and she's on my medical plan. If we divorce, I might as well start planning the funeral. Due to some of the medication she's on, we can't have kids naturally. She's very sensitive about that and feels like she's defective. I really want kids (I'm not getting any younger) and its looking like she won't be able to deliver. We have talked about all the issues several times. With regards to all of my gripes, she always promises to work on it. She shows improvement for a month, maybe two, but then goes back to her same ways. I'm at a loss. Any advice?

my wife and I are having a falling out, I'm going to be a dad, I can't afford to divorce. She's on meds for lupus and I'm not sure what to do.

I'm married to a sick, stuck up, lazy, stifling, infertile prude who is alive due to my medical coverage. I do love her for many reasons, but she does not stick to our agreements to make the marriage work.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been married to my wife for about 5 years now. While I can say that I love her very much, I'm not happy with her. She doesn't help around the house, we don't have sex as often as I'd like, she's very needy, and very full of herself. For the five years we've been married and the two we dated prior to getting married, I've felt like I always have to put up an act. We usually get into arguments whenever I'm drunk or high because I let myself go and the real me pops out (spontaneous, erratic, horndog, just all around fun loving). I'll do stuff like rock out by changing lyrics to songs in Rock Band and making them raunchier or dance like a fool in the streets or something silly with our friends and she'll start a scene because "that's not how an adult should act" or "its very disrespectful" to her. It hurts to think about leaving her because aside from everything I've stated, she's a good person. She's smart, cute, strong, and very sociable. She's also my voice of reason; sometimes my ideas are a bit overboard. She's really put up with a lot with me. Now here's the really hard part about it all. She's got lupus...pretty bad too. We spend a lot on medical care and services and she's on my medical plan. If we divorce, I might as well start planning the funeral. Due to some of the medication she's on, we can't have kids naturally. She's very sensitive about that and feels like she's defective. I really want kids (I'm not getting any younger) and its looking like she won't be able to deliver. We have talked about all the issues several times. With regards to all of my gripes, she always promises to work on it. She shows improvement for a month, maybe two, but then goes back to her same ways. I'm at a loss. Any advice? TL;DR:

my wife and I are having a falling out, I'm going to be a dad, I can't afford to divorce. She's on meds for lupus and I'm not sure what to do.<|endoftext|>

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I'm married to a sick, stuck up, lazy, stifling, infertile prude who is alive due to my medical coverage. I do love her for many reasons, but she does not stick to our agreements to make the marriage work.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been married to my wife for about 5 years now. While I can say that I love her very much, I'm not happy with her. She doesn't help around the house, we don't have sex as often as I'd like, she's very needy, and very full of herself. For the five years we've been married and the two we dated prior to getting married, I've felt like I always have to put up an act. We usually get into arguments whenever I'm drunk or high because I let myself go and the real me pops out (spontaneous, erratic, horndog, just all around fun loving). I'll do stuff like rock out by changing lyrics to songs in Rock Band and making them raunchier or dance like a fool in the streets or something silly with our friends and she'll start a scene because "that's not how an adult should act" or "its very disrespectful" to her. It hurts to think about leaving her because aside from everything I've stated, she's a good person. She's smart, cute, strong, and very sociable. She's also my voice of reason; sometimes my ideas are a bit overboard. She's really put up with a lot with me. Now here's the really hard part about it all. She's got lupus...pretty bad too. We spend a lot on medical care and services and she's on my medical plan. If we divorce, I might as well start planning the funeral. Due to some of the medication she's on, we can't have kids naturally. She's very sensitive about that and feels like she's defective. I really want kids (I'm not getting any younger) and its looking like she won't be able to deliver. We have talked about all the issues several times. With regards to all of my gripes, she always promises to work on it. She shows improvement for a month, maybe two, but then goes back to her same ways. I'm at a loss. Any advice? TL;DR: my wife and I are having a falling out, I'm going to be a dad, I can't afford to divorce. She's on meds for lupus and I'm not sure what to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been married to my wife for about 5 years now. While I can say that I love her very much, I'm not happy with her. She doesn't help around the house, we don't have sex as often as I'd like, she's very needy, and very full of herself. For the five years we've been married and the two we dated prior to getting married, I've felt like I always have to put up an act. We usually get into arguments whenever I'm drunk or high because I let myself go and the real me pops out (spontaneous, erratic, horndog, just all around fun loving). I'll do stuff like rock out by changing lyrics to songs in Rock Band and making them raunchier or dance like a fool in the streets or something silly with our friends and she'll start a scene because "that's not how an adult should act" or "its very disrespectful" to her. It hurts to think about leaving her because aside from everything I've stated, she's a good person. She's smart, cute, strong, and very sociable. She's also my voice of reason; sometimes my ideas are a bit overboard. She's really put up with a lot with me. Now here's the really hard part about it all. She's got lupus...pretty bad too. We spend a lot on medical care and services and she's on my medical plan. If we divorce, I might as well start planning the funeral. Due to some of the medication she's on, we can't have kids naturally. She's very sensitive about that and feels like she's defective. I really want kids (I'm not getting any younger) and its looking like she won't be able to deliver. We have talked about all the issues several times. With regards to all of my gripes, she always promises to work on it. She shows improvement for a month, maybe two, but then goes back to her same ways. I'm at a loss. Any advice? TL;DR: I'm married to a sick, stuck up, lazy, stifling, infertile prude who is alive due to my medical coverage. I do love her for many reasons, but she does not stick to our agreements to make the marriage work.<|endoftext|>

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My fiancee and I have had multiple conversations about our sex life throughout our relationship, but one that keeps coming up is that I need to turn her on more, she wants me to be flirty-er. But she wants aggressive flirtations, which I've been working on. It's easier for me to do it in person, (grab her neck, tug her hair, ect.) and I'm getting better at it. But the part where I struggle the most is that part that I need to do the most. I work a normal office hour job, she works at a library 3 nights a week so lately a lot of our communication has gone to text. She wants a long build-up to the act, and I am horrible at text flirting. I tried it yesterday and while she was happy I was trying, it was clear I was bombing. I can't get my head around some stuff like dirty talk, or being overly explicit. There's just a disconnect in my brain where I just can't grasp that stuff. So how do I get better? Ladies, what are some things you'd like to read? Guys, what are some things you've texted that worked really well. Anything will help, it's hard enough that I have a lower drive than she does, I don't want to suck at it too.

I need to find a way to flirt better with my fiancee, maybe I'm not as good as I think I am, help!

Teach me how to turn my woman on using the power of cellular messaging while I'm at my day job

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My fiancee and I have had multiple conversations about our sex life throughout our relationship, but one that keeps coming up is that I need to turn her on more, she wants me to be flirty-er. But she wants aggressive flirtations, which I've been working on. It's easier for me to do it in person, (grab her neck, tug her hair, ect.) and I'm getting better at it. But the part where I struggle the most is that part that I need to do the most. I work a normal office hour job, she works at a library 3 nights a week so lately a lot of our communication has gone to text. She wants a long build-up to the act, and I am horrible at text flirting. I tried it yesterday and while she was happy I was trying, it was clear I was bombing. I can't get my head around some stuff like dirty talk, or being overly explicit. There's just a disconnect in my brain where I just can't grasp that stuff. So how do I get better? Ladies, what are some things you'd like to read? Guys, what are some things you've texted that worked really well. Anything will help, it's hard enough that I have a lower drive than she does, I don't want to suck at it too. TL;DR:

I need to find a way to flirt better with my fiancee, maybe I'm not as good as I think I am, help!<|endoftext|>

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Teach me how to turn my woman on using the power of cellular messaging while I'm at my day job<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My fiancee and I have had multiple conversations about our sex life throughout our relationship, but one that keeps coming up is that I need to turn her on more, she wants me to be flirty-er. But she wants aggressive flirtations, which I've been working on. It's easier for me to do it in person, (grab her neck, tug her hair, ect.) and I'm getting better at it. But the part where I struggle the most is that part that I need to do the most. I work a normal office hour job, she works at a library 3 nights a week so lately a lot of our communication has gone to text. She wants a long build-up to the act, and I am horrible at text flirting. I tried it yesterday and while she was happy I was trying, it was clear I was bombing. I can't get my head around some stuff like dirty talk, or being overly explicit. There's just a disconnect in my brain where I just can't grasp that stuff. So how do I get better? Ladies, what are some things you'd like to read? Guys, what are some things you've texted that worked really well. Anything will help, it's hard enough that I have a lower drive than she does, I don't want to suck at it too. TL;DR: I need to find a way to flirt better with my fiancee, maybe I'm not as good as I think I am, help!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My fiancee and I have had multiple conversations about our sex life throughout our relationship, but one that keeps coming up is that I need to turn her on more, she wants me to be flirty-er. But she wants aggressive flirtations, which I've been working on. It's easier for me to do it in person, (grab her neck, tug her hair, ect.) and I'm getting better at it. But the part where I struggle the most is that part that I need to do the most. I work a normal office hour job, she works at a library 3 nights a week so lately a lot of our communication has gone to text. She wants a long build-up to the act, and I am horrible at text flirting. I tried it yesterday and while she was happy I was trying, it was clear I was bombing. I can't get my head around some stuff like dirty talk, or being overly explicit. There's just a disconnect in my brain where I just can't grasp that stuff. So how do I get better? Ladies, what are some things you'd like to read? Guys, what are some things you've texted that worked really well. Anything will help, it's hard enough that I have a lower drive than she does, I don't want to suck at it too. TL;DR: Teach me how to turn my woman on using the power of cellular messaging while I'm at my day job<|endoftext|>

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I've got a 2-year-old Sheltie, Dave, who I adopted almost exactly a year ago. At the time, I was just out of college, didn't have a job, lived with my parents, and was able to spend a considerable amount of time with him at home. If I was leaving the house for a few hours, I would usually put him in his cage but otherwise would leave him out. There were a few occasions where (less than 5) I came home and found he had gotten into something he shouldn't have- more often than not, it was my shoes, socks, or (gasp) underwear. Anything that seemed to have my scent on it. I recently moved (twice) and just got settled into a new apartment. We've been here about two months and he seems to have adjusted fine. In fact, many of his behavioral issues (mainly excessive barking and going psycho around other dogs) has disappeared. Except when we (my boyfriend and I) leave the house. I work full time now. When this started, I felt horrible about leaving him stuck in his cage all day (except when I come home on lunch). We would leave him out but try to pick up anything he might get into. I'd also leave out a bone and he knows where to find all of his toys. Several times, I'd come home at lunch to find at least one shoe complete chewed up. As a temporary fix, he had to go back in his kennel for when we were at work. Yes, I feel like a shit head. Yes, when I come home he has wonderful times at the dog park. My question- we've been considering getting dog #2. We're hoping that, in the times when we are gone, having a "friend" there will calm Dave down. He used to have a pretty close bond with my parent's dogs when I lived with them, and I'm wondering if he misses having other dogs around. Am I right in thinking this? Or, in your experience, would getting another dog be a disaster? Dave is, for the most part, a very well behaved and well mannered dog. But it's when we step out that door that I think the separation anxiety sets in.

really awesome dog turns shoe eating monster when I leave him alone in the house. Could having another playmate help him through his shoe eating anxiety?

My dog is a good dog, but if I have to leave him for a few hours, I feel like I'm going to ruin him.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've got a 2-year-old Sheltie, Dave, who I adopted almost exactly a year ago. At the time, I was just out of college, didn't have a job, lived with my parents, and was able to spend a considerable amount of time with him at home. If I was leaving the house for a few hours, I would usually put him in his cage but otherwise would leave him out. There were a few occasions where (less than 5) I came home and found he had gotten into something he shouldn't have- more often than not, it was my shoes, socks, or (gasp) underwear. Anything that seemed to have my scent on it. I recently moved (twice) and just got settled into a new apartment. We've been here about two months and he seems to have adjusted fine. In fact, many of his behavioral issues (mainly excessive barking and going psycho around other dogs) has disappeared. Except when we (my boyfriend and I) leave the house. I work full time now. When this started, I felt horrible about leaving him stuck in his cage all day (except when I come home on lunch). We would leave him out but try to pick up anything he might get into. I'd also leave out a bone and he knows where to find all of his toys. Several times, I'd come home at lunch to find at least one shoe complete chewed up. As a temporary fix, he had to go back in his kennel for when we were at work. Yes, I feel like a shit head. Yes, when I come home he has wonderful times at the dog park. My question- we've been considering getting dog #2. We're hoping that, in the times when we are gone, having a "friend" there will calm Dave down. He used to have a pretty close bond with my parent's dogs when I lived with them, and I'm wondering if he misses having other dogs around. Am I right in thinking this? Or, in your experience, would getting another dog be a disaster? Dave is, for the most part, a very well behaved and well mannered dog. But it's when we step out that door that I think the separation anxiety sets in. TL;DR:

really awesome dog turns shoe eating monster when I leave him alone in the house. Could having another playmate help him through his shoe eating anxiety?<|endoftext|>

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My dog is a good dog, but if I have to leave him for a few hours, I feel like I'm going to ruin him.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've got a 2-year-old Sheltie, Dave, who I adopted almost exactly a year ago. At the time, I was just out of college, didn't have a job, lived with my parents, and was able to spend a considerable amount of time with him at home. If I was leaving the house for a few hours, I would usually put him in his cage but otherwise would leave him out. There were a few occasions where (less than 5) I came home and found he had gotten into something he shouldn't have- more often than not, it was my shoes, socks, or (gasp) underwear. Anything that seemed to have my scent on it. I recently moved (twice) and just got settled into a new apartment. We've been here about two months and he seems to have adjusted fine. In fact, many of his behavioral issues (mainly excessive barking and going psycho around other dogs) has disappeared. Except when we (my boyfriend and I) leave the house. I work full time now. When this started, I felt horrible about leaving him stuck in his cage all day (except when I come home on lunch). We would leave him out but try to pick up anything he might get into. I'd also leave out a bone and he knows where to find all of his toys. Several times, I'd come home at lunch to find at least one shoe complete chewed up. As a temporary fix, he had to go back in his kennel for when we were at work. Yes, I feel like a shit head. Yes, when I come home he has wonderful times at the dog park. My question- we've been considering getting dog #2. We're hoping that, in the times when we are gone, having a "friend" there will calm Dave down. He used to have a pretty close bond with my parent's dogs when I lived with them, and I'm wondering if he misses having other dogs around. Am I right in thinking this? Or, in your experience, would getting another dog be a disaster? Dave is, for the most part, a very well behaved and well mannered dog. But it's when we step out that door that I think the separation anxiety sets in. TL;DR: really awesome dog turns shoe eating monster when I leave him alone in the house. Could having another playmate help him through his shoe eating anxiety?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've got a 2-year-old Sheltie, Dave, who I adopted almost exactly a year ago. At the time, I was just out of college, didn't have a job, lived with my parents, and was able to spend a considerable amount of time with him at home. If I was leaving the house for a few hours, I would usually put him in his cage but otherwise would leave him out. There were a few occasions where (less than 5) I came home and found he had gotten into something he shouldn't have- more often than not, it was my shoes, socks, or (gasp) underwear. Anything that seemed to have my scent on it. I recently moved (twice) and just got settled into a new apartment. We've been here about two months and he seems to have adjusted fine. In fact, many of his behavioral issues (mainly excessive barking and going psycho around other dogs) has disappeared. Except when we (my boyfriend and I) leave the house. I work full time now. When this started, I felt horrible about leaving him stuck in his cage all day (except when I come home on lunch). We would leave him out but try to pick up anything he might get into. I'd also leave out a bone and he knows where to find all of his toys. Several times, I'd come home at lunch to find at least one shoe complete chewed up. As a temporary fix, he had to go back in his kennel for when we were at work. Yes, I feel like a shit head. Yes, when I come home he has wonderful times at the dog park. My question- we've been considering getting dog #2. We're hoping that, in the times when we are gone, having a "friend" there will calm Dave down. He used to have a pretty close bond with my parent's dogs when I lived with them, and I'm wondering if he misses having other dogs around. Am I right in thinking this? Or, in your experience, would getting another dog be a disaster? Dave is, for the most part, a very well behaved and well mannered dog. But it's when we step out that door that I think the separation anxiety sets in. TL;DR: My dog is a good dog, but if I have to leave him for a few hours, I feel like I'm going to ruin him.<|endoftext|>

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(M27, F27) About 2+ months ago I met a fantastic girl. We hit it off instantly. I was working and she came into my restaurant. Before even introducing or even talking with her, I saved her from being hit on by a lesbian by pretending to be her boyfriend and asking her out for a cigarette. Went off without a hitch and we ended up talking outside for about 45 minutes and exchanged numbers. From that moment on we talked/texted at least once a day always asking how each others day was and exchanging witty banter. She was going back home for Christmas on the 21st of December and had a flight that morning at 8am. She asked me if I wanted to spend the night and we did. We had beyond amazing sexy time and stayed up until she had to leave for her flight. While she was away we talked all the time, confessing we missed each other etc etc. When she came back we resumed right where we picked up. Over the last 10 days or so though, something seems to have changed drastically. Now I am a chronic over analyzer, and I have been in a lot of relationships where if I didnt talk to my girlfriend of either 2 months or 2 years for a day because of whatever reason, it didnt bother me. With this girl though, its very different. I feel like I found someone truly special and dont know if im just acting differently because of it. Also, I am afraid to ask about the drop off of the last 10 days or so. We havent seen each other in that time period, and when I ask her if she wants to do something, there is something business related that hinders the plans. Reddit help, I honestly think this is a special one, and I dont want to screw it up. I am sorry if this stream of thought is hard to read. If you have questions dont hesitate to ask.

I met my dream girl and we both hit it off quick. Recently a something has caused a perceived disinterest and I am not sure If I am being strung along, overanalyzing or I am just lost with what to do going forward.

Met a girl, hit it off right away, went on a date, slept together, great things are happening, not sure what to do.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: (M27, F27) About 2+ months ago I met a fantastic girl. We hit it off instantly. I was working and she came into my restaurant. Before even introducing or even talking with her, I saved her from being hit on by a lesbian by pretending to be her boyfriend and asking her out for a cigarette. Went off without a hitch and we ended up talking outside for about 45 minutes and exchanged numbers. From that moment on we talked/texted at least once a day always asking how each others day was and exchanging witty banter. She was going back home for Christmas on the 21st of December and had a flight that morning at 8am. She asked me if I wanted to spend the night and we did. We had beyond amazing sexy time and stayed up until she had to leave for her flight. While she was away we talked all the time, confessing we missed each other etc etc. When she came back we resumed right where we picked up. Over the last 10 days or so though, something seems to have changed drastically. Now I am a chronic over analyzer, and I have been in a lot of relationships where if I didnt talk to my girlfriend of either 2 months or 2 years for a day because of whatever reason, it didnt bother me. With this girl though, its very different. I feel like I found someone truly special and dont know if im just acting differently because of it. Also, I am afraid to ask about the drop off of the last 10 days or so. We havent seen each other in that time period, and when I ask her if she wants to do something, there is something business related that hinders the plans. Reddit help, I honestly think this is a special one, and I dont want to screw it up. I am sorry if this stream of thought is hard to read. If you have questions dont hesitate to ask. TL;DR:

I met my dream girl and we both hit it off quick. Recently a something has caused a perceived disinterest and I am not sure If I am being strung along, overanalyzing or I am just lost with what to do going forward.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: (M27, F27) About 2+ months ago I met a fantastic girl. We hit it off instantly. I was working and she came into my restaurant. Before even introducing or even talking with her, I saved her from being hit on by a lesbian by pretending to be her boyfriend and asking her out for a cigarette. Went off without a hitch and we ended up talking outside for about 45 minutes and exchanged numbers. From that moment on we talked/texted at least once a day always asking how each others day was and exchanging witty banter. She was going back home for Christmas on the 21st of December and had a flight that morning at 8am. She asked me if I wanted to spend the night and we did. We had beyond amazing sexy time and stayed up until she had to leave for her flight. While she was away we talked all the time, confessing we missed each other etc etc. When she came back we resumed right where we picked up. Over the last 10 days or so though, something seems to have changed drastically. Now I am a chronic over analyzer, and I have been in a lot of relationships where if I didnt talk to my girlfriend of either 2 months or 2 years for a day because of whatever reason, it didnt bother me. With this girl though, its very different. I feel like I found someone truly special and dont know if im just acting differently because of it. Also, I am afraid to ask about the drop off of the last 10 days or so. We havent seen each other in that time period, and when I ask her if she wants to do something, there is something business related that hinders the plans. Reddit help, I honestly think this is a special one, and I dont want to screw it up. I am sorry if this stream of thought is hard to read. If you have questions dont hesitate to ask. TL;DR: I met my dream girl and we both hit it off quick. Recently a something has caused a perceived disinterest and I am not sure If I am being strung along, overanalyzing or I am just lost with what to do going forward.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: (M27, F27) About 2+ months ago I met a fantastic girl. We hit it off instantly. I was working and she came into my restaurant. Before even introducing or even talking with her, I saved her from being hit on by a lesbian by pretending to be her boyfriend and asking her out for a cigarette. Went off without a hitch and we ended up talking outside for about 45 minutes and exchanged numbers. From that moment on we talked/texted at least once a day always asking how each others day was and exchanging witty banter. She was going back home for Christmas on the 21st of December and had a flight that morning at 8am. She asked me if I wanted to spend the night and we did. We had beyond amazing sexy time and stayed up until she had to leave for her flight. While she was away we talked all the time, confessing we missed each other etc etc. When she came back we resumed right where we picked up. Over the last 10 days or so though, something seems to have changed drastically. Now I am a chronic over analyzer, and I have been in a lot of relationships where if I didnt talk to my girlfriend of either 2 months or 2 years for a day because of whatever reason, it didnt bother me. With this girl though, its very different. I feel like I found someone truly special and dont know if im just acting differently because of it. Also, I am afraid to ask about the drop off of the last 10 days or so. We havent seen each other in that time period, and when I ask her if she wants to do something, there is something business related that hinders the plans. Reddit help, I honestly think this is a special one, and I dont want to screw it up. I am sorry if this stream of thought is hard to read. If you have questions dont hesitate to ask. TL;DR: Met a girl, hit it off right away, went on a date, slept together, great things are happening, not sure what to do.<|endoftext|>

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Hey there r/relationships! Throwaway account here. I'll try to keep things short and to the point- my partner (26M) and I (26F) dated for five years. We both agree that those five years were beyond amazing- we were very much in love and each other's best friend. Out of the blue a while back he says our visions of the future weren't compatible. Cue a few months of fighting (me begging him to reconsider, mostly) before he left me. We kept in contact (we are/were best friends), but after one giant fight where he refused to tell me he loved me (although I know he does), I cut contact. He has tried to get in touch with me at least every other day since I did this. I let him know about a week after we stopped talking why I cut contact (that fight really hurt me) and he tried to explain himself somewhat clumsily. The past few days I've gotten emails from him saying that the only reason we needed to end things was because of our visions of the future, not because there was anything wrong with our relationship. Apparently he was ready to take us forward to moving in together before all this happened. Yesterday I get a text from him saying "This sucks... Whose f*cking stupid idea was it to break up again?" Do you think these communications are signs that we could reconcile?

partner (26M) and I (26F) ended things abruptly after 5 wonderful years. I cut contact, but his attempts at contacting makes me think he might be realizing he made a mistake. What do you think?

Partner and I dated for five years- he said his vision of the future was incompatible with mine- we broke up for about 2 months before he came crawling back. I cut contact and he's trying to make me believe there was a good reason why we broke up again. Is it possible to reconcile?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey there r/relationships! Throwaway account here. I'll try to keep things short and to the point- my partner (26M) and I (26F) dated for five years. We both agree that those five years were beyond amazing- we were very much in love and each other's best friend. Out of the blue a while back he says our visions of the future weren't compatible. Cue a few months of fighting (me begging him to reconsider, mostly) before he left me. We kept in contact (we are/were best friends), but after one giant fight where he refused to tell me he loved me (although I know he does), I cut contact. He has tried to get in touch with me at least every other day since I did this. I let him know about a week after we stopped talking why I cut contact (that fight really hurt me) and he tried to explain himself somewhat clumsily. The past few days I've gotten emails from him saying that the only reason we needed to end things was because of our visions of the future, not because there was anything wrong with our relationship. Apparently he was ready to take us forward to moving in together before all this happened. Yesterday I get a text from him saying "This sucks... Whose f*cking stupid idea was it to break up again?" Do you think these communications are signs that we could reconcile? TL;DR:

partner (26M) and I (26F) ended things abruptly after 5 wonderful years. I cut contact, but his attempts at contacting makes me think he might be realizing he made a mistake. What do you think?<|endoftext|>

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Partner and I dated for five years- he said his vision of the future was incompatible with mine- we broke up for about 2 months before he came crawling back. I cut contact and he's trying to make me believe there was a good reason why we broke up again. Is it possible to reconcile?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey there r/relationships! Throwaway account here. I'll try to keep things short and to the point- my partner (26M) and I (26F) dated for five years. We both agree that those five years were beyond amazing- we were very much in love and each other's best friend. Out of the blue a while back he says our visions of the future weren't compatible. Cue a few months of fighting (me begging him to reconsider, mostly) before he left me. We kept in contact (we are/were best friends), but after one giant fight where he refused to tell me he loved me (although I know he does), I cut contact. He has tried to get in touch with me at least every other day since I did this. I let him know about a week after we stopped talking why I cut contact (that fight really hurt me) and he tried to explain himself somewhat clumsily. The past few days I've gotten emails from him saying that the only reason we needed to end things was because of our visions of the future, not because there was anything wrong with our relationship. Apparently he was ready to take us forward to moving in together before all this happened. Yesterday I get a text from him saying "This sucks... Whose f*cking stupid idea was it to break up again?" Do you think these communications are signs that we could reconcile? TL;DR: partner (26M) and I (26F) ended things abruptly after 5 wonderful years. I cut contact, but his attempts at contacting makes me think he might be realizing he made a mistake. What do you think?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey there r/relationships! Throwaway account here. I'll try to keep things short and to the point- my partner (26M) and I (26F) dated for five years. We both agree that those five years were beyond amazing- we were very much in love and each other's best friend. Out of the blue a while back he says our visions of the future weren't compatible. Cue a few months of fighting (me begging him to reconsider, mostly) before he left me. We kept in contact (we are/were best friends), but after one giant fight where he refused to tell me he loved me (although I know he does), I cut contact. He has tried to get in touch with me at least every other day since I did this. I let him know about a week after we stopped talking why I cut contact (that fight really hurt me) and he tried to explain himself somewhat clumsily. The past few days I've gotten emails from him saying that the only reason we needed to end things was because of our visions of the future, not because there was anything wrong with our relationship. Apparently he was ready to take us forward to moving in together before all this happened. Yesterday I get a text from him saying "This sucks... Whose f*cking stupid idea was it to break up again?" Do you think these communications are signs that we could reconcile? TL;DR: Partner and I dated for five years- he said his vision of the future was incompatible with mine- we broke up for about 2 months before he came crawling back. I cut contact and he's trying to make me believe there was a good reason why we broke up again. Is it possible to reconcile?<|endoftext|>

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He likes to run up and hug other girls or they'll write on his arm and I know I should be able to handle that but it absolutely burns me up when I see it. He knows when I've seen something like this because it makes me kinda sad or sometimes grumpy. Then I feel worse because I know it's petty and I don't like for him to know that I overreacted. :P I'm wondering if anyone else has the same problems, and how should I deal with these stupid feelings that well up when I see him hug other girls?

I get jealous when my boyfriend hugs other girls, I'm wondering if anyone else feels the same way and how they deal with these feelings?

I get really jealous of my boyfriend when he hugs other girls, and I'm wondering if anyone else has the same problem.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: He likes to run up and hug other girls or they'll write on his arm and I know I should be able to handle that but it absolutely burns me up when I see it. He knows when I've seen something like this because it makes me kinda sad or sometimes grumpy. Then I feel worse because I know it's petty and I don't like for him to know that I overreacted. :P I'm wondering if anyone else has the same problems, and how should I deal with these stupid feelings that well up when I see him hug other girls? TL;DR:

I get jealous when my boyfriend hugs other girls, I'm wondering if anyone else feels the same way and how they deal with these feelings?<|endoftext|>

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I get really jealous of my boyfriend when he hugs other girls, and I'm wondering if anyone else has the same problem.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: He likes to run up and hug other girls or they'll write on his arm and I know I should be able to handle that but it absolutely burns me up when I see it. He knows when I've seen something like this because it makes me kinda sad or sometimes grumpy. Then I feel worse because I know it's petty and I don't like for him to know that I overreacted. :P I'm wondering if anyone else has the same problems, and how should I deal with these stupid feelings that well up when I see him hug other girls? TL;DR: I get jealous when my boyfriend hugs other girls, I'm wondering if anyone else feels the same way and how they deal with these feelings?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: He likes to run up and hug other girls or they'll write on his arm and I know I should be able to handle that but it absolutely burns me up when I see it. He knows when I've seen something like this because it makes me kinda sad or sometimes grumpy. Then I feel worse because I know it's petty and I don't like for him to know that I overreacted. :P I'm wondering if anyone else has the same problems, and how should I deal with these stupid feelings that well up when I see him hug other girls? TL;DR: I get really jealous of my boyfriend when he hugs other girls, and I'm wondering if anyone else has the same problem.<|endoftext|>

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My gf of about 10 months and I had a fight. We didn't really raise our voices or anything and it was mostly done via texting. I wrote some things out of anger/sadness...nothing that bad or anything, just childish bullshit. We made up last night but I was wondering how long it takes to get that feeling of lovey dovey back 100%. I would say I'm back at like 80% or so. BTW, the argument lasted a couple of days and we just made up last night. We have never really had a 'fight' before so it is kind of new ground.

had a small fight with gf, made up last night, how long does it take to get back to being in lovey dovey?

Had a smallish fight with gf, wondering how long it takes for the ebbies jeebies to calm down.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My gf of about 10 months and I had a fight. We didn't really raise our voices or anything and it was mostly done via texting. I wrote some things out of anger/sadness...nothing that bad or anything, just childish bullshit. We made up last night but I was wondering how long it takes to get that feeling of lovey dovey back 100%. I would say I'm back at like 80% or so. BTW, the argument lasted a couple of days and we just made up last night. We have never really had a 'fight' before so it is kind of new ground. TL;DR:

had a small fight with gf, made up last night, how long does it take to get back to being in lovey dovey?<|endoftext|>

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Had a smallish fight with gf, wondering how long it takes for the ebbies jeebies to calm down.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My gf of about 10 months and I had a fight. We didn't really raise our voices or anything and it was mostly done via texting. I wrote some things out of anger/sadness...nothing that bad or anything, just childish bullshit. We made up last night but I was wondering how long it takes to get that feeling of lovey dovey back 100%. I would say I'm back at like 80% or so. BTW, the argument lasted a couple of days and we just made up last night. We have never really had a 'fight' before so it is kind of new ground. TL;DR: had a small fight with gf, made up last night, how long does it take to get back to being in lovey dovey?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My gf of about 10 months and I had a fight. We didn't really raise our voices or anything and it was mostly done via texting. I wrote some things out of anger/sadness...nothing that bad or anything, just childish bullshit. We made up last night but I was wondering how long it takes to get that feeling of lovey dovey back 100%. I would say I'm back at like 80% or so. BTW, the argument lasted a couple of days and we just made up last night. We have never really had a 'fight' before so it is kind of new ground. TL;DR: Had a smallish fight with gf, wondering how long it takes for the ebbies jeebies to calm down.<|endoftext|>

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So we met about 5 years ago when we woke up spooning on a mutual friend's couch after a drunken party. She's a 9.5/10, I'm maybe a 6 (7 on a good day). I had just broken up with my ex-GF and so was in rebound mode and developed an instant crush. Since we both had lots of mutual friends and I knew she was out of my league, I hid my feelings and deliberately avoided her at parties and basically just acted like a dick towards her. Eventually she called me out on it, asking me why I hated her so much. I shrugged it off and spent the next few months trying to get over her. A few years later, we randomly met again at a party and for some reason we just hit it off, laughed a lot and generally enjoyed each others' company. We exchanged numbers and started texting back and forth a lot. During parties where we would normally avoid each other, all of a sudden we would find ourselves taking shots and dancing together a lot. Texts became more flirtatious, and I noticed she never played any games (she would never wait hours or days to respond). Now I find myself having feelings for her again. I'm scared because we have lots of mutual friends, and I mostly date girls outside our social circle to avoid awkwardness. Also, I don't have many other girl "friends" to talk to, so I really do appreciate her as a friend. I think there may be something there, but also I could just be misreading the whole situation. She can basically get any guy she wants, so why would she date me? I don't wanna ruin our friendship and I don't want to create any awkwardness in our social group. Also, we've never hung out one-on-one before, always with a group of people. So I guess what I'm asking is, what's the best way to ask her out without making it awkward? Is the risk worth the reward? Anyone out there been in a similar situation? Did it work out, or did it backfire?

I've been crushing on a girl for a long time, her and I have mutual friends, but I'm not sure how to ask her out without making it awkward.**

I have feelings for a girl I've never met and she likes me, I don't know how to ask her out without making it awkward. Thank you!

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we met about 5 years ago when we woke up spooning on a mutual friend's couch after a drunken party. She's a 9.5/10, I'm maybe a 6 (7 on a good day). I had just broken up with my ex-GF and so was in rebound mode and developed an instant crush. Since we both had lots of mutual friends and I knew she was out of my league, I hid my feelings and deliberately avoided her at parties and basically just acted like a dick towards her. Eventually she called me out on it, asking me why I hated her so much. I shrugged it off and spent the next few months trying to get over her. A few years later, we randomly met again at a party and for some reason we just hit it off, laughed a lot and generally enjoyed each others' company. We exchanged numbers and started texting back and forth a lot. During parties where we would normally avoid each other, all of a sudden we would find ourselves taking shots and dancing together a lot. Texts became more flirtatious, and I noticed she never played any games (she would never wait hours or days to respond). Now I find myself having feelings for her again. I'm scared because we have lots of mutual friends, and I mostly date girls outside our social circle to avoid awkwardness. Also, I don't have many other girl "friends" to talk to, so I really do appreciate her as a friend. I think there may be something there, but also I could just be misreading the whole situation. She can basically get any guy she wants, so why would she date me? I don't wanna ruin our friendship and I don't want to create any awkwardness in our social group. Also, we've never hung out one-on-one before, always with a group of people. So I guess what I'm asking is, what's the best way to ask her out without making it awkward? Is the risk worth the reward? Anyone out there been in a similar situation? Did it work out, or did it backfire? TL;DR:

I've been crushing on a girl for a long time, her and I have mutual friends, but I'm not sure how to ask her out without making it awkward.**<|endoftext|>

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I have feelings for a girl I've never met and she likes me, I don't know how to ask her out without making it awkward. Thank you!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we met about 5 years ago when we woke up spooning on a mutual friend's couch after a drunken party. She's a 9.5/10, I'm maybe a 6 (7 on a good day). I had just broken up with my ex-GF and so was in rebound mode and developed an instant crush. Since we both had lots of mutual friends and I knew she was out of my league, I hid my feelings and deliberately avoided her at parties and basically just acted like a dick towards her. Eventually she called me out on it, asking me why I hated her so much. I shrugged it off and spent the next few months trying to get over her. A few years later, we randomly met again at a party and for some reason we just hit it off, laughed a lot and generally enjoyed each others' company. We exchanged numbers and started texting back and forth a lot. During parties where we would normally avoid each other, all of a sudden we would find ourselves taking shots and dancing together a lot. Texts became more flirtatious, and I noticed she never played any games (she would never wait hours or days to respond). Now I find myself having feelings for her again. I'm scared because we have lots of mutual friends, and I mostly date girls outside our social circle to avoid awkwardness. Also, I don't have many other girl "friends" to talk to, so I really do appreciate her as a friend. I think there may be something there, but also I could just be misreading the whole situation. She can basically get any guy she wants, so why would she date me? I don't wanna ruin our friendship and I don't want to create any awkwardness in our social group. Also, we've never hung out one-on-one before, always with a group of people. So I guess what I'm asking is, what's the best way to ask her out without making it awkward? Is the risk worth the reward? Anyone out there been in a similar situation? Did it work out, or did it backfire? TL;DR: I've been crushing on a girl for a long time, her and I have mutual friends, but I'm not sure how to ask her out without making it awkward.**<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we met about 5 years ago when we woke up spooning on a mutual friend's couch after a drunken party. She's a 9.5/10, I'm maybe a 6 (7 on a good day). I had just broken up with my ex-GF and so was in rebound mode and developed an instant crush. Since we both had lots of mutual friends and I knew she was out of my league, I hid my feelings and deliberately avoided her at parties and basically just acted like a dick towards her. Eventually she called me out on it, asking me why I hated her so much. I shrugged it off and spent the next few months trying to get over her. A few years later, we randomly met again at a party and for some reason we just hit it off, laughed a lot and generally enjoyed each others' company. We exchanged numbers and started texting back and forth a lot. During parties where we would normally avoid each other, all of a sudden we would find ourselves taking shots and dancing together a lot. Texts became more flirtatious, and I noticed she never played any games (she would never wait hours or days to respond). Now I find myself having feelings for her again. I'm scared because we have lots of mutual friends, and I mostly date girls outside our social circle to avoid awkwardness. Also, I don't have many other girl "friends" to talk to, so I really do appreciate her as a friend. I think there may be something there, but also I could just be misreading the whole situation. She can basically get any guy she wants, so why would she date me? I don't wanna ruin our friendship and I don't want to create any awkwardness in our social group. Also, we've never hung out one-on-one before, always with a group of people. So I guess what I'm asking is, what's the best way to ask her out without making it awkward? Is the risk worth the reward? Anyone out there been in a similar situation? Did it work out, or did it backfire? TL;DR: I have feelings for a girl I've never met and she likes me, I don't know how to ask her out without making it awkward. Thank you!<|endoftext|>

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A little back story, Me [19 M] and my friend [19 M] are both attending university together. The other day he was teasing me about something fairly minor which he has brought up a lot in the past, and immaturely said something about how I am doing better in school than him, specifically that I could pass tests and that he couldn't (which was not very related to the topic he was teasing me for at all). He has had a rough semester and is usually quite an average student (as am I), but has had a couple bad tests. Within ten seconds I realized what I said was cruel and apologized quite fully, and that what I said was cruel and immature, and it was just being a mean for the sake of it and that I was being an asshole. He didn't exactly accept the apology and was still visibly upset, but we awkwardly talked for a little while before parting ways. Forward to today, he still seems upset and down about what I said and did not attend our math class, which we were getting a mid term back in. I picked up his test for him and my heart dropped when I saw he did not do very well at all on the test, and I managed to do a little better than average. I very much need advice on how to procede with this. I understand exactly why he is upset about what I said and how innappropriate it was, but now I have to hand him a shitty test back. Is there anyway I can give him this test without making him more upset than he already is? I feel like me giving him his test back will make it seem like I'm rubbing it in, and that is the last thing I want to do as I regret what I said deeply and do not want him to do poorly on tests. Should I give it to another one of our friends to hand it back? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Regretfully made fun of my friend for failing tests in school, I apologized but he is still understandably upset. Picked up one of his tests, which he failed, and I need advice on how to return it to him without upsetting him further.

Told friend I did better on a test he did poorly on than him and he was upset, need advice on how to deal with this.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A little back story, Me [19 M] and my friend [19 M] are both attending university together. The other day he was teasing me about something fairly minor which he has brought up a lot in the past, and immaturely said something about how I am doing better in school than him, specifically that I could pass tests and that he couldn't (which was not very related to the topic he was teasing me for at all). He has had a rough semester and is usually quite an average student (as am I), but has had a couple bad tests. Within ten seconds I realized what I said was cruel and apologized quite fully, and that what I said was cruel and immature, and it was just being a mean for the sake of it and that I was being an asshole. He didn't exactly accept the apology and was still visibly upset, but we awkwardly talked for a little while before parting ways. Forward to today, he still seems upset and down about what I said and did not attend our math class, which we were getting a mid term back in. I picked up his test for him and my heart dropped when I saw he did not do very well at all on the test, and I managed to do a little better than average. I very much need advice on how to procede with this. I understand exactly why he is upset about what I said and how innappropriate it was, but now I have to hand him a shitty test back. Is there anyway I can give him this test without making him more upset than he already is? I feel like me giving him his test back will make it seem like I'm rubbing it in, and that is the last thing I want to do as I regret what I said deeply and do not want him to do poorly on tests. Should I give it to another one of our friends to hand it back? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR:

Regretfully made fun of my friend for failing tests in school, I apologized but he is still understandably upset. Picked up one of his tests, which he failed, and I need advice on how to return it to him without upsetting him further.<|endoftext|>

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Told friend I did better on a test he did poorly on than him and he was upset, need advice on how to deal with this.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A little back story, Me [19 M] and my friend [19 M] are both attending university together. The other day he was teasing me about something fairly minor which he has brought up a lot in the past, and immaturely said something about how I am doing better in school than him, specifically that I could pass tests and that he couldn't (which was not very related to the topic he was teasing me for at all). He has had a rough semester and is usually quite an average student (as am I), but has had a couple bad tests. Within ten seconds I realized what I said was cruel and apologized quite fully, and that what I said was cruel and immature, and it was just being a mean for the sake of it and that I was being an asshole. He didn't exactly accept the apology and was still visibly upset, but we awkwardly talked for a little while before parting ways. Forward to today, he still seems upset and down about what I said and did not attend our math class, which we were getting a mid term back in. I picked up his test for him and my heart dropped when I saw he did not do very well at all on the test, and I managed to do a little better than average. I very much need advice on how to procede with this. I understand exactly why he is upset about what I said and how innappropriate it was, but now I have to hand him a shitty test back. Is there anyway I can give him this test without making him more upset than he already is? I feel like me giving him his test back will make it seem like I'm rubbing it in, and that is the last thing I want to do as I regret what I said deeply and do not want him to do poorly on tests. Should I give it to another one of our friends to hand it back? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: Regretfully made fun of my friend for failing tests in school, I apologized but he is still understandably upset. Picked up one of his tests, which he failed, and I need advice on how to return it to him without upsetting him further.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A little back story, Me [19 M] and my friend [19 M] are both attending university together. The other day he was teasing me about something fairly minor which he has brought up a lot in the past, and immaturely said something about how I am doing better in school than him, specifically that I could pass tests and that he couldn't (which was not very related to the topic he was teasing me for at all). He has had a rough semester and is usually quite an average student (as am I), but has had a couple bad tests. Within ten seconds I realized what I said was cruel and apologized quite fully, and that what I said was cruel and immature, and it was just being a mean for the sake of it and that I was being an asshole. He didn't exactly accept the apology and was still visibly upset, but we awkwardly talked for a little while before parting ways. Forward to today, he still seems upset and down about what I said and did not attend our math class, which we were getting a mid term back in. I picked up his test for him and my heart dropped when I saw he did not do very well at all on the test, and I managed to do a little better than average. I very much need advice on how to procede with this. I understand exactly why he is upset about what I said and how innappropriate it was, but now I have to hand him a shitty test back. Is there anyway I can give him this test without making him more upset than he already is? I feel like me giving him his test back will make it seem like I'm rubbing it in, and that is the last thing I want to do as I regret what I said deeply and do not want him to do poorly on tests. Should I give it to another one of our friends to hand it back? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: Told friend I did better on a test he did poorly on than him and he was upset, need advice on how to deal with this.<|endoftext|>

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Hey Reddit, I'm in a big US city and I just answered an ad on backpage.com for an erotic massage. The girl who came wasn't the girl in the picture - looked similar but definitely less attractive. Strike 1, but ok, she's here, curvy, and is going to get naked with me. We we agreed on $150 for 60 mins nude massage and a happy ending. She asks me to pay up front, and I thought that was OK, cause what if I don't have the money, right? She starts jacking me off after only about 10 minutes, and I asked to save that for the end. Told her repeatedly to slow down, and she kept going. Finishes me, throws me a towel, uses the bathroom, gets dressed, and leaves after 20 minutes. Any tips? Or any ways to find reputable people/places in the US? Next time I'll only pay half up front and make sure we agree on everything before starting. My first erotic massage was in Europe, was EUR 65 for 60 mins, was in a classy establishment with a hot girl who was very nice and attentive. She continued to massage me after I came, cleaned me up, and treated me very respectfully. It was a good experience and I'd go back. I'm an average good looking guy with not a ton of relationship/sexual experience, classy, a little nerdy, with more than a few "perfect 10" female friends who friend-zone me. If that matters at all.

Got in-call erotic massage, paid up front, was rudely assaulted by a girl. Need tips and advice.

I got a nude massage in a fancy hotel near the sea. It was paid for by an in-call erotic massage provider who never showed up. Any tips for the future as a guy with no dating/relationship experience?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey Reddit, I'm in a big US city and I just answered an ad on backpage.com for an erotic massage. The girl who came wasn't the girl in the picture - looked similar but definitely less attractive. Strike 1, but ok, she's here, curvy, and is going to get naked with me. We we agreed on $150 for 60 mins nude massage and a happy ending. She asks me to pay up front, and I thought that was OK, cause what if I don't have the money, right? She starts jacking me off after only about 10 minutes, and I asked to save that for the end. Told her repeatedly to slow down, and she kept going. Finishes me, throws me a towel, uses the bathroom, gets dressed, and leaves after 20 minutes. Any tips? Or any ways to find reputable people/places in the US? Next time I'll only pay half up front and make sure we agree on everything before starting. My first erotic massage was in Europe, was EUR 65 for 60 mins, was in a classy establishment with a hot girl who was very nice and attentive. She continued to massage me after I came, cleaned me up, and treated me very respectfully. It was a good experience and I'd go back. I'm an average good looking guy with not a ton of relationship/sexual experience, classy, a little nerdy, with more than a few "perfect 10" female friends who friend-zone me. If that matters at all. TL;DR:

Got in-call erotic massage, paid up front, was rudely assaulted by a girl. Need tips and advice.<|endoftext|>

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I got a nude massage in a fancy hotel near the sea. It was paid for by an in-call erotic massage provider who never showed up. Any tips for the future as a guy with no dating/relationship experience?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey Reddit, I'm in a big US city and I just answered an ad on backpage.com for an erotic massage. The girl who came wasn't the girl in the picture - looked similar but definitely less attractive. Strike 1, but ok, she's here, curvy, and is going to get naked with me. We we agreed on $150 for 60 mins nude massage and a happy ending. She asks me to pay up front, and I thought that was OK, cause what if I don't have the money, right? She starts jacking me off after only about 10 minutes, and I asked to save that for the end. Told her repeatedly to slow down, and she kept going. Finishes me, throws me a towel, uses the bathroom, gets dressed, and leaves after 20 minutes. Any tips? Or any ways to find reputable people/places in the US? Next time I'll only pay half up front and make sure we agree on everything before starting. My first erotic massage was in Europe, was EUR 65 for 60 mins, was in a classy establishment with a hot girl who was very nice and attentive. She continued to massage me after I came, cleaned me up, and treated me very respectfully. It was a good experience and I'd go back. I'm an average good looking guy with not a ton of relationship/sexual experience, classy, a little nerdy, with more than a few "perfect 10" female friends who friend-zone me. If that matters at all. TL;DR: Got in-call erotic massage, paid up front, was rudely assaulted by a girl. Need tips and advice.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey Reddit, I'm in a big US city and I just answered an ad on backpage.com for an erotic massage. The girl who came wasn't the girl in the picture - looked similar but definitely less attractive. Strike 1, but ok, she's here, curvy, and is going to get naked with me. We we agreed on $150 for 60 mins nude massage and a happy ending. She asks me to pay up front, and I thought that was OK, cause what if I don't have the money, right? She starts jacking me off after only about 10 minutes, and I asked to save that for the end. Told her repeatedly to slow down, and she kept going. Finishes me, throws me a towel, uses the bathroom, gets dressed, and leaves after 20 minutes. Any tips? Or any ways to find reputable people/places in the US? Next time I'll only pay half up front and make sure we agree on everything before starting. My first erotic massage was in Europe, was EUR 65 for 60 mins, was in a classy establishment with a hot girl who was very nice and attentive. She continued to massage me after I came, cleaned me up, and treated me very respectfully. It was a good experience and I'd go back. I'm an average good looking guy with not a ton of relationship/sexual experience, classy, a little nerdy, with more than a few "perfect 10" female friends who friend-zone me. If that matters at all. TL;DR: I got a nude massage in a fancy hotel near the sea. It was paid for by an in-call erotic massage provider who never showed up. Any tips for the future as a guy with no dating/relationship experience?<|endoftext|>

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I'm about to graduate with a BA in English/Creative Writing. I took this path because I was getting paid to go to school but wasn't sure what I wanted from life. I just knew I liked telling stories. When school got too intense, I started drawing. Everything. And on any scrap of paper I found. I started watching cartoons even more voraciously (I've always been an animation fan) and reading all the comics I could get near. But I was always afraid to commit myself to it. Recently however, I realized that my mom had a dream she never pursued and she's still holding that weight. I realized I don't want to go through life without at least trying. Next semester, my last semester of my degree, I'm taking an art class to give me a better foundation and help me become more technically capable. I'd like to eventually go to grad school. I know it's not required at all to have a degree in art to pursue it but I think I need the structured environment and guidance the classes would provide. The connections would also benefit me when I graduate. I realize I need a portfolio but I'm unsure about what to put into it. I'm unsure about what they're looking for or where to begin. For the first time in my life, I know what I want to do but I have no idea how to go about it. The people in my life aren't supportive of my decision so I don't have anyone to go to. Can anyone help me get my feet under me and give me some advice pointing me in the right direction?

I'm about to graduate with a degree in English. I'd like to try to get into grad school and become a storyboard artist but I have no idea where to start.

I'm graduating, possibly going to grad school, and I need advice on what to put in my portfolio while I'm in school.

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I'm about to graduate with a degree in English. I'd like to try to get into grad school and become a storyboard artist but I have no idea where to start.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm about to graduate with a BA in English/Creative Writing. I took this path because I was getting paid to go to school but wasn't sure what I wanted from life. I just knew I liked telling stories. When school got too intense, I started drawing. Everything. And on any scrap of paper I found. I started watching cartoons even more voraciously (I've always been an animation fan) and reading all the comics I could get near. But I was always afraid to commit myself to it. Recently however, I realized that my mom had a dream she never pursued and she's still holding that weight. I realized I don't want to go through life without at least trying. Next semester, my last semester of my degree, I'm taking an art class to give me a better foundation and help me become more technically capable. I'd like to eventually go to grad school. I know it's not required at all to have a degree in art to pursue it but I think I need the structured environment and guidance the classes would provide. The connections would also benefit me when I graduate. I realize I need a portfolio but I'm unsure about what to put into it. I'm unsure about what they're looking for or where to begin. For the first time in my life, I know what I want to do but I have no idea how to go about it. The people in my life aren't supportive of my decision so I don't have anyone to go to. Can anyone help me get my feet under me and give me some advice pointing me in the right direction? TL;DR: I'm about to graduate with a degree in English. I'd like to try to get into grad school and become a storyboard artist but I have no idea where to start.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm about to graduate with a BA in English/Creative Writing. I took this path because I was getting paid to go to school but wasn't sure what I wanted from life. I just knew I liked telling stories. When school got too intense, I started drawing. Everything. And on any scrap of paper I found. I started watching cartoons even more voraciously (I've always been an animation fan) and reading all the comics I could get near. But I was always afraid to commit myself to it. Recently however, I realized that my mom had a dream she never pursued and she's still holding that weight. I realized I don't want to go through life without at least trying. Next semester, my last semester of my degree, I'm taking an art class to give me a better foundation and help me become more technically capable. I'd like to eventually go to grad school. I know it's not required at all to have a degree in art to pursue it but I think I need the structured environment and guidance the classes would provide. The connections would also benefit me when I graduate. I realize I need a portfolio but I'm unsure about what to put into it. I'm unsure about what they're looking for or where to begin. For the first time in my life, I know what I want to do but I have no idea how to go about it. The people in my life aren't supportive of my decision so I don't have anyone to go to. Can anyone help me get my feet under me and give me some advice pointing me in the right direction? TL;DR: I'm graduating, possibly going to grad school, and I need advice on what to put in my portfolio while I'm in school.<|endoftext|>

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So, I'm 19, turning 20 next month. (I'm young, I know.) But I'm fed up with being single. Although, at the same time, I'm not rushing to find a relationship. I haven't been in a relationship in about 2 years. Ive only been talking/dating(?) women and things just fall apart. I've tried the player approach, being that I'm young. (The typical 'hooking up' & having no strings attached), but I just don't know how to approach women like that. I'm tired of being alone right now...if I could find out how to approach women(who are interested in hooking up) Or if anyone could tell me how to go about getting into a relationship without being too hasty... I would be satisfied.

I'm young and single, but I'm tired of being alone. How do I approach women who are interested in hooking up?

I'm fed up with being alone and want to find out how to approach women who are interested in hooking up.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, I'm 19, turning 20 next month. (I'm young, I know.) But I'm fed up with being single. Although, at the same time, I'm not rushing to find a relationship. I haven't been in a relationship in about 2 years. Ive only been talking/dating(?) women and things just fall apart. I've tried the player approach, being that I'm young. (The typical 'hooking up' & having no strings attached), but I just don't know how to approach women like that. I'm tired of being alone right now...if I could find out how to approach women(who are interested in hooking up) Or if anyone could tell me how to go about getting into a relationship without being too hasty... I would be satisfied. TL;DR:

I'm young and single, but I'm tired of being alone. How do I approach women who are interested in hooking up?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, I'm 19, turning 20 next month. (I'm young, I know.) But I'm fed up with being single. Although, at the same time, I'm not rushing to find a relationship. I haven't been in a relationship in about 2 years. Ive only been talking/dating(?) women and things just fall apart. I've tried the player approach, being that I'm young. (The typical 'hooking up' & having no strings attached), but I just don't know how to approach women like that. I'm tired of being alone right now...if I could find out how to approach women(who are interested in hooking up) Or if anyone could tell me how to go about getting into a relationship without being too hasty... I would be satisfied. TL;DR: I'm young and single, but I'm tired of being alone. How do I approach women who are interested in hooking up?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, I'm 19, turning 20 next month. (I'm young, I know.) But I'm fed up with being single. Although, at the same time, I'm not rushing to find a relationship. I haven't been in a relationship in about 2 years. Ive only been talking/dating(?) women and things just fall apart. I've tried the player approach, being that I'm young. (The typical 'hooking up' & having no strings attached), but I just don't know how to approach women like that. I'm tired of being alone right now...if I could find out how to approach women(who are interested in hooking up) Or if anyone could tell me how to go about getting into a relationship without being too hasty... I would be satisfied. TL;DR: I'm fed up with being alone and want to find out how to approach women who are interested in hooking up.<|endoftext|>

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Some background: My bf and I have been long distance dating for half a year now. We've known each other for about 2 years and started dating before he moved from our college town to the city he lives in now. He's unhappy with his current job/living situation and he always tells me I'm the only really good thing he has right now. He tells me he wants to be with me for a long time. He's been cheated on a couple of times in the past and it makes him feel insecure about our relationship even though I've been nothing but supportive and reassuring to him. If I don't constantly text him or answer his calls he gets nervous and upset and he starts asking accusatory questions. I just can't deal with the arguing and accusing anymore. We've been on the verge of breaking up a couple of times for the same reasons, but he always promises he'll change. I feel guilty when I make him upset because I don't want to hurt him, but at the same time I think he expects too much of me because I'm not actually do anything worthy getting upset over. I've tried breaking up with him before but he tells me that he doesn't want to break up and that he doesn't know what his life would be like without me. It makes me feel guilty because I care about him and I don't want to hurt him, but I think this level of attachment is unhealthy for both of us.

I care about my boyfriend but he depends on me too much emotionally. On one hand it makes me feel guilty because I can't meet his expectations, on the other hand I feel defiant because I think he asks too much of me.

Bf is dependant on me to be the only person who can calm his anxiety and be his emotional support. Should I break up with him?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Some background: My bf and I have been long distance dating for half a year now. We've known each other for about 2 years and started dating before he moved from our college town to the city he lives in now. He's unhappy with his current job/living situation and he always tells me I'm the only really good thing he has right now. He tells me he wants to be with me for a long time. He's been cheated on a couple of times in the past and it makes him feel insecure about our relationship even though I've been nothing but supportive and reassuring to him. If I don't constantly text him or answer his calls he gets nervous and upset and he starts asking accusatory questions. I just can't deal with the arguing and accusing anymore. We've been on the verge of breaking up a couple of times for the same reasons, but he always promises he'll change. I feel guilty when I make him upset because I don't want to hurt him, but at the same time I think he expects too much of me because I'm not actually do anything worthy getting upset over. I've tried breaking up with him before but he tells me that he doesn't want to break up and that he doesn't know what his life would be like without me. It makes me feel guilty because I care about him and I don't want to hurt him, but I think this level of attachment is unhealthy for both of us. TL;DR:

I care about my boyfriend but he depends on me too much emotionally. On one hand it makes me feel guilty because I can't meet his expectations, on the other hand I feel defiant because I think he asks too much of me.<|endoftext|>

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Bf is dependant on me to be the only person who can calm his anxiety and be his emotional support. Should I break up with him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Some background: My bf and I have been long distance dating for half a year now. We've known each other for about 2 years and started dating before he moved from our college town to the city he lives in now. He's unhappy with his current job/living situation and he always tells me I'm the only really good thing he has right now. He tells me he wants to be with me for a long time. He's been cheated on a couple of times in the past and it makes him feel insecure about our relationship even though I've been nothing but supportive and reassuring to him. If I don't constantly text him or answer his calls he gets nervous and upset and he starts asking accusatory questions. I just can't deal with the arguing and accusing anymore. We've been on the verge of breaking up a couple of times for the same reasons, but he always promises he'll change. I feel guilty when I make him upset because I don't want to hurt him, but at the same time I think he expects too much of me because I'm not actually do anything worthy getting upset over. I've tried breaking up with him before but he tells me that he doesn't want to break up and that he doesn't know what his life would be like without me. It makes me feel guilty because I care about him and I don't want to hurt him, but I think this level of attachment is unhealthy for both of us. TL;DR: I care about my boyfriend but he depends on me too much emotionally. On one hand it makes me feel guilty because I can't meet his expectations, on the other hand I feel defiant because I think he asks too much of me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Some background: My bf and I have been long distance dating for half a year now. We've known each other for about 2 years and started dating before he moved from our college town to the city he lives in now. He's unhappy with his current job/living situation and he always tells me I'm the only really good thing he has right now. He tells me he wants to be with me for a long time. He's been cheated on a couple of times in the past and it makes him feel insecure about our relationship even though I've been nothing but supportive and reassuring to him. If I don't constantly text him or answer his calls he gets nervous and upset and he starts asking accusatory questions. I just can't deal with the arguing and accusing anymore. We've been on the verge of breaking up a couple of times for the same reasons, but he always promises he'll change. I feel guilty when I make him upset because I don't want to hurt him, but at the same time I think he expects too much of me because I'm not actually do anything worthy getting upset over. I've tried breaking up with him before but he tells me that he doesn't want to break up and that he doesn't know what his life would be like without me. It makes me feel guilty because I care about him and I don't want to hurt him, but I think this level of attachment is unhealthy for both of us. TL;DR: Bf is dependant on me to be the only person who can calm his anxiety and be his emotional support. Should I break up with him?<|endoftext|>

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This is not a very clear cut problem and I would really appreciate some help. I was talking to my now boyfriend for about a year before we eventually met up. The reason for this long frame of time was because I was very ill and was in and out of hospital - which he was aware of - and it was clear I was not lying about this as my health problems had impacted massively on my university exams and I was made to sit them later. When we first started talking, he would drunkenly text/snapchat me and it was clear that he was doing this with multiple other girls. About 8 months before we met up, he told me that he liked me and he wasn't hooking up with anyone else - completely off his own back, I knew I wouldn't be able to commit to seeing him so made sure I was not the first to say this but told him I reciprocated. When we finally met up, we decided instantly that we wanted to be exclusive and during the 6 months we have been together there have been no problems whatsoever. However, when I have asked him about the other girls he was sexting etc, numerous red flags started to appear. So 6 months down the line and after countless conversations and lies it appears he slept with two other girls, was sexting a handful of others, 3 of which he had previously slept with - and he had been in contact with these girls up until the weekend we met. I have no problem that this happened, as I was pretty aware these things were going on, I just feel that it's hard to trust him. In our most recent conversation he admitted that he probably would have slept with one of the girls he was in contact with if we hadn't of met up when we eventually did. He has a long history of cheating and it's taken 6 months and a lot of questions by me and lying on his part to get where we are now. Any help with how to overcome this?

Boyfriend slept and sexted multiple girls before we became official, problem is not that it happened but that he has lied so much about it the trust is shaky

My now long-distance [31 M] of 6 months is in contact with multiple girls - he sleeps with them - after we had been dating for a year. Can't trust him because he has a history of cheating and lying to me.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is not a very clear cut problem and I would really appreciate some help. I was talking to my now boyfriend for about a year before we eventually met up. The reason for this long frame of time was because I was very ill and was in and out of hospital - which he was aware of - and it was clear I was not lying about this as my health problems had impacted massively on my university exams and I was made to sit them later. When we first started talking, he would drunkenly text/snapchat me and it was clear that he was doing this with multiple other girls. About 8 months before we met up, he told me that he liked me and he wasn't hooking up with anyone else - completely off his own back, I knew I wouldn't be able to commit to seeing him so made sure I was not the first to say this but told him I reciprocated. When we finally met up, we decided instantly that we wanted to be exclusive and during the 6 months we have been together there have been no problems whatsoever. However, when I have asked him about the other girls he was sexting etc, numerous red flags started to appear. So 6 months down the line and after countless conversations and lies it appears he slept with two other girls, was sexting a handful of others, 3 of which he had previously slept with - and he had been in contact with these girls up until the weekend we met. I have no problem that this happened, as I was pretty aware these things were going on, I just feel that it's hard to trust him. In our most recent conversation he admitted that he probably would have slept with one of the girls he was in contact with if we hadn't of met up when we eventually did. He has a long history of cheating and it's taken 6 months and a lot of questions by me and lying on his part to get where we are now. Any help with how to overcome this? TL;DR:

Boyfriend slept and sexted multiple girls before we became official, problem is not that it happened but that he has lied so much about it the trust is shaky<|endoftext|>

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My now long-distance [31 M] of 6 months is in contact with multiple girls - he sleeps with them - after we had been dating for a year. Can't trust him because he has a history of cheating and lying to me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is not a very clear cut problem and I would really appreciate some help. I was talking to my now boyfriend for about a year before we eventually met up. The reason for this long frame of time was because I was very ill and was in and out of hospital - which he was aware of - and it was clear I was not lying about this as my health problems had impacted massively on my university exams and I was made to sit them later. When we first started talking, he would drunkenly text/snapchat me and it was clear that he was doing this with multiple other girls. About 8 months before we met up, he told me that he liked me and he wasn't hooking up with anyone else - completely off his own back, I knew I wouldn't be able to commit to seeing him so made sure I was not the first to say this but told him I reciprocated. When we finally met up, we decided instantly that we wanted to be exclusive and during the 6 months we have been together there have been no problems whatsoever. However, when I have asked him about the other girls he was sexting etc, numerous red flags started to appear. So 6 months down the line and after countless conversations and lies it appears he slept with two other girls, was sexting a handful of others, 3 of which he had previously slept with - and he had been in contact with these girls up until the weekend we met. I have no problem that this happened, as I was pretty aware these things were going on, I just feel that it's hard to trust him. In our most recent conversation he admitted that he probably would have slept with one of the girls he was in contact with if we hadn't of met up when we eventually did. He has a long history of cheating and it's taken 6 months and a lot of questions by me and lying on his part to get where we are now. Any help with how to overcome this? TL;DR: Boyfriend slept and sexted multiple girls before we became official, problem is not that it happened but that he has lied so much about it the trust is shaky<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is not a very clear cut problem and I would really appreciate some help. I was talking to my now boyfriend for about a year before we eventually met up. The reason for this long frame of time was because I was very ill and was in and out of hospital - which he was aware of - and it was clear I was not lying about this as my health problems had impacted massively on my university exams and I was made to sit them later. When we first started talking, he would drunkenly text/snapchat me and it was clear that he was doing this with multiple other girls. About 8 months before we met up, he told me that he liked me and he wasn't hooking up with anyone else - completely off his own back, I knew I wouldn't be able to commit to seeing him so made sure I was not the first to say this but told him I reciprocated. When we finally met up, we decided instantly that we wanted to be exclusive and during the 6 months we have been together there have been no problems whatsoever. However, when I have asked him about the other girls he was sexting etc, numerous red flags started to appear. So 6 months down the line and after countless conversations and lies it appears he slept with two other girls, was sexting a handful of others, 3 of which he had previously slept with - and he had been in contact with these girls up until the weekend we met. I have no problem that this happened, as I was pretty aware these things were going on, I just feel that it's hard to trust him. In our most recent conversation he admitted that he probably would have slept with one of the girls he was in contact with if we hadn't of met up when we eventually did. He has a long history of cheating and it's taken 6 months and a lot of questions by me and lying on his part to get where we are now. Any help with how to overcome this? TL;DR: My now long-distance [31 M] of 6 months is in contact with multiple girls - he sleeps with them - after we had been dating for a year. Can't trust him because he has a history of cheating and lying to me.<|endoftext|>

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I have been talking to this guy for about a month now. We met online and our messages began to turn into literal novels and I felt like it was a different connection than I've had with other guys online before. I've been burned by a few guys from online so I guess my trust in it is jaded. Anyways, we hung out for the first time the other day. Made dinner at his place, everything went great. I text him when I got home, got a reply... the usual stuff. The next day I don't hear from him so I ask him how his day is going around 6pm and he doesn't reply for hours. So I ask him again that if he's not into me it's fine but he could have the decency to at least let me know... still no reply. But he's been online and I'm just okay this guy is a douchebag. So I text him again and told him that he is a douchebag. He replies in the morning with this long ass text explaining that he had a horrible day and was exhausted. Said he had a great time with me and is really disappointed that I was so quick to anger because he wanted to see me again. I know where he's coming from, who would want to pursue a relationship with someone who freaks out so easily? But at the same time, my train of thought at the time was that "he's a douchebag and deserves the crazy side of chics." I know that's not a good way to think about it but I'm just explaining where I was at at the time. So I liked this guy and I really don't want to be so quick to anger. I guess the question is should I apologize and tell him that if he changes his mind to let me know or something? I hate that I could have ruined something that may have gone somewhere.

Freaked out on a guy I've been seeing for a month because he didn't reply to a message within a day and now he says he doesn't want to pursue something with someone who is so quick to anger. Should I apologize and try to show him that I'm different or just let it go?

I had a bad day and freaked out about him not liking me. He says he's disappointed I was so quick to anger but he didn't want to let me go cause he really liked me. Not sure whether to apologize or let it be.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been talking to this guy for about a month now. We met online and our messages began to turn into literal novels and I felt like it was a different connection than I've had with other guys online before. I've been burned by a few guys from online so I guess my trust in it is jaded. Anyways, we hung out for the first time the other day. Made dinner at his place, everything went great. I text him when I got home, got a reply... the usual stuff. The next day I don't hear from him so I ask him how his day is going around 6pm and he doesn't reply for hours. So I ask him again that if he's not into me it's fine but he could have the decency to at least let me know... still no reply. But he's been online and I'm just okay this guy is a douchebag. So I text him again and told him that he is a douchebag. He replies in the morning with this long ass text explaining that he had a horrible day and was exhausted. Said he had a great time with me and is really disappointed that I was so quick to anger because he wanted to see me again. I know where he's coming from, who would want to pursue a relationship with someone who freaks out so easily? But at the same time, my train of thought at the time was that "he's a douchebag and deserves the crazy side of chics." I know that's not a good way to think about it but I'm just explaining where I was at at the time. So I liked this guy and I really don't want to be so quick to anger. I guess the question is should I apologize and tell him that if he changes his mind to let me know or something? I hate that I could have ruined something that may have gone somewhere. TL;DR:

Freaked out on a guy I've been seeing for a month because he didn't reply to a message within a day and now he says he doesn't want to pursue something with someone who is so quick to anger. Should I apologize and try to show him that I'm different or just let it go?<|endoftext|>

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I had a bad day and freaked out about him not liking me. He says he's disappointed I was so quick to anger but he didn't want to let me go cause he really liked me. Not sure whether to apologize or let it be.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been talking to this guy for about a month now. We met online and our messages began to turn into literal novels and I felt like it was a different connection than I've had with other guys online before. I've been burned by a few guys from online so I guess my trust in it is jaded. Anyways, we hung out for the first time the other day. Made dinner at his place, everything went great. I text him when I got home, got a reply... the usual stuff. The next day I don't hear from him so I ask him how his day is going around 6pm and he doesn't reply for hours. So I ask him again that if he's not into me it's fine but he could have the decency to at least let me know... still no reply. But he's been online and I'm just okay this guy is a douchebag. So I text him again and told him that he is a douchebag. He replies in the morning with this long ass text explaining that he had a horrible day and was exhausted. Said he had a great time with me and is really disappointed that I was so quick to anger because he wanted to see me again. I know where he's coming from, who would want to pursue a relationship with someone who freaks out so easily? But at the same time, my train of thought at the time was that "he's a douchebag and deserves the crazy side of chics." I know that's not a good way to think about it but I'm just explaining where I was at at the time. So I liked this guy and I really don't want to be so quick to anger. I guess the question is should I apologize and tell him that if he changes his mind to let me know or something? I hate that I could have ruined something that may have gone somewhere. TL;DR: Freaked out on a guy I've been seeing for a month because he didn't reply to a message within a day and now he says he doesn't want to pursue something with someone who is so quick to anger. Should I apologize and try to show him that I'm different or just let it go?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been talking to this guy for about a month now. We met online and our messages began to turn into literal novels and I felt like it was a different connection than I've had with other guys online before. I've been burned by a few guys from online so I guess my trust in it is jaded. Anyways, we hung out for the first time the other day. Made dinner at his place, everything went great. I text him when I got home, got a reply... the usual stuff. The next day I don't hear from him so I ask him how his day is going around 6pm and he doesn't reply for hours. So I ask him again that if he's not into me it's fine but he could have the decency to at least let me know... still no reply. But he's been online and I'm just okay this guy is a douchebag. So I text him again and told him that he is a douchebag. He replies in the morning with this long ass text explaining that he had a horrible day and was exhausted. Said he had a great time with me and is really disappointed that I was so quick to anger because he wanted to see me again. I know where he's coming from, who would want to pursue a relationship with someone who freaks out so easily? But at the same time, my train of thought at the time was that "he's a douchebag and deserves the crazy side of chics." I know that's not a good way to think about it but I'm just explaining where I was at at the time. So I liked this guy and I really don't want to be so quick to anger. I guess the question is should I apologize and tell him that if he changes his mind to let me know or something? I hate that I could have ruined something that may have gone somewhere. TL;DR: I had a bad day and freaked out about him not liking me. He says he's disappointed I was so quick to anger but he didn't want to let me go cause he really liked me. Not sure whether to apologize or let it be.<|endoftext|>

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So my Bf and I have been together for some time. And yesterday we were drunk and talking about our past loves. Then I brought up that my last boy friends name was "chang" he blurts out "he was Asian?" I said ya. Then starts asking all these weird questions like if I would ever want a child outside my race and starts telling me it would not look like me and I would not love it. I get pissed and tell him about my bf before that who was black. Then he starts yelling at me saying that no wonder our sex is terrible and that "black guys don't deserve skinny blonds" I could like believe what I was hearing he sounded so serious and angry. Also a little note about him and when he said our sex sucked ( he as no idea what to do in bed. I am pretty sure I'm his first he has trouble getting hard a lot ) I yell at him asking were all this racist shit is coming from. And he tell me he just dose not understated how some once can be attracted to some one who dose not look like them. I left his apartment 6 hours ago. He as been calling me all night I have been crying for 3 hours at my place I cant believe I am involved with such a sick mined person I really don't know what to do. He keeps telling me he is sorry and he was just being drunk and stupid but I don't know what to think How should I handle this. I really feel like this was the deal breaker

my boyfriend is mad at me bc last 3 bfs were Asian and black. I feel horrible and think its him being racist despite him telling me otherwise. What do i do?

boyfriend is mad at me because of my last 3 boyfriends who were Asian and black. I feel like this was the deal breaker and i am confused as to how to handle it. please advise

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my Bf and I have been together for some time. And yesterday we were drunk and talking about our past loves. Then I brought up that my last boy friends name was "chang" he blurts out "he was Asian?" I said ya. Then starts asking all these weird questions like if I would ever want a child outside my race and starts telling me it would not look like me and I would not love it. I get pissed and tell him about my bf before that who was black. Then he starts yelling at me saying that no wonder our sex is terrible and that "black guys don't deserve skinny blonds" I could like believe what I was hearing he sounded so serious and angry. Also a little note about him and when he said our sex sucked ( he as no idea what to do in bed. I am pretty sure I'm his first he has trouble getting hard a lot ) I yell at him asking were all this racist shit is coming from. And he tell me he just dose not understated how some once can be attracted to some one who dose not look like them. I left his apartment 6 hours ago. He as been calling me all night I have been crying for 3 hours at my place I cant believe I am involved with such a sick mined person I really don't know what to do. He keeps telling me he is sorry and he was just being drunk and stupid but I don't know what to think How should I handle this. I really feel like this was the deal breaker TL;DR:

my boyfriend is mad at me bc last 3 bfs were Asian and black. I feel horrible and think its him being racist despite him telling me otherwise. What do i do?<|endoftext|>

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boyfriend is mad at me because of my last 3 boyfriends who were Asian and black. I feel like this was the deal breaker and i am confused as to how to handle it. please advise<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my Bf and I have been together for some time. And yesterday we were drunk and talking about our past loves. Then I brought up that my last boy friends name was "chang" he blurts out "he was Asian?" I said ya. Then starts asking all these weird questions like if I would ever want a child outside my race and starts telling me it would not look like me and I would not love it. I get pissed and tell him about my bf before that who was black. Then he starts yelling at me saying that no wonder our sex is terrible and that "black guys don't deserve skinny blonds" I could like believe what I was hearing he sounded so serious and angry. Also a little note about him and when he said our sex sucked ( he as no idea what to do in bed. I am pretty sure I'm his first he has trouble getting hard a lot ) I yell at him asking were all this racist shit is coming from. And he tell me he just dose not understated how some once can be attracted to some one who dose not look like them. I left his apartment 6 hours ago. He as been calling me all night I have been crying for 3 hours at my place I cant believe I am involved with such a sick mined person I really don't know what to do. He keeps telling me he is sorry and he was just being drunk and stupid but I don't know what to think How should I handle this. I really feel like this was the deal breaker TL;DR: my boyfriend is mad at me bc last 3 bfs were Asian and black. I feel horrible and think its him being racist despite him telling me otherwise. What do i do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my Bf and I have been together for some time. And yesterday we were drunk and talking about our past loves. Then I brought up that my last boy friends name was "chang" he blurts out "he was Asian?" I said ya. Then starts asking all these weird questions like if I would ever want a child outside my race and starts telling me it would not look like me and I would not love it. I get pissed and tell him about my bf before that who was black. Then he starts yelling at me saying that no wonder our sex is terrible and that "black guys don't deserve skinny blonds" I could like believe what I was hearing he sounded so serious and angry. Also a little note about him and when he said our sex sucked ( he as no idea what to do in bed. I am pretty sure I'm his first he has trouble getting hard a lot ) I yell at him asking were all this racist shit is coming from. And he tell me he just dose not understated how some once can be attracted to some one who dose not look like them. I left his apartment 6 hours ago. He as been calling me all night I have been crying for 3 hours at my place I cant believe I am involved with such a sick mined person I really don't know what to do. He keeps telling me he is sorry and he was just being drunk and stupid but I don't know what to think How should I handle this. I really feel like this was the deal breaker TL;DR: boyfriend is mad at me because of my last 3 boyfriends who were Asian and black. I feel like this was the deal breaker and i am confused as to how to handle it. please advise<|endoftext|>

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Hello TIFU readers, this is my first reddit post using this account. This fuck up actually happened yesterday between 10 and 11 AM. So to start off with, my friends and I were in the beautiful island of Gozo. Us being tourists, did not know the way around the small island, so we resorted to a GPS. A friend of mine, just bought a car, an Opel Astra G to be precise. Great car, mint condition (up until yesterday). So basically I purchased this app on my mobile phone which has TomTom maps. I thought it would be a great opportunity to make use of this app. At first all was plain sailing, little traffic, 'smooth' roads, beautiful view and quite peaceful. Then the GPS said we should go onto a narrow, unpaved side road. Through the side road, all seemed promising. We could already see our target location, it was a jaw dropping view, lots of greenery surrounded by blue sea. Now my fuck up began by selecting the wrong target location. Instead of selecting, the appropriate location, I tapped on a nearby medieval watch tower, thought that they would make use of the same road. So what happened? As we travelled further the roads got rougher, more dangerous and more offroad-ish until we finally found ourselves in an open field, out of road. To be fair, my GPS stated that there was a road, clearly there wasn't, only fields with crops. Obviously we had no other choice but to turn around and go all the way back. Here is the thing since the car is not cut off for offroad, it got stuck, we managed to get it out, by scraping the car's chassis, poor thing. Eventually, we found our destined location, the promised land and 'enjoyed' the rest of the day. Now the car is in need of repair so we will see how that goes, the holiday ended up in a long guilt trip (from my pov).

Guided my friend offroad in a low hatchback vehicle whilst on holiday (on foreign soil), ending up damaging my friend's new car.

choosing to go offroad instead of following GPS, ended up in an open field at the back of a medieval watch tower.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello TIFU readers, this is my first reddit post using this account. This fuck up actually happened yesterday between 10 and 11 AM. So to start off with, my friends and I were in the beautiful island of Gozo. Us being tourists, did not know the way around the small island, so we resorted to a GPS. A friend of mine, just bought a car, an Opel Astra G to be precise. Great car, mint condition (up until yesterday). So basically I purchased this app on my mobile phone which has TomTom maps. I thought it would be a great opportunity to make use of this app. At first all was plain sailing, little traffic,'smooth' roads, beautiful view and quite peaceful. Then the GPS said we should go onto a narrow, unpaved side road. Through the side road, all seemed promising. We could already see our target location, it was a jaw dropping view, lots of greenery surrounded by blue sea. Now my fuck up began by selecting the wrong target location. Instead of selecting, the appropriate location, I tapped on a nearby medieval watch tower, thought that they would make use of the same road. So what happened? As we travelled further the roads got rougher, more dangerous and more offroad-ish until we finally found ourselves in an open field, out of road. To be fair, my GPS stated that there was a road, clearly there wasn't, only fields with crops. Obviously we had no other choice but to turn around and go all the way back. Here is the thing since the car is not cut off for offroad, it got stuck, we managed to get it out, by scraping the car's chassis, poor thing. Eventually, we found our destined location, the promised land and 'enjoyed' the rest of the day. Now the car is in need of repair so we will see how that goes, the holiday ended up in a long guilt trip (from my pov). TL;DR:

Guided my friend offroad in a low hatchback vehicle whilst on holiday (on foreign soil), ending up damaging my friend's new car.<|endoftext|>

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choosing to go offroad instead of following GPS, ended up in an open field at the back of a medieval watch tower.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello TIFU readers, this is my first reddit post using this account. This fuck up actually happened yesterday between 10 and 11 AM. So to start off with, my friends and I were in the beautiful island of Gozo. Us being tourists, did not know the way around the small island, so we resorted to a GPS. A friend of mine, just bought a car, an Opel Astra G to be precise. Great car, mint condition (up until yesterday). So basically I purchased this app on my mobile phone which has TomTom maps. I thought it would be a great opportunity to make use of this app. At first all was plain sailing, little traffic,'smooth' roads, beautiful view and quite peaceful. Then the GPS said we should go onto a narrow, unpaved side road. Through the side road, all seemed promising. We could already see our target location, it was a jaw dropping view, lots of greenery surrounded by blue sea. Now my fuck up began by selecting the wrong target location. Instead of selecting, the appropriate location, I tapped on a nearby medieval watch tower, thought that they would make use of the same road. So what happened? As we travelled further the roads got rougher, more dangerous and more offroad-ish until we finally found ourselves in an open field, out of road. To be fair, my GPS stated that there was a road, clearly there wasn't, only fields with crops. Obviously we had no other choice but to turn around and go all the way back. Here is the thing since the car is not cut off for offroad, it got stuck, we managed to get it out, by scraping the car's chassis, poor thing. Eventually, we found our destined location, the promised land and 'enjoyed' the rest of the day. Now the car is in need of repair so we will see how that goes, the holiday ended up in a long guilt trip (from my pov). TL;DR: Guided my friend offroad in a low hatchback vehicle whilst on holiday (on foreign soil), ending up damaging my friend's new car.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello TIFU readers, this is my first reddit post using this account. This fuck up actually happened yesterday between 10 and 11 AM. So to start off with, my friends and I were in the beautiful island of Gozo. Us being tourists, did not know the way around the small island, so we resorted to a GPS. A friend of mine, just bought a car, an Opel Astra G to be precise. Great car, mint condition (up until yesterday). So basically I purchased this app on my mobile phone which has TomTom maps. I thought it would be a great opportunity to make use of this app. At first all was plain sailing, little traffic,'smooth' roads, beautiful view and quite peaceful. Then the GPS said we should go onto a narrow, unpaved side road. Through the side road, all seemed promising. We could already see our target location, it was a jaw dropping view, lots of greenery surrounded by blue sea. Now my fuck up began by selecting the wrong target location. Instead of selecting, the appropriate location, I tapped on a nearby medieval watch tower, thought that they would make use of the same road. So what happened? As we travelled further the roads got rougher, more dangerous and more offroad-ish until we finally found ourselves in an open field, out of road. To be fair, my GPS stated that there was a road, clearly there wasn't, only fields with crops. Obviously we had no other choice but to turn around and go all the way back. Here is the thing since the car is not cut off for offroad, it got stuck, we managed to get it out, by scraping the car's chassis, poor thing. Eventually, we found our destined location, the promised land and 'enjoyed' the rest of the day. Now the car is in need of repair so we will see how that goes, the holiday ended up in a long guilt trip (from my pov). TL;DR: choosing to go offroad instead of following GPS, ended up in an open field at the back of a medieval watch tower.<|endoftext|>

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I have made plans to play Wisest Wizard tonight, which is played by buying many cases of the cheapest canned beer possible and duct taping your finished beers to the bottom of your currently open beer. A staff like object of beer cans starts to form (much like a wand) and the first person to finish 6 beers receives a wizard hat since they are the wisest wizard. In order to become wiser than the wizard you must have finished more beers than him (have a bigger staff/beercandick). Depending on the night the later stages of the game changes anywhere from beer stick jousting to just random drunked can fights. Just another reason to drink in 'Murica. The wizard also gets to set rules for people.

tape finished beers into a stick, guy who drinks most gets a wizard hat and can make rules.

Play Wisest Wizard and have a staff of beer cans.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have made plans to play Wisest Wizard tonight, which is played by buying many cases of the cheapest canned beer possible and duct taping your finished beers to the bottom of your currently open beer. A staff like object of beer cans starts to form (much like a wand) and the first person to finish 6 beers receives a wizard hat since they are the wisest wizard. In order to become wiser than the wizard you must have finished more beers than him (have a bigger staff/beercandick). Depending on the night the later stages of the game changes anywhere from beer stick jousting to just random drunked can fights. Just another reason to drink in 'Murica. The wizard also gets to set rules for people. TL;DR:

tape finished beers into a stick, guy who drinks most gets a wizard hat and can make rules.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have made plans to play Wisest Wizard tonight, which is played by buying many cases of the cheapest canned beer possible and duct taping your finished beers to the bottom of your currently open beer. A staff like object of beer cans starts to form (much like a wand) and the first person to finish 6 beers receives a wizard hat since they are the wisest wizard. In order to become wiser than the wizard you must have finished more beers than him (have a bigger staff/beercandick). Depending on the night the later stages of the game changes anywhere from beer stick jousting to just random drunked can fights. Just another reason to drink in 'Murica. The wizard also gets to set rules for people. TL;DR: tape finished beers into a stick, guy who drinks most gets a wizard hat and can make rules.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have made plans to play Wisest Wizard tonight, which is played by buying many cases of the cheapest canned beer possible and duct taping your finished beers to the bottom of your currently open beer. A staff like object of beer cans starts to form (much like a wand) and the first person to finish 6 beers receives a wizard hat since they are the wisest wizard. In order to become wiser than the wizard you must have finished more beers than him (have a bigger staff/beercandick). Depending on the night the later stages of the game changes anywhere from beer stick jousting to just random drunked can fights. Just another reason to drink in 'Murica. The wizard also gets to set rules for people. TL;DR: Play Wisest Wizard and have a staff of beer cans.<|endoftext|>

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After a concert today, I'm lined up to purchase merchandise, and the line is absolutely enormous. All of a sudden middle aged Stacy mom dragging a very embarrassed teen cuts in front of me and 150 other people. "Excuse me ma'am you cut in front of me and a lot of other people" she turns to me and says "mind your own business" I'm pissed but I'm also patient. The line progresses slowly for another 15 minutes until we get near the front then I call over a security guard and tell her she cut in front of the line, and a few others behind me verify this. She gets bounced towards the back of the line which is now like a 20 minute wait so she's gotta wait double the time.

middle aged mom cuts me in line, and others behind me confirm this. She gets bounced to the back of the line

Middle aged Stacy mom cut me in line, extra 10 mins wait to buy merch.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: After a concert today, I'm lined up to purchase merchandise, and the line is absolutely enormous. All of a sudden middle aged Stacy mom dragging a very embarrassed teen cuts in front of me and 150 other people. "Excuse me ma'am you cut in front of me and a lot of other people" she turns to me and says "mind your own business" I'm pissed but I'm also patient. The line progresses slowly for another 15 minutes until we get near the front then I call over a security guard and tell her she cut in front of the line, and a few others behind me verify this. She gets bounced towards the back of the line which is now like a 20 minute wait so she's gotta wait double the time. TL;DR: middle aged mom cuts me in line, and others behind me confirm this. She gets bounced to the back of the line<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: After a concert today, I'm lined up to purchase merchandise, and the line is absolutely enormous. All of a sudden middle aged Stacy mom dragging a very embarrassed teen cuts in front of me and 150 other people. "Excuse me ma'am you cut in front of me and a lot of other people" she turns to me and says "mind your own business" I'm pissed but I'm also patient. The line progresses slowly for another 15 minutes until we get near the front then I call over a security guard and tell her she cut in front of the line, and a few others behind me verify this. She gets bounced towards the back of the line which is now like a 20 minute wait so she's gotta wait double the time. TL;DR: Middle aged Stacy mom cut me in line, extra 10 mins wait to buy merch.<|endoftext|>

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Long story short - she's fallen out of love with me last year and the divorce papers is being sent in this week. There's of course a lot of what if and questions about why we didn't last. She still feels strongly for me and in many ways I'm her best friend. She has a new love interest that she will meet for the first time this weekend. (I know that this started after the breakup was a fact, they didn't know each other before then) My normal way of handling breakups is to create distance, schedule a coffee six months later and give myself a chance to detox. I can't really do that this time around as her social circle is built upon mine, she was in a bad spot when we first met and went for a clean start in many ways. I find myself hurting, wishing for a second chance, after every encounter with her. It doesn't help that now that the bomb is dropped and it's all out in the air our communication is better than it's been for a long time. She can be sincere as she no longer fears losing me. I need help finding coping mechanisms that doesn't involve removing her from my life for 1/2-1 years while I detox. Things that doesn't involve evocing negative feelings about her. You got any suggestions?

Ex-wife is going through divorce, her social group has a lot of my stuff, my normal way of dealing with grief is to remove her from my life for 1/2-1 years while I detox. I'm hurting, need help coping mechanisms.

Ex-Wife and I still keep in touch and have been for some time. Got a new love interest and can't properly detox and remove the negative feelings from the breakup. Looking for coping mechanisms.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short - she's fallen out of love with me last year and the divorce papers is being sent in this week. There's of course a lot of what if and questions about why we didn't last. She still feels strongly for me and in many ways I'm her best friend. She has a new love interest that she will meet for the first time this weekend. (I know that this started after the breakup was a fact, they didn't know each other before then) My normal way of handling breakups is to create distance, schedule a coffee six months later and give myself a chance to detox. I can't really do that this time around as her social circle is built upon mine, she was in a bad spot when we first met and went for a clean start in many ways. I find myself hurting, wishing for a second chance, after every encounter with her. It doesn't help that now that the bomb is dropped and it's all out in the air our communication is better than it's been for a long time. She can be sincere as she no longer fears losing me. I need help finding coping mechanisms that doesn't involve removing her from my life for 1/2-1 years while I detox. Things that doesn't involve evocing negative feelings about her. You got any suggestions? TL;DR:

Ex-wife is going through divorce, her social group has a lot of my stuff, my normal way of dealing with grief is to remove her from my life for 1/2-1 years while I detox. I'm hurting, need help coping mechanisms.<|endoftext|>

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Ex-Wife and I still keep in touch and have been for some time. Got a new love interest and can't properly detox and remove the negative feelings from the breakup. Looking for coping mechanisms.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short - she's fallen out of love with me last year and the divorce papers is being sent in this week. There's of course a lot of what if and questions about why we didn't last. She still feels strongly for me and in many ways I'm her best friend. She has a new love interest that she will meet for the first time this weekend. (I know that this started after the breakup was a fact, they didn't know each other before then) My normal way of handling breakups is to create distance, schedule a coffee six months later and give myself a chance to detox. I can't really do that this time around as her social circle is built upon mine, she was in a bad spot when we first met and went for a clean start in many ways. I find myself hurting, wishing for a second chance, after every encounter with her. It doesn't help that now that the bomb is dropped and it's all out in the air our communication is better than it's been for a long time. She can be sincere as she no longer fears losing me. I need help finding coping mechanisms that doesn't involve removing her from my life for 1/2-1 years while I detox. Things that doesn't involve evocing negative feelings about her. You got any suggestions? TL;DR: Ex-wife is going through divorce, her social group has a lot of my stuff, my normal way of dealing with grief is to remove her from my life for 1/2-1 years while I detox. I'm hurting, need help coping mechanisms.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short - she's fallen out of love with me last year and the divorce papers is being sent in this week. There's of course a lot of what if and questions about why we didn't last. She still feels strongly for me and in many ways I'm her best friend. She has a new love interest that she will meet for the first time this weekend. (I know that this started after the breakup was a fact, they didn't know each other before then) My normal way of handling breakups is to create distance, schedule a coffee six months later and give myself a chance to detox. I can't really do that this time around as her social circle is built upon mine, she was in a bad spot when we first met and went for a clean start in many ways. I find myself hurting, wishing for a second chance, after every encounter with her. It doesn't help that now that the bomb is dropped and it's all out in the air our communication is better than it's been for a long time. She can be sincere as she no longer fears losing me. I need help finding coping mechanisms that doesn't involve removing her from my life for 1/2-1 years while I detox. Things that doesn't involve evocing negative feelings about her. You got any suggestions? TL;DR: Ex-Wife and I still keep in touch and have been for some time. Got a new love interest and can't properly detox and remove the negative feelings from the breakup. Looking for coping mechanisms.<|endoftext|>

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My parents have never been good with finances- my dad makes a pretty good penny but they live beyond their means and it has absolutely shattered their credit. So much so that they had to file for bankruptcy two years ago. Since their bankruptcy, they rented a home, which they then abandoned the lease for, and moved into a house that takes up one of my dads paychecks entirely. Well, he recently lost his job, and they're talking about downgrading, however they haven't paid tons of bills ~40k in debt (hospital bills+ miscellaneous subscriptions and back pay). Knowing my brother owes about 20k to student loans, they decided to bring it up to me the other day that they were downgrading and using my social to get themselves a new place. I flat out said *NO*, and laid out my exact reasoning and they're using it to drive a wedge in between us. I owe a few hundred dollars to hospital bills, but nothing too crazy so my credit is pretty much perfect. I'm terrified of them ruining it and I'm scared that even if I say no they already have my # so they can do what they want.

my parents are fiscally irresponsible and want to use my social and credit to get new place, they're trying to push a wedge between us.

My parents are going to use my social to reduce my credit and use it to get a place in another city. I'm not giving my credit a chance to get ruined. What do I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My parents have never been good with finances- my dad makes a pretty good penny but they live beyond their means and it has absolutely shattered their credit. So much so that they had to file for bankruptcy two years ago. Since their bankruptcy, they rented a home, which they then abandoned the lease for, and moved into a house that takes up one of my dads paychecks entirely. Well, he recently lost his job, and they're talking about downgrading, however they haven't paid tons of bills ~40k in debt (hospital bills+ miscellaneous subscriptions and back pay). Knowing my brother owes about 20k to student loans, they decided to bring it up to me the other day that they were downgrading and using my social to get themselves a new place. I flat out said *NO*, and laid out my exact reasoning and they're using it to drive a wedge in between us. I owe a few hundred dollars to hospital bills, but nothing too crazy so my credit is pretty much perfect. I'm terrified of them ruining it and I'm scared that even if I say no they already have my # so they can do what they want. TL;DR:

my parents are fiscally irresponsible and want to use my social and credit to get new place, they're trying to push a wedge between us.<|endoftext|>

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My parents are going to use my social to reduce my credit and use it to get a place in another city. I'm not giving my credit a chance to get ruined. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My parents have never been good with finances- my dad makes a pretty good penny but they live beyond their means and it has absolutely shattered their credit. So much so that they had to file for bankruptcy two years ago. Since their bankruptcy, they rented a home, which they then abandoned the lease for, and moved into a house that takes up one of my dads paychecks entirely. Well, he recently lost his job, and they're talking about downgrading, however they haven't paid tons of bills ~40k in debt (hospital bills+ miscellaneous subscriptions and back pay). Knowing my brother owes about 20k to student loans, they decided to bring it up to me the other day that they were downgrading and using my social to get themselves a new place. I flat out said *NO*, and laid out my exact reasoning and they're using it to drive a wedge in between us. I owe a few hundred dollars to hospital bills, but nothing too crazy so my credit is pretty much perfect. I'm terrified of them ruining it and I'm scared that even if I say no they already have my # so they can do what they want. TL;DR: my parents are fiscally irresponsible and want to use my social and credit to get new place, they're trying to push a wedge between us.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My parents have never been good with finances- my dad makes a pretty good penny but they live beyond their means and it has absolutely shattered their credit. So much so that they had to file for bankruptcy two years ago. Since their bankruptcy, they rented a home, which they then abandoned the lease for, and moved into a house that takes up one of my dads paychecks entirely. Well, he recently lost his job, and they're talking about downgrading, however they haven't paid tons of bills ~40k in debt (hospital bills+ miscellaneous subscriptions and back pay). Knowing my brother owes about 20k to student loans, they decided to bring it up to me the other day that they were downgrading and using my social to get themselves a new place. I flat out said *NO*, and laid out my exact reasoning and they're using it to drive a wedge in between us. I owe a few hundred dollars to hospital bills, but nothing too crazy so my credit is pretty much perfect. I'm terrified of them ruining it and I'm scared that even if I say no they already have my # so they can do what they want. TL;DR: My parents are going to use my social to reduce my credit and use it to get a place in another city. I'm not giving my credit a chance to get ruined. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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So my best friend Ben dated this girl, Rachael for 3 months and then broke up with her because he was juggling a ton of things at the time and didn't feel like he could devote enough time to a relationship. She was the first girl he really had feelings for and he planned to get back together with her after things died down but it didn't end up happening because she decided that if he had liked her enough he would have made the time to begin with. I had always gotten along with Rachael and stayed strictly platonic friends with her after they ended things. Fast forward 9 months after the break up, her and I have become pretty close friends. My best friend knows that we're still in contact platonically and he's fine with it. He's seeing someone new and she has had a few short flings since they ended things. Last night, we were hanging out watching a movie at my place and sort of half leaning on/cuddling each other (we have done this multiple times and it's fine). Half way through the movie there's a moment where our eyes meet and it just felt right to lean in for a kiss. One thing leads to another and we end up sleeping together. The sex was great but now I can't help but feel guilty about the fact that she's my best friend's ex. Neither of us are looking for a relationship (we both have plans to go overseas in the not so far future) but she's a super cool chick (and really attractive) and I think we would make great FWBs. On the one hand I feel that if we are going to keep sleeping to together I should tell Ben because he is like a brother to me and I don't want to keep anything from him. On the other hand, I don't know if there is a point in upsetting him/potentially jeopardising our friendship when things between him and Rachael ended so long ago and I'm not planning on pursuing something serious with her anyway. Have I already broken the bro code?

slept with my best friend's ex and now I feel guilty about it. Should I tell him? And if I tell him, is there a point in upsetting him/potentially jeopardising our friendship?

Slept with my best friend's ex 9 months after they broke up. Want to keep sleeping with her. Should I tell him? Am I a horrible person?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my best friend Ben dated this girl, Rachael for 3 months and then broke up with her because he was juggling a ton of things at the time and didn't feel like he could devote enough time to a relationship. She was the first girl he really had feelings for and he planned to get back together with her after things died down but it didn't end up happening because she decided that if he had liked her enough he would have made the time to begin with. I had always gotten along with Rachael and stayed strictly platonic friends with her after they ended things. Fast forward 9 months after the break up, her and I have become pretty close friends. My best friend knows that we're still in contact platonically and he's fine with it. He's seeing someone new and she has had a few short flings since they ended things. Last night, we were hanging out watching a movie at my place and sort of half leaning on/cuddling each other (we have done this multiple times and it's fine). Half way through the movie there's a moment where our eyes meet and it just felt right to lean in for a kiss. One thing leads to another and we end up sleeping together. The sex was great but now I can't help but feel guilty about the fact that she's my best friend's ex. Neither of us are looking for a relationship (we both have plans to go overseas in the not so far future) but she's a super cool chick (and really attractive) and I think we would make great FWBs. On the one hand I feel that if we are going to keep sleeping to together I should tell Ben because he is like a brother to me and I don't want to keep anything from him. On the other hand, I don't know if there is a point in upsetting him/potentially jeopardising our friendship when things between him and Rachael ended so long ago and I'm not planning on pursuing something serious with her anyway. Have I already broken the bro code? TL;DR:

slept with my best friend's ex and now I feel guilty about it. Should I tell him? And if I tell him, is there a point in upsetting him/potentially jeopardising our friendship?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my best friend Ben dated this girl, Rachael for 3 months and then broke up with her because he was juggling a ton of things at the time and didn't feel like he could devote enough time to a relationship. She was the first girl he really had feelings for and he planned to get back together with her after things died down but it didn't end up happening because she decided that if he had liked her enough he would have made the time to begin with. I had always gotten along with Rachael and stayed strictly platonic friends with her after they ended things. Fast forward 9 months after the break up, her and I have become pretty close friends. My best friend knows that we're still in contact platonically and he's fine with it. He's seeing someone new and she has had a few short flings since they ended things. Last night, we were hanging out watching a movie at my place and sort of half leaning on/cuddling each other (we have done this multiple times and it's fine). Half way through the movie there's a moment where our eyes meet and it just felt right to lean in for a kiss. One thing leads to another and we end up sleeping together. The sex was great but now I can't help but feel guilty about the fact that she's my best friend's ex. Neither of us are looking for a relationship (we both have plans to go overseas in the not so far future) but she's a super cool chick (and really attractive) and I think we would make great FWBs. On the one hand I feel that if we are going to keep sleeping to together I should tell Ben because he is like a brother to me and I don't want to keep anything from him. On the other hand, I don't know if there is a point in upsetting him/potentially jeopardising our friendship when things between him and Rachael ended so long ago and I'm not planning on pursuing something serious with her anyway. Have I already broken the bro code? TL;DR: slept with my best friend's ex and now I feel guilty about it. Should I tell him? And if I tell him, is there a point in upsetting him/potentially jeopardising our friendship?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So my best friend Ben dated this girl, Rachael for 3 months and then broke up with her because he was juggling a ton of things at the time and didn't feel like he could devote enough time to a relationship. She was the first girl he really had feelings for and he planned to get back together with her after things died down but it didn't end up happening because she decided that if he had liked her enough he would have made the time to begin with. I had always gotten along with Rachael and stayed strictly platonic friends with her after they ended things. Fast forward 9 months after the break up, her and I have become pretty close friends. My best friend knows that we're still in contact platonically and he's fine with it. He's seeing someone new and she has had a few short flings since they ended things. Last night, we were hanging out watching a movie at my place and sort of half leaning on/cuddling each other (we have done this multiple times and it's fine). Half way through the movie there's a moment where our eyes meet and it just felt right to lean in for a kiss. One thing leads to another and we end up sleeping together. The sex was great but now I can't help but feel guilty about the fact that she's my best friend's ex. Neither of us are looking for a relationship (we both have plans to go overseas in the not so far future) but she's a super cool chick (and really attractive) and I think we would make great FWBs. On the one hand I feel that if we are going to keep sleeping to together I should tell Ben because he is like a brother to me and I don't want to keep anything from him. On the other hand, I don't know if there is a point in upsetting him/potentially jeopardising our friendship when things between him and Rachael ended so long ago and I'm not planning on pursuing something serious with her anyway. Have I already broken the bro code? TL;DR: Slept with my best friend's ex 9 months after they broke up. Want to keep sleeping with her. Should I tell him? Am I a horrible person?<|endoftext|>

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So here's the deal. I'm 24, currently living in a rented room although I'll be moving in with my girlfriend in a couple months, work as an assistant manager at a chain Italian restaurant making 14 an hour, in line to get bumped to full manager inside of a year (3-5 year commitment 43,000-48,000 starting salary), recently graduated from a state university with a degree in professional writing (not overly interested in pursuing a career in that field), and I am 100 percent lost. I simply do not know why but I feel as though I'm throwing my life away. I have had some pretty awesome experiences in my life already and a handful of good stories to tell, but I simply do not know what I want to do from here. I find solace in long distance running and listening to progressive/trance/edm but these feel like distractions, not passions.

I'm not sure what to do with my life and I need some outside perspective on what I'm trying to do.

I have no idea what I'm doing, I'm lost and I need help.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So here's the deal. I'm 24, currently living in a rented room although I'll be moving in with my girlfriend in a couple months, work as an assistant manager at a chain Italian restaurant making 14 an hour, in line to get bumped to full manager inside of a year (3-5 year commitment 43,000-48,000 starting salary), recently graduated from a state university with a degree in professional writing (not overly interested in pursuing a career in that field), and I am 100 percent lost. I simply do not know why but I feel as though I'm throwing my life away. I have had some pretty awesome experiences in my life already and a handful of good stories to tell, but I simply do not know what I want to do from here. I find solace in long distance running and listening to progressive/trance/edm but these feel like distractions, not passions. TL;DR:

I'm not sure what to do with my life and I need some outside perspective on what I'm trying to do.<|endoftext|>

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I have no idea what I'm doing, I'm lost and I need help.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So here's the deal. I'm 24, currently living in a rented room although I'll be moving in with my girlfriend in a couple months, work as an assistant manager at a chain Italian restaurant making 14 an hour, in line to get bumped to full manager inside of a year (3-5 year commitment 43,000-48,000 starting salary), recently graduated from a state university with a degree in professional writing (not overly interested in pursuing a career in that field), and I am 100 percent lost. I simply do not know why but I feel as though I'm throwing my life away. I have had some pretty awesome experiences in my life already and a handful of good stories to tell, but I simply do not know what I want to do from here. I find solace in long distance running and listening to progressive/trance/edm but these feel like distractions, not passions. TL;DR: I'm not sure what to do with my life and I need some outside perspective on what I'm trying to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So here's the deal. I'm 24, currently living in a rented room although I'll be moving in with my girlfriend in a couple months, work as an assistant manager at a chain Italian restaurant making 14 an hour, in line to get bumped to full manager inside of a year (3-5 year commitment 43,000-48,000 starting salary), recently graduated from a state university with a degree in professional writing (not overly interested in pursuing a career in that field), and I am 100 percent lost. I simply do not know why but I feel as though I'm throwing my life away. I have had some pretty awesome experiences in my life already and a handful of good stories to tell, but I simply do not know what I want to do from here. I find solace in long distance running and listening to progressive/trance/edm but these feel like distractions, not passions. TL;DR: I have no idea what I'm doing, I'm lost and I need help.<|endoftext|>

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In December '13, my ex and I had to call it quits for irrelevant reasons. It was mutual, and there were no hard feelings, other than just the heartbreak of ending a five year relationship. So after a year of very little contact, we drifted apart. Just the *very* occasional SnapChat conversation. Now she wants to meet up this weekend and hang out. I know it's kind of code for "testing the waters" because the other day, she told me she still loved me, and that she still got "butterflies" when talking to me. I still really like her, but the situation has changed a bit because she's pregnant. The father is not in the picture because the relationship became abusive and ended rather quickly, although he still tries to harass her from time-to-time. The police have been involved before, but he's a non-issue other than making her feel like shit sometimes. He's a douchebag. I'm kind of torn because I still have feelings for this girl, and talking to her is like things never changed, but her being pregnant sort of changes the dynamic of our potential getting-back-together. I don't know if it's just fear? Maybe intimidation?

Ex and I ended a five year relationship, mutually. We're talking again, feelings are still there, but she's pregnant. Father is/was abusive. I wanna be with her, but I'm kind of confused and/or intimidated.

Ex and I had to call it quits, and after a year of kinda-sorta-kinda no contact, we're meeting up this weekend. I still like her a lot, but she's pregnant and the husband is a douchebag. Is it worth trying to get back together or is it too late?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In December '13, my ex and I had to call it quits for irrelevant reasons. It was mutual, and there were no hard feelings, other than just the heartbreak of ending a five year relationship. So after a year of very little contact, we drifted apart. Just the *very* occasional SnapChat conversation. Now she wants to meet up this weekend and hang out. I know it's kind of code for "testing the waters" because the other day, she told me she still loved me, and that she still got "butterflies" when talking to me. I still really like her, but the situation has changed a bit because she's pregnant. The father is not in the picture because the relationship became abusive and ended rather quickly, although he still tries to harass her from time-to-time. The police have been involved before, but he's a non-issue other than making her feel like shit sometimes. He's a douchebag. I'm kind of torn because I still have feelings for this girl, and talking to her is like things never changed, but her being pregnant sort of changes the dynamic of our potential getting-back-together. I don't know if it's just fear? Maybe intimidation? TL;DR:

Ex and I ended a five year relationship, mutually. We're talking again, feelings are still there, but she's pregnant. Father is/was abusive. I wanna be with her, but I'm kind of confused and/or intimidated.<|endoftext|>

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Ex and I had to call it quits, and after a year of kinda-sorta-kinda no contact, we're meeting up this weekend. I still like her a lot, but she's pregnant and the husband is a douchebag. Is it worth trying to get back together or is it too late?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In December '13, my ex and I had to call it quits for irrelevant reasons. It was mutual, and there were no hard feelings, other than just the heartbreak of ending a five year relationship. So after a year of very little contact, we drifted apart. Just the *very* occasional SnapChat conversation. Now she wants to meet up this weekend and hang out. I know it's kind of code for "testing the waters" because the other day, she told me she still loved me, and that she still got "butterflies" when talking to me. I still really like her, but the situation has changed a bit because she's pregnant. The father is not in the picture because the relationship became abusive and ended rather quickly, although he still tries to harass her from time-to-time. The police have been involved before, but he's a non-issue other than making her feel like shit sometimes. He's a douchebag. I'm kind of torn because I still have feelings for this girl, and talking to her is like things never changed, but her being pregnant sort of changes the dynamic of our potential getting-back-together. I don't know if it's just fear? Maybe intimidation? TL;DR: Ex and I ended a five year relationship, mutually. We're talking again, feelings are still there, but she's pregnant. Father is/was abusive. I wanna be with her, but I'm kind of confused and/or intimidated.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In December '13, my ex and I had to call it quits for irrelevant reasons. It was mutual, and there were no hard feelings, other than just the heartbreak of ending a five year relationship. So after a year of very little contact, we drifted apart. Just the *very* occasional SnapChat conversation. Now she wants to meet up this weekend and hang out. I know it's kind of code for "testing the waters" because the other day, she told me she still loved me, and that she still got "butterflies" when talking to me. I still really like her, but the situation has changed a bit because she's pregnant. The father is not in the picture because the relationship became abusive and ended rather quickly, although he still tries to harass her from time-to-time. The police have been involved before, but he's a non-issue other than making her feel like shit sometimes. He's a douchebag. I'm kind of torn because I still have feelings for this girl, and talking to her is like things never changed, but her being pregnant sort of changes the dynamic of our potential getting-back-together. I don't know if it's just fear? Maybe intimidation? TL;DR: Ex and I had to call it quits, and after a year of kinda-sorta-kinda no contact, we're meeting up this weekend. I still like her a lot, but she's pregnant and the husband is a douchebag. Is it worth trying to get back together or is it too late?<|endoftext|>

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